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Re: 17year-old Refugee Girl Killed For Refusing To Marry A 55-year-old Man In Kenya by IyanAtiEgusi: 9:05am On Mar 27, 2025
Shalommy:
Yes, But he didn't force the girl to marry him. That's the difference.
shalommy weds fman grin
Re: 17year-old Refugee Girl Killed For Refusing To Marry A 55-year-old Man In Kenya by muykem: 9:06am On Mar 27, 2025
God1000:
What does a 55-year old man want from a teenage girl to the extent of killing her

This shameless and wicked man should be jailed for life.
The same thing that old man got from 9years Aisha.
Re: 17year-old Refugee Girl Killed For Refusing To Marry A 55-year-old Man In Kenya by Zooposki(f): 9:07am On Mar 27, 2025
ziemcorp:
I agree with you and want to propose a very simple solution. Look at everything in your life that a man had a hand in creating. Take note of them, then decide never to use them again.
You might also want to watch that BBC documentary where boys and girls were separated into different apartments for less than a week. The boys devolved to animal status while the girls thrived.

You might also want to look at the past where the wives from a particular country went on a strike and remove their support from their husbands. The whole country almost collapsed. Can’t remember the name of the country. You might want to look it up.
Re: 17year-old Refugee Girl Killed For Refusing To Marry A 55-year-old Man In Kenya by Zooposki(f): 9:12am On Mar 27, 2025
dettolgel:
That sounds like a full time job. What about being critical without going down to their level? I believe that will be a teaching moment for those that want to learn. Or you are only interested in fire for fire?
No more turning the other cheek. It’s an eye for an eye, an insult for an insult. The kingdom of god suffereth violence and the violent taketh it by force.

It’s also a way for me to also warn my fellow women, especially the young and gullible ones that men like to prey on, about the predatory, selfish and wicked nature of most men, even the ones that like to project themselves as nice.

Re: 17year-old Refugee Girl Killed For Refusing To Marry A 55-year-old Man In Kenya by kinharold(m): 9:15am On Mar 27, 2025
When she was being abused and crying out even to her own Mother, what did people do?

Why didn't her mother/relatives call her back?

why didn't they report to the authorities?

Why didn't the community step in?

Why didn't social Media/Internet raise her case and cry out with her?

You know what they say about keeping quiet when evil and oppression is observed.

RELIGIOUS FANATISM IS THE MOST EVIL MONSTER PLAGUING HUMANS TODAY.
Re: 17year-old Refugee Girl Killed For Refusing To Marry A 55-year-old Man In Kenya by dettolgel: 9:19am On Mar 27, 2025
ruffhandu:
Religion without conscience is wickedness, especially when people practice certain parts of the teachings in isolation. Assuming a person is allowed to marry an underaged girl, I believe this should only happen if it is mutual (which happens, though rare). But there is no place for marrying someone off against their will, no way. Again, any teaching that allows the killing of another just because he/she refuses to be subservient to one is out of it. It is only religion that makes many Africans behave a little orderly (that is when they are 'genuinely' religious, like the born again christians- I don't know if islam has such), but in some other climes, it is natural to obey the law, hence some of us question the elements Africans are made of.
I have a different opinion on the role of religion on the behaviour of Africans. I think the original African practices actually promote order. Then response to such a barbaric act was swift and brutal either on family level or community level.

The infiltration of foreign religions have modified our response system to such acts. These foreign religious practices, have also influenced how we implement the western form of law and order, which we have all adopted. Religious practices made it such, that we have come to believe and accept as Christians, that we are under obligation to forgive and even turn the other cheek if need be. This thinking has done nothing but emboldened the perpetrators, while placing the victims in bad lights. There have been cases of prominent Christians leaders that took matters to court according to the law, and people victimised them for not forgiving the perpetrators.

While for some religion you are under obligation to kill an offender irrespective of what the constitution says. Even those with responsibility to implement the law, have hidden under their religious obligations to set these perpetrators free. There are cases of rampaging muslims, that have killed and maimed others and they were never held accountable, because they were following the tenets of their religion.

Such devilsh act, would either resulted in family feud or inter village war in the original African setting. People knew better then and they tend to be strategic about it.

