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Samantha125:
For me it was two years... Even if we wanted to get married then, it wouldn't have been possible due to the lockdown.

brain54:
I don't think they should be a strict timeline...

What works for one person may be disastrous for another.

Haven't you met someone before and felt like you have known them your entire life? And some others it's difficult to connect with even after years of knowing each other.

It depends on the connection and how well the partners are able to study and understand each other.

Some couples Court for few months, get married and it works. I know a couple that courted 8 years,got married and the marriage packed up in less than a year.

They really are no manuals for these issues!

fakados:
It depends. There is not set time. A balance is needed to get to know enough and also not to waste anybody's time unnecessarily.

A minimum of 6 months and a maximum of 2 years.

Samantha125:
For me it was two years... Even if we wanted to get married then, it wouldn't have been possible due to the lockdown.

Dexy4yah:
2years? Isn't that time wastage.
1year is ok..

brain54:
I don't think they should be a strict timeline...

What works for one person may be disastrous for another.

Haven't you met someone before and felt like you have known them your entire life? And some others it's difficult to connect with even after years of knowing each other.

It depends on the connection and how well the partners are able to study and understand each other.

Some couples Court for few months, get married and it works. I know a couple that courted 8 years,got married and the marriage packed up in less than a year.

They really are no manuals for these issues!

greatermax77:
13 years max, so that you will study everything
About the girl

Vinnie2000:
2-3 months is Okay.

Even if you date for 5years, a partner can pretend and hide all of their deficiencies from you.

Just use 2,3 Months to show all your Bad Character and see the Response you will get from the person.

Samantha125:
How were we supposed to get married during lockdown?🤔🤔🤔

Samantha125:
Tell us about you...🙊🙊🙊

Samantha125:
Tell us about you...🙊🙊🙊

brain54:
I wouldn't tell you about myself...

But I will tell you about "Dharma and Greg". It was a comedy series on TV I watched.

It's about Dharma and Greg (obviously) who met at a train station and it was instant love at first sight. Sparks fly and they immediately proceeded from the train station to a court registry where they got married

The show revolves around Dharmaa yoga instructor and Greg who was a reserved and conservative lawyer.

Both are polar opposites with Dharmaa being the "crazy" one. But they fall madly in love.

They always somehow find a way to overcome their differences and make their marriage work.


The show explores the comedic situations that arise from their contrasting views and life style!

Samantha125:
I'm convinced you're around the same age group as my father...😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨

Greydebz:
Is it 6 months, 2 years, or 7 years and a mortgage later?

Some say, "When you know, you know."
Others say, "Don’t rush—marry when the Wi-Fi connects automatically at their place."

Truth is, there’s no perfect timeline—just perfect timing for you.
Whether it’s love at first sight or a slow-burn romance, every love story has its own rhythm.

How long did you date before getting engaged—or how long would you wait?

brain54:
Is being in the same age group as your dad a bad thing...?

People grow old ba?


Anyway, that series was produced in 1997. But I think I started watching it in the late 2000's or so.

I don't know how that makes me old-age wise.

Except maybe you are 16

Smallie!

Samantha125:
It sounds like something my father would say...😩😩😩

I was only asking you tell us based on your personal experience, not a movie...😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨

brain54:
Well, I don't want to share my personal experience...

And you can consider me your father then

Since you are looking for a father figure!

almarthins:
6months is the best. 1yr or 2yr be like person wan collect diploma in prenuptial. I no dey for dat long tin. I fit know a woman within 6months, may be not all thing I fit know.

Greydebz:
Is it 6 months, 2 years, or 7 years and a mortgage later?

Some say, "When you know, you know."
Others say, "Don’t rush—marry when the Wi-Fi connects automatically at their place."

Truth is, there’s no perfect timeline—just perfect timing for you.
Whether it’s love at first sight or a slow-burn romance, every love story has its own rhythm.

How long did you date before getting engaged—or how long would you wait?