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Re: My Wife Is No Longer Responsive To Sex by eastOFwest(m): 7:45pm On Apr 11, 2025
AntiTerrorist:
My wife's libido has decreased, and she's become less responsive to intimacy. Despite my efforts, she doesn't seem to be aroused or enjoy sex like she used to. While she hasn't denied me sex, I'm concerned about her satisfaction and don't want to be selfish. I'm wondering if there's an underlying issue or if there's something I can do to support her.
Have you "explored" this issue with you wife?
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Responsive To Sex by LeeSmart: 8:37pm On Apr 11, 2025
Samantha125:
So this is true? I've heard rumours about how some of you guys would rather use money to entice women rather than improve your bedroom game.

She will enjoy your money while enjoying a side dude that has mastered his bedmatics skills elsewhere... Money will never improve your sexual prowess... Allegedly most rich men are not even good in bed...😒😒😒
You the hear pigin English? Make i for fit explain am well for u.
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Responsive To Sex by EDGEof2MORO: 8:52pm On Apr 11, 2025
Samantha125:
So this is true? I've heard rumours about how some of you guys would rather use money to entice women rather than improve your bedroom game.

She will enjoy your money while enjoying a side dude that has mastered his bedmatics skills elsewhere... Money will never improve your sexual prowess... Allegedly most rich men are not even good in bed...😒😒😒
just like most fine girls no sabi fvck, very lazy in bed... dry toto gang
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Responsive To Sex by meobizy(m): 9:21pm On Apr 11, 2025
This happens once every week on Nairaland. Check both the romance and family sections. You will find answers there.

AntiTerrorist:
My wife's libido has decreased, and she's become less responsive to intimacy. Despite my efforts, she doesn't seem to be aroused or enjoy sex like she used to. While she hasn't denied me sex, I'm concerned about her satisfaction and don't want to be selfish. I'm wondering if there's an underlying issue or if there's something I can do to support her.
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Responsive To Sex by Farrason: 9:43pm On Apr 11, 2025
AntiTerrorist:
My wife's libido has decreased, and she's become less responsive to intimacy. Despite my efforts, she doesn't seem to be aroused or enjoy sex like she used to. While she hasn't denied me sex, I'm concerned about her satisfaction and don't want to be selfish. I'm wondering if there's an underlying issue or if there's something I can do to support her.
Get creative.

Give her special treats for sometime without touching her. When you eventually touch her... Suck her down to ground zero.
She will appreciate and be glad she married you. Works every time - she is woman!
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Responsive To Sex by Farrason: 9:47pm On Apr 11, 2025
iSense247:
If your wife is no longer responsive to sex, it's crucial to understand the potential causes and address them constructively. Possible factors include physical health issues, relationship dynamics, or mental health challenges, and open communication and potentially professional help may be necessary.

Understanding the Potential Causes:

Physical Health:
Medical conditions, hormonal imbalances, or certain medications can all impact libido and responsiveness.

Relationship Dynamics:
Lack of intimacy, communication problems, or unresolved conflicts can lead to sexual disinterest.

Mental Health:
Depression, anxiety, or other mental health challenges can also affect sexual desire.

Lifestyle Factors:
Stress, lack of sleep, and poor nutrition can all contribute to lower sex drive.

Steps to Address the Issue:
1. Open Communication:
Have an honest and open conversation with your wife about her feelings and concerns. Listen to her perspective and try to understand her perspective.

2. Seek Medical Advice:
If you suspect a physical health issue, encourage your wife to see a doctor for a thorough checkup.

3. Explore Relationship Issues:
Consider whether relationship dynamics are contributing to the problem. Couples counseling can be a valuable tool for addressing communication and intimacy challenges.

4. Address Mental Health:
If mental health issues are suspected, encourage your wife to seek professional help from a therapist or counselor.

5. Lifestyle Changes:
Consider lifestyle adjustments like regular exercise, stress management techniques, and a healthy diet, as these can positively impact sexual health.

Important Considerations:
It's not necessarily about "fixing" her:
Understanding her perspective and finding ways to meet your needs while respecting her boundaries is key.

Consider professional help:
A sex therapist or couples counselor can provide guidance and support in navigating this situation.

