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damzy88:
Hello,

I am a single guy thinking of getting married soon but some of the ladies I am considering having a serious relationship that may lead to marriage with are not virgins. This came as a surprise to me as I thought it will be easy to find a virgin to settle down with.

Should I try to focus on finding the one with best character and settle with or I should continue with my search to find a virgin?

I understand marriage is more than virginity but I am just wondering.

Looking forward to your responses.

Thanks

Keep searching for a virgin IF you're a virgin too, otherwise focus on who you can tolerate most.

In my opinion, a virgin man deserves nothing but a virgin woman for marriage. Forget about "some virgins have bad character bla bla". If an average virgin is bad, then an average non virgin is worse. I believe every man deserves to legally tear a leather.

Ability to keep one's virginity is a sign of discipline and strong will, especially in this era of heightened level of immorality. The chances of working marriage out with a virgin, whether man or woman is higher than for non virgins. What do you think make an individual to want to keep his or her virginity? The answer is part of what's needed to make a marriage work. Part of the benefits include, zero "past/baggages", reduced paternity fraud risk, increased loyalty chances, high reproductive health prospect, etc

I was a virgin at marriage and I married a virgin. Praise be His, I feel like paying her bride price again every single day.

Kobojunkie:
This is as established by what law?

Law of sexual purity.

Lordbinsmar:
➜Law of sexual purity.

Written by whom? Where can one find this law documented?

Zonefree:
A non virgin bride automatically means the Saviour of the world will never come from your waist.

Think about it.

deep

damzy88:
Hello,

I am a single guy thinking of getting married soon but some of the ladies I am considering having a serious relationship that may lead to marriage with are not virgins. This came as a surprise to me as I thought it will be easy to find a virgin to settle down with.

Should I try to focus on finding the one with best character and settle with or I should continue with my search to find a virgin?

I understand marriage is more than virginity but I am just wondering.

Looking forward to your responses.

Thanks

If you can’t get a virgin do not waste money on any bitch in the name of marriage! You can have one or two as baby mama(s). Don’t legally marry any non virgin unless you were the one who deflower her. You will still get a virgin sooner or later then you can marry!
NB: This is also what I’m planning to do myself!
This generation girls are not trustworthy.

Kobojunkie:
1. You are not a virgin, but you expect that there would be virgins everywhere else, abi? No be craze dem dey call that?

2. I honestly don't think you will benefit from marriage at all as there is the chance that this virginity obsession of yours will most likely lead you to either rape your daughter or maybe even your wife's sibling/house help who you happen to perceive is a virgin. I have read enough stories of your kind to realize that these delusions never simply go away. They find other ways to compensate for the lack in your lives; Nigeria is riddled with stories of your kind that it is probably better you are not allowed near children at all.

Obviously, kobojunkie, you're not a virgin, not in the least bit. 👌

Lordbinsmar:
Please be atleast sensible for once in your life.

If any woman would become non virgin, then she must be disflowered only by then man who has paid her bride price.

The only case to marry a non virgin is if she was rap*****d or if her husband who disflowered her is dead.

Only a stupid man will waste his hard earned money on a sexually and genetically polluted and damaged woman.

fact that I fancy

blackpanthar:
I doubt you have a effective spirituality

Bro MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR EVERYONE.......... it is not by force.... don't force it.

Stop taking yourself too seriously either, you are NOT a saint.

Focus on being the kind of man, most genuine ladies will see as ODOGWU.... will see as someone worth following or submitting to.

Be a LEADER.... have results in both finances and leadership.

Stop distracting yourself worrying about women.

WOrk on your relationship with GOD and get it right before its too late.

Be busy being happy and doing activities that make you happy and fulfilled.


Marriage will be a by-product of such a high impact life.

Don't settle, don't chase.... simply attract and filter.

respect

damzy88:
Hello,

I am a single guy thinking of getting married soon but some of the ladies I am considering having a serious relationship that may lead to marriage with are not virgins. This came as a surprise to me as I thought it will be easy to find a virgin to settle down with.

Should I try to focus on finding the one with best character and settle with or I should continue with my search to find a virgin?

I understand marriage is more than virginity but I am just wondering.

Looking forward to your responses.

Thanks

No benefit in marrying a virgin

A virgin is like a woman that hasn't tasted alcohol before, her first time might be a journey to be a drunk. She might be worse than those she met on the table

advanceDNA:
How u take know say he follow ....?

Make I shock you... 80 % men never slept with virgins.......if u doubt, just try do survey of a sample size like 5000...

Na who come dey disvirgin dem na ..abi na dem dey disvirgin them self with cucumber ni...

Kobojunkie:
Of course, you would not find it reasonable for anyone to point out that these delusions/fixations are likely to lead nowhere good if not immediately nipped in the bud. Your best bet is to make an appointment immediately with a professional mental health therapist or counselor, so you can rid yourself of what is clearly an unhealthy fixation.

If you have no sensible advice to give the young man just keep quiet let others help him out.

