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How Do I Undo The Blood Oath I Took With My Ex-girlfriend? by Primafacie(op):
I never knew I would fall a victim of this nonsense in my life. While growing up, I used to watch on Nollywood movies about the devastating effects of this Blood oaths on the parties involved. How did I get myself involved in this mess?
It all started three years ago. I was serving in IITA at Ibadan, Oyo state. I traveled from Ibadan to my state in Enugu, got myself involved in Political campaigns for the candidates I supported. It was in the course of these campaigns that I met this lady(23yrs). I saw her and liked her instantly, though lustfully, while she also fell in love with me. I would say it was a deceitful love she had for me. Same day we met, during introduction, she claimed she was a 200level student of Uni-Cal, and that she was home(Enugu) due to an internal ASUU strike. I don't know if she said this because she felt low that I was a graduate and a serving corps Memeber while she had just just completed her NCE. It was after a week of our first meeting that I discovered this lie. On my first visit to her house, I was well welcomed by her parents. And in the process of our conversation, her dad disclosed that her daughter(my babe) had just rounded off her NCE programme. I was shocked, but I never mentioned it afterwards cos I wasn't too bothered about her academic qualifications since she appeared intelligent and communicated so well. But why did she lie?
She pleaded that I don't break her heart & I assured I was never going to. She went further to suggest we make a blood covenant, she went and bought a new Tiger Razor blade and we took the blood oath and promised we were "never going to part ways till eternity". We licked each other's blood after cutting our thumbs and making this declaration. After our first sex in a hotel, I noticed how wide her Puna was. It was very wide and I asked why a 23yr old lady would have such a wide puna. But I didn't tell her my observations. I only asked her to tell me about her past life as regards relationship and romance, she said she had done about three abortions while dating her immediate ex. I now confirmed why her Puna was wide. I believe that for her to have admitted and conceded that she had three abortions for a single guy, it meant she would have done more than three for many other guys. Ladies lie a lot. I noticed she had lots of exes.
Our parents got to know about our relationship and where it was headed. The father is well-to-do. The mum too. She's the first child of her family. The family loved me like their own biological son. They showed support and advised that she shouldn't date for too long before we settle down. The father encouraged me to not be discouraged by little beginnings and that the future is always bright for hardworking young people. He went further to show me the thatched house he lived in when he married his wife(my babe's mum), but today he owns houses and cars everywhere. On my own part, I am without a father. I'm from a poor background. But all that wasn't necessary according to the parents.
My girl is a highly materialistic girl. According to her, she had initially thought I was rich the day she met me, considering my looks. But overtime she noticed i am a broke guy. When she found out, she started misbehaving. He insulted me. I had to leave her. When the parents called, I told them I was done with their daughter and wouldn't be able to stand a nagging woman who gets easily angry and susceptible to insults. My babe asked me to go and Hussle after NYSC then come back to get her when I make it big. She said she can't date me out of pity. This was the last straw that broke the Carmel's back. I felt useless to myself for two weeks. Aside having parents who are richer than me, she has nothing else. People even said I was too handsome to date a girl like her. But to me, all that didn't matter.
Since I parted ways with her, I've not seen her but she keeps messaging me on Facebook wanting to see me since we both live in an entirely new city. I've being refusing to see her. She is always making financial demands on me, but I've vowed to not help her. Before now I had begged her for us to go undo the blood oath by confessing to our parents so they can find a traditional means of breaking it but she called me a fool and hanged up. She did this severally. After this, I've not had sex or entered into any relationship cos I'm scared. She too hasn't married but I'm sure she's dating lots of guys and f**cking. I take all the blame because I didn't take my time to know her much before entering into that senseless relationship that was about leading to marriage. Since she was the first to call the shot, the oath is on her.

Pls guys, suggest ways I can break this blood covenant.
Thanks.