Be patient and supportive:
Change can take time, and it's important to be patient and supportive throughout the process.
Oga.... English doesn't solve everything. Sometimes act much and talk lesser or not at all. This is a wife and not girl friend. His best speeches worn her heart already to be his wife. His action now is to confirm her decision that it was not a mistake or out of confusion.
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Responsive To Sex by idahme(m): 9:55pm On Apr 11, 2025
Goodlady:
give her money
What does giving her money got to do with her sex drive? This hookup mentality is crazy, some women even behave worst than prostitute but are married. Obe can't differentiate a prostitute and a non prostitute these days because they both have same mentality.

Anytime she isn't in for sex he should subscribe until it becomes a norm if you don't give me money i won't have sex with you (prostitution).
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Responsive To Sex by Maski87: 10:16pm On Apr 11, 2025
Yahoo boys have entered your marriage and they don't mercy women
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Responsive To Sex by Nobody: 10:17pm On Apr 11, 2025
iSense247:
If your wife is no longer responsive to sex, it's crucial to understand the potential causes and address them constructively. Possible factors include physical health issues, relationship dynamics, or mental health challenges, and open communication and potentially professional help may be necessary.

Understanding the Potential Causes:

Physical Health:
Medical conditions, hormonal imbalances, or certain medications can all impact libido and responsiveness.

Relationship Dynamics:
Lack of intimacy, communication problems, or unresolved conflicts can lead to sexual disinterest.

Mental Health:
Depression, anxiety, or other mental health challenges can also affect sexual desire.

Lifestyle Factors:
Stress, lack of sleep, and poor nutrition can all contribute to lower sex drive.

Steps to Address the Issue:
1. Open Communication:
Have an honest and open conversation with your wife about her feelings and concerns. Listen to her perspective and try to understand her perspective.

2. Seek Medical Advice:
If you suspect a physical health issue, encourage your wife to see a doctor for a thorough checkup.

3. Explore Relationship Issues:
Consider whether relationship dynamics are contributing to the problem. Couples counseling can be a valuable tool for addressing communication and intimacy challenges.

4. Address Mental Health:
If mental health issues are suspected, encourage your wife to seek professional help from a therapist or counselor.

5. Lifestyle Changes:
Consider lifestyle adjustments like regular exercise, stress management techniques, and a healthy diet, as these can positively impact sexual health.

Important Considerations:
It's not necessarily about "fixing" her:
Understanding her perspective and finding ways to meet your needs while respecting her boundaries is key.

Consider professional help:
A sex therapist or couples counselor can provide guidance and support in navigating this situation.

Be patient and supportive:
Change can take time, and it's important to be patient and supportive throughout the process.
You can’t think for yourself anymore, AI is now helping you. Chai.
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Responsive To Sex by easytig(m): 10:18pm On Apr 11, 2025
If she is in her early forties,leave her alone, menopause is knocking maybe
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Responsive To Sex by Bittersweetnig(m): 10:20pm On Apr 11, 2025
AntiTerrorist:
My wife's libido has decreased, and she's become less responsive to intimacy. Despite my efforts, she doesn't seem to be aroused or enjoy sex like she used to. While she hasn't denied me sex, I'm concerned about her satisfaction and don't want to be selfish. I'm wondering if there's an underlying issue or if there's something I can do to support Check her Luggages if intimacy gadgets are not in there
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Responsive To Sex by Funflipper: 10:24pm On Apr 11, 2025
LeeSmart:
Bros if u ask me i go tell u make u try get serious money then u go see how ur wife libido go fly from 0-100....(for the jokes though)
Fact!! That na a million dollar advice you give am for free o. 😆
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Responsive To Sex by fitinwell: 10:26pm On Apr 11, 2025
AntiTerrorist:
My wife's libido has decreased, and she's become less responsive to intimacy. Despite my efforts, she doesn't seem to be aroused or enjoy sex like she used to. While she hasn't denied me sex, I'm concerned about her satisfaction and don't want to be selfish. I'm wondering if there's an underlying issue or if there's something I can do to support her.
Suck her cryptorist ... She go respond
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Responsive To Sex by BABANGBALI: 10:26pm On Apr 11, 2025
Her engine don knock be dat. She must have started very early
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Responsive To Sex by LoneSoldier: 10:26pm On Apr 11, 2025
That is a big magnifying red flag.... undecided
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Responsive To Sex by Haynnie: 10:27pm On Apr 11, 2025
AntiTerrorist:
Yes
If there's proper communication with your woman and you understand the situation going on with her it will help progress your sexual life. Anyway, I suspect she's going through stress or a physiological experience most especially when the sex is not good. It kills libido
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Responsive To Sex by BABANGBALI: 10:29pm On Apr 11, 2025
iSense247:
If your wife is no longer responsive to sex, it's crucial to understand the potential causes and address them constructively. Possible factors include physical health issues, relationship dynamics, or mental health challenges, and open communication and potentially professional help may be necessary.

