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Dhoneymix:
She called it off because the groom's mother was a major part of the decision making. The decision of the church to attend is just one of the various interventions from the mother.

She's right to have walked away.

which church should she have attended?

Both the bride and the groom are still children so they're not matured enough to marry.

Why would you allow your mother to dictate your life? She doesn't have the right even if she's the main sponsor.

On the part of the Bride, why would she refused to respect her husband to be by agreeing to follow him to his church? Is it that she wants to be the husband and dictate (control) to her husband?

Islie:
https://www.chronicle.ng/marriage-romance/bride-calls-off-wedding-over-refus-church/#:~:text=bride%20was%20left-,heartbroken,-.

Both of them are not ok, making attending churches define their lives, the mother have successfully given their children bad logo

louken:
Since they couldn't find a common ground, aborting mission was the best option, else they would have a marriage filled with bitterness, rancour and frustrations.
They are not meant for each other.

This is the purpose of courtship.
Find out all the common grounds and agreements first before carrying canopy and inviting guests.

Even without involving d mother It i s normal that the bride joins her husband in his church after wedding. Well, it's better they go separate ways . I see the woman frustrating that guy in marriage.

Religion is politics

Exceed15:
Even without involving d mother It i s normal that the bride joins her husband in his church after wedding. Well, it's better they go separate ways . I see the woman frustrating that guy in marriage.

Don't you see groom as mummy pet going into marriage?

Learn how to balance it opinion and purge urself from prejudice, if you want to leave a life devoid of bitterness.

Danisaint112:
That's why I decided to stick with my Catholic, where nobody send your papa, where no body will force (blackmail) you to pay tithe, where nobody will bill you half a million Naira or more in the name of family deliverance.

Looool

Enemyofpeace:
Religion is politics

Or there is politics in religion

Danisaint112:
Before. The answer to this question is in my last comment, if you had paid attention reading you would have properly observed the word - "Abandon."

The saying, that you have to be really prayerful to attain financial success is false.

Simply communicate with your God in the way you can. Know him, believe in him and serve him to the best of your strength. Don't over do it.

There are some people that don't even know God but still progressing more than you can ever imagine.

"The level of your success depends on the level of your mindset, discipline, consistency, and effort." ~Danisaint (quote me anywhere).

Let this sink. I'm off to business.

Do you also know millions of people are doing the factors you highlighted and yet leaving in abject poverty? In as much success is not completely tying with prayers.

Success has link with both spiritual and factors you highlighted above, it's not necessary prayers in xtian or Muslim way, but spiritually u have ordained to be successful.

Dhoneymix:
She called it off because the groom's mother was a major part of the decision making. The decision of the church to attend is just one of the various interventions from the mother.

She's right to have walked away.

He be like you no read well...

Na the groom walk away...

The lady later begged... thinking say na joke ...but the guy mama insisted

Now the issue is ....the lady is controlling....the guy is a mummy's boy...so it will always be a clash of the titans between the two female genders...the guy go suffer taya...

So it's better they go their separate ways...

Some women should learn that, in marriage process. The groom-to-be's mother in some cases could have upper hand in certain decisions, especially if the groom-to-be has a special spot for his mother .

Words are powerful. She spoke it, and it came to pass. I guess the mother-in-law to be had a reservation for her, and for her to speak CALL OFF, triggered it.

This is a painful lesson.

louken:
Since they couldn't find a common ground, aborting mission was the best option, else they would have a marriage filled with bitterness, rancour and frustrations.
They are not meant for each other.

So,now,their Eyes Are Cleared 🌹.
This is supposed to be A Love Affairs involving their Future, firmly based on the Word of Life and Jesus Christ!
So,what happens?
So,So, Sorry 😔 for this kind of Story!
I'm depleted and Are there No Elders In The Church Before Now?
What was their Roles - in attending Or Not Attending Church?
Where Are the Maturity?
God have Mercy On These Ones!

Dhoneymix:
She called it off because the groom's mother was a major part of the decision making. The decision of the church to attend is just one of the various interventions from the mother.

She's right to have walked away.

