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Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by Sirchiboy(op): 2:40am On Apr 03, 2025
I asked a lady I want to marry that if i give her 1m to start a business.
Hmmm she told me 1m cant start any business with a shop.
Someone that have not seen 1m in her life saying this.
Please guys if you have such lady in your life never make a mistake to wife her or she will put you in a chronic debt.
You will never achieve anything in life if you marry such girl

Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by Nobody: 3:08am On Apr 03, 2025
Sirchiboy:
I asked a lady I want to marry that if i give her 1m to start a business.
Hmmm she told me 1m cant start any business with a shop.
Someone that have not seen 1m in her life saying this.
Please guys if you have such lady in your life never make a mistake to wife her or she will put you in a chronic debt.
You will never achieve anything in life if you marry such girl
I hope say U done pursue her from Ur life before U come here sha?
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by brandon2009: 4:24am On Apr 03, 2025
She is telling you the truth and you are complaining abi you want her to start hawking ?
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by dominique(mod): 5:19am On Apr 03, 2025
She's right, the money is enough to start a business without renting a shop. I don't know about other states but in Lagos, neighbourhood shops now go between 8-10k per month. Shops in busy areas, bus-stops and market places go for much higher and most landlords ask for 2 years rent upfront. The spending won't be on rent alone, she'll need to furnish the shop with chair, table, counters, shelves etc and make it look attractive to customers. She's only telling you the reality of things but you're here poverty shaming her. You strike me as the toxic abusive husband who will treat your wife like you're doing her a favour by marrying her. How I wish she can open her eyes and see how better she'll be far away from you.
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by Baronthecelebri(m): 5:36am On Apr 03, 2025
You're right bro
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by cenaman(m): 5:37am On Apr 03, 2025
Run ooo
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by Sonnobax15(m): 6:14am On Apr 03, 2025
lipsrsealed
She's right...

1m presently in Nigeria can't do no shiit angry.

Here in Ughelli where I'm,only store rent+ wicked agents fees go collect half of that 1m.......So she's definitely right bro..
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by OKOATA(m): 6:16am On Apr 03, 2025
dominique:
She's right, the money is enough to start a business without renting a shop. I don't know about other states but in Lagos, neighbourhood shops now go between 8-10k per month. Shops in busy areas, bus-stops and market places go for much higher and most landlords ask for 2 years rent upfront. The spending won't be on rent alone, she'll need to furnish the shop with chair, table, counters, shelves etc and make it look attractive to customers. She's only telling you the reality of things but you're here poverty shaming her. You strike me as the toxic abusive husband who will treat your wife like you're doing her a favour by marrying her. How I wish she can open her eyes and see how better she'll be far away from you.
But Natasha a woman like you was empowering others, how many have you empowered. Ordinary small empowerment can change a person's life totally. So 1M can't rent a shop or do anything at all? So even person wey won sell okrika, frozen food business, even POS can't start with 1M? Then you yourself is a waster in real life.
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by Lalami3232(m): 6:16am On Apr 03, 2025
cheesy
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by TheBreastSucker(m): 6:26am On Apr 03, 2025
OKOATA:
But Natasha a woman like you was empowering others, how many have you empowered. Ordinary small empowerment can change a person's life totally. So 1M can't rent a shop or do anything at all? So even person wey won sell okrika, frozen food business, even POS can't start with 1M? Then you yourself is a waster in real life.
Natasha was not doing it with her personal money but government money given to her as allocation for constituency projects
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by Jesuspistol(m): 6:28am On Apr 03, 2025
Both of you lack harmony in your plans and thoughts. You're both right and wrong. She shouldn't have sounded that way at all, infact, she should have appreciated that amount from you, then she should try to raise the other little amount she might need perhaps from her savings or she could meet those she has relationship with within and outside her family.

On the other hand, depending on the business you both agree about, some shops alone cost almost that 1m talkless of the goods to fill it up with. That must be why she spoke that way
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by Bobodee09: 7:06am On Apr 03, 2025
dominique:
She's right, the money is enough to start a business without renting a shop. I don't know about other states but in Lagos, neighbourhood shops now go between 8-10k per month. Shops in busy areas, bus-stops and market places go for much higher and most landlords ask for 2 years rent upfront. The spending won't be on rent alone, she'll need to furnish the shop with chair, table, counters, shelves etc and make it look attractive to customers. She's only telling you the reality of things but you're here poverty shaming her. You strike me as the toxic abusive husband who will treat your wife like you're doing her a favour by marrying her. How I wish she can open her eyes and see how better she'll be far away from you.
Not every part of Lagos is expensive.

What happens to starting small??

1m is more than enough to start a business in lagos but ladies want do show off business.

