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Why Do Nigerian Men Leave Their Wives Behind In Nigeria? - Family (6) - Nairaland

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Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Leave Their Wives Behind In Nigeria? by Yomit71(m): 1:42pm On May 21, 2025
elipheleh:
First one was 200k.
2nd child was 300k.
Now the price is 500k
Okay thanks
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Leave Their Wives Behind In Nigeria? by meobizy(m): 4:02pm On May 21, 2025
Life is not a one size fits all experience. That things are not done conventionally doesn’t mean something is off. It works for them. Leave them.
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Leave Their Wives Behind In Nigeria? by Allthingswork: 5:47am On May 22, 2025
Samantha125:
Why wait when you can get yourselves a side dudes to keep you well fed? It's not like the husbands are faithful wherever they are...🏃🏻‍♀️🏃🏻‍♀️🏃🏻‍♀️
Well...there goes the comment I was hoping not to see a lady here make, but I was kind of also wanting to see it just to see if my thoughts were right about human diversity. Hehe.

Only a non-christian (I'm not merely talking about religious affiliation on paper in this sense ) will make and subscribe to such a comment. Adultery is a no-no. Body should not be defiled, jareh.
Samantha don't fall your hands, o. 🙆🤭 Doesn't matter if the husbands abroad are doing it, let them drink of the cup of God's wrath alone. Why bring curses to oneself? 🏃🏃
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Leave Their Wives Behind In Nigeria? by ChybuzzDD(m): 6:50am On May 22, 2025
MERCHANDISER:
She can work here as an English teacher,she is already teaching in primary school in Nigeria but I am scared because I don't know if she's going to change once she get here.

I plan to impregnate her in Nigeria and establish her but I am also scared that she may cheat on me.Although I plan to be coming back once in a month every year for 5years before I leave Europe.

I am just here to gather small money,i have long term plan in Nigeria after 5years
Coming back every month is too frequent and will lead to a lot of economic wastage, with little or nothing to gain

Twice a year(once every 6months) looks more reasonable.
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Leave Their Wives Behind In Nigeria? by ChybuzzDD(m): 6:56am On May 22, 2025
GboyegaD:
How many have been walked out of their homes?
This guy, rest nah. Why are you pretending like you don't know what Nigerian wives do abroad these days?
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Leave Their Wives Behind In Nigeria? by henndukwe18: 9:00am On May 22, 2025
QuinQ:
Wrong! He forgot to add "and doesn't catch a disease". No amen for you cheesy
yes, that 1 too
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Leave Their Wives Behind In Nigeria? by GboyegaD(m): 10:42am On May 22, 2025
ChybuzzDD:
This guy, rest nah. Why are you pretending like you don't know what Nigerian wives do abroad these days?
Are you abroad or just going off on hearsay? Do your research and then post your findings.
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Leave Their Wives Behind In Nigeria? by MERCHANDISER: 10:47am On May 22, 2025
ChybuzzDD:
Coming back every month is too frequent and will lead to a lot of economic wastage, with little or nothing to gain

Twice a year(once every 6months) looks more reasonable.
What i actually mean is one month in a year
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Leave Their Wives Behind In Nigeria? by ChybuzzDD(m): 1:17pm On May 22, 2025
MERCHANDISER:
What i actually mean is one month in a year
Alright
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Leave Their Wives Behind In Nigeria? by Kobojunkie: 2:54pm On May 22, 2025
Allthingswork:
➜Well...there goes the comment I was hoping not to see a lady here make, but I was kind of also wanting to see it just to see if my thoughts were right about human diversity. Hehe. Only a non-christian (I'm not merely talking about religious affiliation on paper in this sense ) will make and subscribe to such a comment. Adultery is a no-no. Body should not be defiled, jareh.
Samantha don't fall your hands, o. 🙆🤭 Doesn't matter if the husbands abroad are doing it, let them drink of the cup of God's wrath alone. Why bring curses to oneself? 🏃🏃
Yet we are well aware that you Christians are notorious for saying with your mouths a whole load of things you do not adhere to in your actions and deeds. 🙄🙄🙄🙄
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Leave Their Wives Behind In Nigeria? by Samantha125(f):
We also want to drink of the cup of God's wrath, sharing is caring...😋😋😋

You can't expect your fellow brothers to starve while we'll be available and starving as well... We'll just be keeping each other company and having fun until you return from abroad, nothing serious.
Allthingswork:
Well...there goes the comment I was hoping not to see a lady here make, but I was kind of also wanting to see it just to see if my thoughts were right about human diversity. Hehe.

Only a non-christian (I'm not merely talking about religious affiliation on paper in this sense ) will make and subscribe to such a comment. Adultery is a no-no. Body should not be defiled, jareh.
Samantha don't fall your hands, o. 🙆🤭 Doesn't matter if the husbands abroad are doing it, let them drink of the cup of God's wrath alone. Why bring curses to oneself? 🏃🏃
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Leave Their Wives Behind In Nigeria? by Allthingswork: 12:28am On May 23, 2025
[quote author=Samantha125 post=135471914]We also want to drink of the cup of God's wrath, sharing is caring...😋😋😋

You can't expect your fellow brothers to starve while we'll be available and starving as well... We'll just be keeping each other company and having fun until you return from abroad, nothing serious.[/quote]Amen. So shall you and other intentional adulterers and whor€ mongers drink of God's wrath ( whether or not you think it's a joke or myth )m
I say amen. 🙂✌️
Ciao now, darling.
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Leave Their Wives Behind In Nigeria? by IbeOkehie: 5:21pm On Jun 28, 2025
yemmit90:
Do the said men have chances of taking them along and refuse? Forget about what people are saying here, in reality, no man would be happy to leave his lovely wife and children willingly, he took the biggest sacrifice because he want better future for his family.

Majority of those leaving their wives in Nigeria are doing so because they don't have choice . You can't be gambling with poverty or uncertain future in Nigeria and say you won't move because you don't want to leave your wife and children.
Fear of marriage laws in the West is a major reason. I know many US & UK citizens who keep their wives in Nigeria. Poverty has damaged almost everything about Nigeria, it's unfortunate. The best thing is the simplest - no citizen of the West should marry a Nigerian living in Nigeria. It's a dangerous thing to do and most Nigerian men abroad have stopped the practice anyway. Nowadays it's Nigerian women who go back home to Nigeria to seek husbands.

Good Luck to Nigeria.
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