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| Should My Husband Be Concerned? by Nicenancy(op): 7:47pm On Mar 16, 2025*. Modified: 8:41am On Mar 17, 2025 |
So my husband was visited by his mother. My husband has a habit of praying at night. He began praying (not loud) at midnight. His mother who was in the other room rushed in and said "stop that, so something doesn't enter your mind." There have been several instances where my mother in law has treated my husband like he is a stranger One Christmas, my husband bought clothes for his mother — his mother rejected them, "they are not quality, why don't you use them yourself?" She is used to assassinating my husband's character to virtually everybody. She is fond of speaking against the fact that my husband speaks in tongues, "always praying in tongues meanwhile it doesn't reflect in your life, even Satan won't listen to your prayers." She is fond of casting aspersions at my husband "some people always read the Bible yet are very dirty" My mother in-law has a son who has suffered epilepsy for 30 years now; my husband and his kinsmen have spent so much money on this epilepsy yet no cure. My mother periodically will recommend a new place for the healing of this epileptic but the monies will always go down the drain. My husband has since resolved not to contribute to that epilepsy scheme again since he believes it is spiritual and a scheme to drain the family. We once lived with her in my husband's late father's home where my mother in law also lived. My mother in law always picked quarrels with us including our little children, finally we parked out. The day we finally left, my mother-in law literally swept were our feet had touched with a broom. My husband had a single room apartment in that compound that he gave out for rent. No tenant could live in that room. All tenants complained of strange and scary encounters at night in that room. When they all inquire, they are told that there is a spiritual dispute over ownership of that room between my husband and his mother. Eventually, my husband gave this keys to the room to his mother and now tenants can occupy the room. All the other siblings of my husband are faced with serious life challenges and my mother in law has brainwashed all of them against my husband. Kindly analyze this situation Are these signs of witchcraft? Do witches hate prayer? Can a mother bewitch her own son? Please advise. |
| Re: Should My Husband Be Concerned? by Kobojunkie: 7:51pm On Mar 16, 2025 |
Nicenancy:Why not sit the mother down and ask her for clarification? Why ask us? ![]() If someone was in the other room making noise at midnight, I would be pissed too. Your assessment of the ritual your husband engages in may not be loud considering you either hold the same religious tradition as he, but to other people who prefer to enjoy their sleep, it may just be that.. loud unnecessary disturbance. ![]() |
| Re: Should My Husband Be Concerned? by Shalommy(f): 7:54pm On Mar 16, 2025 |
Nicenancy:Chaiiii... Your mother-in-law is a great woman i.e (Air force) ![]() |
| Re: Should My Husband Be Concerned? by Kayberg: 7:55pm On Mar 16, 2025 |
Nicenancy:Whoever tries to stop you from praying in the night is a devil. |
| Re: Should My Husband Be Concerned? by Kobojunkie: 7:55pm On Mar 16, 2025 |
Shalommy:Air-force according to your religious scammers-in-the-lords whose life seem unmoved by many of the same, right? ![]() |
| Re: Should My Husband Be Concerned? by Shalommy(f): 7:59pm On Mar 16, 2025 |
Kobojunkie:And how is that your business? Are you an Air force? ![]() |
| Re: Should My Husband Be Concerned? by Kobojunkie: 8:07pm On Mar 16, 2025 |
Shalommy:Of course everyone who questions your private delusion has to be in this unproven airforce your gods of men have fed your heads with. 🙄🙄🙄🙄 |
| Re: Should My Husband Be Concerned? by Shalommy(f): 8:12pm On Mar 16, 2025 |
Kobojunkie:You said..gods of men? Chaiiii.... No need to waste my time with an Air force like you. Tueeehhh 🙄😒😠 |
| Re: Should My Husband Be Concerned? by Kobojunkie: 8:16pm On Mar 16, 2025 |
Shalommy:What better title for men worshipped by other men, including your person? No be gods of men? ![]() |
| Re: Should My Husband Be Concerned? by Righteousness2(m): 9:43pm On Mar 16, 2025 |
Tell Him to PRAY MORE! PRAY MORE FERVENTLY! |
| Re: Should My Husband Be Concerned? by Nicenancy(op): 9:51pm On Mar 16, 2025 |
Righteousness2:Why? |
| Re: Should My Husband Be Concerned? by VicM6: 11:34pm On Mar 16, 2025 |
Shalommy:plane no gree take off...wetin u tink say go happen |
| Re: Should My Husband Be Concerned? by Nicenancy(op): 12:50am On Mar 17, 2025 |
VicM6:Which plane? |
| Re: Should My Husband Be Concerned? by delkuf(m): 4:18am On Mar 17, 2025 |
Nicenancy:he said you should tell him to pray more fervently you asking why, by the time things get out of hand I hope it will not be too late. Why will mother in law be stopping her son from praying. Tell him to pray more fervently |
| Re: Should My Husband Be Concerned? by jaephoenix(m): 7:15am On Mar 17, 2025 |
Kayberg:So I am a devil for telling my neighbors to stop praying at night, which disturbs my sleep? What has religion done to you people's brain ffs? |
| Re: Should My Husband Be Concerned? by Righteousness2(m): 8:22am On Mar 17, 2025 |
Nicenancy:Because your life his life and Everything about your Home will only Survive and makes sense through GOD ALMIGHTY. Prayer is the Means through which we communicate with GOD. |
| Re: Should My Husband Be Concerned? by Nicenancy(op): 8:24am On Mar 17, 2025 |
Righteousness2:Thank you so much |
| Re: Should My Husband Be Concerned? by Carazon: 8:31am On Mar 17, 2025 |
