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Una go just d cook up unfounded stories without meaning

So, in all the courtship, they never attended church or they just dated for 3 days?

By the way, where was the so called sabi sabi mother when they made introduction?

Bobbynobobby:
✓ So you know there is a difference between a 'church goer' and a believer

Nonsense! All of them, including their pastors are church goers. Only, their pastors are also church owners.

ChiefOloye:
The headline said the bride, the body pointed accusing finger at the Mother in law

Thought I was the only one that noticed this

akaahs:
The bride abi the groom?

I have completed my comments, you can go back, meanwhile, both. Infact, groom has more problems.

Christianity and different beliefs, God is unique and will only accept one of your beliefs. How do you now know the one God will accept? Many will rot in hell 😆

This is good news...
Make she slap the foólish man join sef....

I will always be a propounder of the theory of getting women pregnant before marrying them, na dem go dey beg you sef make you marry them, even their families go beg you ...
But most of Una go dey marry without belle and na why dem dey do all these Shakara for Una after all Una expenses.......
If she get belle she know say if you no marry am she go turn single mom and this would reduce her chances of landing a man let alone a dream man..
Men learn GAME.. you fools.

She dodged a bullet!

Imagine, after buying asoebi & you left home expecting food when you get there, only to be disappointed

Thundafireseun:
They were never in love …

This kinda senseless couples are the ones who bring in nuisance into Nigeria as kids ….

Imagine the nansense

Love? See this one. You really think all these people who get married are in love?

trentslawson:
Imagine, after buying asoebi & you left home expecting food when you get there, only to be disappointed

You can buy asoebi but you can't buy food. Hmmm

Jesuspistol:
Good and experienced mother. What's the essence of being christians attending different churches. That can come up later in the marriage with permission from the husband but not starting up a married life with that. Means there are many other things and situations where she won't consider her husband's opinion at all and divorce will definitely come up. The husband self is a mumu. She has used feminine deception to cloud his mind finish.

Stamping her authority over her son shower who the boy’s mother is. A complete tiger in the house, who would not allow a rival, in his son’s wife. There is no experience there, but what politicians call “judicial recklessness”. This one should be entitled “mother in law recklessness”.

The church to attend by couples after marriage sometimes is a very big issue. However, because they attend counseling selling before marriage, couples usually find common grounds for peace.

Catholicism is like strong wine. Very hard to let go. Complete indoctrination, make life very easy. If you are born a catholic, you feel your roots deeply in it. Catholicism teaches you great things about Christianity and impacts you positively all your life.
How can you pull a staunch catholic way from his/her church?

Sadly, it was an error on the part of the young man and the lady to disagree over the matter. It could have been resolved between them, without the interference of the mother. With such a mother, that boy and any woman that he finds may not have peace.

bassdow:
Matter such as this would continue TiLL MeN have sense enough to understand partnership between 2 people where financial and/ or investment is done by only one party (the Man), the other party (woMan) has (almost) nothing to LOOSE and could walk away any time.

WoMan wey build Man, no fit just wake one Morning, divorce am. If to say the WoMan follow invest just 40% or even 30% in said wedding, You think She wouldn't find ways to make things work.

Men, make Una continue to dey M-u-M-u as usual

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.I don't know you but I would find you one day and I will buy you beer with pepper Soup 💯💯🔥🔥

From the story, it's nit the bride that called of the wedding but the mother inlaw

Check the body language of the couple.

It's going to be another Lande and Baba Tee Doggy wife affair !!

AgainstIslam:
She dodged a bullet!

She really did. And she looks gorgeous and has now been "advertised"

worldclass68:
*The husband nah (mummy boy) as nah his mom dey control him and he makes it obvious.
* the husband wouldn't have a say in his house, as per why the wife dey refuse him what is norms on simple thing as church matter, then mom stepped in.
* wife won do yanga small unknown to her that mother-in-law sef no like her....

Best they both part ways!

Women hate themselves so much that older women aggressively protect their male children from younger women.

The lady actually dodged a tsunami. That mother in law would have been her nightmare. Shes lucky, make she go thank God and lucky for a better man

So this was not discuss until the Wedding invitation was printed?

They are bunch of confusionist.

QuinQ:
You can buy asoebi but you can't buy food. Hmmm

Not everyone takes food to wedding, when they already knew they'll always be food ready to be served nah

QuinQ:
She really did. And she looks gorgeous and has now been "advertised"

Àbí O. Any man that still take instruction from parents before deciding what to do in their marital life is not worthy of being called a man.