You didn’t finish reading the story. She didn’t call it off. She suggested it and when the man followed through with her suggestion, she came back to beg but it was too late.
One Pastor was saying ‘knowing too much’ will leave many women unmarried. He’s not wrong.

akaahs:
Ogah, is she supposed to advise him and allow him make his decision or imposed her opinion on him Is the guy in question a boy or an infant the mother is standing in for him

The lady would have succeeded in manipulating the guy to marry him of not for the Mum that stood her ground and I appreciate her for that, if not the simp will come her in 2 years time to complain of this same issue

For this reason, you shall leave your mother and father and become one. So if they are not ready to leave their father and mother (place of worship), meaning they are not mature yet.

Dhoneymix:
Indeed, that guy needs someone to make him tough, know what is write without quoting his mother in every conversation. I will be sceptical as a lady if a man always cites his mother whenever any important decision is to be made. It's a sign of weakness!

The guy can be easily manipulated and the mother has seen the signs and decide to stand in the gap for him to do the right thing

Danisaint112:
As a Catholic and Christian who has been to many Pentecostal churches and seen hell there, I would say this is the best decision for them. May God help her find a man with the same belief and ideology.

Most Pentecostal churches make you feel like you’re in a cult as a Catholic. I even attended a dying ministry led by a so-called pastor from Mountain of Fire, and guess what? The topic of the day was the Catholic Church! I was so pissed at the rubbish that man was vomiting — it literally took the grace of God for me to sit till the end of that service.

There is literally no Pentecostal church in Nigeria I haven’t been to, When I was in search of miracles and financial breakthrough. If you see the kind of abracadabra going on behind the scenes, you go shock! Fake testimonies, fake miracles, fake deliverance — I saw it all.

But these money-mongers that call themselves pastors will always want to make you feel like once you’re in the Catholic Church, you’re doomed for hell. Meanwhile, the corruption in their own churches is 7 times worse.

Jehovah’s Witness members even have far more respect, in terms of criticism, compared to Pentecostal church members.

But what really made me swear never to attend any Pentecostal church again is this — these churches will always invite you as a Catholic to attend theirs. And we honour the invite. But for them to step into a Catholic Church? Never! Except it’s for a wedding or naming ceremony.

In fact, it’s even easier for a Muslim to attend a Catholic program than for a fellow Christian worshipping in a Pentecostal church to do so.

And I keep wondering... aren’t we all Christians? Aren’t we worshipping the same Christ? So why the segregation?

Well, after all my waka up and down, I just came to realize — No church is the best but Catholic Church is the best place to be. I am a Catholic, I will marry a Catholic, and I will die a Catholic.

your belief lines are faulted by the Bible. Why would Mary pray for you when Christ already taught you how to pray using his name only? Jesus even said that that his true brothers and family are those who are born again and not even the Mary. Yes Mary was just a holy medium to birth the saviour and not the Saviour herself. You praying to Mary's statue is idolatry and negates the laws of Jehova. Belief in purgatory negates the Bible that said that it is appointed unto man once to die and after that judgement follows immediately. These are examples of fallacies the Roman Catholic church teach.

Dhoneymix:
She called it off because the groom's mother was a major part of the decision making. The decision of the church to attend is just one of the various interventions from the mother.

She's right to have walked away.

Did you read the part where she was begging and was turned down.
The headline should have read; Groom calls off wedding over bride's refusal to join his church

Islie:
https://www.chronicle.ng/marriage-romance/bride-calls-off-wedding-over-refus-church/#:~:text=bride%20was%20left-,heartbroken,-.

Abeg, someone should locate her for me or give me her number.

Why would the groom approach and propose to someone like that

Danisaint112:
As a Catholic and Christian who has been to many Pentecostal churches and seen hell there, I would say this is the best decision for them. May God help her find a man with the same belief and ideology.

Most Pentecostal churches make you feel like you’re in a cult as a Catholic. I even attended a dying ministry led by a so-called pastor from Mountain of Fire, and guess what? The topic of the day was the Catholic Church! I was so pissed at the rubbish that man was vomiting — it literally took the grace of God for me to sit till the end of that service.

