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Allsmilez999:
She fine?
She get good character?
She sabi cook?
She promiscuous?

Answer those questions then marry/date who loves you more than you love them. But this one wey you say you no like am at all😂😂😂


Give her a chance but with no financial benefits and see what happens.

ediko5:
Baba you are very wise.

The game was well planned from day one by the mutual girlfriend that gave him the girl's number.

Girls don't joke with innocent, caring and soft men. For the guy to block, unblock and block the girl shows weakness on his side and the girl is aware. Gradually he's gonna fall for the girl out of pity or out of the attention - it will start by just giving her a chance.

From the story, that girl is definitely a street girl that have cast in her location and those kind of ladies don't joke with innocent, caring and soft men.

I've come across ladies like this and they approach me with manipulative method because of my gentle appearance

Connected1 be wise o

TimFisher2:
Although your conversation doesn't concern me, but I was forced to chip in.


See...let me tell you Mr Man..all men differs, you might be a rugged man that doesn't send..if we want die, make we die,..if we want poto poto make we poto poto, a lot girls tends to run away from such men, because they know this one na mad man...which gives you the advantage of chopping who ever comes your way.


But In this scenario, I am talking about some men that are calm and collected, in which the original poster (OP) of this topic falls under, and maybe including the person you are debating with...these kind of men are soft, they might not have the we-withdrawal to stop a woman's madness or advances when they have price market, because he that price must buy.

And women knows this soft men and becomes dominant over their life, especially coming from a woman that wants to be with you, she will do everything humanly possible to be in your life.

Have you asked yourself, while some women....men got pregnant will go extra mile carry their belongings and be living with the man without even bride price, while some women won't even try knock the guys house if the guy failed to admit the pregnancy or even want to do anything with the woman.

You are right, and your debater is right too. Infact both of your are right according to the angle you guys are looking at it.

So for the soft men, the worst thing that will happen to them is to have a sexual intercourse with who they are not really into, except maybe the lady doesn't want you.

I remembered during my University days, we saw a lot of things at the student's lodge..some girlfriends where slapping their boyfriends. Lol. Why these particular girls won't even lift their finger at a guy wey dey mad. Girl's are very observant, take it or leave it..and they know the kind of men, they mess up with.

That's why it boils down on a woman that will rush and break the man's home appliances, big screen, kitchen utensils and the rest because of little misunderstanding which you know it do happen all the time. but funnily no lady will do that to me, because I cherish all these...you can talk, shout but don't touch any of my thing, because if you do, don't worry I won't even beat you. I will be smiling with you while waiting till midnight for me to bury you inside the sitting room. Lol.

Emperordynasty:
That's very correct, thank God you are the wise type despite your gentleness.
The fact that this guy brought it here is clear that he has her in mind.. hopefully he learns sha

muyico:
smile! U don buy market, by accepting d deal, or just try to carry her siblings along, explain everything to him! Or else ?? U wanna put put ya self in trouble u can't even explain how u get into

JAOS:
It is of advantage to a man when the greater love in a relationship is from the woman op give her a chance stop playing hard to get

Amsickindahead:
WTF!!! Your last paragraph is the sickest thing I ever read inna long while even though am sick in the head.

Connected1:
A Coursemate Friend gave me the number of a certain girl about 3 years ago saying that she needed a friend to talk with, so I started getting along with her based on my easy going personality, so at a point she needed finance and myself not giving money anyhow I gave her my goods to sell and take the profit whilst she bring back my capital, she failed at it and I went to take back my goods, after that I bought goods for her to sell based on a business she said her friend told her about, the business failed and I barely got my capital I gave her.


I was doing the best I can for her but then she brought talks about having feelings for me and how she knows I do too but I kept hiding mine, so I shunned her about it, we quarreled and I deleted her phone number & blocked her everywhere, after a very short while, she began using her friends to call me and beg me, I completely ignored everything because i don't have any feelings for her nor am I even interested in sleeping with her when she offered me sex despite saying she was sacred about all that.

Alas I unblocked her when she lost her mum and she wrote me, I felt I needed to assist in consoling her by unblocking and chatting her up, then I offered some financial help too because both her parents are now gone and I told her not to bother me about dating her and focus on offers she receives which she agreed on, she's 29 and I understand time is telling on her.

hukslaw:
Funny enough I, this lady might not really love him, but she's just desperate for marriage. So don't mix it; they're not the same.

Dtruthspeaker:
We are all the same exactly how all lions are the same

Connected1:
I have dated women and I currently don't have any nor want any in the next 5 years, I don't feel any attraction for her but I think she's confusing how I care about her for Love.

Because her Brother was even calling me his in-law when he saw me for the 1st time, omo I dae fear abeg.

Connected1:
A Coursemate Friend gave me the number of a certain girl about 3 years ago saying that she needed a friend to talk with, so I started getting along with her based on my easy going personality, so at a point she needed finance and myself not giving money anyhow I gave her my goods to sell and take the profit whilst she bring back my capital, she failed at it and I went to take back my goods, after that I bought goods for her to sell based on a business she said her friend told her about, the business failed and I barely got my capital I gave her.


