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| Why I May Not Regret Doing This, Please Help Me Decide by Helplessnobody(op): 11:52am On Mar 09, 2025 |
Good day to whomever is reading this, Apologies for dropping this here, if it wasn't important I won't. My name is Ikechukwu Uche, single dad of one and lives in Lagos (I would gladly share my home address & phone number to whomever needs to verify where I reside and/or speak to me on phone so as verify my claim). I don't know how to describe what I want to say to you, of late I have been going through a lot of trauma and I have been having suicidal thoughts especially each night I go to sleep. I am on the brink of taking my life so I can be free from the burden, hardship and challenges facing me. The thought of leaving behind my 2yr old daughter has kept me still hopeful but as it stands I don't think I can continue living anymore. I pray the Good Lord will let me rest in his bosom. My daughter's school fees (65k), my house rent (120k), and also I'm about to loose my inherited family lands (2) in the village to someone who connived and paid my immediate younger brother about 1.2m for more than 3 - 4 plots of lands at my hometown without the family consent and he has embezzled the money, our family old house at the village is cracking and can fall down due to no money to repair/renovate it. My aspirations/plans to start a bean-cake business has shattered and I'm owing two loan apps up to the tune of 50k, I don't even have a savings talkless of an investment anywhere. Funny part is I am approaching 46yrs this year and feels worse living in abject lack and poverty. I can't boast of N100 to myself. I am even the eldest son of three boys and one lady who are not doing well financially. I am so ashamed of what I have become and that's why I am seeking your unreserved help and assistance. Please find it in your heart to help a broken man who desperately needs help. This is my first time of coming up with a pseudonym so as to seek for help and write about the predicament I'm going through. I have contacted family and friends and all I get is excuses and I don't blame them either. Please, I beg of you to consider my plight, I feel too ashamed to even go out. I only go to work and come back home, I even trek to work and trek back home which has resulted to my veins and arteries to swell and I feel plenty of pain on my left leg (from ilasa bus stop to Ilupeju and back to ilasa. I barely can wear shoes but I just manage to wear them. Right now, me and my young family are living on borrowed funds. Please sir/ma I sincerely need your help so desperately, which will help me plan and establish the bean-cake business in my area. Please, I pray by the time you stumble on my message I won't have taken my life. Please sir/ma, you're my last resort. Please sir/ma help me with whatever amount God directs you, may God richly reward you for your kind gesture in Jesus name! Ikechukwu Uche 3036535225 First Bank Like I said before I can share with anyone my house address and/or phone number so as to verify my claims. You can come see where I live (in a one room face me I face you), Please Help Me plzzzz |
| Re: Why I May Not Regret Doing This, Please Help Me Decide by Stevenbright(m): 3:06pm On Mar 09, 2025 |
You have access to four plots of lands and you can not plan well, sell two and use part of the money to uplift your family house via renovation and the rest to start your dream business and share some with your siblings! You are here asking those who probably don't have access to a plot of land to send you money! Alright, ooo. |
| Re: Why I May Not Regret Doing This, Please Help Me Decide by Bodydiialect57: 3:09pm On Mar 09, 2025 |
Your real monicker could pave an easy way for you than this alternate. Except you are hiding something sha. |
| Re: Why I May Not Regret Doing This, Please Help Me Decide by noobody(m): 3:45pm On Mar 09, 2025 |
Stevenbright:March 9 2025 account You shouldn't believe this so sob stories, They are upcoming scammers, They registered new accounts,drop sob stories and they start scamming |
| Re: Why I May Not Regret Doing This, Please Help Me Decide by Stevenbright(m): 3:53pm On Mar 09, 2025 |
noobody:I got your point. It is about giving such one a knockout from his own story! |
| Re: Why I May Not Regret Doing This, Please Help Me Decide by Foodqueen(f): 10:05pm On Mar 09, 2025 |
Uche, is it the same Uche of some years past. |
| Re: Why I May Not Regret Doing This, Please Help Me Decide by Mom007(f): 7:12pm On Mar 10, 2025 |
Mr man, I sympathise with you. But I will advise you to go back to your village and farm. Someone is about to collect your plots of land only because you are not present. Look for transport, relocate yourself and daughter back to your family house in the village. The rains are almost here. Farm pepper, okra, maize and cassava. Bu September October, you will be solvent and never beg again. Stop trekking all about lagos when you have lands that you can farm. I am tired of saying this. You will see princes, who are supposed to be controlling big farms in the village and supplying food to the city, doing menial jobs and languishing in poverty just because. Please think about this and leave to live. Udo. |
| Re: Why I May Not Regret Doing This, Please Help Me Decide by We4all: 10:01pm On Mar 10, 2025 |
Why do you guys always threaten to commit suicide when things go south? Who is supposed to take care of your daughter after you are gone? |
| Re: Why I May Not Regret Doing This, Please Help Me Decide by Mariangeles(f): 10:30pm On Mar 10, 2025 |
Relocating back to your land is not a death sentence, neither is it a move of defeat. For one, it'll take major burden off you, and give you peace of mind. People in the village are living the best life, in the best environment. Take your daughter back to the village, and enroll her in the community or catholic school there. |
| Re: Why I May Not Regret Doing This, Please Help Me Decide by Aurelius1(m): 3:10am On Mar 11, 2025 |
We4all:This is our dear Juwessgratitud3/ oldnairalanderb with another strategy. |
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