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egojeny1:
Leave that girl to fully develop biko. Look for a girl of btw 24 and 28 years and marry

Shalom

but you hypocrites will say 28 is old and infertile and 24 is risky

Whiteshield:
I thought as much. Na poor man pikin them dey harvest before their potential blooms.

You killed me with this comment 😅😅🤣🤣🤣

I patiently searched for money reasons 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Elyonboy:
Like the topic implies I've been dating this girl for almost a year now and we are about to take it to the next level.

She recently finished her waec while I'm a graduate and served since 2017. I am 15 years older than her

Is the Age gap too much to call it quits?

Nairalanders help me pls

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You no ask dis question before you begin fvck her.

After overfvcking her, you don dey calculate Mathematics.

Typical Nigerian.

Elyonboy:
Like the topic implies I've been dating this girl for almost a year now and we are about to take it to the next level.

She recently finished her waec while I'm a graduate and served since 2017. I am 15 years older than her

Is the Age gap too much to call it quits?

Nairalanders help me pls

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Nope bur be ready for drama cos at 18, she is still evolving and far from maturity at heat and mind. Still exploring and if you try to wade in too much, she starts feeling choked and start complaining that you giving daddy vibes not gf vibes. So it's a sensitive one that you just have to play your cards right. The good news is if you come get deep pockets, you still be able to retain her but try and keep her focus of the money sha else, na fake love you go dey experience till she can't keep up any more or find someone with deeper pockets

Elyonboy:
Like the topic implies I've been dating this girl for almost a year now and we are about to take it to the next level.

She recently finished her waec while I'm a graduate and served since 2017. I am 15 years older than her

Is the Age gap too much to call it quits?

Nairalanders help me pls

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She is in most likelyhood more mature than you.

Elyonboy:
Yes she is the one for me, I just needed other people's opinion on the matter thanks 🙏

About furthering education. That will wait for a while. She is very understanding, cooperative and Obedient.

You better leave that girl to complete her education.
If na your sister ,would you let her get married to a 33 year old suitor when she's not through with her schooling. Don't let her young age distract you , let her get her degree. Its up to you to support her in schooling or not .

Elyonboy:
Like the topic implies I've been dating this girl for almost a year now and we are about to take it to the next level.

She recently finished her waec while I'm a graduate and served since 2017. I am 15 years older than her

Is the Age gap too much to call it quits?

Nairalanders help me pls

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Wait until she goes to uni, na that time you go know.

havilla:
There is a high chance of divorce if you marry her at this age, she isn't fully matured, she may resent you later and feel you are not the kind of man she wants when she is older and understands herself better

While i agree woth you that she may not be fully matured, I disagree with you that she will resent him later. Omotola Jalade got married to her husband when she was 18, her husband was 30 I think.
Regina got married her grandfather at what age again, even with the man marrying another woman, regina still dey show happiness-even who are we to call it a facade. Who are we to assume what she is not showing.
I am struggling to remember a naija babae that married a muh older man who she was 18 and suffered a troubled marriage

As long as she makes you happy eje. Just don’t put all your eggs in one basket cause when they girl eyes starting seeing the beauty of the world, she go leave o unless she’s pregnant for you sha…

Elyonboy:
Like the topic implies I've been dating this girl for almost a year now and we are about to take it to the next level.

She recently finished her waec while I'm a graduate and served since 2017. I am 15 years older than her

Is the Age gap too much to call it quits?

Nairalanders help me pls

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She’s going to cheat on you with guys in her age bracket.

Small boys will eat your teenage cookie without spending a dime, only vibes.

Elyonboy:
Like the topic implies I've been dating this girl for almost a year now and we are about to take it to the next level.

She recently finished her waec while I'm a graduate and served since 2017. I am 15 years older than her

Is the Age gap too much to call it quits?

Nairalanders help me pls

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It is not about age gap. 33-18 is 15 just as 65 - 50 is 15.
She is young, naive and will lose. You no try at all.

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Lol, years to come you will know.

You scaled the first hurdle, she's 18, meaning she's technically an adult. My 49yr old bro is involved with a 25 yr old. Depends on how you two roll and run your package. At the end of the day, if you two are happy, live your lives as best as you can. You just have a lot of grooming to do considering her age.

