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Pls married men in the house help him out here...

My friend just called men to as me . I am yet to reply him

I dedicate this space to all married women seeing shege in dia husband house.. God dey

Ask your wife the amount of money will make the desired soup for you.

no come dey disturb us

no be we say make you marry who u no trust

cuzz if u trust her, u no go dey ask this question for this place

Wahala.. newly married man can't ask his wife how much will be enough... Na so Una marriage go take begin..?

My advice for you is to make sure you buy food stuff and put at home, it will reduced the cost of cooking soups 🍲.

It depend on the numbers of days you want yr soup to stay.

gentposh:
■ Pls married men in the house help me out here

You are still asking others this ridiculous question even as 2023 dey close so and 2024 dey around the corner?

any amount u wish afterall u own ur family

Gentlemen and ladies, do we tell him who he has married?

gentposh:
Pls married men in the house help me out here

Make una dey respect unaself abeg. Which kind problem be this.

If he can't decide that on his own, he probably shouldn't be married

During your waka Waka she doesn't cook for at all ok give her 10k

Stingy men association.

God forbid.

Give her anything from 2k upwards; the kind of soup depends on how much you now give her....The 2k version should at least give you ila alasepo (okro)

gentposh:
Pls married men in the house help him out here...

My friend just called men to as me . I am yet to reply him

About $350 usd should be enough for a good pot of soup for a newly married man.

gentposh:
Pls married men in the house help him out here...

My friend just called men to as me . I am yet to reply him

Na your wife you go ask not us. All fingers are not equal so you can't get the desired answer online.

If some men here tell you how much they give their wives to run the kitchen, you go run commot.

So look at your pocket, sit with your madam and you both reach a compromise.

gentposh:
Pls married men in the house help him out here...

My friend just called men to as me . I am yet to reply him

Your friend should return his wife to her parents. He is not ready yet

gentposh:
Pls married men in the house help him out here...

My friend just called men to as me . I am yet to reply him

Does this friend also call you to ask if he should use condom with his wife?

He should go the market himself and buy the stuffs, then allow the wife to do the cooking.

gentposh:
Pls married men in the house help him out here...

My friend just called men to as me . I am yet to reply him

Social media validation will ruin many of you.

Oya give her 100k every week for feeding

Tallesty1:
Your friend should return his wife to her parents. He is not ready yet

I concur
Grown baby he is

For a quality pot of soup that will last at least one week, 10k will do.
Average pot of soup that will last for three days, 5k.

Mind you, this is on management level cos for only me, I know how much I spend every week for soup.

Modified..
Chai! Why is everyone sounding so bitter? I just finished reading the comments of everyone above me thinking I could find something helpful but men.. I got the shocker of my life. Waaaat?

Simple question una turn am to warzone. Smh..I'm beginning to dislike this forum. Somebody can not come and find answers to a simple quest or issues bothering them, you'll just make the person look stupid. Too bad.

Jewessgratitud3:
For a quality pot of soup that will last at least one week, 10k will do.
Average pot of soup that will last for three days, 5k.

10k soup that will last one week?

In which regime? Jonathan regime or Buhari or Tinubu own?

If not for increase in prices of food commodity. For someone who earns 50k and above, 8k will do for a week include transport to market, but na 2 square meals straight for the week. Every afternoon den fit dey soak garri with groundnut till their finance is ok.

Jewessgratitud3:
For a quality pot of soup that will last at least one week, 10k will do.
Average pot of soup that will last for three days, 5k.

Mind you, this is on management level cos for only me, I know how much I spend every week for soup.

Modified..
Chai! Why is everyone sounding so bitter? I just finished reading the comments of everyone above me thinking I could find something helpful but men.. I got the shocker of my life. Waaaat?

Simple question una turn am to warzone. Smh..I'm beginning to dislike this forum. Somebody can not come and find answers to a simple quest or issues bothering them, you'll just make the person look stupid. Too bad.

Is he not supposedl to discuss such with his wife who know their reality in the home? Boyfriends whey dey give their babes money to cook for house no dey ask such question, na married man con dey ask am

He should also ask outsiders which colour of pant is best for his wife to wear to work

8-10k

Don't give your wife money for food

She come back again and demand more claiming it's not enough

Get the list of food stuffs frrom her and buy them

oweniwe:
10k soup that will last one week?

In which regime? Jonathan regime or Buhari or Tinubu own?

For two now. Just husband and wife.

DyingFetus:
Don't give your wife money for food

She come back again and demand more claiming it's not enough

Get the list of food stuffs frrom her and buy them

Why get the list from her, when he can write it out abi won't he know what has finished in the house?

When he buys them, he can store them and be bringing out the quantity the he wants the wife to cook as it would eliminate wastage.

Zupay:
Is he not supposedl to discuss such with his wife who know their reality in the home? Boyfriends whey dey give their babes money to cook for house no dey ask such question, na married man con dey ask am

He should also ask outsiders which colour of pant is best for his wife to wear to work

See.. this is not about their reality but a general survey which applies to everyone. besides he's a first timer and is new to this whole family thing so asking to learn from others experiences or have a rough idea of how to run that aspect of his home is not out of place. He just wants to know what works for each family and then draw his own plan from everyone's contribution which is normal.
The guy never marry before now and he gats ask so he won't end up performing below expectation. Make una dey calm down Biko. Na I too know" make many homes break today.

Jewessgratitud3:
See.. this is not about their reality but a general survey which applies to everyone. besides he's a first timer and is new to this whole family thing so asking to learn from others experiences or have a rough idea of how to run that aspect of his home is not out of place. He just wants to know what works each family and then draw his own plan from everyone's contribution which is normal.
The guy never marry before now and he gats ask so he won't end up performing below expectation. Make una dey calm down Biko. Na I too know" make many homes break today.

What is difficult in sitting down with his wife and discuss it based on their financial situation?

What use it if I have an income of N450k monthly and because of our soup preferences, it costs my wife N18k to make the soup, my reality and his is not the same, so he has nothing to learn from me.

Zupay:
Why get the list from her, when he can write it out abi won't he know what has finished in the house?

When he buys them, he can store them and be bringing out the quantity the he wants the wife to cook as it would eliminate wastage.

How can a man go and be shopping for soup condiments? Men that don't know the right spices and ingredients to buy for some kind of our native soups. Theyll end up packing all those kitchen glory and mr chef spices in the market because they don't know our local spices.

Abeg leave soup shopping for us. No be everything una go dey form I can do it.

Jewessgratitud3:
How can a man go and be shopping for soup condiments? Men that don't know the right spices and ingredients to buy for some kind of our native soups. Theyll end up packing all those kitchen glory and mr chef spices in the market because they don't know our local spices.

Abeg leave soup shopping for us. No be everything una go dey form I can do it.

I still say it, if he can't sit down with his wife and discuss it, then he should be going to the market to buy foodstuffs.