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| How Do I Address This? by Maobichek(op): 3:39pm On Nov 30, 2021 |
Please matured advice though i know that Nairaland is made up of people from different backgrounds. A friend had issue with his girl around September; he found himself another girl, only for his girl to come back yesterday that she is pregnant and the new girl is also pregnant too. He intimated me this morning and i was angry with him, the two ladies instist that they are not aborting the pregnancies. I advised him to place both of them on monthly allowance since he didn't deny the pregnancies. Hope this is preferable? 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Address This? by MrBrownJay1(m): 3:50pm On Nov 30, 2021 |
what is there to do but to accept both babies and become a father of 2?! one with the babymama and the other with the gf.... when the babies are born, do a dna test and confirm that you are indeed the babydaddy....et voila, life goes on! LESSON HERE: you can get a far worse outcome than a std when you have unprotected sex with strangers. 3 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Address This? by Timekeeper: 3:50pm On Nov 30, 2021 |
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| Re: How Do I Address This? by Richy4(m): 3:55pm On Nov 30, 2021*. Modified: 10:52am On Dec 01, 2021 |
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| Re: How Do I Address This? by adebayour26: 4:02pm On Nov 30, 2021 |
Sorry to say this, your friend is soo fond of raw sex, especially for the fact that he's not even married to them, yet. |
| Re: How Do I Address This? by adebayour26: 4:05pm On Nov 30, 2021 |
Your advice is a good one, but imagine how much he will have to be spending monthly. I pity the guy, his Dickson has given him a ticket for high B.P and slimness if he can't put his mind together. 2 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Address This? by Acidosis(m): 5:03pm On Nov 30, 2021 |
Life is about choices. Your friend has made his choice. 3 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Address This? by faithfull18(f): 5:12pm On Nov 30, 2021 |
Acidosis:. |
| Re: How Do I Address This? by MufasaLion: 5:23pm On Nov 30, 2021 |
I just hope his former girl ain't lying to him. 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Address This? by Maobichek(op): 10:48am On Dec 01, 2021 |
MrBrownJay1:He really messed up but the girls are not reasonable; just because the guy is comfortable, both of them want marriage, this generation is something else oh! |
| Re: How Do I Address This? by Maobichek(op): 10:53am On Dec 01, 2021 |
adebayour26:He lost his dad early this year and he is the first son. I believe he impregnated the new girl cos of pressure from family and having partways with his girlfriend. I can't just be specific but two different ladies being pregnant for one man the same year is absurd. |
| Re: How Do I Address This? by Maobichek(op): 10:54am On Dec 01, 2021 |
Acidosis:"This" choice is not good, he is regretting it already. 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Address This? by Maobichek(op): 10:57am On Dec 01, 2021 |
adebayour26:He is not rich but he is comfortable, this will drain him financially but he must live up his responsibilities. |
| Re: How Do I Address This? by Maobichek(op): 10:59am On Dec 01, 2021 |
MufasaLion:She came with a medical result and my friend didn't deny sleeping with her on September before they had issue. |
| Re: How Do I Address This? by MufasaLion: 11:04am On Dec 01, 2021 |
Maobichek:They should go and redo it. Medical results are easily doctored. Many have doctored HIV result. |
| Re: How Do I Address This? by Maobichek(op): 11:19am On Dec 01, 2021 |
MufasaLion:Thank you for this, the whole thing is absurd. |
| Re: How Do I Address This? by MufasaLion: 11:27am On Dec 01, 2021 |
Maobichek:I dig, bro. 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Address This? by Vision101(m): 12:00pm On Dec 01, 2021 |
Your friend is a good striker. He will be very highly valued by Conte. I heard that he's looking for good strikers. Every sin has a consequence. The consequence of fornication is this. Congratulations to him. He will be enjoying double portion until they deliver. Tell him to eat well so that he can pour enough blood to support the pregnancies. Na only him get third leg. |
| Re: How Do I Address This? by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:15pm On Dec 01, 2021 |
Maobichek:you gotta blame African culture for that...as it is pretty common in Africa to expect that a man marry a woman he impregnated. 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Address This? by Sonnobax15(m): 4:39pm On Dec 01, 2021 |
Mennnnnnnn,see double wahala Op,your friend no sharp at all  . As a sharp nigha,he suppose press him calculator... At least he suppose know when he lash that him ex bae..... Guyman no suppose accept any pregnancy easily just like that....... Especially these days when babes dey freely dey do give away... Guyman gats dey careful and calculative at the same time make he for no go raise another's guyman pikin to the extent of even training am to medical school  |
| Re: How Do I Address This? by Maobichek(op): 4:52pm On Dec 01, 2021 |
MrBrownJay1:Hmmm!!! This is not applicable to most of our celebrities oh! Now everyone can't be a celebrity, irony of life. |
| Re: How Do I Address This? by adebayour26: 5:45pm On Dec 01, 2021 |
Maobichek:Yea, you understand. 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Address This? by Mstick: 5:48pm On Dec 01, 2021 |
Broke up in September, has another girlfriend by November and I can bet my life that he didn't run an STD test on any of girls or did any of the women involved insist on any. Very irresponsible beings. They're lucky it's only babies they got as a reward for their lack of sense. 2 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Address This? by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:59pm On Dec 01, 2021*. Modified: 9:53pm On Dec 01, 2021 |
Maobichek:sadly, many people today dont give a damn about "African culture" and instead live in the days of BABYMAMAS and BABYDADDIES. at the end of the day, marriage is just a piece of paper and you can easily get all the benefits/detriment of marriage, while being unmarried. 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Address This? by Maobichek(op): 9:36pm On Dec 01, 2021 |
MrBrownJay1:You are conversant with the reality on ground, i must say the truth. 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Address This? by Beremx(f): 11:28am On Apr 04, 2025 |
Maobichek:what's the update on this your friend? Did the women give birth? Did he end up marrying the two of them? |
| Re: How Do I Address This? by VTJN(m): 11:41am On Apr 04, 2025 |
Maobichek:he should place them on monthly allowance and also decide who to marry among them. |
| Re: How Do I Address This? by Maobichek(op): 1:04pm On Apr 04, 2025 |
VTJN:This happened a while ago, he married the one who had a baby boy (his decision sha) and the other one still receive stipends from him. |
| Re: How Do I Address This? by Maobichek(op): 1:09pm On Apr 04, 2025 |
Beremx:No!!! He married the one who had a baby boy ( his decision oh but both boy/girl child are from God) and the other one still receive "few crumbs" from him. I wasn't comfortable with his decision because the one that had a baby girl have been with him for over 3 years but he ended up marrying just because of a baby boy (his decision sha). |
| Re: How Do I Address This? by Beremx(f): 1:14pm On Apr 04, 2025 |
Maobichek:chai it is well o!! Happy weekend to you anyways. Regards to your family |
| Re: How Do I Address This? by Kobojunkie: 3:28pm On Apr 04, 2025 |
Maobichek:Hmm... You were friends with an eejit who doesn't know still that using family planning ought to have started from the moment before he began having sex.  I advise you to make better friends. |
| Re: How Do I Address This? by Kobojunkie: 3:31pm On Apr 04, 2025 |
Maobichek:Nigerian men & women don't treat themselves well at all. And if he should find out that the boy was probably not his baby, he would come crying as if he were some sort of victim in all of it. 🙄🙄🙄🙄 1 Like |
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