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Re: "He Left Me, So He Must Pay Spousal Support!" Read This Before You Go To Court by thesicilian: 3:26pm On May 23, 2025
This is why most women probably hide everything under "child support" while fighting to keep all the children so that they can get all the money
Re: "He Left Me, So He Must Pay Spousal Support!" Read This Before You Go To Court by Dogalmighty17: 3:28pm On May 23, 2025
I love this thread. So lawyers dey fine like this?
Re: "He Left Me, So He Must Pay Spousal Support!" Read This Before You Go To Court by abobote: 3:30pm On May 23, 2025
After watching my wife character over the years, I can only thank God I didn't do court or white wedding
Re: "He Left Me, So He Must Pay Spousal Support!" Read This Before You Go To Court by Orlu13: 3:32pm On May 23, 2025
Them no born anybody well to come my side ask me fr rubbish spousal payment on this naija...Dem never born d woman and the court well
Re: "He Left Me, So He Must Pay Spousal Support!" Read This Before You Go To Court by Kasdat5(m): 3:35pm On May 23, 2025
maxiuc:
she contributed absolutely nothing all those things she might lay claims on was there before she came in as wife
The day he decides to man up , he’s free .
Re: "He Left Me, So He Must Pay Spousal Support!" Read This Before You Go To Court by Love800(m): 3:45pm On May 23, 2025
White wedding is not court pls. Both are different!
abobote:
After watching my wife character over the years, I can only thank God I didn't do court or white wedding
Re: "He Left Me, So He Must Pay Spousal Support!" Read This Before You Go To Court by Kobojunkie: 3:55pm On May 23, 2025
Negroid001:
➜Hmmmmn. One of my egbon adugbo had issues with his temperamental wife and she left and abandoned 2 kids with him. She came back the following month seeking a divorce, my smart bro only wedded her traditionally. He has custody of the kids now and enjoys the single life with many side chicks. The woman dey suffer like this. She go bite finger wey dey feed her.
Children abandoned by both mother and father... terrible situation! 🙄🙄🙄
Re: "He Left Me, So He Must Pay Spousal Support!" Read This Before You Go To Court by Kobojunkie: 3:56pm On May 23, 2025
maxiuc:
cheesy➜I will create a topic on this and I want straightforward answers
My cousin bro got married to a woman that secret lured him into Court marriage and this is a girl that brought absolutely nothing it was my bro that trained her in university and ever since the court wedding this lady has been misbehaving and I got a clue from a closer friend of hers about her reasons for the court marriage and my cousin brother is very naive and stubborn type sometimes I used to tell him that no be to get money you get sense that's what he refuses to understand and he act to be on top the situation not knowing that the situation is on top him grin grin angry ,now the lady is kind of doing anything she wants to do kwatakwata if Dem divorce she will get a share from my cousin brother properties, she contributed absolutely nothing to the wealth of this my brother. now what does the Nigerian laws says about this should Incase divorce comes can she lay claim of any of my Brothers properties that she never contributed into and all this properties has been there before she came in as wife...
Stop going around telling this utterly ridiculous nonsense tale of yours. It is indicative of the level of ignorance you are packing there. Tell your cousin brother to log on to Nairaland and speak to the lawyer himself, abeg! 🙄🙄🙄🙄
Re: "He Left Me, So He Must Pay Spousal Support!" Read This Before You Go To Court by Kobojunkie: 4:00pm On May 23, 2025
anungangampu:
➜Na so, the wife of my bros change completely in our front. Even small issues, the family will escalate it. We didn't know all along they believe Nigeria Court will award them some properties the man acquired after they married traditionally. She was busy gathering evidence o.
It got to a point that it involved Police. They separated and they took the case to welfare.
Dem ask the girl, how much your oga dey send you, she said 40k. Dem ask her 40k no do you ? Wetin Child go need Wey pass 40k. Na so she started listing all the comfort the child was enjoying before, such as fuel everyday oif light no dey. All the TV and stuff they use to enjoy.
Dem tell am say, Nigeria welfare no be for mama. Na for child only. Eee clear her eyes. Na person wey dey receive 6k everyday plus other money on daily basis. Just pocket money. Na there I became proud of Nigeria.
You should instead be crying against the Nigerian system that insists a child should require no more than $25.17 a month for upkeep and maybe even feeding! That is an example of the worst system in the entire world. 😓😓😓😓
Re: "He Left Me, So He Must Pay Spousal Support!" Read This Before You Go To Court by psucc(m): 4:01pm On May 23, 2025
The level of stupidity displayed by our youths these days is alarming . The never heed advice nor will they learn from others experiences. They just want to be modern. It's their time. It's in vogue in abroad so they want it here.