I am not saying that the old system wasn't flawed, I am just pointing out the perculiarity of the system with respect to your submission.
Re: 17year-old Refugee Girl Killed For Refusing To Marry A 55-year-old Man In Kenya by ALISMILE(m): 9:19am On Mar 27, 2025
Shalommy:
Then why her case different?
Her case is different because her people refused to adhere to the principles of marriage in Islam!
You can’t be blaming Islam when people are acting or behaving in ways contrary to the principles of the religion!
Re: 17year-old Refugee Girl Killed For Refusing To Marry A 55-year-old Man In Kenya by TooMuchStuff: 9:19am On Mar 27, 2025
muykem:
The same thing that old man got from 9years Aisha.
you mean deadly prof Mo rapped Aisha at 9yrs old in faraway desert sun of Arabia? Just too bad 👎
Re: 17year-old Refugee Girl Killed For Refusing To Marry A 55-year-old Man In Kenya by ALISMILE(m): 9:23am On Mar 27, 2025
dettolgel:
How do you describe consent under this situation?
She was married off by someone without adhering to the principles of Islam, which clearly state that a woman’s consent is required before marriage. Yet, when things go wrong, you turn around and blame Islam!
Re: 17year-old Refugee Girl Killed For Refusing To Marry A 55-year-old Man In Kenya by Shalommy(f): 9:26am On Mar 27, 2025
ALISMILE:
You can’t be blaming Islam when people are acting or behaving in ways contrary to the principles of the religion!
Read my first post again.
Re: 17year-old Refugee Girl Killed For Refusing To Marry A 55-year-old Man In Kenya by dettolgel: 9:26am On Mar 27, 2025
ALISMILE:
She was married off by someone without adhering to the principles of Islam, which clearly state that a woman’s consent is required before marriage. Yet, when things go wrong, you turn around and blame Islam!
I get your point my question is how do you define consent in general?

I just want to make sure we are on the same page. For the record I haven't blamed any religion for this said news.
Re: 17year-old Refugee Girl Killed For Refusing To Marry A 55-year-old Man In Kenya by Oluwazeezu(m): 9:31am On Mar 27, 2025
Terrible, all in the name of Tradition
why do pple misinterprete things like dis
No religion permits forceful marriage without the concent of the person involved
most tyms pple will think its religion but its not
Re: 17year-old Refugee Girl Killed For Refusing To Marry A 55-year-old Man In Kenya by Almunjid: 9:37am On Mar 27, 2025
Shalommy:
Yes, But he didn't force the girl to marry him. That's the difference.
It's surprising that you, being a woman, have this perspective. It's important to know that when a girl is below the age of consent, marrying her is illegal, her consent or approval doesn't matter. Moreover, engaging in sexual activities with her before or after marriage, regardless of whether she gives consent or not, is considered rape.

Peace!
Re: 17year-old Refugee Girl Killed For Refusing To Marry A 55-year-old Man In Kenya by Uguruzik(m): 9:38am On Mar 27, 2025
Na so, religion of piece at it again, this how peaceful they are
Re: 17year-old Refugee Girl Killed For Refusing To Marry A 55-year-old Man In Kenya by Bahamas95(m): 9:39am On Mar 27, 2025
The useless man and the girl's useless parents should be locked up in prison for life, they're animals.
Re: 17year-old Refugee Girl Killed For Refusing To Marry A 55-year-old Man In Kenya by dettolgel:
Zooposki:
No more turning the other cheek. It’s an eye for an eye, an insult for an insult. The kingdom of god suffereth violence and the violent taketh it by force.

It’s also a way for me to also warn my fellow women, especially the young and gullible ones that men like to prey on, about the predatory, selfish and wicked nature of most men, even the ones that like to project themselves as nice.
I see your point.

About the attachment in your response. I don't think that is completely true. The way we have evolved women need men to provide for them - protection and sustainability. While men depend on women for perpetuating their genes in exchange for food and security. The idea of women taking care of men as their mother would at infancy, is a long held tradition that had a functional advantage back then.

Today the world has changed so do our living arrangements and responsibilities have shifted both ways. Initially, the man goes out to "hunt and gather", while the woman says home to care of their offsprings and cater for his need upon return. Unfortunately, modern lives have made it such that, both the man and the woman are going out to hunt and gather. Whereas, some people still expect the woman to provide the same level of care she did when she wasn't saddled with the responsibility of hunting and gathering.

It is sad that in today's life, there are men and women raising their boys and girls with ideas for a world that no longer exist.
Re: 17year-old Refugee Girl Killed For Refusing To Marry A 55-year-old Man In Kenya by dettolgel: 9:45am On Mar 27, 2025
Oluwazeezu:
Terrible, all in the name of Tradition
why do pple misinterprete things like dis
No religion permits forceful marriage without the concent of the person involved
most tyms pple will think its religion but its not
How do you define consent?
Re: 17year-old Refugee Girl Killed For Refusing To Marry A 55-year-old Man In Kenya by Oluwazeezu(m): 9:48am On Mar 27, 2025
dettolgel:
How do you define consent?
she should know and accept who she is getting involved with
Re: 17year-old Refugee Girl Killed For Refusing To Marry A 55-year-old Man In Kenya by ALISMILE(m): 9:48am On Mar 27, 2025
dettolgel:
I get your point my question is how do you define consent in general?

I just want to make sure we are on the same page. For the record I haven't blamed any religion for this said news.
Here is the dictionary definition of the word consent: “Consent” refers to giving permission, approval, or agreement for something to happen. It is essential in various contexts, such as legal matters, relationships, business transactions, and ethical decision-making.
Re: 17year-old Refugee Girl Killed For Refusing To Marry A 55-year-old Man In Kenya by lomprico(m): 9:55am On Mar 27, 2025
God1000:
What does a 55-year old man want from a teenage girl to the extent of killing her

This shameless and wicked man should be jailed for life.
Their mentor no Marry 9 year old?
Re: 17year-old Refugee Girl Killed For Refusing To Marry A 55-year-old Man In Kenya by Fearyourcreator: 9:58am On Mar 27, 2025
Zooposki:
Until women begin to see all men as apex predators hunting them, the rape, abuse and deletion of women by men will keep happening. Will you see a lion and leave yourself defenseless?

