₦airaland Forum

wazobeer:
She shared a similar story years ago... The man who was once governor died like an ordinary man. At the end of the day, what shall it profit a man to gain the whole world and lose his soul? Such is the case of the politicians and cultists in our society today.

Many people are still toeing the same path till now, looking for wealth and power through occultism and fetish practices, but after a few years of having the money, with no grace in their lives, they end up sad and destroy their families.

I don't understand, how was he supposed to die. The man lived to a ripe old age for crying out loud! I am not saying that what he did was right (I don't even know if he did anything at all), but saying that he 'died like an ordinary man' .......
Even Christ died like a criminal despite never having a sin to his name.

2mch:
It has never been safe to travel at night. Did you miss the part where her brother burnt to death in the car and she was molested by rescuers? Which child will forgive and forget that? All because the father had to have sex before travelling. The driver who is probably a breadwinner to many also died. Do you know what his wife and kids must have faced in life because of the promiscuity of one person? Some of you don’t think at all. Put everyone in danger because of selfishness and perversions.

Calm down!

Nobody was sure where the man was... The caliber of a man who later became a governor could have been anywhere not necessarily having sex...Also it was once quite safe and fun too in Nigeria to travel at night...I believe you would have heard this from older people if you want to be sincere with yourself...

You cannot eat your cake and still have it...She is not rejecting the man's wealth even with his imperfections but disowning the man for his mistakes due to imperfections...





Some of you don't think deeply!

Hmmm

Fortune109:
Calm down!

Nobody was sure where the man was... The caliber of a man who later became a governor could have been anywhere not necessarily having sex...Also it was once quite safe and fun too in Nigeria to travel at night...I believe you would have heard this from older people if you want to be sincere with yourself...

You cannot eat your cake and still have it...She is not rejecting the man's wealth even with his imperfections but disowning the man for his mistakes due to imperfections...





Some of you don't think deeply!

I see you are like this Governor, so fighting tooth and nail with selective reading to make a point. Those who don’t learn from the failures of elders will fall into the same pit.

It has never been safe to travel at night especially in older days. A lot of people hurry to travel during the day because unlike now, you can travel many kilometers without seeing anybody. Armed robbers were terrorizing Nigeria at one point. Absolutely no light too on the roads at that time. Only a very foolish person will want night to meet them on the road. Go and ask your elders. Armed robbers will throw stone, drag spikes on the road. Many lost their lives.

kennyz247:
Ds woman no get brain

Maybe na your mama be the witch wey she dey talk about

Oladat:
I don't understand, how was he supposed to die. The man lived to a ripe old age for crying out loud! I am not saying that what he did was right (I don't even know if he did anything at all), but saying that he 'died like an ordinary man' .......
Even Christ died like a criminal despite never having a sin to his name.

The focus is on his deeds, not really the way he died. And how dare you compare Christ to a mere mortal who was reported by his own daughter to be an occultist? Be careful with your comparisons next time please.

Ibechris2:
Any man that isn't ready to prioritise his family over outsiders is not ready for marriage.

Such a man is simply irresponsible and unworthy of his charge.... Simple


Even yours truly that's unmarried no dey joke with anything that concerns those I recognize as family.

This ancestor doesn't even understand how a matured man will still value skirt chasing over his own family. Like say Dem never see woman pants down before...


Some men na jhus total disappointment (not to this me o, to their ancestors)

AntiTerrorist:
He had the fame and the money but lost his family. That's his own price to the gods of politics. We don't hear the secret from others like him.

No he didn't. He may have lost Kemi, but he was surrounded by family 'till the last. His second wife and her three children were with him until he took his last breath.

Don't just believe something because Kemi said it.Unfortunately,the old man is dead and cannot defend himself

2mch:
The problem with all these prostitutes some men carry. They eventually ruin your life and your family. I remember Kemi blasting this man some years ago, so when he died I wonder if she will still blast him and she did. He prioritized sex over the safety of his family.

AntiTerrorist:
He had the fame and the money but lost his family. That's his own price to the gods of politics. We don't hear the secret from others like him.

Vanity of life, his younger brother was a Prof, he died earlier. He was always wearing white.

higgs:
Don't just believe something because Kemi said it.Unfortunately,the old man is dead and cannot defend himself

She accused him while alive too. This is not her first time.

wazobeer:
The focus is on his deeds, not really the way he died. And how dare you compare Christ to a mere mortal who was reported by his own daughter to be an occultist? Be careful with your comparisons next time please.

How dare you judge a man you don't even know based on the assertion of a bitter child. Hands up, I don't know him either, neither do I know Kemi, but what I deduce from her statement is that she's bitter that her father married another woman. That, in my opinion is the genesis of the problem.

Oladat:
How dare you judge a man you don't even know based on the assertion of a bitter child. Hands up, I don't know him either, neither do I know Kemi, but what I deduce from her statement is that she's bitter that her father married another woman. That, in my opinion is the genesis of the problem.

Keep wallowing in your ignorance... I don't have your time.

Bookhub:
Sorry aunty kemi,Many of us our parents really fuccked up they ruined our lives,my mum was the pillar of our home , when she died everywhere scatter, till date my family never unite we don't even love each other as we were dispersed at an early age we see each other as strangers.
As for me I will strive to be a better father to my kids,provide for them,unite them, protect them and give them all the love and good upbringing to make them better than me,I have really suffered trauma.