If they have any iota of sense left in them, I see no reason any one will go for COURT MARRIAGE as an African man when traditional marriage is there. Cook a better food, buy drinks, play better music/folklore let the village people who had laboured to bring her up enjoy.

Honestly, once I hear Court Marriage, I know such union will and can never last. It's just a business - Partnership. It only lasts so long as the other partner allows.

That's the reason, the West refers wife/husband nowadays as Partner.
Re: "He Left Me, So He Must Pay Spousal Support!" Read This Before You Go To Court by Tunagee(m): 4:12pm On May 23, 2025
maxiuc:
cheesy

I will create a topic on this and I want straightforward answers

My cousin bro got married to a woman that secret lured him into Court marriage and this is a girl that brought absolutely nothing it was my bro that trained her in university and ever since the court wedding this lady has been misbehaving and I got a clue from a closer friend of hers about her reasons for the court marriage and my cousin brother is very naive and stubborn type sometimes I used to tell him that no be to get money you get sense that's what he refuses to understand and he act to be on top the situation not knowing that the situation is on top him grin grin angry ,now the lady is kind of doing anything she wants to do kwatakwata if Dem divorce she will get a share from my cousin brother properties, she contributed absolutely nothing to the wealth of this my brother. now what does the Nigerian laws says about this should Incase divorce comes can she lay claim of any of my Brothers properties that she never contributed into and all this properties has been there before she came in as wife...
If the properties were built before court wedding, she gets nothing; except what was acquired while they were married legally
Re: "He Left Me, So He Must Pay Spousal Support!" Read This Before You Go To Court by GindoX(m): 4:29pm On May 23, 2025
Orlu13:
Them no born anybody well to come my side ask me fr rubbish spousal payment on this naija...Dem never born d woman and the court well
You wan follow government argue? huh Your pocket go dry bro
Re: "He Left Me, So He Must Pay Spousal Support!" Read This Before You Go To Court by DeepSight(m): 4:36pm On May 23, 2025
Thunderfayamods:
Ask yourself if any Nigerian woman has ever taken their husbands to court for bigamy?
If you don't get it, forget about it.
Re: "He Left Me, So He Must Pay Spousal Support!" Read This Before You Go To Court by Orlu13: 4:45pm On May 23, 2025
GindoX:
You wan follow government argue? huh Your pocket go dry bro
Dey play...u think we are in d West....the useless vvomen will jst disappear without trace.. nonesense
Re: "He Left Me, So He Must Pay Spousal Support!" Read This Before You Go To Court by Thunderfayamods: 4:47pm On May 23, 2025
DeepSight:
If you don't get it, forget about it.
Look at, no logical response. Have a nice day.
Re: "He Left Me, So He Must Pay Spousal Support!" Read This Before You Go To Court by Thunderfayamods: 4:49pm On May 23, 2025
DeepSight:
And I just explained where it counts.

I hope u know bigamy is a crime in Nigeria.

