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You know nothing about her. Study her first. Her boyfriend might coming to crash there at night.

Feeling is an emotion,it want last long . You under the influence of dopamine and serotonin hormone... ..

My brother seek the almighty for a good wife and don't fall into the trap of emotion..

Tenrack:
smiles. She has a child...not mind. I'm praying that God blesses me so I can take care of her and the child with ease. She's been through a lot. I know it'll require patience on my part cause I'm not lacking on kindness..God will see us through.

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Amen🙏🙏.
My prayers are with you bro.

BonPatrick:
Good morning guys please I need advice I don't know if I am making a mistake or should I go on maybe I might get the wife I am looking for. a lady came to my compound looking for a room and she is very good and has good shape and nyash out of joy I gave her the room but she paid for everything and I help her with water and other things to clean the room but later I started having feelings for her.

I don't know if I can tell her that I am in love with her and I can't explain it or should I keep my feeling to myself?

Define what u mean by feelings?

it's every woman with nyash or that wears skirt u have feelings for?

Lust and Lost !!

movid:
Okay by now if I may ask, as you're into years of marriage if you fall into such situation again how will you treat it?

Hmmm, it might interest you that I fell into same with a pastor transferred to our church, and u know what , the pastor really liked me , we were quite close but luckily after few years he was transferred from our church and that's how the feelings died, I don't have this feelings often but on the three occasions I've had these feelings, the other person usually feels same, I don't know why it's like that....

Too early, my brother. Too early 😞

The weather is too cold

Keep your feelings to your self. Who them help?

I help her with water and other things to clean the room but later I started having feelings for her.



Too Childish .

BonPatrick:
Good morning guys please I need advice I don't know if I am making a mistake or should I go on maybe I might get the wife I am looking for. a lady came to my compound looking for a room and she is very good and has good shape and nyash out of joy I gave her the room but she paid for everything and I help her with water and other things to clean the room but later I started having feelings for her.

I don't know if I can tell her that I am in love with her and I can't explain it or should I keep my feeling to myself?

Face your front as you are making a big mistake

Men nd rubbish.....if at all she dint come to rent tht house nko?.


Person just move to ur place just bcus she gave u polite jesture....uve started drolling over her lustfully......ogbeni calm down be matured be civil....these are the reason why women despite their number take guy for granted.....simp......calm in the down observer her check her character after 2 months of casual greetings u can talk of chatting her up.....for now ur lust, u don dey give her water....now next when she bill u ...then u go vex.........leave that girl nd her big shape ....she is someone girls.

BonPatrick:
Good morning guys please I need advice I don't know if I am making a mistake or should I go on maybe I might get the wife I am looking for. a lady came to my compound looking for a room and she is very good and has good shape and nyash out of joy I gave her the room but she paid for everything and I help her with water and other things to clean the room but later I started having feelings for her.

I don't know if I can tell her that I am in love with her and I can't explain it or should I keep my feeling to myself?

Look before you leap broda

Infatuation Bro. Look deeper u are blind Once u enter that curve Pus and swim nobody go tell say run for ur life

U even know if she get guy sef or na bady, try ur luck but sometimes it ends very badly, u can be lucky if ur feelings are pure and not poise towards that nyansh else that feelings go die after trailblazing that backside ones or twice

UnknownQueen:
Pursue your feelings my guy, cos love knows no bounds..

I remember when I newly got married , I started crushing on one guy in my organisation's Clinic, I told my husband about it and he asked me to resign, I respectfully did and the rest is history.....but you're single, pursue it and enjoy life cos it's short

ur speaking in mathematical calculus ....cuz I don't seem to understand this ur storey pls can u simple the statements

There is different between love and want to knack, why not offer her 20k for the night and see what will happen. It always work for me

BonPatrick:
Good morning guys please I need advice I don't know if I am making a mistake or should I go on maybe I might get the wife I am looking for. a lady came to my compound looking for a room and she is very good and has good shape and nyash out of joy I gave her the room but she paid for everything and I help her with water and other things to clean the room but later I started having feelings for her.

I don't know if I can tell her that I am in love with her and I can't explain it or should I keep my feeling to myself?

You're already in love with a stranger you know nothing about; sorry is your case, man! You need to know her first —that's the sensible thing to do. She might have all the shape in this world with some pretty face to compliment it but she could be very deadly!

Start from friendship —take her out on a date without having any stupid "love" in your head. Get to know who she really is, man!