NB: Pls don't move this post to Romance section, else I won't be able to reply those I need to reply to. I'm not eligible to post on romance section. I hope you understand. Please don't.
pls expeditiously move this to frontpage but don't move it to romance section pls 🙏

Cc: nlfpmod, Mynd44, Dominique, lalasticlala
Re: How Do I Undo The Blood Oath I Took With My Ex-girlfriend? by kellystone87: 11:42am On Mar 21, 2025
oga e don b for u.. na Oluwa hand u dey ooooooo...trust and belive woman at ur own peril
Re: How Do I Undo The Blood Oath I Took With My Ex-girlfriend? by Obiedun(m): 11:44am On Mar 21, 2025
After all nothing has happened to you.
Re: How Do I Undo The Blood Oath I Took With My Ex-girlfriend? by RealityKings1: 11:47am On Mar 21, 2025
The blood oath does not count because she fooled you with alot of lies, hence her consciousness and your consciousness can never bond.
Had it been you both started on a honest note, the oath will trouble either of the first to break the oath.
Re: How Do I Undo The Blood Oath I Took With My Ex-girlfriend? by Faber(m): 11:49am On Mar 21, 2025
You go dey trust woman, your own don be
Re: How Do I Undo The Blood Oath I Took With My Ex-girlfriend? by Obiedun(m): 11:56am On Mar 21, 2025
RealityKings1:
The blood oath does not count because she fooled you with alot of lies, hence her consciousness and your consciousness can never bond.
Had it been you both started on a honest note, the oath will trouble either of the first to break the oath.
Oath is oath. The gods don't think like that. A man was taken to babalawo to prepare money rituals to for him, after everything was done he was told that every year he must sacrifice human being. He was not pleased with it. He was a privy to the concoction yet if he fails to do sacrifice, something evil will happen to him.
Re: How Do I Undo The Blood Oath I Took With My Ex-girlfriend? by RealityKings1:
Obiedun:
Oath is oath. The gods don't think like that. A man was taken to babalawo to prepare money rituals to for him, after everything was done he was told that every year he must sacrifice human being. He was not pleased with it. He was a privy to the concoction yet if he fails to do sacrifice, something evil will happen to him.
oath
Re: How Do I Undo The Blood Oath I Took With My Ex-girlfriend? by Obiedun(m): 12:06pm On Mar 21, 2025
RealityKings1:
I don't believe in anything like money ritual.
But I do understand to some extent how blood works. Blood oath works on binding 2 or more consciousness. That's why, you can tell if your partner is in trouble or needy or doing something wrong.

Nothing evil will happen to this one because the girls mind was fully aware of deception. He tricked the guy into the oath
The man himself knows better than you. It's God almighty who knows and sees everything that can agree with you in this scenario. The gods are not like that. Like you said, may nothing will happen.
Re: How Do I Undo The Blood Oath I Took With My Ex-girlfriend? by Primafacie(op): 12:08pm On Mar 21, 2025
RealityKings1:
I don't believe in anything like money ritual.
But I do understand to some extent how blood works. Blood oath works on binding 2 or more consciousness. That's why, you can tell if your partner is in trouble or needy or doing something wrong.

Nothing evil will happen to this one because the girls mind was fully aware of deception. He tricked the guy into the oath
Exactly. Thanks brov🙏
Re: How Do I Undo The Blood Oath I Took With My Ex-girlfriend? by Obiedun(m): 12:08pm On Mar 21, 2025
RealityKings1:
I don't believe in anything like money ritual.
But I do understand to some extent how blood works. Blood oath works on binding 2 or more consciousness. That's why, you can tell if your partner is in trouble or needy or doing something wrong.

