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Marriage Is An Investment And A Contract, Don’t Marry Based On Love - Man(vid) - Family (5) - Nairaland

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Re: Marriage Is An Investment And A Contract, Don’t Marry Based On Love - Man(vid) by press9jatv(op): 3:37am On May 03, 2025
Kobojunkie:
It has always been like that— there is no before. undecided
not rampant in our forefathers days ooo. The difference is very clear
Re: Marriage Is An Investment And A Contract, Don’t Marry Based On Love - Man(vid) by Kobojunkie: 3:47am On May 03, 2025
press9jatv:
not rampant in our forefathers days ooo. The difference is very clear
You forefathers all had contractual unions, many of which they simply ended by sending the women back to their fathers' home when tired of them to get their money back afterwards. It was always transactional. undecided
Re: Marriage Is An Investment And A Contract, Don’t Marry Based On Love - Man(vid) by Brandiebird: 3:47am On May 03, 2025
press9jatv:
not rampant in our forefathers days ooo. The difference is very clear
In your forefathers days women were more militant in their choices. They chose men of substance to the point that women were 2nd, 3rd, 4th and N amount of wife when it came to marriage.

Women didn't give children to bottom dwelling men like they do today! There were zero baby mothers! Men who were losers didn't get to procreate!

It was the real 20/80! Men are delusional children
today who romanticise the past as if they could ever match up to the men from the past.
Re: Marriage Is An Investment And A Contract, Don’t Marry Based On Love - Man(vid) by press9jatv(op): 3:54am On May 03, 2025
Brandiebird:
In your forefathers days women were more militant in their choices. They chose men of substance to the point that women were 2nd, 3rd, 4th and N amount of wife when it came to marriage.

Women didn't give children to bottom dwelling men like they do today! There were zero baby mothers! Men who were losers didn't get to procreate!

It was the real 20/80! Men are delusional children
today who romanticise the past as if they could ever match up to the men from the past.
hmm 🧐
Re: Marriage Is An Investment And A Contract, Don’t Marry Based On Love - Man(vid) by press9jatv(op): 3:54am On May 03, 2025
Kobojunkie:
You forefathers all had contractual unions, many of which they simply ended by sending the women back to their fathers' home when tired of them to get their money back afterwards. It was always transactional. undecided
but not rampant
Re: Marriage Is An Investment And A Contract, Don’t Marry Based On Love - Man(vid) by Kobojunkie: 3:56am On May 03, 2025
press9jatv:
but not rampant
That is just one of the examples of transactional marriage contracts that existed even during the time of your ancestors. Marriage has always been transactional. At least no man enters into marriage without expecting to selfishly benefit from it, hence the transactional nature of the union. undecided
Re: Marriage Is An Investment And A Contract, Don’t Marry Based On Love - Man(vid) by AmalaAtiEwedu: 9:15am On May 03, 2025
JASONjnr:
But people should divorce their wife and marry another woman based on legal threats... A woman who gave birth to different children from different men who feels she can easily allege that some had sexual advances at her.....
Did the senate also ban you from saying Natasha? cool
Re: Marriage Is An Investment And A Contract, Don’t Marry Based On Love - Man(vid) by professore(m): 12:13pm On May 03, 2025
LoL
Re: Marriage Is An Investment And A Contract, Don’t Marry Based On Love - Man(vid) by SeriouslySense(m): 12:43pm On May 03, 2025
grin grin laughu laughu, may God help us to love trully.

Brandiebird:
You're quoting *Walt Disney!* relationships have never been what you quoted. It's been a contract since the dawn of time.
Re: Marriage Is An Investment And A Contract, Don’t Marry Based On Love - Man(vid) by press9jatv(op): 3:01pm On May 03, 2025
Kobojunkie:
That is just one of the examples of transactional marriage contracts that existed even during the time of your ancestors. Marriage has always been transactional. At least no man enters into marriage without expecting to selfishly benefit from it, hence the transactional nature of the union. undecided
hmm 🧐
Re: Marriage Is An Investment And A Contract, Don’t Marry Based On Love - Man(vid) by press9jatv(op): 3:02pm On May 03, 2025
Brandiebird:
In your forefathers days women were more militant in their choices. They chose men of substance to the point that women were 2nd, 3rd, 4th and N amount of wife when it came to marriage.

Women didn't give children to bottom dwelling men like they do today! There were zero baby mothers! Men who were losers didn't get to procreate!

It was the real 20/80! Men are delusional children
today who romanticise the past as if they could ever match up to the men from the past.
it's different ball game now
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