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Re: Husbands, How Would You Live With Your Wife After This Public Humiliation? by ZombieTAMER: 7:18pm On Jun 06, 2025
lexy2014:
are you not an african?
if you believed the story without questioning it, how are you better than africa that u say is in the stone age?
I know it happens
Re: Husbands, How Would You Live With Your Wife After This Public Humiliation? by danietohbadt(m): 7:27pm On Jun 06, 2025
QuinQ:
It is NOT bad manners to say someone didn't read when infact they didn't (as you've just admitted)
Show me where CR is in the post

Re: Husbands, How Would You Live With Your Wife After This Public Humiliation? by QuinQ: 7:31pm On Jun 06, 2025
cr7lomo:
90 % of domestic violence on women are originated by women ... they Start the wahala till it gets out of hand... women are more violent than men, that why 80% of lesbian marriages end in divorce and Domestic violence.... while 20% of Gay marriages end up on in divorce and domestic violence...50% of heterosexual marriages end up in divorce ... now play logic into the matter
This is not a matter of conjecture. If you beat your partner to death it is recorded as part of statistics. Nothing to argue about. See the statistics below

Re: Husbands, How Would You Live With Your Wife After This Public Humiliation? by QuinQ: 8:02pm On Jun 06, 2025
danietohbadt:
Show me where CR is in the post
This below is literally the 3rd post of the thread. Aren't you supposed to read at least a few posts b4 commenting??

Re: Husbands, How Would You Live With Your Wife After This Public Humiliation? by ErebeOcoco(op): 8:42pm On Jun 06, 2025
chuksjuve:
What if in the process of flogging the culprit and he or she passes on..

Who would be held responsible?

On the other hand why assault or beat the one you claim to love?
We usually inform the police of a death.
Re: Husbands, How Would You Live With Your Wife After This Public Humiliation? by Helpfromabove(m): 8:45pm On Jun 06, 2025
bestman09:
I also wonder how husbands whose wives used policemen to arrest and locked in the past live with their wives.
Your laws are good, however, hope you have laws to deal with women whose tongues are weapon of destruction against their husbands!
God bless you for this comment

As much as I don’t support a man beating his wife

Wife must learn to tame her tongue

The mouth of a woman can be more powerful than weapon of mass destruction
Re: Husbands, How Would You Live With Your Wife After This Public Humiliation? by Fearcom(m): 9:28pm On Jun 06, 2025
QuinQ:
Good! That'd be good riddance to bad rubbish
Hope you know that women can lie?
Will you unbeat the man or cane the woman if the allegations are later found to be falsehuh
Anyway it is not every man you can use jungle justice on.
Re: Husbands, How Would You Live With Your Wife After This Public Humiliation? by QuinQ: 9:46pm On Jun 06, 2025
Fearcom:
Hope you know that women can lie?
Will you unbeat the man or cane the woman if the allegations are later found to be falsehuh
Anyway it is not every man you can use jungle justice on.
Hope you know these rules were made and enforced by men. I bet you this man had repeatedly beaten his wife and only received warnings
Re: Husbands, How Would You Live With Your Wife After This Public Humiliation? by lexy2014: 9:46pm On Jun 06, 2025
ZombieTAMER:
I know it happens
1. are you not an african?

2. if you believed the story without questioning it, how are you better than africa that u say is in the stone age?
Re: Husbands, How Would You Live With Your Wife After This Public Humiliation? by Semaj77(m): 11:09pm On Jun 06, 2025
ErebeOcoco:
Yesterday in my community, a lady reported that her husband assaulted her.

Now in my community, slapping, attracts a fine of 50k.

Fighting attracts a fine of 100k, 24 stroke of the cane and 1 carton of beer.

Threats of any sort attracts 100k and 1carton of beer.

Back to my story, the husband was arrested and whipped 24 stroke, and was made to pay a fine of 50k and 1 carton of beer.
And afterwards was sternly warned by the youths never to lay a finger on his woman again.

He was given a bottle of beer and told to take his wife home. grin

Men in the house, how would you live with your wife after such humiliation?

What amused me was the type of men and youths that came out to embarrass and advised the man on how to govern his home. grin

Sorry no pictured is allowed when there is public beating in the community otherwise I risk 150 strokes and 200k fine.


File photo used for illustration
Are women also flogged and fined when they assault their husbands huh
Re: Husbands, How Would You Live With Your Wife After This Public Humiliation? by Offpoint1: 11:59pm On Jun 06, 2025
ErebeOcoco:
Yesterday in my community, a lady reported that her husband assaulted her.

Now in my community, slapping, attracts a fine of 50k.

