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Why do men, or why do some men do this?

You toast a girl, she tells you she’s in a relationship and next you begin try to convince her with words like these “has he married you” “has he paid your bride price”

If you finally succeed in getting that girl, don’t you think another man will also get her using that method?

Why men no dey respect fellow men relationships?

KobomatPhones:
Why do men, or why do some men do this?

You toast a girl, she tells you she’s in a relationship and next you begin try to convince her with words like these “has he married you” “has he paid your bride price”

If you finally succeed in getting that girl, don’t you think another man will also get her using that method?

Why men no dey respect fellow men relationships?

True talk. As much as we question the guys, we also have to ask, why would a girl in a relationship entertain another man to the point of falling for him? If you’re truly committed to someone, no sweet words should shake that foundation. It says a lot about the level of respect she has for her partner.

In that kind of situation, trust is already broken. If someone can leave just because of pressure or persuasion, then maybe the feelings were never that deep to begin with. Relationships need loyalty and boundaries, not just love. And if those things are missing, then what's left to trust?

Dating is a scam anyways. Smart women should not even entertain men with this stupid gf bull crap.

Rokiat:
Dating is a scam anyways. Smart women should not even entertain men with this stupid gf bull crap.

Not only smart Women, Both gender, I believe the terms "boyfriend" and "girlfriend" should be reserved for younger individuals, typically those between the ages of 18 and 24, who are still exploring relationships and haven’t fully faced the realities of life. At that stage, many are still learning about themselves, figuring out their emotions, and navigating love with a sense of youthful idealism. Once adulthood fully sets in, with responsibilities, bills, career demands, and the need for emotional maturity, the dynamics of relationships should evolve beyond just labels. At that point, it’s less about having a “boyfriend” or “girlfriend” and more about building a meaningful, intentional partnership rooted in commitment and growth.

KobomatPhones:
Why do men, or why do some men do this?

You toast a girl, she tells you she’s in a relationship and next you begin try to convince her with words like these “has he married you” “has he paid your bride price”

If you finally succeed in getting that girl, don’t you think another man will also get her using that method?

Why men no dey respect fellow men relationships?

Don't generalize. Not all men do what you describe.

KobomatPhones:
Why men no dey respect fellow men relationships?

Nothing sweet pass another person SERIOUS GIRLFRIEND. Especially when the guy keeps calling every 20 seconds and she finally puts off the phone to focus properly. 😂

@op

There was a time you'll wait for everyone to leave the pharmacy or supermarket before you order for a condom. Now, you don't mind, you just place your order and walk away. Immorality is becoming a norm. That's why you see most guys behaving the way they do.