I no a lady who makes over 500k every month on her nylon business and this cost 200k capital to start.
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by Bobodee09: 7:09am On Apr 03, 2025
Jesuspistol:
Both of you lack harmony in your plans and thoughts. You're both right and wrong. She shouldn't have sounded that way at all, infact, she should have appreciated that amount from you, then she should try to raise the other little amount she might need perhaps from her savings or she could meet those she has relationship with within and outside her family.

On the other hand, depending on the business you both agree about, some shops alone cost almost that 1m talkless of the goods to fill it up with. That must be why she spoke that way
Someone who doesn't have money must only have eye for starting small.


There are many businesses out there she can start with even 200k but most ladies want to show off.

Swallow pride ,hustle hard and grow.

1m is more than enough to start a business for someone who has sense.
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by Damilgodwin(m): 7:29am On Apr 03, 2025
For all those saying she is right ehn. Let them just relax and date such person or make their relatives to wife such person, I want check something 😁😁😂
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by id4sho(m): 7:35am On Apr 03, 2025
Bobodee09:
Not every part of Lagos is expensive.

What happens to starting small??

1m is more than enough to start a business in lagos but ladies want do show off business.

I no a lady who makes over 500k every month on her nylon business and this cost 200k capital to start.
There's serious money in polyethylene. From manufacturer down to retailing 👌💯
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by Bobodee09: 7:53am On Apr 03, 2025
id4sho:
There's serious money in polyethylene. From manufacturer down to retailing 👌💯
Like big serious money.

Alot of people see it as local business.
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by Letmecum: 8:12am On Apr 03, 2025
Oga how 1millon wan take rent shop and stacked it up with goods. My friend give his newly wedded wife 5m to start a business renting of shop is not included. Oga u go start business with 1m abi na garri and yam u wan buy for the shop. Rawbish
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by Mryacks: 8:13am On Apr 03, 2025
Jesuspistol:
Both of you lack harmony in your plans and thoughts. You're both right and wrong. She shouldn't have sounded that way at all, infact, she should have appreciated that amount from you, then she should try to raise the other little amount she might need perhaps from her savings or she could meet those she has relationship with within and outside her family.

On the other hand, depending on the business you both agree about, some shops alone cost almost that 1m talkless of the goods to fill it up with. That must be why she spoke that way
Well said. They both just lack wisdom to discuss reasonably. She shouldn't have just dismissed the idea of 1M and him too shouldn't just be angry that she is ungrateful. There is room for harmony and fruitful discussion....
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by Zonefree(m): 8:31am On Apr 03, 2025
Most of these girls don't have sense. No jokes.
It takes the grace of God for one to meet a sensible Nigerian girl.

Person wey never make One million Naira for her life complaining that N1M can not start a business undecided


As we are hustling to escape poverty, may we not entangled with a broke and wretched Nigerian girl from a poor home. Amen!
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by Exceed15:
She' doesn't even have plan for her life. Run for your life dude.
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by Zonefree(m): 8:38am On Apr 03, 2025
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
She's right...

1m presently in Nigeria can't do no shiit angry.

Here in Ughelli where I'm,only store rent+ wicked agents fees go collect half of that 1m.......So she's definitely right bro..
The ultimate question remains, does she have the N1Million that can't do no shiit? undecided

As 'worthless' as the N1Million, she doesn't have it, shows she's useless and a liability to the society.
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by holywind(m): 8:38am On Apr 03, 2025
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
She's right...

1m presently in Nigeria can't do no shiit angry.

Here in Ughelli where I'm,only store rent+ wicked agents fees go collect half of that 1m.......So she's definitely right bro..
Sonnobax so na Ughelli you dey and I think say na ph
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by Moveittothem: 9:19am On Apr 03, 2025
Sirchiboy:
I asked a lady I want to marry that if i give her 1m to start a business.
Hmmm she told me 1m cant start any business with a shop.
Someone that have not seen 1m in her life saying this.
Please guys if you have such lady in your life never make a mistake to wife her or she will put you in a chronic debt.
You will never achieve anything in life if you marry such girl
Maybe she's uninformed.

Tell her businesses she can actually start with 1m, and see her response.

Maybe the businesses she has in mind or have knowledge of would require above 1m.
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by RealityKings1: 9:27am On Apr 03, 2025
dominique:
She's right, the money is enough to start a business without renting a shop. I don't know about other states but in Lagos, neighbourhood shops now go between 8-10k per month. Shops in busy areas, bus-stops and market places go for much higher and most landlords ask for 2 years rent upfront. The spending won't be on rent alone, she'll need to furnish the shop with chair, table, counters, shelves etc and make it look attractive to customers.
1 million for business is a good start, gradually her family and other aside work she does can help the business grow.
I'm sure after opening the business for her,the husband will be the person to pay the next rent
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by TUANKU(m): 9:35am On Apr 03, 2025
TheBreastSucker:
Natasha was not doing it with her personal money but government money given to her as allocation for constituency projects
You must be her PA i guess.
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by Sirchiboy(op): 9:36am On Apr 03, 2025
dominique:
She's right, the money is enough to start a business without renting a shop. I don't know about other states but in Lagos, neighbourhood shops now go between 8-10k per month. Shops in busy areas, bus-stops and market places go for much higher and most landlords ask for 2 years rent upfront. The spending won't be on rent alone, she'll need to furnish the shop with chair, table, counters, shelves etc and make it look attractive to customers. She's only telling you the reality of things but you're here poverty shaming her. You strike me as the toxic abusive husband who will treat your wife like you're doing her a favour by marrying her. How I wish she can open her eyes and see how better she'll be far away from you.
My wife say I should greet you specially
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by Dollarmind001(m): 9:45am On Apr 03, 2025
Is just to have à baby mama, i don't joke with my happiness and peace of mind.

