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RealNiggaDee:
Stupid simp , why would your mother decide for you ?...if your mother can detect for you, your wife sef go be the husband in the marriage.




Men! , you don't need to grow some balls , you've got balls naturally, pls make use of them .

Sometimes it's very good to heed to your parents advise, this may seem small but might turn out to be a major issue when they get married.

Dhoneymix:
She called it off because the groom's mother was a major part of the decision making. The decision of the church to attend is just one of the various interventions from the mother.

She's right to have walked away.

She is a wise woman.

Plateau, Kogi and Kaduna men behave like boys!

They are the real "My mama say"

Genital mismatch, the girl should be the one with penis while the guy with the other one.

nairalanda1:
The thing is even if they marry, they will never resolve it.

Catholic church recommends that any kids of the union must be brought up as Catholics

There is no must or by force in Catholic....u are just jumping into everybody's mention spreading falsehood....
..being a Catholic is not citizenship, or covenant ratified by blood or spérm that now makes the children by automatic or byforce catholics....

Its just a church people choose to attend and can decide not to go elsewhere to worship when they want

The mother in-law is right and wise in bringing up such a clause. It's a test of submissiveness which the girl failed woefully. A woman who puts up a fuss about leaving her church to attend her husband's church is not ready to be submissive at all in marriage. Let her Patiently wait for the mugu that will accept such rubbish from her.

advanceDNA:
There is no must or by force in Catholic....u are just jumping into everybody's mention spreading falsehood....
..being a Catholic is not citizenship, or covenant ratified by blood or spérm that now makes the children by automatic or byforce catholics....

Its just a church people choose to attend and can decide not to go elsewhere to worship when they want

I believe some parts of the Church still insist on that.

Regardless, beleif diffierences, even among protestant denominations have often hampered a marriage.

So the morons didnt have the conversation before they printed wedding IVs?

The lady dogged a missile!!

Imagine a man leaving all decisions to his mother! Unbelievable!!!!!

nairalanda1:
I believe some parts of the Church still insist on that..

U beliefs doesn't matter......

advanceDNA:
U beliefs doesn't matter......

Neither do yours.

Grow up, son.

louken:
Since they couldn't find a common ground, aborting mission was the best option, else they would have a marriage filled with bitterness, rancour and frustrations.
They are not meant for each other.

Once a courtship fails the next comment people make is "they were not meant for each other" .
Instead of facing the truth we are quick to draw conclusions.

If this is the true narrative, firstly the young man is not man enough to have a woman in his life, if his mum decides for him, secondly it's normal sometimes to have a slight issue with whose church to attend after marriage when both partners are of different denominations, sitting down and humbly discussing it to reach a compromise, coupled with maturity will eliminate that threat.
As long as the person believes in Jesus Christ, is genuinely born again, submits to bible based doctrines, that's most important thing.

This is what should have discussed during their courtship.

nairalanda1:
Neither do yours.

Grow up, son.

Hahahahhahaha ...this is hilarious .....telling me to grow up yet you the one that can't handle being showed your error....

It is not my beliefs ....Catholics don't force anyone .....

advanceDNA:
Hahahahhahaha ...this is hilarious .....telling me to grow up yet you the one that can't handle being showed your error....

It is not my beliefs ....Catholics don't force anyone .....

Your beliefs are irrelevant anyway.

louken:
Since they couldn't find a common ground, aborting mission was the best option, else they would have a marriage filled with bitterness, rancour and frustrations.
They are not meant for each other.

even if they got married na the mother of the groom go still scatter the marriage because a controlling mother inlaw that always wants to dictate what the couple does and have her way in all things is a disaster waiting to happen. The bride should go home and thank God that God delivered her from an intrusive and overbearing mother inlaw. Its the mother inlaw type that will be carrying all of her son's marital Buisness to pastor and pastor will be using the couple to cash out and then be playing on the intelligence of the wife

This bride didn't know what God delivered her from. She should be thanking God

May God not let any Weakling omo mummy man near me.tufiakwa

Danisaint112:
Yeah, he knows too well the existential threat they pose. That’s why I believe there would be limits and measures in place to keep these machines in check when the world goes fully robotic.

I’m talking cyborgs and full-fledged killer machines powered by AI, all in the name of an army (soldiers). Because, honestly, we will actually get there someday.