Fighting attracts a fine of 100k, 24 stroke of the cane and 1 carton of beer.

Threats of any sort attracts 100k and 1carton of beer.

Back to my story, the husband was arrested and whipped 24 stroke, and was made to pay a fine of 50k and 1 carton of beer.
And afterwards was sternly warned by the youths never to lay a finger on his woman again.

He was given a bottle of beer and told to take his wife home. grin

Men in the house, how would you live with your wife after such humiliation?

What amused me was the type of men and youths that came out to embarrass and advised the man on how to govern his home. grin

Sorry no pictured is allowed when there is public beating in the community otherwise I risk 150 strokes and 200k fine.


File photo used for illustration
It's a culture at my place, the man won't do anything.

Not only husband, as a child no matter how old are you, if you dare talk back at your parents or insult them, you'll be flogged by the youth
Re: Husbands, How Would You Live With Your Wife After This Public Humiliation? by bomsilaga(m): 1:38am On Jun 07, 2025
ErebeOcoco:
I am proud to say my community is the safest in Cross River State.

After years of endurance in the hands of criminals, and cultists, the entire LGA decided to say enough is enough!
We rose up as one and put a stop to criminality and violence. Gang members were sent on exile. Notorious cultists were burnt alive. And so many rules to guide against violence in any form was enacted.

We live in peace here.
This was the exact template my community adopted that ruined her till this day.
Re: Husbands, How Would You Live With Your Wife After This Public Humiliation? by descartes400: 7:54am On Jun 07, 2025
ErebeOcoco:
No. We don't handle divorce.
Our laws says no hitting. No slapping. No fighting. No assault. Be it wife, husband or anyone else.
If it is the wife that slaps or beat up the husband, will she be whipped 24 stroke, and made to pay a fine of 50k and 1 carton of beer. Since it is the law?
Re: Husbands, How Would You Live With Your Wife After This Public Humiliation? by Wallade(m): 8:09am On Jun 07, 2025
ErebeOcoco:
I am proud to say my community is the safest in Cross River State.

After years of endurance in the hands of criminals, and cultists, the entire LGA decided to say enough is enough!
We rose up as one and put a stop to criminality and violence. Gang members were sent on exile. Notorious cultists were burnt alive. And so many rules to guide against violence in any form was enacted.

We live in peace here.
Your community and youths violated his fundamental human rights.

All the participants(Barbarians) in the flogging exercise will be prosecuted and the community will pay compensation, if na me.

Customary laws has limitations when it conflicts with the fundamental human rights and constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria.
Re: Husbands, How Would You Live With Your Wife After This Public Humiliation? by Wallade(m): 8:13am On Jun 07, 2025
Offpoint1:
It's a culture at my place, the man won't do anything.

Not only husband, as a child no matter how old are you, if you dare talk back at your parents or insult them, you'll be flogged by the youth
Those youths will soon terrorize your community.

Watch it, soon.
Re: Husbands, How Would You Live With Your Wife After This Public Humiliation? by OctavianAC(m): 9:28am On Jun 07, 2025
QuinQ:
I have no idea what you're talking about.
The woman doesn't need thst type of "love"
Then, why where they asked to go home together and not to fight again, instead of asking for them to divorce immediately.

The question now is how would the man able to slive happily with the woman who brought him this kind of big digrace and humiliation?
Re: Husbands, How Would You Live With Your Wife After This Public Humiliation? by Offpoint1: 10:16am On Jun 07, 2025
Wallade:
Those youths will soon terrorize your community.

Watch it, soon.
Terrorize for what has been practiced long before my father was born? Nope! It ain't happening
Re: Husbands, How Would You Live With Your Wife After This Public Humiliation? by ErebeOcoco(op): 11:08am On Jun 07, 2025
descartes400:
If it is the wife that slaps or beat up the husband, will she be whipped 24 stroke, and made to pay a fine of 50k and 1 carton of beer. Since it is the law?
YES
Re: Husbands, How Would You Live With Your Wife After This Public Humiliation? by ErebeOcoco(op): 11:10am On Jun 07, 2025
Wallade:
Your community and youths violated his fundamental human rights.

All the participants(Barbarians) in the flogging exercise will be prosecuted and the community will pay compensation, if na me.

Customary laws has limitations when it conflicts with the fundamental human rights and constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria.
I wonder how willing the government will be to follow you miles into an uncharted community without paved roads to effect arrest. undecided
Re: Husbands, How Would You Live With Your Wife After This Public Humiliation? by Wallade(m): 11:15am On Jun 07, 2025
ErebeOcoco:
I wonder how willing the government will be to follow you miles into an uncharted community without paved roads to effect arrest. undecided
E go shock you, no worry.