Nothing evil will happen to this one because the girls mind was fully aware of deception. He tricked the guy into the oath
I don hear you well well. But those who have done it before knowingly or unknowingly have stories.
Re: How Do I Undo The Blood Oath I Took With My Ex-girlfriend? by Obiedun(m): 12:18pm On Mar 21, 2025
I know someone who for many years cannot travel to his village. According to him, when his father was about to die, he was asked to nominate one of his children to take his position in the secret society he belonged to. The man nominated one of his children who was a baby and didn't know anything. At a point in time he started witnesing failure and wherever he went to for solution they told him he has to join the secret society. Till today he still dreams of seeing himself in the meeting if the secret society.
Re: How Do I Undo The Blood Oath I Took With My Ex-girlfriend? by madridguy(m): 12:19pm On Mar 21, 2025
This is like a comedy to me bro. Blood oath no be to just cut each other blade and lick each others blood. Una no do oath, she just used wetin home video dey parade as love oath take hold you down thinking you be money bag grin grin grin
Re: How Do I Undo The Blood Oath I Took With My Ex-girlfriend? by Primafacie(op): 12:20pm On Mar 21, 2025
madridguy:
This is like a comedy to me bro. Blood oath no be to just cut each other blade and lick each others blood. Una no do oath, she just used wetin home video dey parade as love oath take hold you down thinking you be money bag grin grin grin
Dey play!
Re: How Do I Undo The Blood Oath I Took With My Ex-girlfriend? by madridguy(m): 12:20pm On Mar 21, 2025
Is the person person in question a Muslim ?

Obiedun:
I know someone who for many years cannot travel to his village. According to him, when his father was about to die, he was asked to nominate one of his children to take his position in the secret society he belonged to. The man nominated one of his children who was a baby and didn't know anything. At a point in time he started witnesing failure and wherever he went to for solution they told him he has to join the secret society. Till today he still dreams of seeing himself in the meeting if the secret society.
Re: How Do I Undo The Blood Oath I Took With My Ex-girlfriend? by madridguy(m): 12:21pm On Mar 21, 2025
If truly na real oath I would have teach you on how to break it but no oath. The girl is just smarter and cunny.

Primafacie:
Dey play!
Re: How Do I Undo The Blood Oath I Took With My Ex-girlfriend? by Obiedun(m): 12:22pm On Mar 21, 2025
madridguy:
Is the person person in question a Muslim ?
A christian and a school teacher in Lagos a friend of mine
Re: How Do I Undo The Blood Oath I Took With My Ex-girlfriend? by madridguy(m): 12:28pm On Mar 21, 2025
This is serious. I'm very sure his later father must have stylishly gave him something from the occult society to eat or take his photo or clothes to the society reason they're appearing to him.

The person should try and go back to wherever his father was buried to talk to the man. He should go to his grave side and call his father every name they used to call him while alive and let him know he's not interested to be a member of the society. He should beg him to settle himself with the society so they can let him out of their coven.


Obiedun:
A christian and a school teacher in Lagos a friend of mine
Re: How Do I Undo The Blood Oath I Took With My Ex-girlfriend? by advanceDNA: 12:39pm On Mar 21, 2025
Primafacie:
I pls expeditiously move this to frontpage but don't move it to romance section pls 🙏
Oga go and live your life.....you ddnt take the blood oath in any altar and it was not ratified by any force or authority superior than you.. guy block am ...na she say make u go make money....
Re: How Do I Undo The Blood Oath I Took With My Ex-girlfriend? by Obiedun(m): 12:46pm On Mar 21, 2025
madridguy:
This is serious. I'm very sure his later father must have stylishly gave him something from the occult society to eat or take his photo or clothes to the society reason they're appearing to him.

The person should try and go back to wherever his father was buried to talk to the man. He should go to his grave side and call his father every name they used to call him while alive and let him know he's not interested to be a member of the society. He should beg him to settle himself with the society so they can let him out of their coven.
He is even afraid to travel home. His children have never been to his village. Whenever anybody in the family died, it was his wife that would go home to represent him.
Re: How Do I Undo The Blood Oath I Took With My Ex-girlfriend? by madridguy(m): 1:32pm On Mar 21, 2025
Oh, he should be a man enough and visit his village.

