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Nigerian lady shares why she fell in love with a man on their first date.

So I went on a date with a guy yesterday, and we were having a very nice conversation, and mid way he said “I will marry a woman whom my family members don’t like, just so they wouldn’t come to my house at all”. And I fell inlove immediately.

My reason was because;

He is the typa guy every woman like me, who loves boundaries would love to have as a husband.👌💆‍♀️

Oops!

But when he bounce your family members, no come social media come dey cry say you married a devil, what is good for Greece is also good for Uganda,

Chilipepper:
Nigerian lady shares why she fell in love with a man on their first date.

Exactly what they like to fall for... LAMBA.

this is the same gender that used to fall for I LOVE YOU PASS MY MOTHER. so what do you expect?

Meanwhile, Chilipepper... do you listen to RED HOT CHILIPEPPERS? or your moniker is just random?

Hisroyalbadmeat:
But when he bounce your family members, no come social media come dey cry say you married a devil, what is good for Greece is also good Uganda,

😂😁 i love this.

She's correct.
Women are naturally territorialiastic.
They feel threatened by the woman you love the most in your family (mother or sister).
The moment they come into your life, the first thing they do is to go for your favourite women in your family, b'cos such women can decide their fate in a matter of seconds.

Gradually, they start creating discord between you and them. Pitting one against the other.
Dey do this b'cos the want to truncate that love you have for them and position themselves as your favorite. They're naturally Jealous lovers.

They hate men who know this. And they hate stubborn men but also crave to have them because they are brave and would feel protected when around such men.

Only a woman would pack into your apartment today and start dishing out orders on whom to grant entry into your own house.

Nonsense

So you said, we are watching.

Dat man day wine her mk in chop am weda in no go tuama.. He knows her type and he is using it to his advantage.

That is a very trivial reason to marry someone with whom you'll spend the rest of your life with.

The underlying red flag for any woman who marries this man is he will be very petty and vindictive.

Chilipepper:
Nigerian lady shares why she fell in love with a man on their first date.

This is good as long her son will do the same to her

This guy unlocked a level of wisdom most don’t reach until year 10 of marriage therapy.
Boundary king! Where can we subscribe to his TED Talk

Hehe she has found the perfect victim. They don't really have a problem with ur family they just want u isolated and vulnerable

Maybe Na so Annie and that guy with double face take start o

Lol be careful what you wish for...



He go reach one day he go reach ur turn....

They fall in love for unreasonable reasons...

Then start having problems in marriage when they can't sustain them and the real issues come up.

Imagine falling in love for a single unreasonable comment!

Well seems he either doesn't like his family members or he likes to set strict boundaries. They fit each other but sadly for him the girls family might come to his house as they please.

The man and the lady are two fools. She is happy he is a fool she can easily control but at the end of the day, when jungle matured, na she go first run or beg him to go see his family for help

Or u get bad fashion. If trouble arise now, u go start to look for the family members

Hisroyalbadmeat:
But when he bounce your family members, no come social media come dey cry say you married a devil, what is good for Greece is also good for Uganda,

what is good for Greece is also good for Uganda

Hmmmm.
I have no other comment.
Congratulations!

Ladies who reason like this do not understand that when trouble comes, they may not have family members or even friends to run to. Nothing bad in welcoming family members into your home, but don't allow them to run your lives except if you are totally dependent on them