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Doctor Throws Shade At Women Who Want To Be Financially Stable Before Having Kid by Chilipepper(op): 7:06pm On Jun 03, 2025
Doctor throws shade at women who want to be financially stable before having kids

Dr Solomon Kimera:
Girls today; ‘I want to first be an independent financially stable woman before I get any kids.’
Meanwhile fibroids looking at you like...
https://x.com/Solo_MDofficial/status/1929412809558790469?t=8y96zkuP4lT4OHYGwYe28Q&s=19

Re: Doctor Throws Shade At Women Who Want To Be Financially Stable Before Having Kid by Kobojunkie: 7:08pm On Jun 03, 2025
Chilipepper:
Doctor throws shade at women who want to be financially stable before having kids.
Abeg, Get lost! 🙄🙄🙄

Who gave this one his certificate and made him a doctor abeg! All these quarks calling themselves doctors and experts. undecided
Re: Doctor Throws Shade At Women Who Want To Be Financially Stable Before Having Kid by Tallesty1(m): 7:15pm On Jun 03, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Abeg, Get lost! 🙄🙄🙄

Who gave this one his certificate and made him a doctor abeg! All these quarks calling themselves doctors and experts. undecided
How is he quark?
Re: Doctor Throws Shade At Women Who Want To Be Financially Stable Before Having Kid by Kobojunkie: 7:18pm On Jun 03, 2025
Tallesty1:
How is he quark?
Research the topic of fibroids to learn why I consider him a quark for trying to use it to guilt women into doing that which is clearly against their own interest. 🤔
Re: Doctor Throws Shade At Women Who Want To Be Financially Stable Before Having Kid by Mariangeles(f): 7:23pm On Jun 03, 2025
Shut up, Dr Solomon!
Re: Doctor Throws Shade At Women Who Want To Be Financially Stable Before Having Kid by Tallesty1(m): 7:23pm On Jun 03, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Research the topic of fibroids to learn why I consider him a quark for trying to use it to guilt women into doing that which is clearly against their own interest. 🤔
Nature doesn't give a shit about anyone's interest.

Delayed childbearing doesn't cause fibroid but it increases the risk so?
Re: Doctor Throws Shade At Women Who Want To Be Financially Stable Before Having Kid by Kobojunkie:
Tallesty1:
Nature doesn't give a shit about anyone's interest. Delayed childbearing doesn't cause fibroid but it increases the risk so?
Nonsense Go tell that to the many childfree women out there now in the 50s who never heard the word fibroid mentioned to them by their doctors. undecided

Fibroids happen to women whether they have children or not. There is no either...or...relationship between the having of children and the having of fibroids. Yes, lots of women who have had children also encounter fibroids. A supposed professional scaring women into having kids they are not ready for is the highest level of professional ignorance. undecided
Re: Doctor Throws Shade At Women Who Want To Be Financially Stable Before Having Kid by Tallesty1(m): 8:03pm On Jun 03, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Nonsense Go tell that to the many childfree women out there now in the 50s who never heard the word fibroid mentioned to them by their doctors. undecided

Fibroids happen to women whether they have children or not. Yes, lots of women who have had children also encounter fibroids. A supposed professional scaring women into having kids they are not ready for is the highest level of professional ignorance. undecided
My father and grandfather were both over 80 when they died and never had prostate issues. So by your logic, prostate problems don't happen to men either, right?"
Re: Doctor Throws Shade At Women Who Want To Be Financially Stable Before Having Kid by Sonnobax15(m): 8:17pm On Jun 03, 2025
lipsrsealed
He's indeed a very honest doctor..
Re: Doctor Throws Shade At Women Who Want To Be Financially Stable Before Having Kid by Kobojunkie:
Tallesty1:
✓ My father and grandfather were both over 80 when they died and never had prostate issues. So by your logic, prostate problems don't happen to men either, right?"
Are you certain you are Ok at all? undecided

The man is telling women who wish to first pursue financial independence that by doing so, they risk getting fibroids. When there is no direct evidence linking one's choice not to have children at all or the choice to have them later on to increased chances of getting fibroids. According to research, fibroids are a very common condition, affecting a significant portion of women, regardless of whether they have had children. While fibroids can sometimes be a factor in infertility, they are not the sole cause and are not directly linked to childlessness.

So, how in the world does this compare to what you have there, for Pete's sake? undecided
Re: Doctor Throws Shade At Women Who Want To Be Financially Stable Before Having Kid by ItisWell22(f): 10:11pm On Jun 03, 2025
Seen a 24year old with fibroid. Multiple actually.

It’s not always about the delay.

Major risk factors, race and familial tendency.
Diets have also been implicated.
Mostly, no known cause. Just risk factors.
Re: Doctor Throws Shade At Women Who Want To Be Financially Stable Before Having Kid by Kobojunkie: 10:12pm On Jun 03, 2025
ItisWell22:
,✓Seen a 24year old with it. Multiple actually.
It’s not always about the delay, though it plays a role.
Major risk factors, race and familial tendency.
Diets have also been implicated.
Mostly, no known cause. Just risk factors.
See contradiction, abeg! 🙄🙄🙄🙄
Re: Doctor Throws Shade At Women Who Want To Be Financially Stable Before Having Kid by pocohantas(f): 11:14pm On Jun 03, 2025
Nigerian men and confusion. The same people insulting women for entering marriages with N5000. The same people complaining that they are being married for poverty alleviation.

