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1. TELL YOUR SPOUSE "GOOD MORNING"
These words start the day on the right tone. These words are powerful. It hurts when your spouse wakes up and assumes your presence

2. START ON A CLEAN SLATE
Regardless of what happened in the past, take today as an opportunity for new experiences. Were you tired yesterday? be fresh today. Recalibrate your mind and your mindset. You two have a chance to make the present day better than yesterday

3. TOUCH YOUR SPOUSE
Nothing beats being touched in the morning with gentle hands. Rub his chest, play with her nipples, kiss the forehead, rub her inner thighs, play with his beard, cuddle, rub her butt, rub his belly... even if just for a few minutes. Too many people are married but untouched

4. ASK YOUR SPOUSE "HOW DID YOU SLEEP?"
Inside your spouse's sleep is the one place you cannot be with your spouse, it is very private. Find out, did your spouse dream, does he/she feel relaxed, did he/she have a nightmare or warning to pray about, was it a struggle? It shows care

5. THANK YOUR SPOUSE FOR LAST NIGHT IN CASE YOU MADE LOVE
If last night you made love, give feedback. Let your spouse know how special it was, how you enjoyed, how you are loved right. This motivates your spouse to keep pleasing you

6. THANK YOUR SPOUSE FOR SORTING OUT AN ISSUE IN CASE YOU TALKED ABOUT IT LAST NIGHT
If you two have been having a disagreement, thank your spouse that you talked about it. Let your spouse know you don’t like it when you two are mad at each other

7. MAKE LOVE
There is something about two warm bodies waking up to each other that turns you on. Have some morning glory. A sexual high can bring about a good mood that carries you through out the day, it also helps you think better even when life is challenging

8. SHOWER TOGETHER IF POSSIBLE
Occasionally shower together as you bond and play. It also saves time and gives you a chance to connect, especially since you two are about to spend hours apart

9. HAVE POSITIVE CONVERSATIONS
Don't start the morning with issues, drama, negativity and discouragement. Be enjoyable

10. GIVE A COMPLIMENT
Seeing your spouse naked, wrapped up in a towel, dressed, ready for the day... give a compliment. "Looking good love", "I love that scent you wear", "All that butt is mine?", "Mmmh... that's my sexy King". It boosts your spouse's confidence in your eyes

11. PRAY OR SPEAK A BLESSING
Cover each other in prayer. Show love in the spiritual realm. Prayer will bring you two closer together

12. SHARE A MEAL TOGETHER
If possible have breakfast together as a family. This especially warms up the hearts of the children. Food fosters family unity

13. LEAVE EACH OTHER WITH WARMTH
As you part ways, do so with a hug, a kiss, a smile, kind words such "Have a good day love", "Go get it Babe", "This generation is blessed to have you". You will reap the benefits of this when you meet later in the day

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As for number 5, why should I thank him for performing his duty?😒😒😒

Samantha125:
As for number 5, why should I thank him for performing his duty?😒😒😒

Samantha, you're stubborn! 🤣

I mean seriously, his duty is to service me in different styles to insure that I'm well fed and satisfied, because a hungry woman is a frustrated woman.

If he hits it right, then I don't need to thank him, actions speak louder than words.

Mariangeles:
Samantha, you're stubborn! 🤣

Samantha125:
I mean seriously, his duty is to service me in different styles to insure that I'm well fed and satisfied, because a hungry woman is a frustrated woman.

If he hits it right, then I don't need to thank him, actions speak louder than words.

If, for instance, you cooked a delicious meal you both enjoyed, wouldn't you want to be appreciated for your effort? 😀
Imagine him enjoying the food and not saying thank you or I really enjoyed it.

Come on, you can't compare food with sex... Because with sex, he's also enjoying himself.

Mariangeles:
If, for instance, you cooked a delicious meal you both enjoyed, wouldn't you want to be appreciated for your effort? 😀
Imagine him enjoying the food and not saying thank you or I really enjoyed it.

Ideylov:
3. TOUCH YOUR SPOUSE
Nothing beats being touched in the morning with gentle hands. Rub his chest, play with her nipples, kiss the forehead, rub her inner thighs, play with his beard, cuddle, rub her butt, rub his belly... even if just for a few minutes. Too many people are married but untouched

Written by a man, isn’t it?

And for couples with no kids.

Are couples with children not supposed to touch each other?🤔🤔🤔

Maeve7:
Written by a man, isn’t it?

And for couples with no kids.

Samantha125:
Come on, you can't compare food with sex... Because with sex, he's also enjoying himself.

Yes, they can be compared.
Food is the closest thing one can compare with sex.

Do you not also enjoy the food you cook?
How can you know you did/do well if he doesn't show appreciation?
Same way he wouldn't know he did/does it right if you don't show appreciation.
It doesn't have to be thank you sha.

I understand that couples are entitled to each other's "duties", but showing/expressing appreciation would do so much for the relationship.

Mariangeles:
Yes, they can be compared.
Food is the closest thing one can compare with sex.

Do you not also enjoy the food you cook?
How can you know you did/do well if he doesn't show appreciation?
Same way he wouldn't know he did/does it right if you don't show appreciation.
It doesn't have to be thank you sha.

