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Kobicove:
The woman over reacted...besides her beef is with her husband not the innocent girl

Tell the liar , allow prople to react however they want... if he hasn't lie ,she wouldn't react.

HERE IS ONE I MADE EARLIER NO SUPPOSE CAUSE FIGHT EVEN IF THEM HIDE AM FROM YOU.


YOUR REACTION IS THE REASON THEY WERE HIDING IT BECAUSE YOUR HEAD NO CORRECT.




IF YOUR HEAD CORRECT, THEY WONT HIDE IT.

Wimkeh:
See how she’s allowed to be angry and be verbally abusive?

But let a man do the same when he discovered his kids are not his own, then watch everyone side with the woman.

Our society is sick ..
Who should I blame if not the guy that can't man up

ABSOLUTE NONSENSE



WOMEN CAN BE SO HYSTERICAL, WHAT IS IT SEF? OGINI?



OUR WOMEN HAVE BECOME TOO ENTITLED.



SEE THE WAY THIS ONE IS BARKING LIKE A RABID DOG BECAUSE OF AN INNOCENT CHILD THAT IS ALSO HER CHILD.



THEY MUST LEARN TOLERANCE AND SHARING.



MAIN LOOKING AT THE DAUGHTER AND HIM, U CAN SEE THAT HE MUST HAVE HAD HER OUT OF WEDLUCK WEN HE WAS MUCH YOUNGER.


IS HE NOW SUPPOSE TO THROW AWAY HIS DAUGHTER BECAUSE HE MARRIED WIFE?



AS HIS WIFE, THE GIRL IS ALREADY YOUR DAUGHTER AS WELL AND U MUST ACCORD HER THAT RIGHT AND PRIVILEDGE TO THE FULLEST.


CIVILISATION NEED TO MEET HUMAN BEFORE THEY TAKE EMOTION CAUSE DESTRUCTION.


SO WICKED, ASKING THE GIRL TO LEAVE, AND SEPARATING HER FROM HER OTHER SIBLINGS, WHAT DID THE POOR CHILD DO WRONG?



WE WILL BRING POLYGAMY BACK FULLY TO IGBOLAND.


SHE IS VERY MAD.

A DAUGHTER THAT WILL SOON GO TO UNIVERSITY AND GET MARRIED?


U WILL BE SAYING, U DONT VISIT ?


SHE IS ALREADY A LITTLE BIG.


THIS LIFE IS NOT LIKE THAT SHE IS THINKING.



U HAVE TO HAVE A BIG HEART AND IF U DONT HAVE ONE DEVELOP IT.

THEIR IS NOTHING TO THE WORLD.


WE DONT EAT HUMAN BEINGS, WE ENJOY THEM WHILST THEY ARE STILL AROUND.

I didn't read your comment, i stopped at you need to wake up to 2025! because I already know your type

Brandiebird:
You need to wake up to 2025! Men and women are the same because they say so. A human and animal are the same because they say so! Life doesn't care about what you tell yourself because another group other than men and women are already in line and ready to fight the status quote!

Evolve with this world or get left behind! White man is taking his wife's name depending on iHER standing while African men are shiing ina hole or outside into the wild while flexing on the poor! Move with the time or get left behind.

Obierika:
It appears the woman is the main breadwinner of the family that's why she's vibrating like a generator that is about to knock engine!

If the situation were reversed, would this have been your comment?

Whether the woman is the breadwinner or not, doesn't she have the right to express her anger, disappointment, and heartbreak as she pleases? Is she not a human being with all 5 senses and a mind like the man and any other person?

If the situation were turned, she would be called all sorts of names...men would be advised to ensure they get married to virgins.

Shouldn't we now advise women to ensure they only accept virgins as husbands

Kobojunkie:
. She will lose everything, how? Is that the same way a husband who discovers that his wife's brother is her son loses everything?

I take it you reject her also declared solution, which is that the girl should leave the house, meaning the man should too, abi?

Common sense should tell us that the girl has no fault in all this and she should not be bullied or threatened at all. The issue is between the animal man and the insensitive wife and should stay there alone. How can she say she doesn't know the girl was his daughter.

It was the man that hurt her not the girl. The best thing she should do is to divorce or pack out of the house except she married because of money. Because what else could blind her eyes for all this while

pocohantas:
Watching the followup video she had to do with a business Instagram page, I hate to assume this is content. Similar to the ones that tore "passport" at the airport.

Don't mind the content creators. Wonder why people believe these fake people.

Only you made a sensible contribution here

All these skit makers disturbing us with their nonsense

Emmanuel909090:
Bro right now at this stage of my life I think indifferently.

This days before I talk about something, I first reason if it's something I can stop or change, if it's not I won't stress my little mind.
Old age is my target.

On a Friday riding on a highway

You aren't being factual

If I give you a big knock on the head won't you feel pained, now if I insult you won't you feel pained too

Same to when I praise you

Then you react abi

There's physical and emotional pain, caused by something

The husband has attacked her soul by hiding what is not supposed to be hidden from her

Blackdisciple:
Probably he was afraid because he knows how 99.9% of Nigerian women will not take care of the child and will be treating them as maid and an outsider.