Virgin but she have anal sex b4 nko 😁😂

Fantazy:
If you can’t get a virgin do not waste money on any bitch in the name of marriage! You can have one or two as baby mama(s). Don’t legally marry any non virgin unless you were the one who deflower her. You will still get a virgin sooner or later then you can marry!
NB: This is also what I’m planning to do myself!
This generation girls are not trustworthy.

Kobojunkie:
1. You are not a virgin, but you expect that there would be virgins everywhere else, abi? No be craze dem dey call that?

2. I honestly don't think you will benefit from marriage at all as there is the chance that this virginity obsession of yours will most likely lead you to either rape your daughter or maybe even your wife's sibling/house help who you happen to perceive is a virgin. I have read enough stories of your kind to realize that these delusions never simply go away. They find other ways to compensate for the lack in your lives; Nigeria is riddled with stories of your kind that it is probably better you are not allowed near children at all.

what's this one saying bayi??

ChizzyBuna:
A Woman's Character is more important than her Virginity.


You can marry a Virgin that end up being a jezebel that torment your life.

bro..marrying a virgin is the best for men...leave it or take it. I'm happy I'm married one

wunmi590:


There are alot of benefit, nah we wey marry virgin understand...they never know

they never know

damzy88:
Hello,

I am a single guy thinking of getting married soon but some of the ladies I am considering having a serious relationship that may lead to marriage with are not virgins. This came as a surprise to me as I thought it will be easy to find a virgin to settle down with.

Should I try to focus on finding the one with best character and settle with or I should continue with my search to find a virgin?

I understand marriage is more than virginity but I am just wondering.

Looking forward to your responses.

Thanks

Interesting! Marrying a Virgin is a priceless thing ever and meeting one in this present Nigeria is like picking dollar on the ground of Lagos.

I must say that's a hard one bro not in this present naija, were sex is a yardstick for love.
As a man don't settle for less because that's who will bring forth your child and nurture them. Is easy for a woman to say she can't marry a broke man but is a crime for a man to say he wants to marry a virgin.

omotola90:
bro..marrying a virgin is the best for men...leave it or take it. I'm happy I'm married one

what of the thousands of men that married virgin and later the wonan frustrate him.
My uncle wife was a virgin and still couldnt givechim a child despite everything they tried.

Everything is not by virgin.

damzy88:
Okay. Thanks. Let me wait for the responses of more reasonable people.

I love the fatality you gave that silly guy. His I-Too-Know is out of this world

ChizzyBuna:
what of the thousands of men that married virgin and later the wonan frustrate him.
My uncle wife was a virgin and still couldnt givechim a child despite everything they tried.

Everything is not by virgin.

the latter you said is God. Not all non virgins are bad. some are abused, while some is poverty(not justifiable) ...Character matters in a woman but the moral decency that comes from a virgin is second to none

It's not as important as the person's character, some will become a virgin just for societal glory but character wise they are no where to be found but a virgin with a lovely personality traits is a lovely site to behold.

Note that paternity fraud are less likely to be found in virgin population than in non virgins. So been 90% assured of the paternity of the child will always be better than 50% likelihood that the child isn't yours.

A virgin is more likely to pair bond with the partner unlike a non virgin who is always comparing the 30 guys she has slept with to that of her current partner.

N/B virginity doesn't add to character traits but a virgin who is lovely in character far suppasses any non virgin in the world but don't ever choose a lady only based on virginity

DesireV:
Keep searching for a virgin IF you're a virgin too, otherwise focus on who you can tolerate most.

In my opinion, a virgin man deserves nothing but a virgin woman for marriage. Forget about "some virgins have bad character bla bla". If an average virgin is bad, then an average non virgin is worse. I believe every man deserves to legally tear a leather.

Ability to keep one's virginity is a sign of discipline and strong will, especially in this era of heightened level of immorality. The chances of working marriage out with a virgin, whether man or woman is higher than for non virgins. What do you think make an individual to want to keep his or her virginity? The answer is part of what's needed to make a marriage work. Part of the benefits include, zero "past/baggages", reduced paternity fraud risk, increased loyalty chances, high reproductive health prospect, etc

I was a virgin at marriage and I married a virgin. Praise be His, I feel like paying her bride price again every single day.

Thanks. I am a virgin by the way.

StPete:

I love the fatality you gave that silly guy. His I-Too-Know is out of this world

omotola90:
they never know

Honestly

Lordbinsmar:
Mumu man, because marriage is beyond sex is the reason why you chose to spend the rest of your life with a sexually and emotionally damaged and polluted female?

A woman you thousands of liters of semens has been deposited in her body by uncountable men

Would it not feel disgusting seeing such woman everyday you wake up for the rest of your life.

Baba, go on with your search. You will get.

whether virgin o OR community hole o, the most important thing is to know that the closest thing to love is what you get from your mum and dad in some cases. And to live by your rules, dont teach any woman to identify that you are the man, once she cant see it without u reminding her, u dun miss road

Nigeria men with their foolishness about questing for virgin this or that, because of this kind of outdated mentality causes many people to destroy or rendered other people life useless. Women libido are way active than men. once they become dis-virgin, the hormones become very active and demanding, which required sexual active steady at any given chances, she will still need more than what you can offer her sexually.Those living in northern nigeria and arab countries can attestate to that fact. Many of then will still drill to the fullest after losing their virginity, which one man can give nowadays. i have seen countless of it over here. Just pray to God to give you a good wife that can be managed. forget virgin or no virgin bro.

damzy88:
Thanks. I am a virgin by the way.

