₦airaland Forum

papyjaypaul:
The world doesn't care about you and think about you as much as you think of yourself and for yourself.

Make out of that what you wish.

This crack me up! Unless you are valuable to others, no one cares!

Trusting so much on my Sister's !!

SamoraWarrior:
Aborting the children I should have had today when I was in the university with my girlfriend then in school, about six abortion... Today I'm close to 50yrs, no wife no kids... My greatest regret😭

dey play

Dinieoj:
Returning to Nigeria.

so any plans of going back?

Loving my Wife so much that I never said NO to any request. She finally used it against me and the worst happened.

Love, but never love to the point of saying yes to every request of a woman.
They don't deserve such.
Most of them respect and love very strict unloving men.
You love them too much, and you become a FOOL.

benydy:
Marrying out of pity and also marrying a man older than me with ten years

RUBBISH

verminnel:
Failing to realise early enough that even fools grow old. Thus not all words from an elder are wise words.

Dohwho:
Don’t bring your wife abroad. Don’t try it

franchasng:
Not leaving Nigeria very early in life. I should have been talking about retiring from anything work or business if I had left Nigeria at say 23 years of age.


Not digging gold when I got married. If I had married the politician daughter they recommended and linked me to, I would have been at least a House of Reps member today. But I felt I didn't want to marry someone whose father would be influencing my marriage, that was a huge mistake. If you see such opportunity as a single young man reading this, please grab it fast, all those rubbish mentality I had then was a huge mistake jareh, their influence will not last forever, at most 10 years.


To all single guys reading, whenever you want to marry, please if you see gold dig it very well. Love is a fallacy, don't marry just because of love or physical beauty or any other nonsense reason like big nyash, sex, etc. The girl's parents and family status matters a lot, if you think you dont need it now, you will need it tomorrow. Look at Ebuka Obi, he dug his gold perfectly by going for Young Shall Grow Motor's owner daughter. Even if Ebuka likes today he can squander all his wealth, his father-in-law's wealth will still keep his children wealthy for life because Young Shall Grow will definitely will a lot of assets to his daughter, Ebuka's wife and even her kids, I will do same for my daughter and her kids.



And to the young graduates still claiming Nigeria will favor me, continue deceiving yourself, your parents said the same thing, all the wealthiest Nigerians you see today once migrated abroad or lived abroad, majority of them, so if you see any opportunity to leave Nigeria, do so fast, the earlier the better for you. Leave fast, work, save, invest back in Nigeria via real estate, hotels, nightclubs, lounges, gym centers, avoid rentage building investment.


Also look for a trusted relative or friend, there is always one or two trusted relative or friend that wont rip you off, work with him or her, leverage on the two locations you know; the developed country you live and Nigeria by buying used things there, load in a container, add some tokunbo cars and send to Nigeria to resell....over time hire or rent or build a warehouse in a good city location, so you will be known for that and you will be sending these used items with container on regular basis and you have carved out a business niche for yourself to keep you busy when you decide to retire back in Nigeria.

This guy your advice is great. something our parents did not tell us. and the sad reality of life.

If you’re ever going to take life decision, please always stick with and to your gut.

danielChigozie:
Not being serious with school and also hand work. I just dey with side hustle without any skills

we're together boss

Nehyooh:
Going back to my "ex"
I regretted it big time, but am free from that witch now

Why the hell did I do that still remain the question I keep asking myself.

she must have been really terrible

If you are not ready to marry/settle down always use condom on your girlfriend

Accepting a pay that does not go well with you due to fear of being jobless or losing friendship.

tonychristopher:
Not having all my kids or children before 30 yrs


Never wait till millions come before you get married

Better than rushing into marriage... except if you don't love the woman you got married to...

A 2 nights quickies with a family female friend which resulted me being infected with a stubborn STD that am still battling with now. As if she knew what she did to me, she has not stepped her feet to our house since then. I have not even got close to my wife since, for fear of infecting her.

...the infection normally scratches me around my private with offensive odour. I will appreciate any medication advice

Peakdesign23:
1. Most opportunities won't come twice.
2. Nobody really cares about you.
3. Don't try to please anyone but God.
4. As a lady, if your blood group is anything O, like O+, O- do not hesitate to get married early because child bearing might be difficult in your late 20's and thirties. unless you don't really care about kids. Avoid abortion at all cost while you're young!
5. Avoid anything friends!
6. Just because someone is smiling with you doesn't mean that they love you, perhaps if you see what's in their heart, you'll forever avoid them.
7. Don't just assume that connection will come to you. Go out! Meet new people, anything good can come out of it.
8. Don't ever take your security for granted, wherever you live, make sure it's well secured, don't keep your pots of cooked rice or whatever close to your kitchen windows. Even the neighbours aren't to be trusted sometimes.
9. Whenever you call any electrician or anyone to come and fix something in your house, do not be so quick to leave, stay there with them and monitor every thing. Don't give them food, let them work and leave.
10. Never tell people your sources of income or what you earn, not even family members.


Let me stop here for now.

The most useful information av seen DX year.

Thanks for sharing 😘

SamoraWarrior:
Aborting the children I should have had today when I was in the university with my girlfriend then in school, about six abortion... Today I'm close to 50yrs, no wife no kids... My greatest regret😭

You really need to appease the gods, some kids have strong spirit

YemyTemmy:
Hehehehehe..... Tried such before, she Will only see you as fool for forgiving her, i got her counsellor , therapist , pastor o, everything , she till fell again.... Asked her to go, she dey threaten to comit suicide.... I just told her i Will support with hypo or otapiapia of her choice..... Her family Don dey call since yesterday , i no pick and i cant tell them its cos she always cheats

Her libido is higher than what you can bear....omo

Your partner's Sex drive is an important factor to consider when you want to marry.

Make you try discover a very good money making business before you clock 20 years and try marry before 30 years.

No believe say after school you go get employment.


E get why.

nickxtra:
A 2 nights quickies with a family female friend which resulted me being infected with a stubborn STD that am still battling with now. As if she knew what she did to me, she has not stepped her feet to our since then. I have not got close to my wife since for fear of infecting her.

...the infection normally scratches me around my private with offensive odour. I will appreciate any medication advice

Who do men this thing 🤔

Sirchiboy:
Name one mistake you have made in life so someone else doesn’t do it.

Ensure people earn their respect.

StoryHaven:
Loving my Wife so much that I never said NO to any request. She finally used it against me and the worst happened.

Love, but never love to the point of saying yes to every request of a woman.
They don't deserve such.
Most respect and love very strict unloving men.
You love them too much, and you become a FOOL.

What's the worst that happened?

rickleye:
Haha 😆 you haven’t lived yet !
I would have thought you’d say being born Nigerian.

Being born in Nigeria wasn't my mistake.

I never chose to be here.

I regret returning home after my nysc

Never become an Arsenal fan. Pls I beg of you.

Never tell your friends and family members when you are doing so good for yourself. Hates and jealousy are always created especially if you are doing good for yourself. They will always intend you to do for them more after you have assisted them in your little ways. Keep the growth to yourself alone! This is one big mistake I have made so far in my life but I am in the correct phase. When they make money they’ll never inform you because they dislike sharing their fortune with you. It is a life lesson to me.

nickxtra:
A 2 nights quickies with a family female friend which resulted me being infected with a stubborn STD that am still battling with now. As if she knew what she did to me, she has not stepped her feet to our since then. I have not got close to my wife since for fear of infecting her.

...the infection normally scratches me around my private with offensive odour. I will appreciate any medication advice

I can't stop laughing

Not getting rich before marriage