You christians are hypocrites! When it comes to confession of sins, you will remember that your God hears in spirit. I'm yet to see any Christian confessing his/her sins loudly the way you guys pray loudly. Your husband is simply disturbing the environment with noise. If he had prayed in his mind, I mean the way he always CONFESSES HIS SINS in his mind, your mother inlaw wouldn't have been disturbed. |
| Re: Should My Husband Be Concerned? by Nicenancy(op): 8:33am On Mar 17, 2025 |
Carazon:Please, my husband doesn't disturb. Kindly read the post again. |
| Re: Should My Husband Be Concerned? by Nicenancy(op): 8:40am On Mar 17, 2025 |
delkuf:Okay |
| Re: Should My Husband Be Concerned? by gohf: 8:56am On Mar 17, 2025 |
Nicenancy:you have referred to her more times as mother in law than your husband's mother, I thought he may not be her biological child. By the way, witches are not beings you try to logically analyze, if witches in stories are said to eat their own children not sure we should expect a witch not to hate and hurt their children. Asking if she is a witch, some people get bewitched and act like witches even though they themselves are not. But from you write up it is clear you are dealing with forces of wickedness be it in the woman or from elsewhere. Any advice, well pray, you both should ask God for mercy and deliverance for your family. Because if God destroys stronghold of wickedness lives and souls would be saved, even the siblings and possibly mother in law may repent and be saved as well. You can add fasting and charity to it. |
| Re: Should My Husband Be Concerned? by Nicenancy(op): 9:22am On Mar 17, 2025 |
gohf:Thanks so much By the way, he is her biological son |
| Re: Should My Husband Be Concerned? by triplechoice(m): 9:57am On Mar 17, 2025 |
Nicenancy:You are deceiving yourself if you think you know everything about your husband more than his own mother who gave birth to him. The woman,from what you narrated,regard your husband as a pretender and hypocrite and she's not happy he's deceiving others who don't know him very well . But because you're in love, you have interpreted her behavior as that of a witch. The woman may be trying to help you through what she's displaying in your presence so you start asking questions about the man you're married to and know the whole truth about him. Well, I may be wrong, but if you think your mother in law is a witch,then your husband is also a witch. Dog pikin na dog e still be |
| Re: Should My Husband Be Concerned? by Kayberg: 10:26am On Mar 17, 2025 |
jaephoenix:Are you blind to see she said her husband doesn't pray out loud? If he's praying silently, and someone barges in to stop him, then that person has been receiving the fire; so you are the devil. Most of you don't read to understand… you read to reply… and that's how many of you fail exams. |
| Re: Should My Husband Be Concerned? by Kayberg: 10:32am On Mar 17, 2025 |
Kobojunkie:Read the post again Kobojunkie before you start commenting junks and thrash as usual. She said her husband doesn't pray out loud. |
| Re: Should My Husband Be Concerned? by Nicenancy(op): 11:36am On Mar 17, 2025 |
Kayberg:Sure |
| Re: Should My Husband Be Concerned? by Nicenancy(op): 11:36am On Mar 17, 2025 |
triplechoice:Please I know my husband well |
| Re: Should My Husband Be Concerned? by triplechoice(m): 12:45pm On Mar 17, 2025*. Modified: 1:28pm On Mar 17, 2025 |
Nicenancy:You're lying to yourself if you think you know him more than his mother. You should have asked her or your husband to tell you what she meant by something entering his mind while praying.. Her warning , is not proof of anything witchcraft. Your religious indoctrination is why you're imagining that. You obviously don't like your mother in-law and because of that you're quick to interpret her every action as witchcraft. Not praying out loudly doesn't mean others cannot hear. I think you have not used the right words to describe what your husband was doing. Even though not loud, he was still audible enough for the mother to hear him . It's only when you pray silently in your mind others can't hear you. If that was how your husband prayed, how then did you get to know what he was saying in his mind while praying ? Supposing he was making some negative incantations in his mind and the mother could feel the vibration and because of that came quickly to warn him to stop. |
| Re: Should My Husband Be Concerned? by StillDtruth: 1:26pm On Mar 17, 2025 |
Nicenancy:Like you don't already know and understand what is going on and like you have not used style to him that his mother hates him. Which I know you are afraid of doing because you already know that mama is ahead of and if you say that, mama and her daughters and all the women in mama's life would brand you a witch. And the simp man may still listen to his evil mother over you, who he is still right not to trust. After all it is not trust that made him marry you |
| Re: Should My Husband Be Concerned? by StillDtruth: 1:28pm On Mar 17, 2025 |
| Re: Should My Husband Be Concerned? by StillDtruth: 1:34pm On Mar 17, 2025 |
delkuf:Oh ooh, you too noticed it! She too is a witch. She is just a witch able to endure him. And if her plans don't work out, the next move they make is to cheat on him so that he would throw her out while thinking it something he did or did not do Kai, men dey marry oo. Mama, Witch! Then man go still go marry wife wey be witch only say mama witchy big pass her own |
| Re: Should My Husband Be Concerned? by StillDtruth: 1:34pm On Mar 17, 2025 |
jaephoenix:There are stoppings and there are stoppings! But you are already a devil as you have severally proven even without doing this one. |
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