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Re: I'm Dating An 18 Year Old Girl And I'm 33. Is The Age Gap Too Much? by Pootle: 5:52pm On May 26, 2025
emmanuel macron married his high school teacher
Re: I'm Dating An 18 Year Old Girl And I'm 33. Is The Age Gap Too Much? by Pacesetter123(m): 5:56pm On May 26, 2025
Sucre6:
Lemme warn you for the last time, bro, u go regret am if u marry that girl, if u later goes ahead to marry her u will wish u never did but unfortunately u cant turn back the hands of time. Even a girl in her 23 or 24 is still too young for you, no say I no warn u
How can you say a girl of 24 years is TOO young for a man of 33 years?
A 9 year gap is too young?
I don't understand how some of you give some advice.
By 40,the girl would be 31.
And do you know how a woman of 31 look expecially if she is a "fleshy" type as compared to a man of 40?
Re: I'm Dating An 18 Year Old Girl And I'm 33. Is The Age Gap Too Much? by MrDoGood(m): 6:12pm On May 26, 2025
Elyonboy:
What type of stuffs? Like i said earlier, she is very mature for her age. If you see this girl, you won't believe she's 18. No jokes
No worries.... Body go tell you
Re: I'm Dating An 18 Year Old Girl And I'm 33. Is The Age Gap Too Much? by Pacesetter123(m): 6:15pm On May 26, 2025
Chucks13:
So you are twice her age? So it's likely you have be dating her even befoe she is 18 ba? Are you Ned Nwoko family?

Ok let's do it this way let's say you marry her have you ask yourself when you are 80 years old how old will she be then with the eay Nigeria babes are so wayward then likely another small boy will be servicing her for you when you "Moses Rod" already cover with "strees-mark" and "look rupture like the skin of a fruit called Date". Have you seen seen the skin of dried Date before? If No go look for it.

Nwanem you too old for her. Thanks.
grin grin

I enjoyed reading your narration.It is very funny.
But like seriously,at 80,the woman will be 65.
A woman of 65 with grown up children and grandchildren does not really grave for knacking of a thing as you think.
Care and companionship at that age is the Koko.
Re: I'm Dating An 18 Year Old Girl And I'm 33. Is The Age Gap Too Much? by Pacesetter123(m): 6:25pm On May 26, 2025
uuzba:
Don't plan again.
Go and play football outside.
Una too dey pursue girl-girl.
grin grin grin grin
Re: I'm Dating An 18 Year Old Girl And I'm 33. Is The Age Gap Too Much? by Sucre6: 6:31pm On May 26, 2025
Pacesetter123:
How can you say a girl of 24 years is TOO young for a man of 33 years?
A 9 year gap is too young?
I don't understand how some of you give some advice.
By 40,the girl would be 31.
And do you know how a woman of 31 look expecially if she is a "fleshy" type as compared to a man of 40?
At that age she still trying to find her self, nah you ho suffer am she because she hasn't come to hoering phase yet, believe me, when she comes to her hoering phase weather married or not she's gonna explore nah that time premium tears go come for una way they argue, las las them no dey advice who dey in love nah shege go clear ya eyes
Re: I'm Dating An 18 Year Old Girl And I'm 33. Is The Age Gap Too Much? by Bouncing2(m): 6:39pm On May 26, 2025
It’s not a big thing..
Ride on boss
Re: I'm Dating An 18 Year Old Girl And I'm 33. Is The Age Gap Too Much? by Pacesetter123(m): 6:51pm On May 26, 2025
OldNairalander:
You realize you are not anonymous here, right?
What it takes is for me to place a call to a female child right NGO director friend and present your case to her and you with the lazy mother of the young girl that is taking money from you will have a case to answer.
Leave the innocent young girl alone. she's not ripe enough to withstand the pressures of marriage.
That's not what he was asking you.
He asked you if he has broken any law to warrant an arrest?
Let me add my own question too, which section of the Nigeria constitution will the girl child rights activist friend of yours use in prosecuting him seeing that the girl in question is within the allowable age of consent under Nigeria law?
You and most of us here were in this same country when a former governor and a serving senator who was 65 at that time got married to a minor of only 13 years old.
Where was this your friend and her NGO as at then when they were mostly needed?
Did they arrest the man for child abuse?

This is even 18 and 33 , you are calling for an arrest.Shiooorr!
Re: I'm Dating An 18 Year Old Girl And I'm 33. Is The Age Gap Too Much? by lenghtinny(m): 7:23pm On May 26, 2025
PinkNature:
You got a girl at the perfect age that you can teach her how to become the type of woman you’d want her to be.
If you don’t succeed at that, the world is gonna teach her and expose her to all the vices teenage girls normally fall for especially if she goes to uni.

