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Stupidity. These are some of the things you agree upon before printing an IV, You don't just wake from the sleep and trash a religious matter as nothing. I can't have my wife attend another denomination while I attend another. She can attend another branch while I attend another branch due to Maybe engagement in the interim. As a guide, only marry a born again believer, besides my mother shouldn't be calling the shot for me but the Holy Spirit and my conscience. I may be very easy on the surface but my mind is of steel when it comes to taking charge. I have fenced off families from my marriage, I don't want an external interference it's my cross.

Thought we all serve the same God,
I've always emphasized that religion is all scam.
Moralist will rule the world one day and we would all see how beautiful our world is.

Danisaint112:
There is literally no Pentecostal church in Nigeria I haven’t been to, When I was in search of miracles and financial breakthrough. If you see the kind of abracadabra going on behind the scenes, you go shock! Fake testimonies, fake miracles, fake deliverance — I saw it all.

Soo did you get the financial breakthrough?
(I'm trying to decide something)

koladata:
Even her pastor can tell her not to marry him because he's not a member if she pays her tithe regularly. They know when she gets married, she might change church and tithe is gone ... I"m talking from experience. The pastor will find all means to tell her they are not compatible

MMM MONEY must be made 👌💯

QuinQ:
Soo did you get the financial breakthrough?
(I'm trying to decide something)

Yes, I did when I abandon those churches and came to understand that it doesn't come from just prayers alone but smart work coupled with hard, consistency and patience.

Osanoghodua1:
Stupidity. These are some of the things you agree upon before printing an IV, You don't just wake from the sleep and trash a religious matter as nothing. I can't have my wife attend another denomination while I attend another. She can attend another branch while I attend another branch due to Maybe engagement in the interim. As a guide, only marry a born again believer, besides my mother shouldn't be calling the shot for me but the Holy Spirit and my conscience. I may be very easy on the surface but my mind is of steel when it comes to taking charge. I have fenced off families from my marriage, I don't want an external interference it's my cross.

But Tinubu's wife is PASTOR of a totally different religion. Maybe that's why he's president and you're nothing!

Good. Make everybody waka their own way.

Inspector and sergeant children. E no dey ever better for Nigerian Police people. If the parents no reap directly, the children go continue the reaping. If your papa na police, better be prayerful.

Twisted report, how come the bride who at the end of your write up , was begging and agreed to attend the groom's church ended up being the one that call off the wedding ?

Danisaint112:
Yes, I did when I abandon those churches and came to understand that it doesn't come from just prayers alone but smart work coupled with hard, consistency and patience.

Be honest, did you abandon before or after breakthrough?

Lamasta:
Its good the mother intervene cos experience they say is the best teacher, A lady was telling me the other day that any man that will marry her must go to her church and I was like haba are you not the one to go to your husbands church after marriage and she became mute..

The only issue here is the guy doing like sisi before the supposed bride m, thank God the mother stood in his weakness for him and prevent a possible future divorce

Indeed, that guy needs someone to make him tough, know what is write without quoting his mother in every conversation. I will be sceptical as a lady if a man always cites his mother whenever any important decision is to be made. It's a sign of weakness!

gift2xl:
This is simply lack of understanding on both side.
When the Bible said "woman be submissive" most women don't understand.
Simply agree with him, don't look at the mother's interference.
And her mother did not think well before seconding to her daughter.

and also d reason they should not be together. if they cant agree on this simple understanding, imagine the hell they will both face in the marriage

QuinQ:
If you must eat out, there are mama put and food joints all over the place

Can't be compared to wedding foods jare

cremedelacreme:
Stupid girl, you never ready to marry. Why marry a man if you will not follow him to his place of worship? Thunder faya you there.

That's why Tinubu is president and you're nothing!