There is literally no Pentecostal church in Nigeria I haven’t been to, When I was in search of miracles and financial breakthrough. If you see the kind of abracadabra going on behind the scenes, you go shock! Fake testimonies, fake miracles, fake deliverance — I saw it all.

But these money-mongers that call themselves pastors will always want to make you feel like once you’re in the Catholic Church, you’re doomed for hell. Meanwhile, the corruption in their own churches is 7 times worse.

Jehovah’s Witness members even have far more respect, in terms of criticism, compared to Pentecostal church members.

But what really made me swear never to attend any Pentecostal church again is this — these churches will always invite you as a Catholic to attend theirs. And we honour the invite. But for them to step into a Catholic Church? Never! Except it’s for a wedding or naming ceremony.

In fact, it’s even easier for a Muslim to attend a Catholic program than for a fellow Christian worshipping in a Pentecostal church to do so.

And I keep wondering... aren’t we all Christians? Aren’t we worshipping the same Christ? So why the segregation?

Well, after all my waka up and down, I just came to realize — No church is the best but Catholic Church is the best place to be. I am a Catholic, I will marry a Catholic, and I will die a Catholic.

It would have bn the best except for most of those u Rev Fr. that are evil. I dont know why u choose to be Rev Fr. when u know u can not bear the sexual urge.

Arranged marriage…

She's exercising some authority. Her dad is a former inspector and the groom's dad is a sergeant. They should just obey the last command. Dumbo

The problem was not the boy's mother or that the girl is this and that. The problem is issue of church.

During courtship, church issue should have been thrashed out. Plus why did man go and look for catholic girl?. Man does not know that catholic church requires your children must be Catholics? So long as one of the parents is catholic?

If you love your church too much, marry person from your church abeg.

FORWARDEVERLY:
This is good news...
Make she slap the foólish man join sef....

I will always be a propounder of the theory of getting women pregnant before marrying them, na dem go dey beg you sef make you marry them, even their families go beg you ...
But most of Una go dey marry without belle and na why dem dey do all these Shakara for Una after all Una expenses.......
If she get belle she know say if you no marry am she go turn single mom and this would reduce her chances of landing a man let alone a dream man..
Men learn GAME.. you fools.

There is something you should know.

Catholic church requires that if one of the couple is catholic, any children they have must be brought up as Catholics.

So even if he trap the girl, the issue will be there

trentslawson:
Imagine, after buying asoebi & you left home expecting food when you get there, only to be disappointed

Better broken relationship than broken marriage with pikin on top

ElevationD:
Stamping her authority over her son shower who the boy’s mother is. A complete tiger in the house, who would not allow a rival, in his son’s wife. There is no experience there, but what politicians call “judicial recklessness”. This one should be entitled “mother in law recklessness”.

The church to attend by couples after marriage sometimes is a very big issue. However, because they attend counseling selling before marriage, couples usually find common grounds for peace.

Catholicism is like strong wine. Very hard to let go. Complete indoctrination, make life very easy. If you are born a catholic, you feel your roots deeply in it. Catholicism teaches you great things about Christianity and impacts you positively all your life.
How can you pull a staunch catholic way from his/her church?

Sadly, it was an error on the part of the young man and the lady to disagree over the matter. It could have been resolved between them, without the interference of the mother. With such a mother, that boy and any woman that he finds may not have peace.

The thing is even if they marry, they will never resolve it.

Catholic church recommends that any kids of the union must be brought up as Catholics

idahme:
Would you continue to footbyour bills yourself after the marriage if yes then yiu can continue to go your separate church if no then behave like a couple. You want to marry nut live like single?

You guys should stop saying this rubbish.
A lot of women are the ones footing the bills

Only very few men (I mean a minute few) foot all bills

Tareq1105:
Both the bride and the groom are still children so they're not matured enough to marry.

Why would you allow your mother to dictate your life? She doesn't have the right even if she's the main sponsor.

On the part of the Bride, why would she refused to respect her husband to be by agreeing to follow him to his church? Is it that she wants to be the husband and dictate (control) to her husband?

Because the mother has probably seen a lot of marriages where the people are from different churches and Dem go fight over which church the kids should be brought up in.

His mother saved him...He will realize soon or later.

Both of them are actually very stupid!