Now tell me who you have seen being prosecuted for it?
How will anybody be prosecuted for when the women involved don't report? You are asking me the same question that I asked for you first. Have a good day.
Re: "He Left Me, So He Must Pay Spousal Support!" Read This Before You Go To Court by GindoX(m): 4:53pm On May 23, 2025
Orlu13:
Dey play...u think we are in d West....the useless vvomen will jst disappear without trace.. nonesense
Ehhh, teach me the trick oo grin
Re: "He Left Me, So He Must Pay Spousal Support!" Read This Before You Go To Court by DarkJeddi(m): 4:58pm On May 23, 2025
Thunderfayamods:
Ask yourself if any Nigerian woman has ever taken their husbands to court for bigamy?
Many have.
NOTHING came off of it.
Like he said.
This is Nigeria..
Re: "He Left Me, So He Must Pay Spousal Support!" Read This Before You Go To Court by DarkJeddi(m): 5:03pm On May 23, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Children abandoned by both mother and father... terrible situation! 🙄🙄🙄
Where did he say that the father abandoned the kids?
So because he's living a single life mean say he abandoned the kids?
Is he married to them?
Re: "He Left Me, So He Must Pay Spousal Support!" Read This Before You Go To Court by spencekat(m): 5:04pm On May 23, 2025
Baronthecelebri:
What about baby mama
No be wife naa. Wetin concern agbero and airport.
Re: "He Left Me, So He Must Pay Spousal Support!" Read This Before You Go To Court by Kobojunkie: 5:06pm On May 23, 2025
DarkJeddi:
➜Where did he say that the father abandoned the kids? So because he's living a single life mean say he abandoned the kids? Is he married to them?
You folks are notoriously incapable of walking a mile in the shoes of others.🙄🙄🙄🙄

A father/mother living a single life is a man/woman whose attention is not focused on his children; that is abandonment. undecided
Re: "He Left Me, So He Must Pay Spousal Support!" Read This Before You Go To Court by Psoul(m): 5:14pm On May 23, 2025
maxiuc:
cheesy

I will create a topic on this and I want straightforward answers

My cousin bro got married to a woman that secret lured him into Court marriage and this is a girl that brought absolutely nothing it was my bro that trained her in university and ever since the court wedding this lady has been misbehaving and I got a clue from a closer friend of hers about her reasons for the court marriage and my cousin brother is very naive and stubborn type sometimes I used to tell him that no be to get money you get sense that's what he refuses to understand and he act to be on top the situation not knowing that the situation is on top him grin grin angry ,now the lady is kind of doing anything she wants to do kwatakwata if Dem divorce she will get a share from my cousin brother properties, she contributed absolutely nothing to the wealth of this my brother. now what does the Nigerian laws says about this should Incase divorce comes can she lay claim of any of my Brothers properties that she never contributed into and all this properties has been there before she came in as wife.
She's not entitled to anything she did not contribute to especially, those things the husband acquired before she was married. From the time she was married, it will be assumed that both of them built that wealth and assets.
Re: "He Left Me, So He Must Pay Spousal Support!" Read This Before You Go To Court by DeepSight(m): 5:17pm On May 23, 2025
Thunderfayamods:
Look at, no logical response. Have a nice day.
The logic is simple, namely that there are some laws that have little effectiveness owing to culture.
Re: "He Left Me, So He Must Pay Spousal Support!" Read This Before You Go To Court by DeepSight(m): 5:19pm On May 23, 2025
Kobojunkie:
You folks are notoriously incapable of walking a mile in the shoes of others.🙄🙄🙄🙄

A father/mother living a single life is a man/woman whose attention is not focused on his children; that is abandonment. undecided
Nope, being single has always been in reference to your marital or relationship status. Since when did it indicate your handling of your kids if any?

Anyway most of the things you say have always been silly.
Re: "He Left Me, So He Must Pay Spousal Support!" Read This Before You Go To Court by Kobojunkie: 5:25pm On May 23, 2025
DeepSight:
➜Nope, being single has always been in reference to your marital or relationship status. Since when did it indicate your handling of your kids if any? Anyway most of the things you say have always been silly.
Shut up already if you don't know what you are talking about!

The story told is that the man has several side chicks... living a single life. Side chick na for free? No be attention and resources dem dey use keep those? Nonsense! undecided

If you don't even understand the meaning behind the references used, then don't even bother commenting next time. undecided
Re: "He Left Me, So He Must Pay Spousal Support!" Read This Before You Go To Court by tiswell(m): 5:28pm On May 23, 2025
abobote:
After watching my wife character over the years, I can only thank God I didn't do court or white wedding
You are not alone, comrade cheesy
Re: "He Left Me, So He Must Pay Spousal Support!" Read This Before You Go To Court by tiswell(m): 5:36pm On May 23, 2025
grin
DeepSight:
Nope, being single has always been in reference to your marital or relationship status. Since when did it indicate your handling of your kids if any?