Understanding the Potential Causes:

Physical Health:
Medical conditions, hormonal imbalances, or certain medications can all impact libido and responsiveness.

Relationship Dynamics:
Lack of intimacy, communication problems, or unresolved conflicts can lead to sexual disinterest.

Mental Health:
Depression, anxiety, or other mental health challenges can also affect sexual desire.

Lifestyle Factors:
Stress, lack of sleep, and poor nutrition can all contribute to lower sex drive.

Steps to Address the Issue:
1. Open Communication:
Have an honest and open conversation with your wife about her feelings and concerns. Listen to her perspective and try to understand her perspective.

2. Seek Medical Advice:
If you suspect a physical health issue, encourage your wife to see a doctor for a thorough checkup.

3. Explore Relationship Issues:
Consider whether relationship dynamics are contributing to the problem. Couples counseling can be a valuable tool for addressing communication and intimacy challenges.

4. Address Mental Health:
If mental health issues are suspected, encourage your wife to seek professional help from a therapist or counselor.

5. Lifestyle Changes:
Consider lifestyle adjustments like regular exercise, stress management techniques, and a healthy diet, as these can positively impact sexual health.

Important Considerations:
It's not necessarily about "fixing" her:
Understanding her perspective and finding ways to meet your needs while respecting her boundaries is key.

Consider professional help:
A sex therapist or couples counselor can provide guidance and support in navigating this situation.

Be patient and supportive:
Change can take time, and it's important to be patient and supportive throughout the process.
oga next time write copied and give credit to the rightful owner of what you copied
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Responsive To Sex by jaxxy(m): 10:32pm On Apr 11, 2025
AntiTerrorist:
My wife's libido has decreased, and she's become less responsive to intimacy. Despite my efforts, she doesn't seem to be aroused or enjoy sex like she used to. While she hasn't denied me sex, I'm concerned about her satisfaction and don't want to be selfish. I'm wondering if there's an underlying issue or if there's something I can do to support her.
My problem is she's right there next to u but u can't seem to read her both verbal and nonverbal communication.

That's a huge problem in any relationship talkless of in marriage.
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Responsive To Sex by abbey621(m):
You dey bang every 2 days, you dey do the same styles, dey bang for the same place, dey frown face for morning reach night and then for night you dey dive without any pre-intimacy......Oga no be juju be that?

Solution 1 is to do things during the day that excites her. You're too predictable, always available and the sex is too constant....BORING!
Solution 2 is to make sure she sees a doctor or OBGYN, some issues are solved medically rather than guessing.
Solution 3: Is to decrase her burdens, date her, take her out of town or country if possible, the kind bang wey you go bang after a full spa massage on a resort will blow her mind!
Solution 4: Learn forepley, breathe pre-intimacy and dream of pre-intimacy......This alone solves 80% of all libido problems!
Solution 5: There are herbal mixtures that boosts libido in men and women, seek NAFDAC approved vendors and shout halleluyah!
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Responsive To Sex by LoneSoldier: 10:34pm On Apr 11, 2025
Samantha125:
So this is true? I've heard rumours about how some of you guys would rather use money to entice women rather than improve your bedroom game.

She will enjoy your money while enjoying a side dude that has mastered his bedmatics skills elsewhere... Money will never improve your sexual prowess... Allegedly most rich men are not even good in bed...😒😒😒
Stop gratifying sex, I don't see anything beautiful in it.... Just two adults acting like he goat and she goat.... undecided

The so called rich men you say are not good in bed, have something upstairs that fetch them money, why your lousy side dude with no intellect whatsoever knows his bedmatics very well.... In summary, will bedmatics put food on your table.... undecided

That is why the rich will always be 1000 gap ahead from the poor... undecided
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Responsive To Sex by tuoyoojo(m): 10:37pm On Apr 11, 2025
Alright

