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Pastor Cancels Wedding Over HIV Status Of Couple In Ghana by EmagNig(m): 3:28pm On Nov 05, 2018
A Ghanaian pastor over the weekend reportedly cancelled a wedding over the couple's HIV status.

According to a report by Yen Ghana, the couple identified as Joyce Waithera and Paul Waithaka were instructed to take a HIV test before walking down the aisle and when the results came in, the pastor refused to officiate their wedding.

The cleric, Jesse Karanja, even went as far as calling the police to drive the couple's guests out of the church compound.

The bride and groom could not bear the embarrassment and decided to stay away from the premises leaving the guests to feast on the food before leaving.

Everything from the decorations, sitting arrangements to the cars meant to ferry the bridal party went to waste after pastor Jesse refused to show up for the ceremony.

According to a guest close to the family, Jesse kept giving insensible excuses as to why the wedding could not take place.

"The pastor has been taking us round in circles since 10.30am to 6.30pm. He has given us excuses that do not make sense then decided to call the police for no reason. He is not a doctor and cannot comment on the couple's status," the irate guest let out.

Another guest stated the pastor had his own personal problems but had no right to transfer them to the couple that just wanted to be united as man and wife.

"I just pity their parents because I do not know what is going on in their minds," he said.

A church elder was later recorded saying the Mizpah House of Prayer does not tolerate immorality and proclaims a life of purity. According to the church, sex before marriage is frowned upon and couples are required to stay celibate before marriage.

https://lailasnews.com/pastor-cancels-wedding-over-couples-hiv-status/

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Re: Pastor Cancels Wedding Over HIV Status Of Couple In Ghana by ehhmah(m): 3:29pm On Nov 05, 2018
shocked












...when the results came in, the
pastor refused to officiate their wedding.

Summary: they were HIV+

Pst. Jeese issa badass
cool

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Re: Pastor Cancels Wedding Over HIV Status Of Couple In Ghana by NwaAmaikpe: 3:31pm On Nov 05, 2018
shocked


The pastor must be commended.

Being HIV+ means they have already been condemned by the Lord here on earth.
The pastor did what was right by not blessing the union of people already condemned.

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Re: Pastor Cancels Wedding Over HIV Status Of Couple In Ghana by GOFRONT(m): 3:35pm On Nov 05, 2018
What God has joined together, let no man put assunder.....


Maybe the bride is the pastor's sidechick....

But their guest had to stay back and chau the wedding rice to avoid food wastage.......

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Re: Pastor Cancels Wedding Over HIV Status Of Couple In Ghana by Sirheny007(m): 3:38pm On Nov 05, 2018
Before I comment @OP,
What was the HIV status of the couple
Negative or positive

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Re: Pastor Cancels Wedding Over HIV Status Of Couple In Ghana by LuciferKristi: 3:42pm On Nov 05, 2018
Why didn't the Pastor heal them first?

Wait sef, why did he need a scientific test to detect their religious "impurity"?
Shouldn't the Holy Spirit in him have felt that they were "impure"?

Does religion now depend on science to exist & function?

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Re: Pastor Cancels Wedding Over HIV Status Of Couple In Ghana by Ayoemrys(m): 3:45pm On Nov 05, 2018
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked


The pastor must be commended.

Being HIV+ means they have already been condemned by the Lord here on earth.
The pastor did what was right by not blessing the union of people already condemned.
go and sit down judge

does the pastor abstain before marriage?

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Re: Pastor Cancels Wedding Over HIV Status Of Couple In Ghana by Himmler: 3:49pm On Nov 05, 2018
Ignorant and uncivilized pastor

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Re: Pastor Cancels Wedding Over HIV Status Of Couple In Ghana by SilentVboy: 4:07pm On Nov 05, 2018
Ayoemrys:
go and sit down judge

does the pastor abstain before marriage?
Did the pastor tell u that he abstained or did not abstain before marriage? Or he told u in your dreams abi?...

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Re: Pastor Cancels Wedding Over HIV Status Of Couple In Ghana by naijaboiy: 4:52pm On Nov 05, 2018
Dumb pastor didn't know that there are other ways one could contact HIV without having sex. And even if they have had sex he is in no moral right to judge.

After all they've decided to carry their cross together as man and wife instead of spreading it to other innocents.

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Re: Pastor Cancels Wedding Over HIV Status Of Couple In Ghana by thorpido(m): 6:21pm On Nov 05, 2018
He's ignorant!
As long as they both know their status,there's no reason not to join them

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Re: Pastor Cancels Wedding Over HIV Status Of Couple In Ghana by Sirpaul(m): 6:21pm On Nov 05, 2018
Good one. that will never happen in Nigeria.
Re: Pastor Cancels Wedding Over HIV Status Of Couple In Ghana by bentlywills(m): 6:24pm On Nov 05, 2018
Good one pastor
Re: Pastor Cancels Wedding Over HIV Status Of Couple In Ghana by backnbeta(f): 6:26pm On Nov 05, 2018
They should have done the the medicals first! If there is any hitch, the couple can decide to go ahead or call it off. Why wait till the D-day before cancelling? Not fair on the couple.