Elyonboy:
She actually looks and behaves very mature for her age in all honesty. That was the attraction in the first place. And i don't look old too. I have a baby face and i don't keep much beards.

Elyonboy:
What type of stuffs? Like i said earlier, she is very mature for her age. If you see this girl, you won't believe she's 18. No jokes

"Very mature" is a relative point of view. Either she is indeed mature(which is highly improbable) or YOU are unusually immature for your age(far more believable).

Elyonboy:
Like the topic implies I've been dating this girl for almost a year now and we are about to take it to the next level.

She recently finished her waec while I'm a graduate and served since 2017. I am 15 years older than her

Is the Age gap too much to call it quits?

Nairalanders help me pls

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Hope you dey capable, cos you don officially adopt an orphan

Elyonboy:
Yes she does

You are a phedophile. A 33 years old dating an 18years old. Where Una dey get this kind mind. From your responses , you said she'll wait to further her education. An 18years should be in school and plan her life. Somebody even suggested you give her belle. Ori gbogbo yin to daru. E ti ya were ni kokan

BigManny:
My guy is 41 dating a girl of 20.

The 20 y/o girl is giving my guy the peace that his 35 y/o wife never gave him.

He may marry the girl in 2-3yrs time according to him.

I'm that your guy. I'm 39 and by chance got this beautiful girl of 19y/o she's has been so understanding and obedient. In fact I'm looking forward to seeing her parents soon.

This is obviously a troll.

In any case, if it was true, the regret will come in 20 years time when you are 53 and she is 38 and she sees you as an old cargo who stole her youth. Young boys will be the ones to help you enjoy her from then on.

Sucre6:
U go see shege, no worry, no need to advise you

I already don't see shege, we are from different timelines, but I understand this and I'm seeing her from that perspective

What is dating ? Is that an African thing?


The only justification for this kind of scenario if not poverty is marriage and you must have got financial security as a man

einsteine:
This is obviously a troll.

In any case, if it was true, the regret will come in 20 years time when you are 53 and she is 38 and she sees you as an old cargo who stole her youth. Young boys will be the ones to help you enjoy her from then on.

Like Buhari and Aisha
Or Oshiomhole and his imported wife

I wonder who is enjoying those women now

Go and ask Ned nwoko whether it is wrong and thank me later

Does she love you?

Does any member of her family know about the love btw both of you?

Does she respect you and free/ proud when you're around?

Is the family capable to further her edu? Or she's hoping on you

UyaiIncomparabl:
So, since you're sure with all the convictions you have that she's the one for you, why are you then here seeking for validation or second opinion?

If the majority of people here dissuade your motive about the girl, would you go ahead with their opinions?

You seem to have misconstrued life choices at 33.

Yen yen yen...go away Uyai!

Elyonboy:
Yes she is the one for me, I just needed other people's opinion on the matter thanks 🙏

About furthering education. That will wait for a while. She is very understanding, cooperative and Obedient.

Go ahead jawe the story I heard last week won’t be your portion!

Elyonboy:
Like the topic implies I've been dating this girl for almost a year now and we are about to take it to the next level.

She recently finished her waec while I'm a graduate and served since 2017. I am 15 years older than her

Is the Age gap too much to call it quits?

Nairalanders help me pls

Editor: The pix is a file photo, not the girl's Photo

Most problems women do encounter is bad friends around her...

Is she the kind that welcomes friends around her or the kind that minds her business and Family?

Because soon after marrying her, she will realize she is yet to see herself enjoy life before marriage, she will begin to see you as who took advantage of her when she knew NOTHING about life....

There is a tendency she might change later in life if you can't take full control of her lifestyle, emotions , finances and also watch her kind of friends....
There is work to do anyways.....

You guys are already gbenshing??

Elyonboy:
Yes she is the one for me, I just needed other people's opinion on the matter thanks 🙏

About furthering education. That will wait for a while. She is very understanding, cooperative and Obedient.

Elyonboy:
My girl is different bro she is one in a million, no jokes .

Dem no dey advice who dey in love, your eye fo clear no worry

havilla:
There is a high chance of divorce if you marry her at this age, she isn't fully matured, she may resent you later and feel you are not the kind of man she wants when she is older and understands herself better

You are saying the truth,but that may likely happen if there's no money.
When I said no money,I mean ENOUGH money.