I was doing the best I can for her but then she brought talks about having feelings for me and how she knows I do too but I kept hiding mine, so I shunned her about it, we quarreled and I deleted her phone number & blocked her everywhere, after a very short while, she began using her friends to call me and beg me, I completely ignored everything because i don't have any feelings for her nor am I even interested in sleeping with her when she offered me sex despite saying she was sacred about all that.

Alas I unblocked her when she lost her mum and she wrote me, I felt I needed to assist in consoling her by unblocking and chatting her up, then I offered some financial help too because both her parents are now gone and I told her not to bother me about dating her and focus on offers she receives which she agreed on, she's 29 and I understand time is telling on her.

Then some months got past and everything was going well, then she came again with the love jargon again and began saying how she prayed on the day I gave her money around when she lost her mum, she said she told God that whichever man she knows that sent her money is the one going to marry her and I was the only one who sent money and a huge one at that bla bla bla, I was infuriated and told her I unblocked her because she lost her mum, she kept explaining and I wasn't having any of it, then she agreed and swore not to disturb me about dating or marrying her I recommended she blocked me so that it will help her to forget about me but she never agreed.

We got talking again and living our lives until this week when she brought up issues about dating and marrying her again, how she saw me in her dreams that I was the one, how 2 other guys were asking her out and she prayed to God to know the right one and i suddenly appeared in her dreams, at this point I think I am sick of it and might go mad anytime soon if I continue like this, the reason I haven't blocked her everywhere this time around is because she gave me a job connect which one of her elder brothers was involved in as an exco member and I paid some money like others did only that it was cheaper so I have been hesitant, since it seems the job is about to taking shape and they may start paying this month or next, around 150k -200k for 2 weeks and I intend using it as a side hustle along side my business and normal job.

Please I need your advice, because whilst I have no intentions to date her or have sex out of pity, I can't just let this job opportunity go like that because I feel she may tell her brother to jeopardise the whole thing for me now if I chase her away angrily.

I will appreciate your inputs, regardless of how I feel about it.

WantsandMore:
you need both, don’t be deluded, a relationship that works is one where a man chases his dreams while a woman chases his attention/affection and love and protection and everything fits. “Tell her you want to date her on trial/probation” see how she reacts

Kavod:
AS I DE READ UNA REPLIES I JUST DE LAUGH....
THIS GUY JUST DE NACK UNA BOO BOO JUICE, SEE HOW SERIOUS UNA DE ADVISE PERSON WHEN NOR KNOW E LEFT FROM E RIGHT.
THIS ONE? NA DESPERATE WOMAN E DE FIND FOR NAIRALAND, YOU KNOW SAY DESPERATE AND OLD WOMEN DE ALWAYS RUSH THESE KIND MEN WITH FORMATS?

WantsandMore:
omo…i don caste if na true you yarn so😭😂

Connected1:
I have dated women and I currently don't have any nor want any in the next 5 years, I don't feel any attraction for her but I think she's confusing how I care about her for Love.

Because her Brother was even calling me his in-law when he saw me for the 1st time, omo I dae fear abeg.

Kavod:
TOMORROW WE GO SEE UNA UPDATED TOPICS WITH NEW MONIKERS....
1... HOW I TRUSTED A WOMAN WITH ALL MY HEART AND GAVE THIS AND THAT.
2... HOW I FOUND OUT MY WIFE OF ANCIENT OF DAYS DID THIS AND THAT...

MAKE UNA DE TRY RESPECT UNA SELF.

THE DETAILS DROPPED FOR A SIMPLE STORY SHOWS ITS A FORMAT.....
BOTH PARENTS DEAD....
BLOCK AND UNBLOCK...
HOW GENEROUS HE IS....
HOW DISCIPLINED HE IS...
SIDE HUSTLE.....
HER BROTHER....
INLAW....

ABEGI

THIS FORMAT DE ALWAYS ATTRACT AND USED AND OLD ONES WITHOUT ANY AMBITION.

CorrectionFLuid:
Only God knows what goes on inside your big hard head.

dkidd:
Self preservation. No pray to jam girl when carry ur matter as our politicians carry election matter.

WantsandMore:
it doesn’t matter anyway, the world is a fractal, this maybe a Boo Boo vibe to him but sometimes another person picks up the lessons and experiences from others.

Kavod:
Experience fron a scam, format for iniquity or what please?
Who get experience nor de seek attention for faceless forum nor advise.

Connected1:
I have dated women and I currently don't have any nor want any in the next 5 years, I don't feel any attraction for her but I think she's confusing how I care about her for Love.

Because her Brother was even calling me his in-law when he saw me for the 1st time, omo I dae fear abeg.

WantsandMore:
you need both, don’t be deluded, a relationship that works is one where a man chases his dreams while a woman chases his attention/affection and love and protection and everything fits. “Tell her you want to date her on trial/probation” see how she reacts