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naim good for the man,,,ona too do,woman wey other men don turn fry back and front like akara,ona go simp go kneel down dey beg to marry,begin carry money wey you go invest into business wan lavish for wedding for her,,,just imagine how fine this IV card is,,,,,dem still tear gas baba,,,you dey play with woman? ;DIf you no get money dem go say you no get,if you get them go say them prefer who come from abroad lol

I know she is an Igbo. Read the title again: She ditched her wedding for an abroad based man her mother hooked her with. Hope that sounds very good to the ear.

Why are some wayward Igbo mothers like this? They are just too materialistic.

Even if I should consider any Igbo lady, it should be from Enugu and Ebonyi as they seem to be the only part of Igbo whose women have little bit of decent character.

Anambra, Abia, Imo damn! As one of my Igbo cumrade will say, Igbo women are the worst women to marry.

I don't have any beef with the Igbos. But their women are just too materialistic.

She is from family of Chioma people who was so desperate to have Davido at all cost. When it comes to money, you can have and bash as many as those girls from that land of setting sun.

[quote author=zero8zero post=134946229][/quote]Na Dem! Iboooooo😂😂😂😂😂

Nonexisting1:
The abroad man will definitely break her heart and her foolish cycle will be complete. I've seen this played many times and her case will not be different. Ogun will punish any mouth that says her case will be different.

Break her heart kuo. For abroad? Person she will drive from his own house and marry oyibo man?

She will chase the man out of his house. Abi u nor know how Nigerian women dey run am for abroad?

Beremx:
Mama dey do hook-up for daughter. The woman must be shameless. All for money and to travel abroad.

Waiting for her to come back and regret. Foolish woman

..and she does even know the true character and behavior of the man abroad does not know much about the man...all because the mañ base in abroad want to rush to marry him

Kobojunkie:
Stop making an issue of non-issues abeg! She is free to marry the one she wants to. 🙄🙄

Na Dem! Iboooooo😂😂😂😂😂

[quote author=zero8zero post=134946229][/quote]Na Dem! Iboooooo😂😂😂😂😂

Beremx:
Mama dey do hook-up for daughter. The woman must be shameless. All for money and to travel abroad.

Waiting for her to come back and regret. Foolish woman

Na their way ,money before anything

[quote author=zero8zero post=134946229][/quote]We live in very interesting times. What happened to sticking with someone & showing commitment to whoever you are engaged to? Unless you’ve seen red flags, surely between dating & engagement is a long path that must have given this lady time to think things through. Greed & lack of contentment has led many down a dark path where they suffer serious consequences & are unable to retrace their steps. I pray her abroad man is genuine. I pray the guy that was dumped will heal & find someone who’ll love him genuinely.

Nigga dodged a bullet, but at the same time, one of the mumu men out there...

Stop marrying olosho in disguise, una no go hear...

All those women una dey marry are public/streets properties...

Dem be waste bins for cum...

Una go get sense with time...

Lol Imo state women 😂

I could imagine what might be going on in the man's mind. The man's time was wasted while the lady mama was chopping for a befitting man for her. What will the man tell his friends about the situation? Assuming it is a man that treats a woman like that, the whole universe will be saying men are scum! I am deeply in my heart sorry for what the man is passing through! May God be with him, Amin!

Zionmdde:
Said someone supporting tinubu
So you are quick to spot stupidity like this. And you don't believe that being a tinubu zombie is the highest level of stupidity

Must you guys bring political sh*t into every topic?

Zionmdde:
Said someone supporting tinubu
So you are quick to spot stupidity like this. And you don't believe that being a tinubu zombie is the highest level of stupidity

Must you guys bring political sh*t into every topic? It's this same sh*t that brought down the once very famous Naijapals.

Happy for the man. Infact it's a big blessing for the man in Nigeria.

The young lady did no wrong.


All you Japa na nonsense should enjoy your paradise Nigeria Bola Tinubu have developed for you and let the smart young lady travel abroad to better her life, the life of her parents, siblings and unborn children.


Them no de use suffer brag, only foolish APC praisesingers and those they have deceived believe that Nigeria is better than abroad even as they go about their paradise Nigeria jobless, hungry, hopeless and downcasted on daily basis



She is a smart chick, Nne well done jareh, the guy she canceled wedding with should up his game he is a man, tomorrow he would remember this and laugh if he hustles well with the spirit of this disappointment, nothing spoilt

MrNipplesLover:
Nigga dodged a bullet, but at the same time, one of the mumu men out there...

Stop marrying olosho in disguise, una no go hear...

All those women una dey marry are public/streets properties...

Dem be waste bins for cum...

Una go get sense with time...

Na lie, you Nigerian men should stop sounding irrational like we men are Angels that do no wrong.


It's all about survival; the future of Nigeria is scary if you don't have a secured job or business or family background that can douse the tension in your heart.


Just take a look at how Bola Tinubu and his Yoruba government have damaged Nigeria's economy and currency? How do you expect youths to have confidence for the future with these gang of corrupt criminals and tribal bigots in power?


