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Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Natural441(m): 12:38am On May 21
My fellow nairalander let us discuss the reason men lose interest in there women after few years in marriage.

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Friendlyjoe: 12:42am On May 21
General packaging or fidle minded men

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Natural441(m): 12:44am On May 21
Friendlyjoe:
General packaging or fidle minded men
p please can you explain further.

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by 2buffagain(m): 12:51am On May 21
- They were lovers, but never friends
- had no shared interests
- No shared long term vision besides sex, swag and/or "I want to have children".
- Ignored the red flags.
- More focus on the wedding than on the life that follows (This one is huge for girls)

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Natural441(m): 1:01am On May 21
2buffagain:
- They were lovers, but never friends
- had no shared interests
- No shared long term vision besides sex, swag and/or "I want to have children".
- Ignored the red flags.
- More focus on the wedding than on the life that follows (This one is huge for girls)
ok

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Kdon2(m): 1:30am On May 21
Natural441:
My fellow nairalander let us discuss the reason men lose interest in there women after few years in marriage.

Their wives become toxic in the course of the marriage. And whats more, they are too arrogant to examine themselves. Simple

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by seunlayi(m): 1:54am On May 21
2buffagain:
- They were lovers, but never friends
- had no shared interests
- No shared long term vision besides sex, swag and/or "I want to have children".
- Ignored the red flags.
- More focus on the wedding than on the life that follows (This one is huge for girls)


You nailed it. Let me add this
- hidden under the guise of the world love to carry out lust which fade away gradually.

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Bola146(f): 6:19am On May 21
There are many reasons, deceits, pretence, spiritual etc

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by PureGoldh(m): 6:26am On May 21
@Op kindly add "some" infront of the word Men cos no be all man dey lose interest in his wife after few years of marriage.

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Shormiey(m): 6:30am On May 21
It's not all op......always remember something it's "some" not "all" ok...... compredé lipsrsealed

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Bonatheripper: 6:36am On May 21
Pusssyy no longer enticing.


Fallen breast

Get fat I'm married and don't need exercise mentality.

I'm generally.... If you see one particular woman... Everytime everyday.. every week every month every year for the rest of your existence.


The thought of that alone makes you get extremely tired.


No matter how you tend to look at it no man enjoys one puzzay for a long time.



Your always want new once.... Religion Sha tries to regulate this but nature will always take it cause....



In a nutshell.... Men needs new engine to service in their lives after a period of time....
Only religion and good upbringing makes one decipline enough to stick to one pusssy for life while those who don't give a fuckkkkk about all that love their wives but get tired of their bodies hence while the ashawo and runs girl business is Booming...

We should know the highest patronizers and highest payers or runs girls and ashawos are married people. �


Men are controlled by testosterone while women estrogen....

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Nitric(m): 6:56am On May 21
Bonatheripper:
Pusssyy no longer enticing.


Fallen breast

True to an extent grin

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by ZINIBANKS: 7:57am On May 21
Well M not married can't answer that question
Over to you married men

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by divineuk(m): 8:02am On May 21
Physical futures(going out of shape)
Change in character and so on...mind you no man would marry a woman with the intent of loosing interest in the future, something must have changed

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Nobody: 8:09am On May 21
1. Lust/Infatuation disguised as Love.
2. Planning for the magnificent wedding but after the wedding they realise they have nothing in common and are not compatible.
3. Kids changes things and many parents cannot adapt to this change.
4. Both wife and husband lose their looks, the wife is able to adapt but the man is not.
5. Other factors like finances can affect the marriage.

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by BlackfireX: 9:13am On May 21
U see the reason is that....

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by lightangel65i(m): 1:10pm On May 21
Natural441:
My fellow nairalander let us discuss the reason men lose interest in there women after few years in marriage.

Cause they get booring.

The same reason you can't eat the same food for 1yr

The same reason why too much familiarity causes dusrespect

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by MXD5050: 1:21pm On May 21
CHEATING AND LIES ARE NOT THE REASON WHY MARRIAGES AND RELATIONSHIPS END BUT LACK OF LOVE, SEX AND MONEY

Marriage is supposed to be a union that should last until death do the both partners apart. And relationship should reach its set goals which often time happens to be marriage. But why do these unions break? There are three main reasons why these agreement within two adults doesn't reach its desired goal.

*Lack of love: This most times is the reason why marriages and relationships end. Because so many people do not understand what love really is. They feel it's just a feeling for an opposite sex not knowing love has nothing to do with feelings. Love is a choice and a drive that drives us to understand and respect someone for a life time. When people attach love to feelings or emotion they tend to use words like this in future " I don't feel anything for him or her again" love must be a career you must build it, it must have some set goals as one of its qualities. You cannot love someone and cheat on that person except you confuse feelings for love that is why people would say they love their wife or partner yet they cheat on them. Some have even gone as far as saying love is not a yardstick not to cheat, you can still love your partner and cheat. Well, such persons confuse love for feelings.