But as for me I would have told her besides the said girl is a grown up girl and for sure he already have that girl long before he married his wife, this is not a case of infidelity

See hypocrital takes everywhere.

Would you take care of a child your wife tried to pass off as yours?

Blackdisciple:
Onky her reaction shows he knew why he hide the lil girl from her because of the type of woman she is

Then why is he with her? Why didn't he date a good woman?

Bittersweetnig:
then the remaining 50% are the real men, so if you belong to 50% bn fed by women then shame

Even though I'll personally never allow myself to be fed or sheltered by my wife, I think your position that the 50% being fed by their wives are not real men is not true because it doesn't reflect the current reality of financial empowerment of men vs women.

Since the day women started demanding and getting equal financial opportunities as men as against their natural and God-ordained place in the kitchen and as nurturers of offspring, they changed the provider-nurturer arrangement of the early men where men provided and women nurtured.

Any woman that wants to stick to the old order must be ready to go back to the kitchen and to completely be submissive to her husband. She must never challenge the man's decisions in anything and should also be ready to accommodate the man's other wives and concubines. But our modern women want to cherry pick the aspect that suits their selfish desires, hence they want a provider-man without being ready to be co-wives to the man's other women nor to be totally submissive to him.

As things are now, I'll never look down on nor mock any man who's depending on his wife for survival (though it can NEVER be me) because I understand how women empowerment and gender equality has changed the dynamics of financial powers between the two genders.

1Sharon:
Then why is he with her? Why didn't he date a good woman?

Tor some men can just tolerate sha, the girl is a grown up girl not that he got her outside wedlock I mean in like cheating on his wife and you could see their daughter was kinda pleading with the mum in that video he got the girl long before he married his wife but no matter what I see no reason for him to keep her hidden and that still balls down to who is the wife. I have my reason sha.

I have a friend who is married now since 2021 and they are yet to be blessed with a child, this my guy has a daughter and she's a teenager now that means he has that girl before he got married to his wife and he don't want to bring the girl to their house . I asked him why is it that he don't want his daughter here with them and the response my guy gave me was you know how women behave when they are with a child that is not theirs i kukuma forget the talk because he knows best.

1Sharon:
See hypocrital takes everywhere.

Would you take care of a child your wife tried to pass off as yours?

@ bold.
Do not deviate from the main topic pls

Mcslize:
Such a shameless woman. If I say some women don't have shame, they will say I don't know what I am saying.

The earlier you understand that women view marriage as a contract, the better for you as a man.

If you were a good woman from the onset, he would have told you. But because he knew you are a bad woman, he couldn't come clean with you because he knew you won't accept the girl if he told you she was his daughter.

There is no way a man won't open up to his own wife about certain things if the woman is a good woman.

Now that you have put the video of your family online, who is now embarrassed? You the fóolish woman or the innocent man that was trying to protect his daughter?

What do you gain, if you drive the innocent girl out of the house?

Heartless, shameless woman. Oleburuku.

Even Doggedfighter won't do this type of thing as a young woman that is still growing up.

I guess if a woman doesn't tell the husband she had a child prior to the marriage, it is because the husband is a bad man?

Sense is very very far from some of you.

Bringbackmandat:
Problem of women is that they cannot control their emotions. That woman over reacted.

You mean you will calmly accept the situation if happened to you?

Your wife brought in a boy as her nephew and you found out that it is her son?

You need to hold a masterclass sir!

Don't let this ability go to waste.

1Sharon:
Then why is he with her? Why didn't he date a good woman?

That's what his sexually currency could buy

Awon oniyeye

bukatyne:


I guess if a woman doesn't tell the husband she had a child prior to the marriage, it is because the husband is a bad man?

Sense is very very far from some of you.

Mo na repent o. The wrath of God is coming against all you women wey dey maltreat children wey no be una own.

If you're are good woman, your husband will tell you everything. But majority of you have very black hearts.

We men celebrate good women. Women that are good. We only regard good behaviours not women with evil minds.

There is no place for evil women in the kingdom of God. Know this and know peace.

Team If the man was rich, she wouldn't try this nonsense, we see you... If women are advised to marry only rich men because a man must bring nonsense to the table, you will be vibrating like a naked person in harmattan.

Team the man knows the woman is ill behaved that's why he hid it, we also see you... I hope you maintain same energy when a wife calls her son her nephew.

While the woman is free to react as she deems fit, sense should have told her to keep off SM so that everything is contained in her house and finding a solution is easy.

Those who claim that she should faced the man alone is definitely delulu.

Mcslize:
Mo na repent o. The wrath of God is coming against all you women wey dey maltreat children wey no be una own.

If you're are good woman, your husband will tell you everything. But majority of you have very black hearts.

We men celebrate good women. Women that are good. We only regard good behaviours not women with evil minds.

There is no place for evil women in the kingdom of God. Know this and know peace.

All this turningoniown to avoid accountability?

I asked a yes or no question:

I guess if a woman doesn't tell the husband she had a child prior to the marriage, it is because the husband is a bad man?