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Re: Pastor Cancels Wedding Over HIV Status Of Couple In Ghana by saniabizz45: 6:26pm On Nov 05, 2018
It doesn't make any different , no minus , no sub, the man have already paid the bride price of the lady ,so that alone makes the women his wife legally,, what concerns the pastor about their status, see let me come down well , na because the lady be member of him church make pastor dy past of the film , if not notn concern am , base on the custom of land recognise the couple as husband and wife....

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Re: Pastor Cancels Wedding Over HIV Status Of Couple In Ghana by Gullah: 6:27pm On Nov 05, 2018
The pastor was wrong

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Re: Pastor Cancels Wedding Over HIV Status Of Couple In Ghana by PenlsCaP: 6:28pm On Nov 05, 2018
Hm
Re: Pastor Cancels Wedding Over HIV Status Of Couple In Ghana by MANNABBQGRILLS: 6:29pm On Nov 05, 2018
This is emotional
Re: Pastor Cancels Wedding Over HIV Status Of Couple In Ghana by Houseofglam7(f): 6:32pm On Nov 05, 2018
W.T.F
Re: Pastor Cancels Wedding Over HIV Status Of Couple In Ghana by jericco1(m): 6:32pm On Nov 05, 2018
omoh water don pass garri o. I don't think that's the best thing to do

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Re: Pastor Cancels Wedding Over HIV Status Of Couple In Ghana by Tetragramaton(m): 6:33pm On Nov 05, 2018
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked


The pastor must be commended.

Being HIV+ means they have already been condemned by the Lord here on earth.
The pastor did what was right by not blessing the union of people already condemned.

Imagine people who have HIV reading this comment? Be careful . be very careful so God doesn't condemn you and your generation.

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Re: Pastor Cancels Wedding Over HIV Status Of Couple In Ghana by soliddust2020: 6:33pm On Nov 05, 2018
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Re: Pastor Cancels Wedding Over HIV Status Of Couple In Ghana by GMPO(m): 6:46pm On Nov 05, 2018
HONESTLY SPEAKING, THE COUPLE SHOULD TAKE 70% OF THE BLAME.WHY THE DELAY TO SHOW THE RESULT OF THE MEDICALS TO THE PST.THEY SHOULD HAVE ALSO KNOW THE PASTOR TO BE A NO NONSENSE MAN SO THEY OUGHT TO EXPECT THE EMBARASSMENT THEY GOT.GOD BLESS EVERYONE.

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Re: Pastor Cancels Wedding Over HIV Status Of Couple In Ghana by Nobody: 6:49pm On Nov 05, 2018
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked


The pastor must be commended.

Being HIV+ means they have already been condemned by the Lord here on earth.
The pastor did what was right by not blessing the union of people already condemned.

You are right and wrong at the same time Nwa,

You said the pastor did well calling off the wedding, yes you are right because joining the two might cause an eternal regret.

But saying they were condemned by the Lord already is wrong.
Jesus don't condemn ppl more reason He did not condemn the harlot woman that the Jews wanted to stone to death.

God is a merciful God.

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Re: Pastor Cancels Wedding Over HIV Status Of Couple In Ghana by NairaMaster1(m): 6:52pm On Nov 05, 2018
GOFRONT:
What God has joined together, let no man put assunder.....


Maybe the bride is the pastor's sidechick....

But their guest had to stay back and chau the wedding rice to avoid food wastage.......

Go and query HIV and see what will happen to you. You can call pastors any name but DON'T TRY HIV AT HOME!!!!

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Re: Pastor Cancels Wedding Over HIV Status Of Couple In Ghana by Funjosh(m): 6:55pm On Nov 05, 2018
They should go to registry and get married.
Re: Pastor Cancels Wedding Over HIV Status Of Couple In Ghana by yomalex(m): 6:58pm On Nov 05, 2018
But why
Re: Pastor Cancels Wedding Over HIV Status Of Couple In Ghana by Volcano12(f): 6:59pm On Nov 05, 2018
[quote author=NwaAmaikpe post=72704884] shocked


The pastor must be commended.

Being HIV+ means they have already been condemned by the Lord here on earth.
The pastor did what was right by not blessing the union of people already condemned.[/quote
Bush and ignorant people.God will punish that pastor,he will know no peace for humiliating the couple.I detest such acts by these persons who call themselves men of God,and the public at large.Those people might even have longer lifespan more than all of u saying rubbish here on Nairaland.mitchew!!!!!
Re: Pastor Cancels Wedding Over HIV Status Of Couple In Ghana by Abbeyme: 7:00pm On Nov 05, 2018
I feel the clergy acted in the best of faith of morals (in his prevailing circumstances). Remember that you cannot force the ministry to legally wed the couples if the officials have knowledge of any impediments against such acts.

But he fouled his own processes, if any. Pre-marital tests such as HIV and the rest are supposed to have been done in weeks leading to the wedding ceremony and only the pregnancy test be done in about 3 days to the wedding. Even if the result changes after the tests are done, the church would know that they have satisfied their own conscience and fulfilled their written law!

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