Obiedun:
He is even afraid to travel home. His children have never been to his village. Whenever anybody in the family died, it was his wife that would go home to represent him.
Re: How Do I Undo The Blood Oath I Took With My Ex-girlfriend? by Obiedun(m): 1:35pm On Mar 21, 2025
madridguy:
Oh, he should be a man enough and visit his village.
If I should tell him that, it will look as if I hate him
Re: How Do I Undo The Blood Oath I Took With My Ex-girlfriend? by Primafacie(op): 2:03pm On Mar 21, 2025
madridguy:
If truly na real oath I would have teach you on how to break it but no oath. The girl is just smarter and cunny.
Some of u are terrible on this platform
Re: How Do I Undo The Blood Oath I Took With My Ex-girlfriend? by kpankpangolo: 6:52pm On Mar 21, 2025
I’m still looking for the part where they agreed to do the oath and who suggested it. All I read were complaints about all she did and how he wants to undo the oath. Una oath na via sex?

Normally, it’s the female who’s afraid of consequences. This is one of the few times I’ve seen the male living in fear. Dey there dey assume, she fit never knack anybody since then.


[UPDATE] Okay, I’ve seen it. OP, na you suggest the thing. E sure me die. You reported “we took a blood oath” so people would feel she suggested it. Carry your cross.
Re: How Do I Undo The Blood Oath I Took With My Ex-girlfriend? by xareal(m): 7:17pm On Mar 21, 2025
Blood oath for girl wen you never knack before grin grin grin shocked
Re: How Do I Undo The Blood Oath I Took With My Ex-girlfriend? by Primafacie(op): 7:33pm On Mar 21, 2025
xareal:
Blood oath for girl wen you never knack before grin grin grin shocked
How did u manage to graduate from high sch?
Re: How Do I Undo The Blood Oath I Took With My Ex-girlfriend? by xareal(m): 7:39pm On Mar 21, 2025
[quote author=Primafacie post=134651228]
Re: How Do I Undo The Blood Oath I Took With My Ex-girlfriend? by xareal(m): 7:39pm On Mar 21, 2025
Primafacie:
How did u manage to graduate from high sch?
See this useless simp, retired opio trick you go do blood oath instead of you to worry about your already useless life na my high school credentials concern you, finished man,rush go do blood oath because of toto grin
Re: How Do I Undo The Blood Oath I Took With My Ex-girlfriend? by Emily244: 8:19pm On Mar 21, 2025
Primafacie:
I never knew I would fall a victim of this nonsense in my life. While growing up, I used to watch on Nollywood movies about the devastating effects of this Blood oaths on the parties involved. How did I get myself involved in this mess?
It all started three years ago. I was serving in IITA at Ibadan, Oyo state. I traveled from Ibadan to my state in Enugu, got myself involved in Political campaigns for the candidates I supported. It was in the course of these campaigns that I met this lady(23yrs). I saw her and liked her instantly, though lustfully, while she also fell in love with me. I would say it was a deceitful love she had for me. Same day we met, during introduction, she claimed she was a 200level student of Uni-Cal, and that she was home(Enugu) due to an internal ASUU strike. I don't know if she said this because she felt low that I was a graduate and a serving corps Memeber while she had just just completed her NCE. It was after a week of our first meeting that I discovered this lie. On my first visit to her house, I was well welcomed by her parents. And in the process of our conversation, her dad disclosed that her daughter(my babe) had just rounded off her NCE programme. I was shocked, but I never mentioned it afterwards cos I wasn't too bothered about her academic qualifications since she appeared intelligent and communicated so well. But why did she lie?
She pleaded that I don't break her heart & I assured I was never going to. She went further to suggest we make a blood covenant, she went and bought a new Tiger Razor blade and we took the blood oath and promised we were "never going to part ways till eternity". We licked each other's blood after cutting our thumbs and making this declaration. After our first sex in a hotel, I noticed how wide her Puna was. It was very wide and I asked why a 23yr old lady would have such a wide puna. But I didn't tell her my observations. I only asked her to tell me about her past life as regards relationship and romance, she said she had done about three abortions while dating her immediate ex. I now confirmed why her Puna was wide. I believe that for her to have admitted and conceded that she had three abortions for a single guy, it meant she would have done more than three for many other guys. Ladies lie a lot. I noticed she had lots of exes.
Our parents got to know about our relationship and where it was headed. The father is well-to-do. The mum too. She's the first child of her family. The family loved me like their own biological son. They showed support and advised that she shouldn't date for too long before we settle down. The father encouraged me to not be discouraged by little beginnings and that the future is always bright for hardworking young people. He went further to show me the thatched house he lived in when he married his wife(my babe's mum), but today he owns houses and cars everywhere. On my own part, I am without a father. I'm from a poor background. But all that wasn't necessary according to the parents.
My girl is a highly materialistic girl. According to her, she had initially thought I was rich the day she met me, considering my looks. But overtime she noticed i am a broke guy. When she found out, she started misbehaving. He insulted me. I had to leave her. When the parents called, I told them I was done with their daughter and wouldn't be able to stand a nagging woman who gets easily angry and susceptible to insults. My babe asked me to go and Hussle after NYSC then come back to get her when I make it big. She said she can't date me out of pity. This was the last straw that broke the Carmel's back. I felt useless to myself for two weeks. Aside having parents who are richer than me, she has nothing else. People even said I was too handsome to date a girl like her. But to me, all that didn't matter.
Since I parted ways with her, I've not seen her but she keeps messaging me on Facebook wanting to see me since we both live in an entirely new city. I've being refusing to see her. She is always making financial demands on me, but I've vowed to not help her. Before now I had begged her for us to go undo the blood oath by confessing to our parents so they can find a traditional means of breaking it but she called me a fool and hanged up. She did this severally. After this, I've not had sex or entered into any relationship cos I'm scared. She too hasn't married but I'm sure she's dating lots of guys and f**cking. I take all the blame because I didn't take my time to know her much before entering into that senseless relationship that was about leading to marriage. Since she was the first to call the shot, the oath is on her.

