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Pastor (Dr.) W.F. Kumuyi shed light on why he got married in Deeper Life without pumps and pagentry and how much he spent on his wedding ceremony and why.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u6PXSp7P0IM

Daddy Daddy! This our Daddy is different and loves the Lord wholeheartedly. I believe him 100%.

Rich couples in the Uk walks to a nearby Court and a church,and a Priest there bless their union and they are certified. Marriage has started immediately.

Poor couples in Africa are willing to spend their life savings to do the bid of tradition (oambe) in the name of marriage ceremony.

Meanwhile, inventors of tradition have died a long time ago.

paxonel:
Rich couples in the Uk walks to a nearby Court and a church,and a Priest there bless their union and they are certified. Marriage has started immediately.

Poor couples in Africa are willing to spend their life savings to do the bid of tradition (oambe) in the name of marriage ceremony.

Meanwhile, inventors of tradition have died a long time ago.

Most people don't know the secret behind this traditions that's why you are speaking like this.
It was instituted to know the financially strength of the man or family a woman is getting married to once certified that she is marrying a wealthy family the parents don't need anything from their in-laws at least their daughter is automatically a wealthy woman if she knows her way.
Kumuyi is deceiving his followers because no family will demand for a kobo knowing fully well that the woman is getting married to a world class celebrity pastor all they need is returns after their daughter marry Kumuyi.
Abegi which sister, brother, cousin or close relative of this woman will like to travel or go to university but will find it difficult after she marry Kumuyi?
Make unah dey play!

It's not mandatory to do church wedding na why you come starve your audience na

The marriage tradition is the south is too expensive! Northern elites too!

Before you can join your daughter to the groom in just five minutes after Asr prayer!

And those lists of items the brides family dey ask ehn!

Maximus692:
Most people don't know the secret behind this traditions that's why you are speaking like this.
It was instituted to know the financially strength of the man or family a woman is getting married to once certified that she is marrying a wealthy family the parents don't need anything from their in-laws at least their daughter is automatically a wealthy woman if she knows her way

so, this is about making their daughter to become a wealthy woman overnight, and not necessarily her happiness?

It is a very faulty tradition.

Kumuyi is deceiving his followers because no family will demand for a kobo knowing fully well that the woman is getting married to a world class celebrity pastor all they need is returns after their daughter marry Kumuyi.
Abegi which sister, brother, cousin or close relative of this woman will like to travel or go to university but will find it difficult after she marry Kumuyi?
Make unah dey play!

What about tradition that has made it mandatory for people to spend even their last savings for marriage ceremonies and go back to square one?

Weddings are personal events, and the focus should be on the celebration of love, commitment, and unity between two people rather than the number of guests or the amount of money spent. If You're wise, you wouldn't be wasting money feeding already fed people.

My thoughts 🤔

Na free the woman family give am the pikin abi him use religion run dem street ?

Kk

Maximus692:
Most people don't know the secret behind this traditions that's why you are speaking like this.
It was instituted to know the financially strength of the man or family a woman is getting married to once certified that she is marrying a wealthy family the parents don't need anything from their in-laws at least their daughter is automatically a wealthy woman if she knows her way.
Kumuyi is deceiving his followers because no family will demand for a kobo knowing fully well that the woman is getting married to a world class celebrity pastor all they need is returns after their daughter marry Kumuyi.
Abegi which sister, brother, cousin or close relative of this woman will like to travel or go to university but will find it difficult after she marry Kumuyi?
Make unah dey play!

Your analysis is flawed.

1. The majority of marriages is funded by debt and some times wealthy parents so the bigger the wedding party doesnt actually reflect the financial status of the groom

2. Pastor Kumuyi wedded when he is not famous so nothing lie assurance to a world class pastor

Stop misleading ppl
A friend married 3 months ago, throwing a lavish party when we both know he is underemployed, now he don dey hear am

Maximus692:
Most people don't know the secret behind this traditions that's why you are speaking like this.
It was instituted to know the financially strength of the man or family a woman is getting married to once certified that she is marrying a wealthy family the parents don't need anything from their in-laws at least their daughter is automatically a wealthy woman if she knows her way.
Kumuyi is deceiving his followers because no family will demand for a kobo knowing fully well that the woman is getting married to a world class celebrity pastor all they need is returns after their daughter marry Kumuyi.
Abegi which sister, brother, cousin or close relative of this woman will like to travel or go to university but will find it difficult after she marry Kumuyi?
Make unah dey play!

Times have changed. Make everyone do accordingly to what they can afford. It doesn’t make sense to waste money on expensive weddings and burials for when you know somehow you will suffer the after effects later. And it’s the man I pity. The woman can easily walk out like the one that left her husband after he took loans to finance the expensive wedding she wanted. Laughed at him also.

Alaroro

SKhanmi:
Times have changed. Make everyone do accordingly to what they can afford. It doesn’t make sense to waste money on expensive weddings and burials for when you know somehow you will suffer the after effects later. And it’s the man I pity. The woman can easily walk out like the one that left her husband after he took loans to finance the expensive wedding she wanted. Laughed at him also.

The issue is money being the currency of evrything nowadays.

In the days where money isn't needed to get Tubers of Yam, Buckets of Rice, Tomatoes, Pepper, Firewood. Houses and Beds.

