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The Idea Of I Don't Want To Have Children by Sunnyshinylight(op): 3:53pm On Mar 26, 2025
You were born by someone, what if you dad and mum decided to stay single and decided to be happy staying single.

Just realise that most of the ideas in head are demonic. What's your happiness in life. So in other words anything that doesn't stress you is your happiness.

What a lazy generations.

In smart working we find complete joy. After all the HOLY GHOST said the sleep of a labouring man is sweet.

What gives you good sleep? To lazy around doing nothing?

In raising generations of your own children should add super excitement to your life!
Re: The Idea Of I Don't Want To Have Children by Sonnobax15(m): 3:54pm On Mar 26, 2025
lipsrsealed
In as much as I love kids and really wanna have mine....But I don't think Castigating others for simply making their own choices in life is the best way to go about angry. At least,we should learn how to respect other people's decisions and opinions in life....

Take a simple look at the mad men and women roaming our streets today, assuming their parents took the decisions that they didn't want to have kids back then, wouldn't it have been the best decision of their lives? angry
Re: The Idea Of I Don't Want To Have Children by Zonefree(m): 3:57pm On Mar 26, 2025
Sunnyshinylight:
You were born by someone, what if you dad and mum decided to stay single and decided to be happy staying single.

Just realise that most of the ideas in head are demonic. What's your happiness in life. So in other words anything that doesn't stress you is your happiness.

What a lazy generations.

In smart working we find complete joy. After all the HOLY GHOST said the sleep of a labouring man is sweet.

What gives you good sleep? To lazy around doing nothing?

In raising generations of your own children should add super excitement to your life!
You don born?
Re: The Idea Of I Don't Want To Have Children by Fetula4u(m): 3:58pm On Mar 26, 2025
Sunnyshinylight:
You were born by someone, what if you dad and mum decided to stay single and decided to be happy staying single.

Just realise that most of the ideas in head are demonic. What's your happiness in life. So in other words anything that doesn't stress you is your happiness.

What a lazy generations.

In smart working we find complete joy. After all the HOLY GHOST said the sleep of a labouring man is sweet.

What gives you good sleep? To lazy around doing nothing?

In raising generations of your own children should add super excitement to your life!
sell your womb for cash
Re: The Idea Of I Don't Want To Have Children by Sunnyshinylight(op): 4:49pm On Mar 26, 2025
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
In as much as I love kids and really wanna have mine....But I don't think Castigating others for simply making their own choices in life is the best way to go about angry. At least,we should learn how to respect other people's decisions and opinions in life....

Take a simple look at the mad men and women roaming our streets today, assuming their parents took the decisions that they didn't want to have kids back then, wouldn't it have been the best decision of their lives? angry
If your parents thought the way you are sounding right now, would you be born?
Re: The Idea Of I Don't Want To Have Children by Afolue(m): 8:09pm On Mar 26, 2025
Raising kids is a personal thing and partly has to do with one’s circumstances at birth and growing up as well. It is not mandatory. Imagine a suffering person trying to gain economic balance hearing this kind of a thing is enough to finally make up his mind not to venture into It

makes no sense breeding more poverty

Na God dey take care of children..! In empty pocket?
Re: The Idea Of I Don't Want To Have Children by advanceDNA: 2:53pm On Mar 27, 2025
Sunnyshinylight:
You were born by someone, what if you dad and mum decided to stay single and decided to be happy staying single.
what da heck!!! Being born by someone is not a obligatory responsibility to birth children....u have a very lazy arguement

...he who does not exist doesn't know he doesn't exist....so if ur mother decides not to have kids how does that affect you?.. when Solomon saw the evil under the sun...he said it's better not to be born, becos at the end of the day u die and cease to exist like those that were never born ..so kini big deal??

Sunnyshinylight:
Just realise that most of the ideas in head are demonic. What's your happiness in life. So in other words anything that doesn't stress you is your happiness.
...there are so many things that gives happiness in life.... So u assume pple's career, life's project don't stress them?? ..dangote refinery stress dangote pass any of his kids...Nigerian cabal nearly kill the guy...

Sunnyshinylight:
What a lazy generations.
there's nothing lazy about not wanting kids...some pple just want to focus on career, goals, vision, and other beautiful things of life... Imagine If Jesus and Paul had kids...imagine Elijah and Elisha having kids, we won't read of them today....Moses had kids before he became focused on something more important ...he had to be an absentee father to fulfil God's will.....

Sunnyshinylight:
In raising generations of your own children should add super excitement to your life!
various things can add excitement... U are just full of fallacy and one sided thinking

.. Some pple's children have brought them pain and depression..... Imagine my neighbors kid that's gay, the other two are autistic and will never be able to face on their own..she ties rope on both of them like a dog whenever they go out ...she keeps asking who did she offend...
Re: The Idea Of I Don't Want To Have Children by Samantha125(f): 3:19pm On Mar 27, 2025
At bolded, it would've been their choice... We didn't force them to conceive us.

Sunnyshinylight:
You were born by someone, what if you dad and mum decided to stay single and decided to be happy staying single.

Just realise that most of the ideas in head are demonic. What's your happiness in life. So in other words anything that doesn't stress you is your happiness.

What a lazy generations.

In smart working we find complete joy. After all the HOLY GHOST said the sleep of a labouring man is sweet.

What gives you good sleep? To lazy around doing nothing?

In raising generations of your own children should add super excitement to your life!
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