Most university girls accumulate at least 3 body counts before they graduate. (Depending on how loose she let herself go, some accumulate at least 6+

But to be frank the age gap is weird. If she was in her early 20s it would have been more better.
Good luck in your endeavors.
3 as how na shocked

You don’t know warris going on cheesy
Re: I'm Dating An 18 Year Old Girl And I'm 33. Is The Age Gap Too Much? by lenghtinny(m): 7:32pm On May 26, 2025
Na 2007 pikin you wan settle down with and you are likely born 91 or 92

No matter how much you try to make it make sense, this sh*t is fvcked up angry
Re: I'm Dating An 18 Year Old Girl And I'm 33. Is The Age Gap Too Much? by Jiola(m): 8:27pm On May 26, 2025
AllBlack:
are you ready for all the STUFF that lies ahead for a teenage girl going into her 20s?

Don't conplain later oh
pls educate me. Am in the same shoes
Re: I'm Dating An 18 Year Old Girl And I'm 33. Is The Age Gap Too Much? by Father4all: 8:34pm On May 26, 2025
Why all this silly questions
Re: I'm Dating An 18 Year Old Girl And I'm 33. Is The Age Gap Too Much? by femi4: 9:09pm On May 26, 2025
Elyonboy:
Like the topic implies I've been dating this girl for almost a year now and we are about to take it to the next level.

She recently finished her waec while I'm a graduate and served since 2017. I am 15 years older than her

Is the Age gap too much to call it quits?

Nairalanders help me pls

Editor: The pix is a file photo, not the girl's Photo
Age is just a number
Re: I'm Dating An 18 Year Old Girl And I'm 33. Is The Age Gap Too Much? by Tonnyray: 9:36pm On May 26, 2025
That's the exact age difference between my wife and I.
You struck gold bro.
Njoy!
Re: I'm Dating An 18 Year Old Girl And I'm 33. Is The Age Gap Too Much? by LoneSoldier: 9:50pm On May 26, 2025
Elyonboy:
Like the topic implies I've been dating this girl for almost a year now and we are about to take it to the next level.

She recently finished her waec while I'm a graduate and served since 2017. I am 15 years older than her

Is the Age gap too much to call it quits?

Nairalanders help me pls

Editor: The pix is a file photo, not the girl's Photo
Be a bachelor and have quality peace of mind, there is nothing this women can give you in life... Trust me....

My opinion tho...
Re: I'm Dating An 18 Year Old Girl And I'm 33. Is The Age Gap Too Much? by Ndhappyman: 10:54pm On May 26, 2025
If u ask, me who I go ask, well make u ask Emmanuel macron
Re: I'm Dating An 18 Year Old Girl And I'm 33. Is The Age Gap Too Much? by Nilon: 10:59pm On May 26, 2025
colossus91:
Go ahead jawe the story I heard last week won’t be your portion!
you dey fork 19 year old?
Re: I'm Dating An 18 Year Old Girl And I'm 33. Is The Age Gap Too Much? by Nilon: 11:02pm On May 26, 2025
codesport:
I'm that your guy. I'm 39 and by chance got this beautiful girl of 19y/o she's has been so understanding and obedient. In fact I'm looking forward to seeing her parents soon.
is she not too young
Re: I'm Dating An 18 Year Old Girl And I'm 33. Is The Age Gap Too Much? by Nilon: 11:04pm On May 26, 2025
olureignforever:
You are a phedophile. A 33 years old dating an 18years old. Where Una dey get this kind mind. From your responses , you said she'll wait to further her education. An 18years should be in school and plan her life. Somebody even suggested you give her belle. Ori gbogbo yin to daru. E ti ya were ni kokan
Go to the north and see teenagers getting pregnant. You people will be here and forming what is not
Re: I'm Dating An 18 Year Old Girl And I'm 33. Is The Age Gap Too Much? by Nilon: 11:05pm On May 26, 2025
blackfase:
You scaled the first hurdle, she's 18, meaning she's technically an adult. My 49yr old bro is involved with a 25 yr old. Depends on how you two roll and run your package. At the end of the day, if you two are happy, live your lives as best as you can. You just have a lot of grooming to do considering her age.
what's your limit
Re: I'm Dating An 18 Year Old Girl And I'm 33. Is The Age Gap Too Much? by Nilon: 11:09pm On May 26, 2025
Sucre6:
At that age she still trying to find her self, nah you ho suffer am she because she hasn't come to hoering phase yet, believe me, when she comes to her hoering phase weather married or not she's gonna explore nah that time premium tears go come for una way they argue, las las them no dey advice who dey in love nah shege go clear ya eyes
for hausaland, dem dey fork dem. Wetin you yarn
Re: I'm Dating An 18 Year Old Girl And I'm 33. Is The Age Gap Too Much? by Pacesetter123(m): 11:42pm On May 26, 2025
Sucre6:
At that age she still trying to find her self, nah you ho suffer am she because she hasn't come to hoering phase yet, believe me, when she comes to her hoering phase weather married or not she's gonna explore nah that time premium tears go come for una way they argue, las las them no dey advice who dey in love nah shege go clear ya eyes
A girl of 24 still trying to find herself?
Wonders shall never end!
Then going by your analysis, girls of 24 should not be given any government office job or company job to do now since they are still trying to find theirselves at that age.