Islie:
https://www.chronicle.ng/marriage-romance/bride-calls-off-wedding-over-refus-church/#:~:text=bride%20was%20left-,heartbroken,-.

All the actors in this movie are all up coming actors. GenZ would be husband still tied to the mother's apron. The wife also been stubborn.. And both of them immature. If they had continued into the marriage.. it would have crashed within 4 months. It's better it was cancelled now. There was no love. The marriage was arranged period.

All these so called religious people ehn, ta.

trentslawson:
Not everyone takes food to wedding, when they already knew they'll always be food ready to be served nah

If you must eat out, there are mama put and food joints all over the place

The groom is still a child
My mother my mother all over the post. The bride dodged a bullet.

Dhoneymix:
She called it off because the groom's mother was a major part of the decision making. The decision of the church to attend is just one of the various interventions from the mother.

She's right to have walked away.

Its good the mother intervene cos experience they say is the best teacher, A lady was telling me the other day that any man that will marry her must go to her church and I was like haba are you not the one to go to your husbands church after marriage and she became mute..

The only issue here is the guy doing like sisi before the supposed bride, thank God the mother stood in his weakness for him and prevent a possible future divorce

Danisaint112:
As a Catholic and Christian who has been to many Pentecostal churches and seen hell there, I would say this is the best decision for them. May God help her find a man with the same belief and ideology.

Most Pentecostal churches make you feel like you’re in a cult as a Catholic. I even attended a dying ministry led by a so-called pastor from Mountain of Fire, and guess what? The topic of the day was the Catholic Church! I was so pissed at the rubbish that man was vomiting — it literally took the grace of God for me to sit till the end of that service.

There is literally no Pentecostal church in Nigeria I haven’t been to, When I was in search of miracles and financial breakthrough. If you see the kind of abracadabra going on behind the scenes, you go shock! Fake testimonies, fake miracles, fake deliverance — I saw it all.

But these money-mongers that call themselves pastors will always want to make you feel like once you’re in the Catholic Church, you’re doomed for hell. Meanwhile, the corruption in their own churches is 7 times worse.

Jehovah’s Witness members even have far more respect, in terms of criticism, compared to Pentecostal church members.

But what really made me swear never to attend any Pentecostal church again is this — these churches will always invite you as a Catholic to attend theirs. And we honour the invite. But for them to step into a Catholic Church? Never! Except it’s for a wedding or naming ceremony.

In fact, it’s even easier for a Muslim to attend a Catholic program than for a fellow Christian worshipping in a Pentecostal church to do so.

And I keep wondering... aren’t we all Christians? Aren’t we worshipping the same Christ? So why the segregation?

Well, after all my waka up and down, I just came to realize — No church is the best but Catholic Church is the best place to be. I am a Catholic, I will marry a Catholic, and I will die a Catholic.

Honestly, I observed this too.

yewawa:
My congratulations to the Groom...Thank God for your life and prayerfully look for another wife.if you don't believe me,God just saved you...

Like I always say...."The angel you are looking for in churches and mosques might just be coming out of an hotel or even a shrine,so,be open minded when choosing a life partner".

U re even congratulating a man that couldn't decide for his supposed intended family and allow it in the hands of his mother??
Why would a supposed grown up man allow such a major decisive situation to his mother if not a child and mummy's boy?? And u think the mother ll not interfere in their matter??
Who dey raised these kind men??

AgainstIslam:
Àbí O. Any man that still take instruction from parents before deciding what to do in their marital life is not worthy of being called a man.

She's very lucky. That woman for make her married life miserable till they split

Thundafireseun:
They were never in love …

This kinda senseless couples are the ones who bring in nuisance into Nigeria as kids ….

Imagine the nansense

Do girl's fall in love again

Just to escape the poverty in their families.

Or just for the so called "Wedding"

Courtship is meant for discussions about your future together, if only it was used for that purpose and not just f*cking, this would have being avoided

akaahs:
U re even congratulating a man that couldn't decide for his supposed intended family and allow it in the hands of his mother??
Why would a supposed grown up man allow such a major decisive situation to his mother if not a child and mummy's boy?? And u think the mother ll not interfere in their matter??
Who dey raised these kind men??

A good mother she is standing for her son to prevent a possible future problem for her son's family if she fails to stood her ground for her.....

Religion has caused a lot of damage to people and families which is not in anyway related to the principles of Yahweh for families and marriages

Girl, you just dodged a useless Mumu’s boy