*Lack of good sex: When this is jettison in marriage, it tends to promote infidelity and can cause a misunderstanding. Sex is very important in marriage. Constant ignoring of sexual activities in marriage has led so many marriages to break up. Sex helps to relieve stress, it creates bond, it procreates and it is the zenith of fun among married couples. So many couples has suffered as a result of poor sexual activities. So many women has failed to apply some techniques to get orgasm because they have seen sex therapy as secondary in marriage building. So many can hardly explore their wives sexually. When sexual climax is not being achieved in marriage, a sex therapist should be involved immediately. Over looking it is synonymous to over looking your union.

*Lack of money: They say "money can't buy love" yes that is true but money can keep love. Have you heard that poor people are vulnerable? Husbands have been taken away from their wives and wives have been taken away from their husbands mainly because of lack of love, sex and money. The heart of a woman desires good things and a proud man is he that have provided for his wife. One must not steal to have money to keep a relationship or marriage but must learn the philosophy of how to make money. Balanced view of money in marriage or relationship is vital. Seeing a professional counselor to help you get a balance view of money would help strengthen your union. Poor financial mismanagement has ended so many marriages in court seeking for the termination of their marriage contract and have pushed other partner to seek for financial solution in someone else. Do not be quick to blame them because money in itself cannot buy love but can keep love.

Issues with finding love, having a healthy sex life and understanding the philosophy of money can be normal and proffering a solution to it is that which does not demand medical attention except when it has gotten out of behavioral approach but requires the person to be patient and complete a counseling process not from a pastor, lawyer or a medical doctor but a qualified counseling psychologist.
Consult a professional counselor via WhatsApp on 0806 472 9707, Instagram on @mrbigt2020 with a fee of two thousand naira or six dollars. It's a choice, you either talk to a counselor now or end up talking to a medical doctor when it becomes a 50/50 chance medically or a lawyer when you can no longer fix the issue or when it becomes life threatening. Or talk to a pastor when you have been brain washed to believes that your case is spiritual and you need deliverance.

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by kiddkash(m): 1:25pm On May 21
you can't possibly eat rice for the rest of your life.
sometimes you have to try beans, yam , garri & egusi

women shouldn't take it personal

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by MOnkeyBabe(f): 1:35pm On May 21
2buffagain:
- They were lovers, but never friends
- had no shared interests
- No shared long term vision besides sex, swag and/or "I want to have children".
- Ignored the red flags.
- More focus on the wedding than on the life that follows (This one is huge for girls)
more focused on the wedding and Owambe parrying. Think I was guilty of the last one before, fairRy TAle BaRbie Dreams

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Natural441(m): 1:46pm On May 21
Kdon2:


Their wives become toxic in the course of the marriage. And whats more, they are too arrogant to examine themselves. Simple
but not all of them

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Natural441(m): 1:47pm On May 21
Bola146:
There are many reasons, deceits, pretence, spiritual etc
hmmmm
Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Natural441(m): 1:48pm On May 21
Bonatheripper:
Pusssyy no longer enticing.


Fallen breast
haaaaaa

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Natural441(m): 1:55pm On May 21
MelaninSkinGirl:
1. Lust/Infatuation disguised as Love.
2. Planning for the magnificent wedding but after the wedding they realise they have nothing in common and are not compatible.
3. Kids changes things and many parents cannot adopt to this change.
4. Both wife and husband lose their looks, the wife is able to adapt but the man is not.
5. Other factors like finances can affect the marriage.
I agree with that

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Natural441(m): 1:56pm On May 21
MXD5050:
CHEATING AND LIES ARE NOT THE REASON WHY MARRIAGES AND RELATIONSHIPS END BUT LACK OF LOVE, SEX AND MONEY

Marriage is supposed to be a union that should last until death do the both partners apart. And relationship should reach its set goals which often time happens to be marriage. But why do these unions break? There are three main reasons why these agreement within two adults doesn't reach its desired goal.

*Lack of love: This most times is the reason why marriages and relationships end. Because so many people do not understand what love really is. They feel it's just a feeling for an opposite sex not knowing love has nothing to do with feelings. Love is a choice and a drive that drives us to understand and respect someone for a life time. When people attach love to feelings or emotion they tend to use words like this in future " I don't feel anything for him or her again" love must be a career you must build it, it must have some set goals as one of its qualities. You cannot love someone and cheat on that person except you confuse feelings for love that is why people would say they love their wife or partner yet they cheat on them. Some have even gone as far as saying love is not a yardstick not to cheat, you can still love your partner and cheat. Well, such persons confuse love for feelings.