It made more sense.

I didn't watch the video but I think the pastor was talking about how he got married as a pastor in his own church without spending his own money and I find that very shocking indeed

sunky97:
Pastor (Dr.) W.F. Kumuyi shed light on why he got married in Deeper Life without pumps and pagentry and how much he spent on his wedding ceremony and why.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u6PXSp7P0IM

God be praised

Can this be true

If not that marriage is commercialized, it does not suppose to cost much to get married. Trust Nigerian in-laws with greed to become rich from their potential suitors to pay huge bride price to get their daughters in marriage.

Guardian32:
Can this be true

He doesn't lie but I am not saying what he did was right or is the standard.

Do what you want and be ready to face the consequences. But this man doesn't lie.

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Maximus692:
Most people don't know the secret behind this traditions that's why you are speaking like this.
It was instituted to know the financially strength of the man or family a woman is getting married to once certified that she is marrying a wealthy family the parents don't need anything from their in-laws at least their daughter is automatically a wealthy woman if she knows her way.
Kumuyi is deceiving his followers because no family will demand for a kobo knowing fully well that the woman is getting married to a world class celebrity pastor all they need is returns after their daughter marry Kumuyi.
Abegi which sister, brother, cousin or close relative of this woman will like to travel or go to university but will find it difficult after she marry Kumuyi?
Make unah dey play!

just hear urself...when Kumuyi married is deeper life church even big?....

EmperorIsaac:
Daddy Daddy!

Na so o.

His fellow daddy drinks tea with God and drove 300 miles without fuel.

How are these characters in cassock different from politicians like Amaechi who tell crazy, outrageous lies as if they are breathing?

1980s things, you can't make a doctrine of that. i am also sure he is not asking everyone to do that. He spent pound for his second wedding after the first wife died, and he spent dollar for his son's wedding. i wonder the pointless point being made here.

PJ123:
He doesn't lie but I am not saying what he did was right or is the standard.

Do what you want and be ready to face the consequences. But this man doesn't lie.

Because the cock has not crowed for his lies, as it crowed for Peter when he denied knowledge of Jesus Christ

Rubbish ..but none of the big Pastors that always do chochocho about how they had nothing will allow any of their daughters to get married to such broke man today 😂

incogni2o:
The issue is money being the currency of evrything nowadays.

In the days where money isn't needed to get Tubers of Yam, Buckets of Rice, Tomatoes, Pepper, Firewood. Houses and Beds.

It made more sense.

True but imagine this

The wife and husband have strong minds of their own with a touch of foresight for the future.

They agree together on the arrangements and the requirements. The wife cautions her people, the guy does according to his pocket. E make sense?

Haven’t seen any of my circles that did expensive weddings. One’s wife made him just do sitting room introductions with her parents, another one did a 50 people invite only wedding. And another one small mini with less than 20 in attendance. And this are tech bros and ladies. They can afford it. They are still together and thriving.

The problem is mostly men who easily get swayed by public opinion, families and women. And marrying the wrong person who doesn’t think the same way you do about finances. Then come back later to cry wolf

He who pays the piper dictates the tune. This is what I have and I will stick to it. To hell with whatever anyone else thinks. A good woman will understand and support his decision.

That’s one of the measures of a man.

autoez:
Weddings are personal events, and the focus should be on the celebration of love, commitment, and unity between two people rather than the number of guests or the amount of money spent. If You're wise, you wouldn't be wasting money feeding already fed people.

My thoughts 🤔

How do you want people to take advantage of Akpabio’s advice then

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paxonel:
Rich couples in the Uk walks to a nearby Court and a church,and a Priest there bless their union and they are certified. Marriage has started immediately.

Poor couples in Africa are willing to spend their life savings to do the bid of tradition (oambe) in the name of marriage ceremony.

Meanwhile, inventors of tradition have died a long time ago.

Each to his own.

paxonel:
Rich couples in the Uk walks to a nearby Court and a church,and a Priest there bless their union and they are certified. Marriage has started immediately.

Poor couples in Africa are willing to spend their life savings to do the bid of tradition (oambe) in the name of marriage ceremony.

Meanwhile, inventors of tradition have died a long time ago.

It was like that when we were growing up.Couples will return home and celebrate the union with rice and chicken for guests,while we will be enjoying music from the turntable

Maximus692:
Most people don't know the secret behind this traditions that's why you are speaking like this.
It was instituted to know the financially strength of the man or family a woman is getting married to once certified that she is marrying a wealthy family the parents don't need anything from their in-laws at least their daughter is automatically a wealthy woman if she knows her way.
Kumuyi is deceiving his followers because no family will demand for a kobo knowing fully well that the woman is getting married to a world class celebrity pastor all they need is returns after their daughter marry Kumuyi.
Abegi which sister, brother, cousin or close relative of this woman will like to travel or go to university but will find it difficult after she marry Kumuyi?
Make unah dey play!

Deceiving is a strong word sir.

anonimi:
Na so o.

His fellow daddy drinks tea with God and drove 300 miles without fuel.

How are these characters in cassock different from politicians like Amaechi who tell crazy, outrageous lies as if they are breathing?

Nah...I believe my daddy 100% He is different and loves the Lord wholeheartedly.