Na the groom I blame na him cause am na agbaya him be... Btw be like say them be police children

Agbegbaorogboye:
What a truckload of hogwash

Thank God they never married

Na their kind dey give birth to nitwits like helinues

I can spot lies in the story though

Mynd44
Seun
Oam4j
Nlfpmod
Fergie001

Rule 2

alizma:
Twisted report, how come the bride who at the end of your write up , was begging and agreed to attend the groom's church ended up being the one that call off the wedding ?

You missed this part: "“If your mother is going to decide everything for you, then maybe we should call off the wedding.”

Dhoneymix:
She called it off because the groom's mother was a major part of the decision making. The decision of the church to attend is just one of the various interventions from the mother.

She's right to have walked away.

If it's same stuff I read yesterday, the lady tried by all means for the marriage to go ahead at the last minute but the grooms mum already sealed the fate the marriage will not hold.Marriage is somehow complex sha.its a give and take thing else it's bound to hit the rock.

trentslawson:
Can't be compared to wedding foods jare

Can be better - you choose what you want not whatever they serve

Dotherightthing:
Hope she won't regret it

There are MORE men than women quite alright. But there are VERY FEW responsible men

So submitting to his mum makes him responsible?
No responsible man will allow his mum make decision in relationship not to even talk about marriage.

Victoriousfight:
Na the groom I blame na him cause am na agbaya him be... Btw be like say them be police children

Police children? How?
** OK, I see

Thundafireseun:
They were never in love …

This kinda senseless couples are the ones who bring in nuisance into Nigeria as kids ….

Imagine the nansense

She was never invested in it

Ladies who invest so much never back out of a relationship or marriage aside domestic violence or neglect

Offspring of two different Military/Uniformed Fathers.....

Mouth go run
Only crayfish go bend
In this case.

Islie:
https://www.chronicle.ng/marriage-romance/bride-calls-off-wedding-over-refus-church/#:~:text=bride%20was%20left-,heartbroken,-.

Headline is different from the actual news
Nawa o
Nairaland u can do better na.

For those that rushed to comment without reading
Here is the summary
The groom said his mothers insist they must attend his church, the bride replied by saying if the mother is going to be deciding for him, then the wedding should be called off.
The groom went to his mother to report and the mother agreed that if the bride refused to attend the his church, the wedding must be called off.
The bride later went to beg and even agreeing to start going to the groom church but the groom mother said no, that the wedding can no longer happen
So it was the groom mother that called it off not the bride

Dhoneymix:
She called it off because the groom's mother was a major part of the decision making. The decision of the church to attend is just one of the various interventions from the mother.

She's right to have walked away.

She didn't walk away neither did she call of the wedding.The groom did and she was heartbroken.Read the article again

Dhoneymix:
She called it off because the groom's mother was a major part of the decision making. The decision of the church to attend is just one of the various interventions from the mother.

She's right to have walked away.

Did u read?
She didnt walk away
She even went to beg but the groom mother insisted that the marriage is off
Make una read first

mo9ice:
So submitting to his mum makes him responsible?
No responsible man will allow his mum make decision in relationship not to even talk about marriage.

It's not about the mum. If the lady cannot submit to her husband, she should remain single

What were they discussing during their dating & courting periods....?

Lamasta:
A good mother she is standing for her son to prevent a possible future problem for her son's family if she fails to stood her ground for her.....

Religion has caused a lot of damage to people and families which is not in anyway related to the principles of Yahweh for families and marriages

Ogah, is she supposed to advise him and allow him make his decision or imposed her opinion on him Is the guy in question a boy or an infant the mother is standing in for him

QuinQ:
Be honest, did you abandon before or after breakthrough?

Before. The answer to this question is in my last comment, if you had paid attention reading you would have properly observed the word - "Abandon."

The saying, that you have to be really prayerful to attain financial success is false.

Simply communicate with your God in the way you can. Know him, believe in him and serve him to the best of your strength. Don't over do it.

There are some people that don't even know God but still progressing more than you can ever imagine.

"The level of your success depends on the level of your mindset, discipline, consistency, and effort." ~Danisaint (quote me anywhere).

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Palmpay

They, the bride, the groom, and mother in-law, are all repulsive beings