Sorry about that.

“My mother married an intellectual, a man who got his Ph.D at 26 years old. And he turned into a polygamist. Not that polygamists are not good, but the way it happened to my family.”

Excuses. I think people should quit pretending that they don't hate polygamy when in fact they really do

The hard and harsh truth we all don't want to hear is that " it does not matter what people say about you after you are dead and gone".

It is all their opinion .

SOME PARENTS, especially the FATHERS are the cause of Children's downfall

I thought the man refuted his death news/rumours.

theophorus:
Okay.

Dear Reader, please raise you Children well ooo, make dem no go cause Disgrace and wahala for town.

You dey believe Kemi wey her head no correct?

tiswell:
stop the pity party already,and stop saying too much about your supposed private life.
The people you are seeking sympathy from doesn't really care.
Your parents have done what they felt was right,keep it to yourself and l do yours

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NaijaNaWaa:
I said it. Mad woman.

Guys, especially the singles, pray and work towards a good wife. Every other thing in your life depends on that: your career, children, family, finances… if you check, it’s not unlikely that she was influenced by her mother.

We pray that children like Kemi Olunloyo don’t come to us.

You are the mad person here and your prayer is stupid. Careless father's have ruined the lives of their children, and this is a fact. Some will never want to see their parents again, because of what they did to them in their childhood, and these are facts. If you were raised in a proper home, thank your God and move on, and stop typing ignorantly.

kpankpangolo:
Initial gra gra. She will burst into tears once that casket is lowered. Annoying, uninteresting or whatever, at least his presence was registered in her brain. Once the mind is sure he won’t come back, water works.

Experiences of terrible childhood caused by wicked and terrible fatherhood/motherhood are real. Some only have black memories of their fathers or mothers and wish they never had them. If you had a proper upbringing, just thank your God and move on, and don't mirror life as you experienced it only

wazobeer:
She shared a similar story years ago... The man who was once governor died like an ordinary man. At the end of the day, what shall it profit a man to gain the whole world and lose his soul? Such is the case of the politicians and cultists in our society today.

Many people are still toeing the same path till now, looking for wealth and power through occultism and fetish practices, but after a few years of having the money, with no grace in their lives, they end up sad and destroy their families.

How was he supposed to die? He can't fly private jet to the great beyond now.

*Let it be clear that Olunloyo was a very simple man. What I'm reading here frankly does not apply to him. Madam Kemi has every right to how she views her dad but my own take is "do not over indulge your children at the crucial stages of their life development. Let them understand and experience the realities of life. Also, while finding emotional balance please balance things up as many won't understand."

tishbite41:
Toh
But the picture posted up there says otherwise
A picture is worth a thousand words

You no get sweet picture with your ex....same person who left a bitter mark on you

Shikena:
How was he supposed to die? He can't fly private jet to the great beyond now.

*Let it be clear that Olunloyo was a very simple man. What I'm reading here frankly does not apply to him. Madam Kemi has every right to how she views her dad but my own take is "do not over indulge your children at the crucial stages of their life development. Let them understand and experience the realities of life. Also, while finding emotional balance please balance things up as many won't understand."

Rest! 😒

oluwaseyi0:
The sexual assault part is not clear at all

The attacker didn't enter the car, they just attacked the car from outside, she was pulled out from the car by a rescuer, so at what point or who sexually assault her?

The rescuers? The doctors?

Some women/ladies just like throwing sexual assault into any and everything thinking it will make their case get weight even if it's a lie

Also the attack could have happen if they travel during the day, that's no one fault unless she is claiming the dad set them up

Two things
1. Maybe Dad set them up
2. Maybe Dad didn't give a flying fukck about them hence he told them to travel at night

voortrekker966:
Many people are not supposed to have children or pets.

A majority of them in Nigeria should have no business having children!

Saga16:
She hasn't recovered from whatever ails her.

Look around you at the 10s of millions of Nigerians in Nigeria existing in dire straits to this day to understand the impact that damage inflicted on children by parents can have on generations after them. Many people never wake up from it; most don't even realize the damage for what it is.

RealityKings1:
Sometimes it's good to forgive and move on. Its part of living

. That she refuses to mourn him does not mean she has not forgiven him. If you think forgiveness means hiding the truth or embracing evil, you are dead wrong.

Bookhub:
Sorry aunty kemi,Many of us our parents really fuccked up they ruined our lives,my mum was the pillar of our home , when she died everywhere scatter, till date my family never unite we don't even love each other as we were dispersed at an early age we see each other as strangers.
As for me I will strive to be a better father to my kids,provide for them,unite them, protect them and give them all the love and good upbringing to make them better than me,I have really suffered trauma.

This made me smile.
I have a very soft spot for responsible (married) men. May God give you the wisdom and patience to pull it off.

Kobojunkie:
. That she refuses to mourn him does not mean she has not forgiven him. If you think forgiveness means hiding the truth or embracing evil, you are dead wrong.

It's not about embracing evil but forgiving people who have done us wrong. That's forgiveness.
she won't get to see the man anymore

I sympathize with her over the trauma she's been having due to the horrific circumstances in her past. However, being caring and respectful to one's parents is a religious obligation that must be held unconditionally. She should have been magnanimous to her Dad.