Holluwhakemmy:
More than maggi

Hhuumm Ok o!

BonPatrick:
Good morning guys please I need advice.

This is AI answer below
this is a real and delicate situation, and I’m here to help you navigate it with wisdom, not just emotions.

First, let's break this down:

You were kind to her without expecting anything at first.

She moved in, and now you’re feeling attracted and emotionally connected.

You’re wondering if expressing your feelings could lead to a relationship—or ruin what’s already there.


Here’s what I want you to think about:

1. Why do you like her?

Is it just her looks and nyash, or have you also observed her character, how she talks, how she treats others, how she carries herself? If it’s only physical attraction, slow down. Lust can cloud your judgment and lead to disappointment.

2. What kind of wife are you truly looking for?

You mentioned you're hoping she might be the wife you're searching for. Ask yourself:

Does she have the values and mindset you want in a partner?

Have you had enough deep conversations to know if you’re aligned?


3. Does she show signs she might like you too?

Has she been friendly, open, or flirty? Or is she just grateful for your help? There’s a big difference between gratitude and romantic interest. Don’t misread it.


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What You Should Do:

Option A: Observe first before expressing

Take time to build a genuine friendship. Be kind, helpful, and respectful—but don’t rush to tell her you’re in love just yet. Instead, look out for:

How she talks about men/relationships

How she treats you

If she seeks your company and opens up to you emotionally


Option B: Gently express interest if signs are clear

If she seems comfortable with you, smiles a lot when you're around, chats freely, or looks for ways to be close, then you can gently express your interest. You might say something like:

> “I didn’t expect it, but I find myself really enjoying your presence. I respect you and I’m not trying to make you uncomfortable, but I just wanted to be honest—I like you.”



That way, you open the door without pressure. If she’s not interested, you can still remain on good terms.


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Final Advice:

Don’t rush in the name of “love at first sight.”

Don’t assume attraction means destiny.

Be respectful and patient—love built on friendship and honesty lasts longer.

And always protect your peace—don’t chase someone who doesn’t show interest.

So na because of yansh you wan marry ..... Do background checks p

Tenrack:
some men. When I met my current gf. I was attracted to her dark skin and beautiful round boobs. We've had sex countless times and I still am stuck to her. My love for her grows everyday.

Can you share her with me?? Givers never lack

I like the fact that you are sincere by including the word Yansh and Shape. Guy it is LUST and not LOVE! forget nice o. Many ladies out there are very manipulative. If you no give yourself brain, after chopping your money, they will bring another man into your house and tell you that they already paid.

By your confession, it is explicit that what you is lust of the flesh. God to Jesus For help out of that trap of darkness.

BonPatrick:
Good morning guys please I need advice I don't know if I am making a mistake or should I go on maybe I might get the wife I am looking for. a lady came to my compound looking for a room and she is very good and has good shape and nyash out of joy I gave her the room but she paid for everything and I help her with water and other things to clean the room but later I started having feelings for her.

I don't know if I can tell her that I am in love with her and I can't explain it or should I keep my feeling to myself?

Oga, ashawo change base she becomes Chang's, new puna. Becarefull cause other choppers will soon locate her.

BonPatrick:
Good morning guys please I need advice I don't know if I am making a mistake or should I go on maybe I might get the wife I am looking for. a lady came to my compound looking for a room and she is very good and has good shape and nyash out of joy I gave her the room but she paid for everything and I help her with water and other things to clean the room but later I started having feelings for her.

I don't know if I can tell her that I am in love with her and I can't explain it or should I keep my feeling to myself?

This is not love. It’s Konji

What woman yansh cannot do to a man does not exist! Thats why many ladies do BBL because if one woman pass your side, the first thing a man wants to see is, na whether she get yansh.

My advise to relief you of the stress is to find a way to wipe her. All the lust go commot for your eyes bro.

MikeofKd:
Your only attracted to her not in love with her, I'm dead sure if you sleep with her all that fake love feelings u think u have for her will disappear. Better respect yourself and leave her alone before u enter trouble.

If he sexis her, he will hook then he come and make noise screaming how evil women are.

And then he shall become a redpiller.

Then, ... Same ol song

As in you’re the landlord of the house or just a co- tenant ?

Lemme understand fess before I advice you.

Carry on. Do it on time before she settles down, after which see-finish go enter and everybody go cast.
Now is the time to take your shot. But it will be far from marriage (though not impossible).
Is it worth all the stress and wahala that will follow? If you have nothing to lose...