Wait till it happens.
Re: Husbands, How Would You Live With Your Wife After This Public Humiliation? by Wallade(m): 11:54am On Jun 07, 2025
Offpoint1:
Terrorize for what has been practiced long before my father was born? Nope! It ain't happening
No worry, you go soon understand that the jungle you belong and those outdated customary laws are subject to the Constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria and the International Fundamental Human Rights.
Re: Husbands, How Would You Live With Your Wife After This Public Humiliation? by CJStarz: 2:47pm On Jun 07, 2025
ErebeOcoco:
unrepentant cultists. Their menace was terrible.
Not enough reason to burn your fellow human alive. There are other ways to doing the needful other than that!
Re: Husbands, How Would You Live With Your Wife After This Public Humiliation? by Offpoint1: 4:59pm On Jun 07, 2025
Wallade:
No worry, you go soon understand that the jungle you belong and those outdated customary laws are subject to the Constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria and the International Fundamental Human Rights.
K
Re: Husbands, How Would You Live With Your Wife After This Public Humiliation? by QuinQ: 10:59am On Jun 08, 2025
OctavianAC:
Then, why where they asked to go home together and not to fight again, instead of asking for them to divorce immediately.

The question now is how would the man able to slive happily with the woman who brought him this kind of big digrace and humiliation?
The woman loves her husband and he loves his wife. All that was needed was strong incentive for the man to stop repeatedly beating his wife
Re: Husbands, How Would You Live With Your Wife After This Public Humiliation? by OctavianAC(m): 10:50pm On Jun 08, 2025
QuinQ:
The woman loves her husband and he loves his wife. All that was needed was strong incentive for the man to stop repeatedly beating his wife
If you have chance to go school anytime again, please try dey enter English class and pay attention to understand comprehension. Or pay somebody make he teach you tips to answering comprehension passage. Thank you?
Re: Husbands, How Would You Live With Your Wife After This Public Humiliation? by QuinQ: 12:07am On Jun 09, 2025
OctavianAC:
If you have chance to go school anytime again, please try dey enter English class and pay attention to understand comprehension. Or pay somebody make he teach you tips to answering comprehension passage. Thank you?
And next time find someone to tell you what "You dey craze" means
Re: Husbands, How Would You Live With Your Wife After This Public Humiliation? by OctavianAC(m): 3:48pm On Jun 09, 2025
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QuinQ:
And next time find someone to tell you what "You dey craze" means
It means that we need to raise funds for your poor family to send you to school 😭, if common sense can be common to Quin Q. Because, as woman you need sense, and sense/wisdom is one of the criteria needed for a woman to enjoy a happy marriage [Tobit 6:12d].
Re: Husbands, How Would You Live With Your Wife After This Public Humiliation? by QuinQ: 5:14pm On Jun 09, 2025
OctavianAC:
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It means that we need to raise funds for your poor family to send you to school 😭, if common sense can be common to Quin Q. Because, as woman you need sense, and sense/wisdom is one of the criteria needed for a woman to enjoy a happy marriage [Tobit 6:12d].
Can someone translate for me what this one is yapping about
Re: Husbands, How Would You Live With Your Wife After This Public Humiliation? by BluntCrazeMan: 5:43pm On Jun 09, 2025
ErebeOcoco:
Yesterday in my community, a lady reported that her husband assaulted her.

Now in my community, slapping, attracts a fine of 50k.

Fighting attracts a fine of 100k, 24 stroke of the cane and 1 carton of beer.

Threats of any sort attracts 100k and 1carton of beer.

Back to my story, the husband was arrested and whipped 24 stroke, and was made to pay a fine of 50k and 1 carton of beer.
And afterwards was sternly warned by the youths never to lay a finger on his woman again.

He was given a bottle of beer and told to take his wife home. grin

Men in the house, how would you live with your wife after such humiliation?

What amused me was the type of men and youths that came out to embarrass and advised the man on how to govern his home. grin

Sorry no pictured is allowed when there is public beating in the community otherwise I risk 150 strokes and 200k fine.


File photo used for illustration
Which community is that.??

IJAW.??
Re: Husbands, How Would You Live With Your Wife After This Public Humiliation? by OctavianAC(m): 11:04am On Jun 10, 2025
QuinQ:
Can someone translate for me what this one is yapping about
Nobody is following this thread again. It is just me and you. I wan get am hot wit u. I wan get u down. ASAP.
Re: Husbands, How Would You Live With Your Wife After This Public Humiliation? by OctavianAC(m): 9:51pm On Jun 21, 2025
QuinQ:
Can someone translate for me what this one is yapping about
Long time, my friend. How has it been?
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