*Lack of good sex: When this is jettison in marriage, it tends to promote infidelity and can cause a misunderstanding. Sex is very important in marriage. Constant ignoring of sexual activities in marriage has led so many marriages to break up. Sex helps to relieve stress, it creates bond, it procreates and it is the zenith of fun among married couples. So many couples has suffered as a result of poor sexual activities. So many women has failed to apply some techniques to get orgasm because they have seen sex therapy as secondary in marriage building. So many can hardly explore their wives sexually. When sexual climax is not being achieved in marriage, a sex therapist should be involved immediately. Over looking it is synonymous to over looking your union.

*Lack of money: They say "money can't buy love" yes that is true but money can keep love. Have you heard that poor people are vulnerable? Husbands have been taken away from their wives and wives have been taken away from their husbands mainly because of lack of love, sex and money. The heart of a woman desires good things and a proud man is he that have provided for his wife. One must not steal to have money to keep a relationship or marriage but must learn the philosophy of how to make money. Balanced view of money in marriage or relationship is vital. Seeing a professional counselor to help you get a balance view of money would help strengthen your union. Poor financial mismanagement has ended so many marriages in court seeking for the termination of their marriage contract and have pushed other partner to seek for financial solution in someone else. Do not be quick to blame them because money in itself cannot buy love but can keep love.

Issues with finding love, having a healthy sex life and understanding the philosophy of money can be normal and proffering a solution to it is that which does not demand medical attention except when it has gotten out of behavioral approach but requires the person to be patient and complete a counseling process not from a pastor, lawyer or a medical doctor but a qualified counseling psychologist.
Consult a professional counselor via WhatsApp on 0806 472 9707, Instagram on @mrbigt2020 with a fee of two thousand naira or six dollars. It's a choice, you either talk to a counselor now or end up talking to a medical doctor when it becomes a 50/50 chance medically or a lawyer when you can no longer fix the issue or when it becomes life threatening. Or talk to a pastor when you have been brain washed to believes that your case is spiritual and you need deliverance.
thanks

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Braindealer(m): 2:07pm On May 21
The only and main reason why marriages dont last is notin but childishness; lack of self decipline and ignorance.

Marriage is a union of two MATTURED adults. Every other little reason you think causes faild marriages; like cheating, money, sex all fall under not being matured enough.

ONLY MATURED MINDS REMAIN IN MARRIAGE!

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Braindealer(m): 2:13pm On May 21
Right from genesis, men are fast and intuative, while women are slow and deliberate. A man is hardly confortable in a single position for a long time. It doesnt matter if its confortable for him or not.

It only takes great effort and determination to break the attraction.

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Natural441(m): 3:45pm On May 21
Braindealer:
Right from genesis, men are fast and intuative, while women are slow and deliberate. A man is hardly confortable in a single position for a long time. It doesnt matter if its confortable for him or not.

It only takes great effort and determination to break the attraction.
wrong

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Braindealer(m): 3:51pm On May 21
Natural441:
wrong
prove it

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by 2buffagain(m): 3:57pm On May 21
MOnkeyBabe:
more focused on the wedding and Owambe parrying. Think I was guilty of the last one before, fairRy TAle BaRbie Dreams

So walk me through that mindset as I have always found it strange and willfully short sighted. No offense, just curious.

in particular, what was your vision for the marriage? as opposed to just the wedding.
Was the day-to-day marriage ever something you thought of?

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by MOnkeyBabe(f): 4:00pm On May 21
2buffagain:


So walk me through that mindset as I have always found it strange and willfully short sighted. No offense, just curious.

in particular, what was your vision for the marriage? as opposed to just the wedding.
Was the day-to-day marriage ever something you thought of?

Of CouRSe, I thought of day to day marriage.
GiRls are always emotional. SPeakinG ABout myself. LOve all that CUte stuff kiss

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Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage? by Nobody: 4:01pm On May 21
Beware of these 4 killers of a sweet relationship. They are also called the 4 Horsemen of Relationship Apocalypse. You have to be on the lookout to when these tendencies begin to rear their ugly head up in your relationship and manage them properly. They are all as a result of emotional outburst or emotional overwhelm. The way they are being managed will determine if a certain relationship will be salvaged or not.
These 4 horsemen are:
1. Criticism: This is the negative flipside of complaint. Complaints are not bad infact they are constructive to any relationship. They help put things back in order when both partners have a good listening habit. Complaints are targeted at a specific action at which your partner failed. Criticism on the other hand convey distraught mixed with negative words targeted at your partner.
Look at these:
Complaint: There is no petrol in the car. Why didn't you fill it up like you said you would?
Criticism: Why can't you ever remember something? I told you a thousand times to fill up the tank and you didn't.
You see! Criticisms are demeaning. Let's learn to honour and respect our partners. Be nice.

2. Contempt: Contempt is a feeling of disgust........

Continue reading on
https://businesshob.blogspot.com/2020/05/4-major-killers-of-sweet-relationship.html?m=1#more

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