Na simple yes or no answer.

Don't worry about my black heart, just answer the question

dapadawee:
✓ Common sense should tell us that the girl has no fault in all this and she should not be bullied or threatened at all. The issue is between the animal man and the insensitive wife and should stay there alone. How can she say she doesn't know the girl was his daughter.
It was the man that hurt her not the girl. The best thing she should do is to divorce or pack out of the house except she married because of money. Because what else could blind her eyes for all this while

So, your assumption is that by divorcing him-- which I agree would be a best fit option after that ---, it is she and not him that loses everything? 🫤

Her own mom practically lives with them, but her step daughter can't.
That man is clearly thinking of all the advice he must have gotten from friends and relatives, and why they may have kicked against him marrying her.

Evil woman.

Kobojunkie:
So, your assumption is that by divorcing him-- which I agree would be a best fit option after that ---, it is she and not him that loses everything? 🫤

WOMEN ARE TOO EMOTIONAL, AFTER MAKING BABIES WITH HIM, U DIVORCE HIM BECAUSE HE MADE ONE EARLIER AND DID NOT TELL YOU.


THE ONE YOU ARE GONG TO REMARRY WILL BE A VIRGIN ABI OR WIL THEY ALSO HAVE KIDS?



MAKE IT MAKE SENSE THOUGH....

Stolen:
✓ WOMEN ARE TOO EMOTIONAL, AFTER MAKING BABIES WITH HIM, U DIVORCE HIM BECAUSE HE MADE ONE EARLIER AND DID NOT TELL YOU.
THE ONE YOU ARE GONG TO REMARRY WILL BE A VIRGIN ABI OR WIL THEY ALSO HAVE KIDS?
MAKE IT MAKE SENSE THOUGH....

This comment alohg with many others on here is all the proof one needs in order to realize that many Nigerians are raised to become depraved beings.

Kobojunkie:
This comment alohg with many others on here is all the proof one needs in order to realize that many Nigerians are raised to become depraved beings.

IF I FOUND OUT MY WIFE HAD A CHILD BEFORE I MET HER, WHICH TENDS TO HAPPEN THESE DAYS ALOT BECUASE OF BREAK DOWN IN MORAL VALUE GENERALLY.


IT WOULD BE A TEST OF LOVE, IF U DONT LOVE HER, THAT IS AN EXCUSE TO LEAVE.


IF YOU DO, AFTER A LITTLE COMPLAIN EVERYBODY ADJUST AND GET BACK TO NORMAL.


Y DO SOME HUMANS WANT TO DIE OVER EVRYTHING, I WILL NEVER KNOW, IT IS NOT LIKE SHE GOT PREGNANT AND TRIED TO PASS IT OFF AS YOURS, WHILST U WERE STILL TOGETHER WHICH IS A DIFFERENT THING ENTIRELY.


THAT MEANS CHEATING AND BETRAYAL.

bukatyne:
All this turningoniown to avoid accountability?

I asked a yes or no question:

I guess if a woman doesn't tell the husband she had a child prior to the marriage, it is because the husband is a bad man?

Na simple yes or no answer.

Don't worry about my black heart, just answer the question

To your question, it doesn't mean the husband is bad. But why is the woman vibrating and foolishly exposed her own family to the outside world as if the man killed someone?

Do you believe the woman is foolish in this case for washing her dirty linen outside and exposing her bad character to the whole world? What happens to proper dialogue?

Now it's your turn to answer my own question. Is the woman foolish in this case or not?

Stolen:
✓ IF I FOUND OUT MY WIFE HAD A CHILD BEFORE I MET HER, WHICH TENDS TO HAPPEN THESE DAYS ALOT BECUASE OF BREAK DOWN IN MORAL VALUE GENERALLY.
IT WOULD BE A TEST OF LOVE, IF U DONT LOVE HER, THAT IS AN EXCUSE TO LEAVE.
IF YOU DO, AFTER A LITTLE COMPLAIN EVERYBODY ADJUST AND GET BACK TO NORMAL.
Y DO SOME HUMANS WANT TO DIE OVER EVRYTHING, I WILL NEVER KNOW, IT IS NOT LIKE SHE GOT PREGNANT AND TRIED TO PASS IT OFF AS YOURS, WHILST U WERE STILL TOGETHER WHICH IS A DIFFERENT THING ENTIRELY. THAT MEANS CHEATING AND BETRAYAL.

Keep telling these ridiculous lies wherever you go pretending you are someone removed from the decay of moral values then. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

SamuraiXXX:
You follow Kobojunkie dey argue, na im be say you go sleep here be that

As in ehn, big error on my part, na so I ignore am, total waste of one's valuable time.

Kobojunkie:
So, your assumption is that by divorcing him-- which I agree would be a best fit option after that ---, it is she and not him that loses everything? 🫤

In conclusion.
Let her deal with the person that Bleep her up and not the innocent child.
But the best option for her is to accept that as fate. And move on she will enjoy it later in the future.

Most Nigerian men don’t want wives. They want unpaid maids they can control, sleep with, and call ‘virtuous.


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