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Marriage is an investment and a contract, Don’t marry based on love - Nigeria Man explains

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YLKchD08XO8

This Nigeria counselor spoke well here

But people should divorce their wife and marry another woman based on legal threats... A woman who gave birth to different children from different men who feels she can easily allege that some had sexual advances at her.....

Nice 👍 one

Ok

OK ,


some people when they are frustrated will just be looking for how to make others share from their frustrations.




by sharing negative advice.




if love does not work for you ,



it will work for others.



For God so love the world.



God Is Love.



Princess Faith Chukwu.

Okay

If Una nor fit type am, make Una rest.


I don come again.

It is like urgent CBEX for some. Natasha Akpos comes to mind.

Ok I understand, let's marry based on hate. I hear you

Lovenorth:
Ok I understand, let's marry based on hate. I hear you

Not sure you did. Don't marry based on feelings alone, that's what he's saying.

AJEH

Uhmmm, both money and love are essentially ingredients in marriage.

if love not in marriage how would persons in marriage feel......like man to man or woman to woman?


I doubt if Op knows what they called loveless marriage, loveless marriage more dangerous than poverty marriage.

In poverty, the couple would still be enduring themselves even in hardship, but in loveless, every small offence counts in the eye of person that hates you even in midst of abundance.

If marriage is to go by way of financial commitment alone. .....why Dangote is a single father, with all his billions of dollar?

Always passing the wrong message that's what they are good at in this country

If any one say it is a lie , when e hit him or her in another flavor , e go understand ad turned a counselor like this one here.

Okay

Whether for love or not, the fact remains, Marriage is an Investment!


You invest:

Time (important years of your life)
Finance (Marriage isn't cheap no matter how virtuous the woman or man is)
Emotions (it can be draining)
Etc...


It's now left for you to decide if that woman or man will give you the best return for such a high stake Investment.

That's why you do serious due diligence (research and background checks) before committing everything especially your future into such a sacred union.

Marraige is a scam. Only favours women. Nothing in it for men. Men are waking up and going their own way.

I agree

Oga love matters ooo because later later na the love go carry una dey move ahead ahead.if you want to marry who no be your level because of what she will bring and not love later later e go clear you for eye say woman money na her money ooo.rather advice to hustle and make money so that see finish no go enter.

Alright.

Baba no be today nawn, Naa live itself taught us this.

This is a bitter truth that many people will ignore.

dandollaz:
✓ Oga love matters ooo because later later na the love go carry una dey move ahead ahead.if you want to marry who no be your level because of what she will bring and not love later later e go clear you for eye say woman money na her money ooo.rather advice to hustle and make money so that see finish no go enter.

Love is a contract. If you leave it vague, then you will never realize when it has ceased. However, defined, you are better able to monitor its progress!

It can begin with love, get sustained by love, but it goes beyond love....quote me daily, twice on Valentin's day!

Carry love to marriage, you will neva explore all your pontentials. Marriage na business.

💯 correct

PRINCESSFCFANSs:
OK ,


some people when they are frustrated will just be looking for how to make others share from their frustrations.




by sharing negative advice.




if love does not work for you ,



it will work for others.



For God so love the world.



God Is Love.



Princess Faith Chukwu.

Lol, he is saying the truth, why do many of you ladies want court marriage? Going to court makes it a contract and no one goes to sign a contract without interest, so whatever your interest is, that is your investment

LordIsaac:
✓ It can begin with love, get sustained by love, but it goes beyond love....quote me daily, twice on Valentin's day!

You mean desire -- chemically induced attraction, right?