The whole world is sick because of these men who commit all sorts of atrocities. Women should start practicing selective breeding so we can reduce or eliminate them. Don’t let your son hurt other people’s female children. Nature is helping us out but we need to also play our part.
Always fast to call out other gender ... Eti yawerey
Re: 17year-old Refugee Girl Killed For Refusing To Marry A 55-year-old Man In Kenya by Shalommy(f): 9:59am On Mar 27, 2025
ALISMILE:
Her case is different because her people refused to adhere to the principles of marriage in Islam!
You can’t be blaming Islam when people are acting or behaving in ways contrary to the principles of the religion!
Why did they kill her? Same Islam permitted or authorized them to do so?
Re: 17year-old Refugee Girl Killed For Refusing To Marry A 55-year-old Man In Kenya by IyanAtiEgusi: 10:02am On Mar 27, 2025
Shalommy:
Why did they kill her? Same Islam permitted or authorized them to do so?
islam forbids being stingy with kpekus aka duri grin
Re: 17year-old Refugee Girl Killed For Refusing To Marry A 55-year-old Man In Kenya by SSpeter(m): 10:03am On Mar 27, 2025
God1000:
What does a 55-year old man want from a teenage girl to the extent of killing her

This shameless and wicked man should be jailed for life.
ask Mohammed, he preferred sucklings
Re: 17year-old Refugee Girl Killed For Refusing To Marry A 55-year-old Man In Kenya by Shalommy(f): 10:04am On Mar 27, 2025
IyanAtiEgusi:
islam forbids being stingy with kpekus aka duri grin
Amos 🐐🐐
Re: 17year-old Refugee Girl Killed For Refusing To Marry A 55-year-old Man In Kenya by SSpeter(m): 10:04am On Mar 27, 2025
anonimi:
How old was former Zamfara governor and sinator when he married the 13 year old girl?

How old was Ned Nwoko when he tore into Regina?

Are they in jail?
Ned Nwoko is a Muslim and a paedophile
Re: 17year-old Refugee Girl Killed For Refusing To Marry A 55-year-old Man In Kenya by IyanAtiEgusi: 10:06am On Mar 27, 2025
Shalommy:
Read my first post again.
him no dey understand lizard english cool
Re: 17year-old Refugee Girl Killed For Refusing To Marry A 55-year-old Man In Kenya by IyanAtiEgusi: 10:08am On Mar 27, 2025
Shalommy:
Amos 🐐🐐
Shalommy d sexy wall lizard fvcked and dumped by Amos Goat grin
Re: 17year-old Refugee Girl Killed For Refusing To Marry A 55-year-old Man In Kenya by Doyin2(m): 10:09am On Mar 27, 2025
Ringstonermasks:
Muhammed and aisha
Joseph(30years+) and Mary (14yrs)
Re: 17year-old Refugee Girl Killed For Refusing To Marry A 55-year-old Man In Kenya by Hellisreal70: 10:12am On Mar 27, 2025
Capital of Pakistan is
ISLAMABAD
Re: 17year-old Refugee Girl Killed For Refusing To Marry A 55-year-old Man In Kenya by Cruzmaster: 10:13am On Mar 27, 2025
Almunjid:
There seems to be a double standard when it comes to criticising Islam. When an Igbo or Yoruba Christian man marries a teenager, Christianity won't be criticised; however, when a Muslim does the same, Islam and Prophet Muhammad's influence are immediately blamed.

Peter Obi married a 17-year-old minor, yet neither he nor Christianity was criticised for it. Obidients are trying so hard to avoid the topic, but they are quick to condemn others. This highlights the inconsistent standards applied to different individuals based on their religious affiliations.

Numerous challenges arise in refugee camps, where many women face food shortages. In some cases, they're offered food in exchange for sexual favours. Those who refuse these advances are left to starve. In this instance, the predator took advantage of a vulnerable and starving girl. Her parents, hoping to reduce the burden of feeding more mouths and potentially provide her with a better life, married her off to the 55 years old man, unaware of his true nature.

Moreover, the custom of marrying teenagers has been present in various societies long before the advent of Islam and is deeply ingrained in many cultures worldwide. This practice extends beyond Arab societies and can even be found within your own tribe. It is crucial to emphasise that the immorality itself should be condemned, rather than the perpetuators' religion. Just as Igbos would rather have people denounce drug trafficking instead of unfairly judging their entire tribe, it is vital to address harmful actions without generalising or targeting an entire religion or ethnic group.


Peace!
Religion of peace!! 😆😆😆 Terrorists=Islam, Pedophile=Islam, War=Islam Religion of piss indeed! 😂😂
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