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kenn4rill:
All what every reasonable man needs is a peaceful home and a submissive woman, anything short of that is a disaster and besides to me I don't see it as simping. It can only be bad if you as a man is caring for a child thinking it's yours, only to find out later that you have wasted your money, time and resources but if you already know and you choose to still go ahead then it's fine. After all the single ones can still be worse.

atoliman:
Alhough I am not a step dad, I have seen both the good and bad sides of men who became step dad. I know a step dad who run the house with respect and even the once single mum respect her husband . And the bad side is a Step dad who is disrespected by the single mum and her children on a daily base.
For example, a woman with 3 kids or more with 2 men now want to remarry and start a new family with a single guy . She gives demand for her man to marry her, he must buy her this or that and she and her kids come first regardless of how he feels. The single guy or single dad loves the woman and her kids and marry her. But the woman runs the household, while the step dad is just a doormat who is not even respected at his own home ; he is simp
Another example, a woman with 1 child who was once in an abusive relationship with her child father decided to divorce and a single guy or dad just love her and decided he want to marry her. The new step dad is respected by her and her child. The once single mum is now happily married with her man and respect him. They been married for years and have their own children. After all, as long the single mum respect her new husband and the child knows that there is a new head of household, the man may not qualify as a simp. What if the single mum is a widow, is she not suppose to remarry?
Being a step dad is not everyone and if it is not for you, then do you.

atoliman:
Alhough I am not a step dad,

AllBlack:
planning on being one?

eazzzy1:
Do people really make life decisions based on simping or not simping? I find it difficult to believe that a grown up will be faced with two choices and the criteria to make a choice will be simping.

The question for me will be how does it benefit me. Will I marry a wealthy single mother if I don’t have to work again and I can focus on my hobbies? Yes.

Will I marry a single mom if I want kids but can’t have any of my own? Yes.

Will I marry a single mom if it presents clear pathways to opportunities? Yes.

The only catch is I have to like the woman and the child(ren). I won’t marry someone I can’t stand for economic opportunities.