What you see in popular movies like Alita: Battle Angel and I, Robot by Will Smith is just a portrayal of the future — or at least a glimpse of what it might look like.

Maybe not in our time. But seeing how fast the world is moving in technological advancement, 700 years from now, this is bound to happen. And the results will be well evident.

But who is the "we" that will put measures in place? Even if, say, US, decides to put measures in place, how do they know China is following those rules and will not use it to surpass them. Countries like China or Russia where they can force everyone to, say, obtain the 666 mark (I saw a documentary about how China almost no longer use papee money or even cards, everything is by your phone and the govt also monitors you through it)

advanceDNA:
How is it misleading?? So what caused the breakup??

Church wahala" but the wedding didn't take place again because of the groom's mother not because of the brides decisions !!

Furthermore, the source disclosed that ”the groom said his mother clarified it that if the bride would not follow him to his church, the wedding is off.”

In reaction the bride’s eyes ”widened” in frustration as she retorted, “If your mother is going to decide everything for you, then maybe we should call off the wedding.”

”The groom, taken aback by her words, returned home and shared the conversation with his mother”, who also agreed to have the wedding called off.

As the wedding day approached, the bride, Patience, realised that her future mother-in-law wasn’t bluffing.

YoungBTCxchange:
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Did the mother just wake up and say she's canceling the wedding... She cancelled it first...
which was disrespectful by saying the mother is the problem....which mother in law will like such a woman

Over the years I've seen pple tag taking advice from their family as a redlfag..mostly becos it's not want they want......if the mother had said "buy a car for your wife"...will she be angry he's taking his mother's advice??

.. Nobody fell from the sky....they are product of a family who raised them to become who they are that u now met and want to marry
But hey!! . yall want to cut the input of these parents off because y'all are fvcking somebody's son or daughter......

She should go and find another man that doesn't take advice from anybody

nairalanda1:
Your beliefs are irrelevant anyway.

Lol....nigga is angry asf

nairalanda1:
There is something you should know.

Catholic church requires that if one of the couple is catholic, any children they have must be brought up as Catholics.

So even if he trap the girl, the issue will be there

You didn't understand my post either...
If what you said is the case, the man should let her be a Baby Mama, Simple.

If she refuses to switch, you make her a baby mama and of course you become a deadbeat...
No support, Nothing..
Body go tell her.

FORWARDEVERLY:
You didn't understand my post either...
If what you said is the case, the man should let her be a Baby Mama, Simple.

If she refuses to switch, you make her a baby mama and of course you become a deadbeat...
No support, Nothing..
Body go tell her.

You guys should realize that baby mama things always cause wahala....plus not all women want to be baby mama. Only jokes like Sophia who see it as eating money want that.

Police children

Samade7:
It would have bn the best except for most of those u Rev Fr. that are evil. I dont know why u choose to be Rev Fr. when u know u can not bear the sexual urge.

Yeah it's sure one of the spoilers. Reason I said that every church has it's baggages. You will see more of it in the pents.

They got the opportunity to get a wife but they don't stop at it. Female Choirs and ministers doesn't escape the rode in-between the thighs of the pastors.

Amid all desecration, there they stand every Sunday preaching righteousness with confidence. Quite Pathetic.

lendahand:
your belief lines are faulted by the Bible. Why would Mary pray for you when Christ already taught you how to pray using his name only? Jesus even said that that his true brothers and family are those who are born again and not even the Mary. Yes Mary was just a holy medium to birth the saviour and not the Saviour herself. You praying to Mary's statue is idolatry and negates the laws of Jehova. Belief in purgatory negates the Bible that said that it is appointed unto man once to die and after that judgement follows immediately. These are examples of fallacies the Roman Catholic church teach.

And you think placing flyers on cars and carrying handkerchiefs in the name of mantle isn't faulted by the Bible or seen as idolatry.

In as much as I acknowledge that their are some errors, It's nothing compared to negativity floating in the penticostal churches.

I will reiterate, non is the best, we all got our baggages, but Catholic is the best place to be (My opinion).

I would have loved to educate you on some of the errors/false statements you made there but I'm a very busy man. So I will let this fly for time sake.

Harddiskng:
I am not in support of the Man’s mother making decisions for his home.