I don't pity many of you when you end up with the wrong women. It is what you deserve.
Wives that use you to pass time.
Re: Doctor Throws Shade At Women Who Want To Be Financially Stable Before Having Kid by Brandiebird: 1:16am On Jun 04, 2025
pocohantas:
Nigerian men and confusion. The same people insulting women for entering marriages with N5000. The same people complaining that they are being married for poverty alleviation.

I don't pity many of you when you end up with the wrong women. It is what you deserve.
Wives that use you to pass time.
This is coming from the logical gender don't forget!
It's mind boggling! huh
Re: Doctor Throws Shade At Women Who Want To Be Financially Stable Before Having Kid by Tallesty1(m): 2:43am On Jun 04, 2025
pocohantas:
Nigerian men and confusion. The same people insulting women for entering marriages with N5000. The same people complaining that they are being married for poverty alleviation.

I don't pity many of you when you end up with the wrong women. It is what you deserve.
Wives that use you to pass time.
He's from Uganda

Re: Doctor Throws Shade At Women Who Want To Be Financially Stable Before Having Kid by Peakdesign23(f): 4:33am On Jun 04, 2025
No be everybody go marry.
Re: Doctor Throws Shade At Women Who Want To Be Financially Stable Before Having Kid by LilMissFavvy(f): 5:00am On Jun 04, 2025
Caption says "Doctor says", it should have been Nigerian doctor says . Senseless f000ls who having nothing good to contribute in medicine asides meaning shades at women.
Re: Doctor Throws Shade At Women Who Want To Be Financially Stable Before Having Kid by Dtruthspeaker: 5:24am On Jun 04, 2025
Tallesty1:
Nature doesn't give a shit about anyone's interest.

Delayed childbearing doesn't cause fibroid but it increases the risk so?
We all know that this doc is saying it out of his inferiority comp.
Re: Doctor Throws Shade At Women Who Want To Be Financially Stable Before Having Kid by Gbadugbakun(m): 9:50am On Jun 04, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Abeg, Get lost! 🙄🙄🙄

Who gave this one his certificate and made him a doctor abeg! All these quarks calling themselves doctors and experts. undecided
Why do you always sound so bitter and aggressive all the time.
Re: Doctor Throws Shade At Women Who Want To Be Financially Stable Before Having Kid by dapadawee(m): 9:52am On Jun 04, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Abeg, Get lost! 🙄🙄🙄

Who gave this one his certificate and made him a doctor abeg! All these quarks calling themselves doctors and experts. undecided
Am a sonographer and what he said is 89% correct.
Late marriage is disasters for women
Re: Doctor Throws Shade At Women Who Want To Be Financially Stable Before Having Kid by Gbadugbakun(m): 9:53am On Jun 04, 2025
pocohantas:
Nigerian men and confusion. The same people insulting women for entering marriages with N5000. The same people complaining that they are being married for poverty alleviation.

I don't pity many of you when you end up with the wrong women. It is what you deserve.
Wives that use you to pass time.
Allow us enjoy our confusion in peace. Na confuse we confuse we no kill person.
Re: Doctor Throws Shade At Women Who Want To Be Financially Stable Before Having Kid by Vifx: 9:54am On Jun 04, 2025
Unprofessional conduct
Re: Doctor Throws Shade At Women Who Want To Be Financially Stable Before Having Kid by Fiscus105(m):
Only fribod?

What about decline in eggs production?
Hormonal changes?
Menopause?

Even ended up as single for life (wen people run away and started chasing younger girls).
Re: Doctor Throws Shade At Women Who Want To Be Financially Stable Before Having Kid by twilliamx(m): 9:56am On Jun 04, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Nonsense Go tell that to the many childfree women out there now in the 50s who never heard the word fibroid mentioned to them by their doctors. undecided

Fibroids happen to women whether they have children or not. Yes, lots of women who have had children also encounter fibroids. A supposed professional scaring women into having kids they are not ready for is the highest level of professional ignorance. undecided
Child birth reduces the risk
Re: Doctor Throws Shade At Women Who Want To Be Financially Stable Before Having Kid by Nobody: 9:57am On Jun 04, 2025
A family friend died at the age of about 27 some years back during a fibroid removal surgery. I saw the fibroid on photo and it was damn big
Re: Doctor Throws Shade At Women Who Want To Be Financially Stable Before Having Kid by iwaeda: 9:57am On Jun 04, 2025
Only God knows who is fertile. Mocking people is out of imbalance of mind. grin grin grin grin
Re: Doctor Throws Shade At Women Who Want To Be Financially Stable Before Having Kid by Rhema173: 10:01am On Jun 04, 2025
After the social media insults to the Doctor, everyone will go home to face the consequences of his or her ignorance and/or negligence.
Re: Doctor Throws Shade At Women Who Want To Be Financially Stable Before Having Kid by RodgersAkpafu: 10:03am On Jun 04, 2025
Unwise doctor
Re: Doctor Throws Shade At Women Who Want To Be Financially Stable Before Having Kid by Mrchippychappy(m): 10:03am On Jun 04, 2025
Ridiculous take from a so called doctor,
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