Pls guys, suggest ways I can break this blood covenant.
Thanks.

NB: Pls don't move this post to Romance section, else I won't be able to reply those I need to reply to. I'm not eligible to post on romance section. I hope you understand. Please don't.

Nfpmod, Mynd44, Dominique, lalasticlala pls expeditiously move this to frontpage but don't move it to romance section pls 🙏
with God all things are possible just pray to God about it and meet a genuine man of God to pray for you
Re: How Do I Undo The Blood Oath I Took With My Ex-girlfriend? by Primafacie(op): 8:43pm On Mar 21, 2025
Emily244:
with God all things are possible just pray to God about it and meet a genuine man of God to pray for you
We still need to do it traditionally
Re: How Do I Undo The Blood Oath I Took With My Ex-girlfriend? by Lamanii22(f): 9:28pm On Mar 21, 2025
If her parents are well to do? Why then he she now demanding money from you? I thank God for the way I was raised... regarding the blood oath I suggest you tell your parents about it, or go for deliverance
Re: How Do I Undo The Blood Oath I Took With My Ex-girlfriend? by Primafacie(op): 9:35pm On Mar 21, 2025
Lamanii22:
If her parents are well to do? Why then he she now demanding money from you? I thank God for the way I was raised... regarding the blood oath I suggest you tell your parents about it, or go for deliverance
I already informed my mum. My date is late, while her both parents are alive. Her parents are well-to-do no doubt about it. Both are federal govt workers and own businesses everywhere. she's only just greedy and materialistic. Even her friends confirmed it to me.
Re: How Do I Undo The Blood Oath I Took With My Ex-girlfriend? by Helpout12345: 10:04pm On Mar 21, 2025
She called you a f.oolhuh

Yes. I agree with her on that if what you typed here is true. In fact. You be mugu., mumu.

Mr. Man, free yourself from this muguness abeg. You have no covenant. Go and be scattering punn.a as you want.

YOU HAVE DOGGED A BULLET by not marrying her.
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