When every you bring family issues to nairaland, you would get a wide range of suggestions from outrageous ideas to the right answers so it's best you have wisdom to sieve thru it all

If you have ensured there is no unresolved emotional issues between you guys, then it likely hormonal imbalance. Many women after child birth pass thru it and many suffer in silence. I had someone suffer this and despite the fact that I am not a fan of herbal mixtures, she took one and it worked. I recommend for another person and it worked too. It's called silky.kola. they have an insta handle. Check it out. You would see the results
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Responsive To Sex by Franking: 10:38pm On Apr 11, 2025
This life na only once o. Marry another one.
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Responsive To Sex by VicM6: 10:39pm On Apr 11, 2025
AntiTerrorist:
My wife's libido has decreased, and she's become less responsive to intimacy. Despite my efforts, she doesn't seem to be aroused or enjoy sex like she used to. While she hasn't denied me sex, I'm concerned about her satisfaction and don't want to be selfish. I'm wondering if there's an underlying issue or if there's something I can do to support her.
buy her cucumber nd thank me later
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Responsive To Sex by VicM6: 10:40pm On Apr 11, 2025
Samantha125:
Do you guys explore in the bedroom, or you just dive in like a scuba diver, do the famous "missionary" and it's times up?
Notin musa no go see for gate...explore in the bedroom when no be adventure them wan go...lol
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Responsive To Sex by DixseenMktPlace(m): 10:41pm On Apr 11, 2025
AntiTerrorist:
My wife's libido has decreased, and she's become less responsive to intimacy. Despite my efforts, she doesn't seem to be aroused or enjoy sex like she used to. While she hasn't denied me sex, I'm concerned about her satisfaction and don't want to be selfish. I'm wondering if there's an underlying issue or if there's something I can do to support her.
Thank God say you talk

Buy the drug on the photo below for her and thank me later on this same thread.

Abeg ask doctor if she fit take am oh
Make you no go put me for wahala but ma Wetin you talk say e dey worry your woman e dey work for sha

Re: My Wife Is No Longer Responsive To Sex by VicM6: 10:41pm On Apr 11, 2025
Juliearth:
If she has given birth, then it's likely PPHSDD (Postpartum Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder. Due to the hormonal, physical, mental and emotional stress and stretch that comes with childbirth, most women find themselves in this cocoon.

Also, the possibility of Postpartum depression is likely, especially if your wife is moody, anxious (for nothing) suffering from insomnia along side the symptom you complained about.


All the best!
abeg no vex o, that ur dp for ur account, na u bdat or na baby onike
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Responsive To Sex by stanislaus67(m): 10:42pm On Apr 11, 2025
GIVE HER MONEY
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Responsive To Sex by mrkings84(m): 10:43pm On Apr 11, 2025
You don knack her so Tay she enter menopause
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Responsive To Sex by VicM6: 10:45pm On Apr 11, 2025
Rokiat:
The illusion of love has wear off. Reality have set in.
Miss pepeye...abeg leave all those people jare....enh enh, how are u joor
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Responsive To Sex by Eniolafesty: 10:45pm On Apr 11, 2025
Age matters please. Consider that
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Responsive To Sex by Fuckyoumod: 10:53pm On Apr 11, 2025
AntiTerrorist:
My wife's libido has decreased, and she's become less responsive to intimacy. Despite my efforts, she doesn't seem to be aroused or enjoy sex like she used to. While she hasn't denied me sex, I'm concerned about her satisfaction and don't want to be selfish. I'm wondering if there's an underlying issue or if there's something I can do to support her.
life is simple until humans started complicating it.
If she doesn't open up to you, no matter what you do it will be waste of time.

She should be able to sit down with you her husband and tell you things about what's happening to her sexual response towards you, from there half the problem would have been solved.

No need killing yourself, if she isn't open enough to engage you like her husband so you can both solve the problem by helping each other.
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Responsive To Sex by pocohantas(f): 10:58pm On Apr 11, 2025
AntiTerrorist:
1. My wife's libido has decreased, and she's become less responsive to intimacy.

2. Despite my efforts, she doesn't seem to be aroused or enjoy sex like she used to.

3. While she hasn't denied me sex, I'm concerned about her satisfaction and don't want to be selfish.

4. I'm wondering if there's an underlying issue or if there's something I can do to support her.
Then you should be asking her.
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