Anyway most of the things you say have always been silly.
grin
Re: "He Left Me, So He Must Pay Spousal Support!" Read This Before You Go To Court by Xpol: 5:55pm On May 23, 2025
anungangampu:
Na so, the wife of my bros change completely in our front. Even small issues, the family will escalate it. We didn't know all along they believe Nigeria Court will award them some properties the man acquired after they married traditionally. She was busy gathering evidence o.
It got to a point that it involved Police. They separated and they took the case to welfare.

Dem ask the girl, how much your oga dey send you, she said 40k. Dem ask her 40k no do you ? Wetin Child go need Wey pass 40k. Na so she started listing all the comfort the child was enjoying before, such as fuel everyday oif light no dey. All the TV and stuff they use to enjoy.
Dem tell am say, Nigeria welfare no be for mama. Na for child only. Eee clear her eyes
Na person wey dey receive 6k everyday plus other money on daily basis. Just pocket money.

Na there I became proud of Nigeria.
I just dey laf reading this. Lol. In Nigeria if you're rich forget about true love, DNA test is also a must for all your children.

If the woman com marry you and thinking to divorce you and get part of your properties then she still get conscience bcoz na to kpai the man and and get all the properties some women go do.
Re: "He Left Me, So He Must Pay Spousal Support!" Read This Before You Go To Court by DeepSight(m): 6:13pm On May 23, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Shut up already if you don't know what you are talking about!

The story told is that the man has several side chicks... living a single life. Side chick na for free? No be attention and resources dem dey use keep those? Nonsense! undecided

If you don't even understand the meaning behind the references used, then don't even bother commenting next time. undecided
Illiterate. As usual.
Re: "He Left Me, So He Must Pay Spousal Support!" Read This Before You Go To Court by OlawaleBammie: 6:52pm On May 23, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Children abandoned by both mother and father... terrible situation! 🙄🙄🙄
So fat the happiness of that man contributed to ur headache.. I am happy grin
Re: "He Left Me, So He Must Pay Spousal Support!" Read This Before You Go To Court by Kobojunkie: 7:05pm On May 23, 2025
Mear23:
➜I think I need to say something at this point. I am saying this to all genuinely born again Christians.
➜Don't hide your past from your intending spouse. Yes, we know God had forgiven you, that should not stop you from sharing your pastor.
Hiding your past is like keeping a bump that is about to explode in your pocket. Forget the shame that comes with sharing your past.
1. Oh, so the pastor husband, whose faults are equally plenty, is not genuinely born-again? 😄

2. What gives you the impression that a past was hidden in this case, though? Are you insinuating that the pastor husband who claims he sniffs his wife's panties whenever she comes home does so because of some hidden past of his sniffing women's panties? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Re: "He Left Me, So He Must Pay Spousal Support!" Read This Before You Go To Court by MrMandilas: 7:57pm On May 23, 2025
maxiuc:
cheesy

I will create a topic on this and I want straightforward answers

My cousin bro got married to a woman that secret lured him into Court marriage and this is a girl that brought absolutely nothing it was my bro that trained her in university and ever since the court wedding this lady has been misbehaving and I got a clue from a closer friend of hers about her reasons for the court marriage and my cousin brother is very naive and stubborn type sometimes I used to tell him that no be to get money you get sense that's what he refuses to understand and he act to be on top the situation not knowing that the situation is on top him grin grin angry ,now the lady is kind of doing anything she wants to do kwatakwata if Dem divorce she will get a share from my cousin brother properties, she contributed absolutely nothing to the wealth of this my brother. now what does the Nigerian laws says about this should Incase divorce comes can she lay claim of any of my Brothers properties that she never contributed into and all this properties has been there before she came in as wife...
As long as they did not build it as couples, she has no say on his property. Except she contributed financial, emotional or otherwise to the erection of the building. She is a loser.
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