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Good evening moms and dads reading this. My son is 10 months old. During childbirth, my wife had a small tear since it was her first delivery and the baby weighed 4.7kg. Fast forward to yesterday, we were making love. I remembered how I used to explore with my ex, so I decided to try something similar with my wife.

I laid her on her back and lifted her legs wide up in the air. Right away, she warned me not to forget she had a tear during childbirth just 10 months ago. But I didn’t listen. I went ahead. During the act, even though she was wet and dripping, it felt like she was just enduring it.

Afterwards, she complained that I may have pushed too deep, possibly into her womb, and she felt pain while cleaning up. I checked but didn’t notice any visible damage or looseness. My concern now is.. could I have hurt her or reopened the tear?

Secondly, despite how wet she gets, it still feels tight and shallow. How can I help make it wider and deeper so we can both enjoy our sex life more? Thank you!

A woman who had a tear will be experiencing pains around the healed area for some more months and even up to year after childbirth. Pay me for medical counselling.

This story na wash

It's possible she might have been healed since it's now 10 months

I think you should work towards taming your sexual fantasies most especially those ones you tried on your ex.

3Csbutterfly:
Fast forward to yesterday, we were making love. I remembered how I used to explore with my ex, so I decided to try something similar with my wife.

I guess this is why some people recommend marrying a virgin. An untouched man.
Make them no tear your episiotomy.

You didn't try out your sexual fantasies before pregnancy, but remembered to dig deeper after your wife had a tear. How callous of you! I pity women and how their bodies are destroyed during sex and childbirth.

pocohantas:
I guess this is why some people recommend marrying a virgin. An untouched man.
Make them no tear your episiotomy.

Your message is clear and understood. Could you kindly make a more meaningful contribution? I might be able to pick something useful from whatever you share.

PresidObi:
A woman who had a tear will be experiencing pains around the healed area for some more months and even up to year after childbirth. Pay me for medical counselling.

No I'm not gonna pay you. Hospital ain't far away and gynecologist won't charge more than 1k

3Csbutterfly:
Your message is clear and understood. Could you kindly make a more meaningful contribution? I might be able to pick something useful from whatever you share.

Since you understood my message, you picked something.

You want me to tell you how to make your wife's vagina WIDER and DEEPER like your EX's own? That is the meaningful contribution a married man wants? Why didn't you marry your EX with wide and deep vagina?

As for the tear, how do I know if your hurt her or reopened her tear? Maybe you should add a picture of the site for online examination.

Regards...🙂

We4all:
You didn't try out your sexual fantasies before pregnancy, but remembered to dig deeper after your wife had a tear. How callous of you! I pity women and how their bodies are destroyed during sex and childbirth.

She decided to wait until our wedding night because she was a virgin, and I respected that. I waited patiently, and we didn’t explore much before she got pregnant. Even though the doctor advised we could continue being intimate from five months on, he still cautioned us not to go too deep. So, we really didn’t get the chance to try out much. Thanks anyway

pocohantas:
Since you understood my message, you picked something.

You want me to tell you how to make your wife's vagina WIDER and DEEPER like your EX's own? That is the meaningful contribution a married man wants? Why didn't you marry your EX with wide and deep vagina?

As for the tear, how do I know if your hurt her or reopened her tear? Maybe you should add a picture of the site for online examination.

Regards...🙂

Makawhy now? Picture ke? Oh well, the reason I brought this here is because I was told that 99% of women experience a tear during their first childbirth. So if you’re one of them, please share some tips or advice that could help me understand and support my wife better. Thank you

3Csbutterfly:
Makawhy now? Picture ke? Oh well, the reason I brought this here is because I was told that 99% of women experience a tear during their first childbirth. So if you’re one of them, please share some tips or advice that could help me understand and support my wife better. Thank you

The tip is quite obvious na. Stop knacking her like you knacked your ex with a deep and wide vagina.

pocohantas:
The tip is quite obvious na. Stop knacking her like you knacked your ex with a deep and wide vagina.

Well, I’ll see what I can do. But the main thing now is, should we pause all intimacy for now and take her to the hospital tomorrow for a proper check-up? Or should we try again tonight and see if it still hurts?

pocohantas:
I guess this is why some people recommend marrying a virgin. An untouched man.
Make them no tear your episiotomy.

Omo, thank you oh, at least someone won't be trying out things they did with their exes on you.

pocohantas:
Since you understood my message, you picked something.

You want me to tell you how to make your wife's vagina WIDER and DEEPER like your EX's own? That is the meaningful contribution a married man wants? Why didn't you marry your EX with wide and deep vagina?

As for the tear, how do I know if your hurt her or reopened her tear? Maybe you should add a picture of the site for online examination.

Regards...🙂

Which kind soft porn b dis🤧

3Csbutterfly:
Makawhy now? Picture ke? Oh well, the reason I brought this here is because I was told that 99% of women experience a tear during their first childbirth. So if you’re one of them, please share some tips or advice that could help me understand and support my wife better. Thank you

Tear heals 2 months max. Relax , her urge might come back, it's all in her brain

pocohantas:
I guess this is why some people recommend marrying a virgin. An untouched man.
Make them no tear your episiotomy.

🤣😂

Kemadealadire:
Omo, thank you oh, at least someone won't be trying out things they did with their exes on you.

