Pastev1:
What should you do as married man/woman when realized that your spouse actually was a mistake after 3years in marriage?

Also, when you the person you suppose marry doing fantastically well in life?

Acidosis:


ahah that's your main problem bruv.

3 things you should do;

1. Cast out the spirit of envy and greed
2. Stop comparing your spouse with your ex, and
3. Stop following your ex's Facebook and other Social Media stories.

When you break up or refuse to date someone, let go completely and don't give a flying fck about their "fantastic lifestyles". If you allow their uploads and success stories get to you, it would ruin you and make you miserable.

Don't get carried away with e.g. a car; car has killed more people than the devil. There is a reason you're currently with your spouse; stick to that reason and be guided. She's "doing fantastically well", because you've only seen the fantastic side.. what if she's stinkingly dirty, rude and abusive? You know you cant measure rudeness on Instagram. So many fantastically wealthy people have died of simple illnesses.

Focus on your spouse and make your marriage work. When I move, I move on completely without looking back. I nor dey regret anything, even if you become Queen Elizabeth tomorrow.


That's one of the major reasons I advise everyone to make spousal decisions based on sensible reasons (e.g. character/attitude, genuine love, passion, compassion, etc.), not stup!d reasons like current bank statement, and other temporarily vague reasons. While the former rarely and hardly change, the latter ALWAYS change. Majority of the great leaders today were at some point extremely broke and needy. When your decision is based on the former (like I always do), you will never ever regret anything.

Fetula4u:
PRAYER.....IS THE ULTIMATE THING YOU SHOULD MY BROTHER

MicroBox:
80% of people don't enjoy a perfect marriage...
I get mad at my wife for every slightest mistake but I sat myself down and spoke to the person in me.
Now everything is fine...
If you allow the thought continues, it will keep escalating to different things everyday and the result will be hate quarrel and divorce..
Your spouse is still that same person, what you need is little adjustment and be more focus on what and where you want your children to be later in life.
..Na Pikin dey keep marriage going..

Pastev1:
What should you do as married man/woman when realized that your spouse actually was a mistake after 3years in marriage?
Also, when you the person you suppose marry doing fantastically well in life?

Pastev1:
I must sincerely appreciate each and everyone that contributes to my heart pouring grieve, your advice...

Fetula4u:
PRAYER.....IS THE ULTIMATE THING YOU SHOULD MY BROTHER

Pastev1:
What should you do as married man/woman when realized that your spouse actually was a mistake after 3years in marriage?
Also, when you the person you suppose marry doing fantastically well in life?

Acidosis:


ahah that's your main problem bruv.

3 things you should do;

1. Cast out the spirit of envy and greed
2. Stop comparing your spouse with your ex, and
3. Stop following your ex's Facebook and other Social Media stories.

When you break up or refuse to date someone, let go completely and don't give a flying fck about their "fantastic lifestyles". If you allow their uploads and success stories get to you, it would ruin you and make you miserable.

Don't get carried away with e.g. a car; car has killed more people than the devil. There is a reason you're currently with your spouse; stick to that reason and be guided. She's "doing fantastically well", because you've only seen the fantastic side.. what if she's stinkingly dirty, rude and abusive? You know you cant measure rudeness on Instagram. So many fantastically wealthy people have died of simple illnesses.

Focus on your spouse and make your marriage work. When I move, I move on completely without looking back. I nor dey regret anything, even if you become Queen Elizabe[/b]th tomorrow.


[b]That's one of the major reasons I advise everyone to make spousal decisions based on sensible reasons (e.g. character/attitude, genuine love, passion, compassion, etc.), not stup!d reasons like current bank statement, and other temporarily vague reasons. While the former rarely and hardly change, the latter ALWAYS change. Majority of the great leaders today were at some point extremely broke and needy. When your decision is based on the former (like I always do), you will never ever regret anything.