I understand that couples are entitled to each other's "duties", but showing/expressing appreciation would do so much for the relationship.

even tho you give him sex and food they'll still cheat

Firebox123:
even tho you give him sex and food they'll still cheat

Nobody asked you.

Mariangeles:
Nobody asked you.

you still cheat on your bf 😁😂

Did I lie

Firebox123:
you still cheat on your bf 😁😂

Did I lie

Take your negativity away from me.

I was sent on time out for being naughty...😂😂😂... But if my cooking is good, I'll be able to see that he's enjoying the food, the same way he'll see that I'm enjoying myself if he hits it right...😃😃😃

Mariangeles:
Yes, they can be compared.
Food is the closest thing one can compare with sex.

Do you not also enjoy the food you cook?
How can you know you did/do well if he doesn't show appreciation?
Same way he wouldn't know he did/does it right if you don't show appreciation.
It doesn't have to be thank you sha.

I understand that couples are entitled to each other's "duties", but showing/expressing appreciation would do so much for the relationship.

Samantha125:
Are couples with children not supposed to touch each other?🤔🤔🤔

They can and they do but there is certainly not enough time for the ritual described above or shall I call it the ten-steps-start-into-the-day.

The one that I singled out amuses me because the man is asked to touch the woman’s private parts (inner thighs, nipples, butt) but she is told to stroke his beard.

Ideylov:
1. TELL YOUR SPOUSE "GOOD MORNING"
These words start the day on the right tone. These words are powerful. It hurts when your spouse wakes up and assumes your presence

2. START ON A CLEAN SLATE
Regardless of what happened in the past, take today as an opportunity for new experiences. Were you tired yesterday? be fresh today. Recalibrate your mind and your mindset. You two have a chance to make the present day better than yesterday

3. TOUCH YOUR SPOUSE
Nothing beats being touched in the morning with gentle hands. Rub his chest, play with her nipples, kiss the forehead, rub her inner thighs, play with his beard, cuddle, rub her butt, rub his belly... even if just for a few minutes. Too many people are married but untouched

4. ASK YOUR SPOUSE "HOW DID YOU SLEEP?"
Inside your spouse's sleep is the one place you cannot be with your spouse, it is very private. Find out, did your spouse dream, does he/she feel relaxed, did he/she have a nightmare or warning to pray about, was it a struggle? It shows care

5. THANK YOUR SPOUSE FOR LAST NIGHT IN CASE YOU MADE LOVE
If last night you made love, give feedback. Let your spouse know how special it was, how you enjoyed, how you are loved right. This motivates your spouse to keep pleasing you

6. THANK YOUR SPOUSE FOR SORTING OUT AN ISSUE IN CASE YOU TALKED ABOUT IT LAST NIGHT
If you two have been having a disagreement, thank your spouse that you talked about it. Let your spouse know you don’t like it when you two are mad at each other

7. MAKE LOVE
There is something about two warm bodies waking up to each other that turns you on. Have some morning glory. A sexual high can bring about a good mood that carries you through out the day, it also helps you think better even when life is challenging

8. SHOWER TOGETHER IF POSSIBLE
Occasionally shower together as you bond and play. It also saves time and gives you a chance to connect, especially since you two are about to spend hours apart

9. HAVE POSITIVE CONVERSATIONS
Don't start the morning with issues, drama, negativity and discouragement. Be enjoyable

10. GIVE A COMPLIMENT
Seeing your spouse naked, wrapped up in a towel, dressed, ready for the day... give a compliment. "Looking good love", "I love that scent you wear", "All that butt is mine?", "Mmmh... that's my sexy King". It boosts your spouse's confidence in your eyes

11. PRAY OR SPEAK A BLESSING
Cover each other in prayer. Show love in the spiritual realm. Prayer will bring you two closer together

12. SHARE A MEAL TOGETHER
If possible have breakfast together as a family. This especially warms up the hearts of the children. Food fosters family unity

13. LEAVE EACH OTHER WITH WARMTH
As you part ways, do so with a hug, a kiss, a smile, kind words such "Have a good day love", "Go get it Babe", "This generation is blessed to have you". You will reap the benefits of this when you meet later in the day

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Lovely!

Just send those kids to boarding school and enjoy yourselves in peace...😂😂😂

Maeve7:
They can and they do but there is certainly not enough time for the ritual described above or shall I call it the ten-steps-start-into-the-day.

The one that I singled out amuses me because the man is asked to touch the woman’s private parts (inner thighs, nipples, butt) but she is told to stroke his beard.

Samantha125:
Just send those kids to boarding school and enjoy yourselves in peace...😂😂😂

I didn’t have them to send them away.

Samantha125:
I was sent on time out for being naughty...😂😂😂... But if my cooking is good, I'll be able to see that he's enjoying the food, the same way he'll see that I'm enjoying myself if he hits it right...😃😃😃

Alright then. 😀

I wish.
How practicable is this? One wife will wake up and begin to carry nose up and behave like bull dog.

Samantha125:
As for number 5, why should I thank him for performing his duty?😒😒😒

Why you no wan get sense like this?

Are you telling me that you expect your wife to thank you?😂😂😂

Dogalmighty17:
Why you no wan get sense like this?