Kemadealadire:
If you aren't a virgin and you are looking for a virgin, then you aren't being reasonable, it's only fair you meet the standards you expect to find.

And the jobless ladies who married financially buoyant men who in turn set them up in business and for life are reasonable abi?

Valwezzy:
➜And the jobless ladies who married financially buoyant men who in turn set them up in business and for life are reasonable abi?

Those ladies who sold their virginity to those rich men are only among the handful out there who were able to get the most out of the exchange. They reasonably offered their virginity only to rich men and got set up for life for it. They got the best bargain for their virginity, yep! The vast majority, though, who offered their virginity on the altar of marriage were not so lucky. Many of them ended up breadwinners, slaving away to feed the very same men they gave their virginities to.

Myrrhis:
No benefits, right?
That is why you almost fathered the child of another man.

Keep being woke.

Thank God you said almost

Myrrhis:
➜No benefits, right? That is why you almost fathered the child of another man. Keep being woke.

You would be a fool if you dared conclude that because you married a virgin, it magically means all of your kids are yours. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Namaster:
DON'T get married.
It's POINTLESS!

But if you insist, your bride's virginity must be NON-NEGOTIABLE.

The fact that you are finding it difficult to see a virgin is a SIGN.

It's a sign of the CALIBRE of women out there today:
LOOSE in morals and LOOSE in pussy.

The idea that you can settle down with "one with a good character" is MADNESS!

First of all, virginity is a good MARKER of good character in women. It speaks to a woman's CHASTITY and SEXUAL DISCIPLINE. Both of which are essential to a great home.

PLUS, once a woman is NO longer a virgin. You'll NEVER know her body counts.

She'd swear on ALL the gods that it's NOT more than three. Meanwhile, she's had 3 dicccks in one day. Sometimes, all at ONCE.

But you'll NEVER know. And you'll have to take her words for it.

Finally, there is the issue of GENETIC POLLUTION.

Scientists once conducted an experiment using spiders. They had ONE group of female spiders and TWO groups of male spiders.

One group of the male spiders contained LARGE spiders and the other contained SMALL ones.

First they let the large ones mate with the females. Then they let the small ones IMPREGNATE them.

They found that the OFFSPRINGS carried a SIGNIFICANT trace of the DNA of the mother's previous partner even though he didn't sire them.

At first, the scientists thought that the results were because the LARGE spiders had more dominant and powerful genes.

So they conducted a NEW test with new sets of spiders. This time, the small spiders first mated with the female spiders while the larges ones IMPREGNATED them.

Shockingly, the results were the SAME.
The OFFSPRINGS still had significant levels of the DNA of the mother's previous partner.

Put simply:

Marrying a NON-VIRGIN could result in having children with the genetic qualities of a STRANGE man.

Your child will have more than ONE father.
They will NOT be 100% yours.

A QUASI-BASTARD, if you will.

So insisting on a VIRGIN is not just about you.
It's about your KIDS too.

Virginity in a bride is a standard that must NEVER be compromised.

Fam, you out here sounding like you got dumped by a girl with experience and never recovered. Virginity ain’t a character trait, my guy. It’s not some magic badge that guarantees loyalty, love, or peace of mind.

You could marry a virgin and still get your heart stomped by a psychopath. Or marry someone who’s had partners and she treats you like gold. It’s called being an adult, people have histories. So do you.

Also, let’s clear up this spider DNA fantasy you’re running with, ‘cause it’s doing too much.
Yeah, there was a study involving fruit flies or spiders, I’ve seen versions of both get passed around.

But here’s what actually happened:

Scientists noticed that in certain species (like flies, not humans), the size of the offspring could be influenced by the size of the first male the female mated with. BUT...and this is key... it had nothing to do with the DNA of the first male sticking around like a ghost baby-daddy. It had to do with how the seminal fluid affected egg development before fertilization. Strictly a bug thing. We’re not built like that.

Humans don’t have that mechanism. Once a woman’s egg gets fertilized by one guy’s sperm, that’s it, it’s all his DNA and hers. There’s no ‘residue’ from past dudes floating around in the womb turning your baby into some half-Spiderman hybrid. That’s not biology. That’s anime. 😂

So no, your child won’t magically inherit traits from someone who once had sex with their mom. That’s not how genetics, pregnancy, or reality works.

If you still believe that… you probably shouldn’t be giving marriage advice.

If you don’t wanna get married, cool, no one’s begging you. But calling women ‘loose’ because they’ve lived life? That’s wild insecure energy.

Sounds like you’re not ready for a real woman, so maybe stick to the spider experiments.

virgin dey but them ugly if you fit manage am like that no issue