Let's just say NO to premarital sex.

U hurt her more than anything.

All these times you've been married to her, you've never imagined her to be your ex but after one child, you are tired of her and now decide to go back to your ex(emotional).

How will you feel if the scenerio were turned.

Hahahahahahaha wider wider ........wider, digging deep, are you a RCCG member, I'm just asking ni. 😄😄😃😆😄😃😄😄😃

Foodqueen:
U hurt her more than anything.

All these times you've been married to her, you've never imagined her to be your ex but after one child, you are tired of her and now decide to go back to your ex(emotional).

How will you feel if the scenerio were turned.

I'm honestly not pleased with the responses I’ve been getting. Maybe I didn’t explain myself clearly, or perhaps I didn’t choose the right words to ensure proper understanding.

Let me be direct: based on my experience, marrying a virgin hasn't turned out to be a good idea.

My wife was a virgin when we met. She asked that we wait until our wedding night, and I respected that. Within two months of marriage, she became pregnant. Please note, we hadn't been very intimate, and she’s still quite tight. And no, I’m not a man with a small manhood.

What I don't understand is how I'm expected to continue having intimacy with my wife only for the sake of making babies. That’s not acceptable to me. Why should I keep engaging in intimacy with my wife, half way in? I want to go all the way in fully! It’s frustrating and unfulfilling so far! Well, I'm taking her to the hospital this morning. They should do something to through the way, I'm not happy!

pocohantas:
I guess this is why some people recommend marrying a virgin. An untouched man.
Make them no tear your episiotomy.

Can you foot the bills of a male virgin since you want to think like a man? Don't just think and cherry pick just as feminist do , do it all round

Kemadealadire:
Omo, thank you oh, at least someone won't be trying out things they did with their exes on you.

You done see am na. I thought they are logical enough not to act this way. Alas...humans would be humans.

ItisWell22:
🤣😂

No be laughing matter o.

idahme:
Can you foot the bills of a male virgin since you want to think like a man? Don't just think and cherry pick just as feminist do , do it all round

You are not one, hence this defensive question.
No male virgin is looking for a woman to foot his bills and one doesn't need to think like a man to desire a partner who wouldn't ram into his wife's tear while thinking of his EX. It is common sense really. Something male virgins have. Please speak for your fellow broloshos next time...

pocohantas:
You are not one, hence this defensive question.
No male virgin is looking for a woman to foot his bills and one doesn't need to think like a man to desire a partner who wouldn't ram into his wife's tear while thinking of his EX. It is common sense really. Something male virgins have. Please speak for your fellow broloshos next time...

What about me? I'm a male virgin

3Csbutterfly:
I'm honestly not pleased with the responses I’ve been getting. Maybe I didn’t explain myself clearly, or perhaps I didn’t choose the right words to ensure proper understanding.

Let me be direct: based on my experience, marrying a virgin hasn't turned out to be a good idea.

My wife was a virgin when we met. She asked that we wait until our wedding night, and I respected that. Within two months of marriage, she became pregnant. Please note, we hadn't been very intimate, and she’s still quite tight. And no, I’m not a man with a small manhood.

What I don't understand is how I'm expected to continue having intimacy with my wife only for the sake of making babies. That’s not acceptable to me. Why should I keep engaging in intimacy with my wife, half way in? I want to go all the way in fully! It’s frustrating and unfulfilling so far! Well, I'm taking her to the hospital this morning. They should do something to through the way, I'm not happy!

But why didn't you go for your ex, ehn. Only your wife knows if she is hurt na or she is fully healed, it's her body, she is the one wearing the shoe. You should speak with her to know if you need to see a doctor.

This is why we say virgins should go for virgins, that way they learn together.

papyjaypaul:
Let's just say NO to premarital sex.

🎯 It's for the good of everybody and society at large.

This is why virgins need to marry their fellow virgins. You can’t go and scatter your body like suya on a bad grill, then carry that rough, agbero-style experience and offload it on somebody's daughter. There are people out there that get maximum satisfaction from 10 minutes "daddy and mommy" style and that's perfectly perfect.

If you or your ex like legs hanging on the window or thr us ting non-stop like say na war against Gaza, better to find a partner with a similar speedometer.

Acidosis:
This is why virgins need to marry their fellow virgins. You can’t go and scatter your body like suya on a bad grill, then carry that rough, agbero-style experience and offload it on somebody's daughter. There are people out there that get maximum satisfaction from 10 minutes "daddy and mommy" style and that's perfectly perfect.

If you or your ex like legs hanging on the window or thr us ting non-stop like say na war against Gaza, better to find a partner with a similar speedometer.

Well said.

RealityKings1:
What about me? I'm a male virgin

I don't trust you...😂

Acidosis:
This is why virgins need to marry their fellow virgins. You can’t go and scatter your body like suya on a bad grill, then carry that rough, agbero-style experience and offload it on somebody's daughter. There are people out there that get maximum satisfaction from 10 minutes "daddy and mommy" style and that's perfectly perfect.

If you or your ex like legs hanging on the window or thr us ting non-stop like say na war against Gaza, better to find a partner with a similar speedometer.

Lol. Very funny post.
I believe the OP is trolling.
So me sef dey return the energy.😃