She dodged a bullet jare.

If it was the Guy’s decision: no wahala. But your mother is the one make the decision for you to follow. Naa Red Flag

Pure fact. Her statement was right on his Mom lording over him.

In reaction the bride’s eyes ”widened” in frustration as she retorted, “If your mother is going to decide everything for you, then maybe we should call off the wedding.”

”The groom, taken aback by her words, returned home and shared the conversation with his mother”, who also agreed to have the wedding called off.

A lot of ladies do this only to regret. You have agreed to marry yet you are still playing hardball instead of demonstrating how submissive you are. No mother wants a stubborn unyielding wife for her son- in fact no family wants such. You went ahead to challenge your mother in-law (something she could never try with her own mother in-law while getting married). You proved you would wrestle the man’s authority every now and then.

You now came back begging after showing them what to expect. Aunty, you just disgraced your man in front his family for choosing you. He won’t hear the end of it.

EOD!

Islie:
https://www.chronicle.ng/marriage-romance/bride-calls-off-wedding-over-refus-church/#:~:text=bride%20was%20left-,heartbroken,-.

When it’s the turn of your brother or son to choose a wife, encourage him to choose an unyielding wife that would openly challenge his authority.

There’s a reason why a man is built hard and women built soft but that can be reversed for those who prefer the same anytime.

Danisaint112:
Pure fact. Her statement was right on his Mom lording over him.

Danisaint112:
As a Catholic and Christian who has been to many Pentecostal churches and seen hell there, I would say this is the best decision for them. May God help her find a man with the same belief and ideology.

Most Pentecostal churches make you feel like you’re in a cult as a Catholic. I even attended a dying ministry led by a so-called pastor from Mountain of Fire, and guess what? The topic of the day was the Catholic Church! I was so pissed at the rubbish that man was vomiting — it literally took the grace of God for me to sit till the end of that service.

There is literally no Pentecostal church in Nigeria I haven’t been to, When I was in search of miracles and financial breakthrough. If you see the kind of abracadabra going on behind the scenes, you go shock! Fake testimonies, fake miracles, fake deliverance — I saw it all.

But these money-mongers that call themselves pastors will always want to make you feel like once you’re in the Catholic Church, you’re doomed for hell. Meanwhile, the corruption in their own churches is 7 times worse.

Jehovah’s Witness members even have far more respect, in terms of criticism, compared to Pentecostal church members.

But what really made me swear never to attend any Pentecostal church again is this — these churches will always invite you as a Catholic to attend theirs. And we honour the invite. But for them to step into a Catholic Church? Never! Except it’s for a wedding or naming ceremony.

In fact, it’s even easier for a Muslim to attend a Catholic program than for a fellow Christian worshipping in a Pentecostal church to do so.

And I keep wondering... aren’t we all Christians? Aren’t we worshipping the same Christ? So why the segregation?

Well, after all my waka up and down, I just came to realize — No church is the best but Catholic Church is the best place to be. I am a Catholic, I will marry a Catholic, and I will die a Catholic.

No Catholic is a Christian. Many of them are just religious and very devoted, but most of them don't know what they are doing in there. The real cultist are hiding within the fore walls of Catholic Church.

I am not here to defend apostate protestant churches who gather crowds to milk them for their selfish benefits.

almarthins:
No Catholic is a Christian. Many of them are just religious and very devoted, but most of them don't know what they are doing in there. The real cultist are hiding within the fore walls of Catholic Church.

I am not here to defend apostate protestant churches who gather crowds to milk them for their selfish benefits.

Your statement have no base, so I won't even bother arguing. Now run along.

Kobojunkie:
Understanding what?

Nonsense and ingredient...
Nawa for this religion


Antiislam

techaboki:
You guys should stop saying this rubbish.
A lot of women are the ones footing the bills

Only very few men (I mean a minute few) foot all bills

Yiu are really delusional , a lot of women that we don't see? Only a minute percentage of women do this as an obligation to the family the other don't even see themselves as part of the family to even warrant them investing their money for the benefit of the marriage and family.

Are you reffering to women giving loans to their husbands to augment family expenses which they stilll expect same money which they are the large consumers to be refunded back to them?

Quite already, some ladies are trying but not what you so depict @ bolded