But mind you at 24,some girls have finished from the university if you didn't know, know this and have peace.
So if a graduate of a university is still finding herself,then when is she going to discover her "lost" self?
At 60?
You people will not fail to amaze me in this forum.
Re: I'm Dating An 18 Year Old Girl And I'm 33. Is The Age Gap Too Much? by MrJavaS: 11:45pm On May 26, 2025
Brandiebird:
As long as you take into consideration that her prefrontal cortex hasn't fully developed which means she'll change dramatically when she hits 25 and above. What that means is you won't enjoy the same privileges you'r enjoying now. She could leave you in 7 years time because she'll figure herself out and may not enjoy the life you created for her. I'm against such union because the power dynamic is unhealthy.
You have sense, that prefrontal cortex talk is true. The age gap is too much, he should go after ladies in their mid 20s
Re: I'm Dating An 18 Year Old Girl And I'm 33. Is The Age Gap Too Much? by delpee(f): 7:37am On May 27, 2025
Elyonboy:
Thanks alot for the advice Sir, Like i mentioned earlier, she is really mature for her age and her mum knows me very well and I've also told her my intentions towards her daughter. I also do help the mum with funds sometimes.
Are you sure the funding part is not the main consideration for mother and child? Plus obstructing her education now could have dire consequences later. Think through this again. She may be a good choice but you need to reconsider some issues very well before a final decision is made.
Re: I'm Dating An 18 Year Old Girl And I'm 33. Is The Age Gap Too Much? by myami: 7:42am On May 27, 2025
MrJavaS:
You have sense, that prefrontal cortex talk is true. The age gap is too much, he should go after ladies in their mid 20s
but people are forking 18 years old. What are u saying
Re: I'm Dating An 18 Year Old Girl And I'm 33. Is The Age Gap Too Much? by myami: 7:43am On May 27, 2025
Brandiebird:
As long as you take into consideration that her prefrontal cortex hasn't fully developed which means she'll change dramatically when she hits 25 and above. What that means is you won't enjoy the same privileges you'r enjoying now. She could leave you in 7 years time because she'll figure herself out and may not enjoy the life you created for her. I'm against such union because the power dynamic is unhealthy.
but people are forking 18 years old in the north. What are u saying
Re: I'm Dating An 18 Year Old Girl And I'm 33. Is The Age Gap Too Much? by OldNairalander(m): 8:35am On May 27, 2025
I guess you did not read where he said he gives money to the mother? dude is simply bribing the mother to have access to the helpless girl. He's just an opportunist taking advantage of their poverty state.

Pacesetter123:
That's not what he was asking you.
He asked you if he has broken any law to warrant an arrest?
Let me add my own question too, which section of the Nigeria constitution will the girl child rights activist friend of yours use in prosecuting him seeing that the girl in question is within the allowable age of consent under Nigeria law?
You and most of us here were in this same country when a former governor and a serving senator who was 65 at that time got married to a minor of only 13 years old.
Where was this your friend and her NGO as at then when they were mostly needed?
Did they arrest the man for child abuse?

This is even 18 and 33 , you are calling for an arrest.Shiooorr!
Re: I'm Dating An 18 Year Old Girl And I'm 33. Is The Age Gap Too Much? by lacasera14(m): 8:36am On May 27, 2025
It's better to marry an 18yr-old who hasn't been tainted with the skewed narratives of the world and doesn't come with an emotional baggage. 25yr-olds won't love wholeheartedly because they've been heartbroken severally and they now are too careful. They think every man is a cheat and love you with caution. They're mostly evening newspapers, multiple body counts and some school of thoughts you can never change. Catch them young bro.
Re: I'm Dating An 18 Year Old Girl And I'm 33. Is The Age Gap Too Much? by lacasera14(m): 8:43am On May 27, 2025
elmagnifico411:
you’re 15yrs older than her… you’re like her father now
So 15yr old boys are fathers? Like real father's?
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