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Dis one don Carry problem

He exes were around...

Many of these women una dey marry every Saturday na olosho dem be...

When it's time, una go get sense...

jetguy:
She's not done with her olosho work
Why forcing her into marriage 🤦🤦

my taught too

Juliearth:
You should have at least probed to know why it's so, rather than trying to push a narrative.


The bride is expected to put up this show. Her groom and his friends are to shower her with money and this continues until she smiles.

This sounds like a ritual
I suggest she should be careful with her husband and his friends

MrNipplesLover:
He exes were around...

Many of these women una dey marry every Saturday na olosho dem be...

When it's time, una go get sense...

chai

It's Rivers state (Calabari tradition), even though I don't like it.
She performed excellently...
They keep spraying the bride money till she deems fit then smiles

Women are the happiest during wedding ceremony because it's a day they have always dreamt of. In this case, something is wrong. May be he coerced her into marriage. I pity the man eh!

The idiot man is aware

She really miss her super boyfriend while in school ,they lived couple's life together with marathon sex and others and this yeye man just show up for forced marriage

jetguy:
She's not done with her olosho work
Why forcing her into marriage 🤦🤦

Lolz.

Exceed15:
Women are the happiest during wedding ceremony because it's a day they have always dreamt of. In this case, something is wrong. May be he coerced her into marriage. I pity the man eh!

No be small pity.

The husband should have called off the wedding. She's unhappy about something, and she's the type that can torpedo her own wedding over some small matter she's unhappy about. This happened to someone I know and the marriage didn't last two years.

they better separate them now b4 they kpai themselves

writetopoka:
Her boyfriend is around, I can bet you. And she so much love the boyfriend

He actually discovered a secret about the groom

Baronthecelebri:
Stupid woman

point of correction Stupid lady because she is not up to woman

How many times will they repeat it to you numbskulls that its part of their tradition over there?

PheelzAlmighty:
She just discovered that Emeka Japan is just a guy name, Emeka never travel out before

it means Emeka lived in Japan for more than 10 years b4 coming back to Nigeria to develop lagos.

ricson11:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9_OPV8MHeS4?si=6u7aS1ukphjRH5xQ

The bride refused to smile on her wedding day for over 20 minutes, leaving guests puzzled and stirring whispers across the venue.

Some speculated nerves, others suspected deeper emotions behind the stoic expression

But must she smile on her wedding day...
Please let people live their lives as it seems fit...
Wanting to subjugate her to cultural expectations should be rebuffed vehemently

ricson11:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9_OPV8MHeS4?si=6u7aS1ukphjRH5xQ

The bride refused to smile on her wedding day for over 20 minutes, leaving guests puzzled and stirring whispers across the venue.

Some speculated nerves, others suspected deeper emotions behind the stoic expression

Meaning she later smiled after 20 minutes, ehn no wahala na, you know whether na bet? 🤕

Going through the comments like seriously this is a tradition in some part of Nigeria I don't know the place exactly.

YORUBA ADAGE , SATURDAY TO MA DAARA JIMOH LATI MA MO ,

English meaning

The Saturday hopefully to be nice/good shall be determined by Friday , thank u all (ire oo)

Acidosis:
Is frowning until you're spoiled with money supposed to be fun? It's really unfortunate how we adopt certain behavioural deficiencies and call it "culture. "

You’ll attend a Nigerian wedding, and everything will feel so dry. It’s mostly just a bunch of clowns trying to cash out: from the alaga iduro (or mc) abusing all privileges to make money from a man who's probably exhausted his life savings, to the thieving caterer or usher trying to loot meat and jollof, to even the couple selling overpriced aso-ebi to co-conspirators from the same WhatsApp group. And you'll wonder why our society reeks of perpetual greed and theft.

This is why people travel to other countries, experience love, and face culture shock, because the money-driven, morally-depraved love they know back home is completely different from what exists in other places.

We all need to do better.

Tradition is tradition

I come from Imo State. In my place one of the things you do before you marry is give everyone gifts. Even the bright kingsman that don't know her full name you will give

You keep giving out till everyone smiles. In this economy that is easily millions or hundreds of thousands at the least

Snowx:
The groom is on a long thing..

Is a normal thing, is an ijaw traditional marriage, it is done in every marriage in Bayelsa

Juliearth:
You should have at least probed to know why it's so, rather than trying to push a narrative.


The bride is expected to put up this show. Her groom and his friends are to shower her with money and this continues until she smiles.

so only money will make her smile?

Even on her wedding day?

No wonder many marriages have problem, imagine spending money to get your wife to smile

JuanDeDios:
No be small pity.

The husband should have called off the wedding. She's unhappy about something, and she's the type that can torpedo her own wedding over some small matter she's unhappy about. This happened to someone I know and the marriage didn't last two years.

Hmm . If you struggle to marry a girl, be ready to struggle to keep her.

jetguy:
She's not done with her olosho work
Why forcing her into marriage 🤦🤦

Marriage doesn't stop them. They fvck better as married women. Married women who were runs women before marriage are always available for fvcking to make more money. Marry a virgin.

It's an Ijaw Tradition

JuanDeDios:
No be small pity.

The husband should have called off the wedding. She's unhappy about something, and she's the type that can torpedo her own wedding over some small matter she's unhappy about. This happened to someone I know and the marriage didn't last two years.

After spending na fortune for the ceremony..


Who go refund am ..

Wey him never even chow the puna ..

No oo

Make him use her for like 6montjs first then return her to her father's house .

Na by force

Lalami3232:

Baba this is not allowed. Thou shall not be muted on this matter arising.

ruggedtimi:
Is an ijaw wedding culture...Is a normal thing.

exploitative behavio is a cultural thing? Ride on

Then we should all smiles on her behalf, nonsense

She been want run the guy streets but the guy smart pass her