She might have been reluctant and praying for an improved financial life for her fiancee which wasn't coming forth and she just decided to accept his marriage proposal for the sake of accepting it while nurturing fear of her future and the future of her unborn kids in the marriage and then this opportunity presents itself.


Listen, all women marry for financial comfort and future guarantee, all, if you like believe otherwise. Once a woman have this confidence that with you that her future and that of her unborn kids will be guaranteed, she will become loyal to you and stay with you but the moment she starts feeling scared of the future, na otilo oh.


Nigeria's future is scary, things keep getting worst on daily basis. Traveling interstate on road in Nigeria is like a death warrant, moving around on public transport in certain Nigerian cities and towns is another death warrant, and even driving a good car in most Nigerian cities is also another death warrant, these are what many Nigerians are scared of, all thanks to Buhari and Bola Tinubu's APC governments.



Women marry for financial relief, guaranteed future and to help their parents/siblings and there is nothing bad in it, but every man must bear this in mind and not go about seeing himself as a super man that women love so much for his good looks and sexual prowess alone


Tuface Idibia no leave him wife of many years to marry Igbinedion's politician granddaughter to secure his dwindling financial economy?


Don't you see or hear of hundreds of Nigerian men who migrated abroad and abandon their finances and wives in Nigeria to marry oyimbo for a better life? So let's stop the pretence as if we Nigerian men are better and focus on holding our failed Nigerian leaders like Bola Tinubu accountable, they are the reasons Nigerians are doing all sorts of things; legal and illegal just to flee family/generational poverty and have a secured financial future

Dancebreaker:
Actually, Victor may have just dodged a bullet. It shows she just wanted to marry to tick the box, not because Victor ticked most of her boxes.

Victor should dust himself up and move on. He will meet the right lady ahead.

You're right, I'm still imagine how could someone behave like that, well, her next target may be for the new guy to get his share when the lady later divorce him and claim some major parts of his wealth.

[quote author=zero8zero post=134946229][/quote]It was her mother's doings. Choosing money over love...Igbo people's doings

Isaac Chijindu Victor (Prestige signature) as she allegedly said that the mom had already prepared another man living abroad for her

She is nothing but a glorified hook up girl pure and simple.

Even the abroad guy no go trust her,nd all eyes on them to c the guy wo do this lastly other men won't like mingle wit her again so as not b a victim

Blackdisciple:
Saying the mom has already prepared a man for her... If I'm in his shoes every dime will be return to me and kiss it a good boy .. no worries.
He should thank his God even if it seems late but it's better now than later

From your comment, can we safely say, marriage is legalized form of prostitution?

The dumped man should be happy cos it happens earlier beside I knew you saw the red flag but you choose to ignore it... Better for her, she left for a better choice nowadays everyone is looking for better option sha!!!

TimeManager:
Brother man, don't worry yourself too much, whatever down payments you have made for hall, foods, drinks, don't collect the refund, go ahead and use the hall, hire a cook and prepare lots of foods, let them supply the drinks, tell those you sent an invite to all come. But this time, for Thanksgiving. You need a big thanksgiving for dodging a bullet.


-Kiss the truth!

Who will do such for this Tinubu regime

Beremx:
Mama dey do hook-up for daughter. The woman must be shameless. All for money and to travel abroad.

Waiting for her to come back and regret. Foolish woman

Bro is this lies, she is from my kindred
She is a lawyer and the guy wants to marry her by fire by force which the lady never gave him yes as answer yet, and the guy had been scamming and owing a lot of pple , reason him wan marry lawyer sharply.. am from ehume Obowo in imo State and this happen in my neighborhood

Elporo:
Imo state women. ....

She is from my kindred,Ehume Obowo

meobizy:
She should not go back to the man if the union fails. That’s all I care about. Her mind is made up. No need to play a victim if things don’t work.

This guy wanted to rich the marriage die to she is a lawyer, and the guy had been eating pple money after business, my dear the story no add up, alot of shit happening..
I also ask why would she allow that photoshoot for the wedding?

immortalcrown:
If she was a man, we would hear, "Men are scum".

Anyways, na she sabi. But every choice has a consequence.

The dumped man definitely saw the sign but was blinded by lust. On the other hand, he is lucky for escaping a lifetime entanglement with a prostitute. The abroad man is jumping into fire.

Meanwhile, this story might even be a fiction, despite the attached wedding card.

Yes, she is my sister from same kindred..
I heard the guy do business and scam his co business partner, reason he rushed to marry her as a lawyer, I heard the lady never gave the guy answer of which she can marry or not yet,
But my question is, was she forced to do those photoshoot of the wedding?
Personally for me, it's better they separate now than after wedding

Olufemiolaolu:
She is nothing but a glorified hook up girl pure and simple.

Don't judge yet, cos the guy get cockroach for his pocket...

My prayer

The abroad guy will pound her toto wotowoto and dump her smelly ass for disgracing his fellow man.

Elporo:
Imo state women. ....

You won't concentrate on the post