This marriage of a thing is becoming like a prison.

Somany unhappy married men and women out there.

I want to live my life to the fullest, do anything that i want....life is too short
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by cr7lomo: 9:51am On Apr 03, 2025
dominique:
She's right, the money is enough to start a business without renting a shop. I don't know about other states but in Lagos, neighbourhood shops now go between 8-10k per month. Shops in busy areas, bus-stops and market places go for much higher and most landlords ask for 2 years rent upfront. The spending won't be on rent alone, she'll need to furnish the shop with chair, table, counters, shelves etc and make it look attractive to customers. She's only telling you the reality of things but you're here poverty shaming her. You strike me as the toxic abusive husband who will treat your wife like you're doing her a favour by marrying her. How I wish she can open her eyes and see how better she'll be far away from you.
Are women like her and u disabled?? Adults that went to school can't make something out of ur lives ...what a shame .... must u depend on a man to be able to make something out of ur lives ?? Did any woman give that her man money to start a business?? This is so shameful that u women are so shameless that u feel entitled to a man's money like u are disabled or illiterates... even disables and illiterates are making millions from the scratch... how can that business even be successful when u didn't make the money urself ... u will end up running it down and still expect the man to recapitalise it ... I really dey shame for u women... that shows that sending women to school is a waste of money ... a father will spend millions training his daughter, onlyvfor her to graduate and now be depending on men to feed or take care of her and her family...an adult woman that's a graduate and not disabled, una no de shame ooo
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by virginprincess(f): 9:51am On Apr 03, 2025
Zonefree:
Most of these girls don't have sense. No jokes.
It takes the grace of God for one to meet a sensible Nigerian girl.

Person wey never make One million Naira for her life complaining that N1M can not start a business undecided


As we are hustling to escape poverty, may we not entangled with a broke and wretched Nigerian girl from a poor home. Amen!
You still haven't changed 😒😒
Too bad😔😔
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by cr7lomo: 9:57am On Apr 03, 2025
OKOATA:
But Natasha a woman like you was empowering others, how many have you empowered. Ordinary small empowerment can change a person's life totally. So 1M can't rent a shop or do anything at all? So even person wey won sell okrika, frozen food business, even POS can't start with 1M? Then you yourself is a waster in real life.
What did u expect when society has made itvseem like women are children that should be taken care of...Adults that are so shameless that they feel entitled to another adults money ... we need to stop this nonsense in society...what's the essence of wasting money sending them to school when they can't make anything off their lives without the financial help of a man ... a man that also went yo the same school u attended , an had to make it on his own without free money from anyone... women I this part of the world are sooooòoooo lazy and entitled at the same time ... all they know is open legs and feel entitled to another's adults money ...they are so shameless.... so without men , female destitutes will skyrocket
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by cr7lomo: 10:02am On Apr 03, 2025
Jesuspistol:
Both of you lack harmony in your plans and thoughts. You're both right and wrong. She shouldn't have sounded that way at all, infact, she should have appreciated that amount from you, then she should try to raise the other little amount she might need perhaps from her savings or she could meet those she has relationship with within and outside her family.

On the other hand, depending on the business you both agree about, some shops alone cost almost that 1m talkless of the goods to fill it up with. That must be why she spoke that way
If she can't manage 1m for a start.... then that business will never succeed.... start big an watch it go down the drains cos she's lazy and entitled.... alot of men will be given 300k today to start a business, see how after a decade , he would have started a family, rented a flat and will be taking care of his family... give a woman 300k , that business will not even set off , they will be feeling entitled for more money and will make excuses why it cudnt succeed... society have made women soooooo lazy and entitled at the same time
Re: Dont Marry Her Or Else You Will Keep Working Without Any Achievement by cr7lomo: 10:04am On Apr 03, 2025
Bobodee09:
Not every part of Lagos is expensive.

What happens to starting small??

1m is more than enough to start a business in lagos but ladies want do show off business.

I no a lady who makes over 500k every month on her nylon business and this cost 200k capital to start.
Thank u very much ... all they know is to be wasteful...
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