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nathaniel27:
How much your papa dey give your mama

why re u like this?? No be all comments u go dey blived! I just dey catch my Cruise the way op is catching his own, 5m?? Inside this hard economic?? I'm very close to Tinubu, he can't dash u 2m once, talk less of 5m

Chienex24:
Something is wrong with you, except this is sarcasm

nah my comments make u dey reason, op need Ur advice?? Leave me alone

brain54:
And some men give 300k to start a business...

And the women account for it and make good use of the money.

Why should they convert the money to dollars. Is this the US?

Some of una dey yan o! Abi you dey play?

nah dat guyz pass his boundary, and I wanna help him pass his boundary Wella, one woman here,nah 10k she take start her snack business ,

favour32:
Everybody na Dangote online na reality dey naked dem

o boy? U gat am, chop nockle?

Myrepublic:
Even if it's 5naira its money.. . A sensible man should avoid ladies who can't manage finance,same way they avoid broke ass men,who can't provide. We shouldn't be fools because we have some cool dollars nigga

blamed d nigga
For this economic, how u go give woman money to go start business she gat no ideal! Simple, selling electronic gadgets Igbo dey take 10/15yrs learns am, dat nigga nah mor*n

Nifemy4:
our dear future sister in law allegedly bought an iphone 15 pro max from the money and could barely account for the rest.

she did well

Gbadugbakun:
Now convert that 80-90k to dollars and ask yourself whose the poor nigga.

Just kidding, no be all comments u go dey count serious, frustration dey where, so I no fit comments anything I likes online??

SUNNINO:
S suspected Olosho talking

So man dey do olosho?? If u blived this update, Oyo level

muyico:
Convert that 5m to dollars? Poor niga
Double Ur hustle
Some men give women 50/100m for shopping 🛍️🛒

how much have you given your mum so far, just a harmless question. I see alot ol0shos liking your post.

Juliearth:
I find this story of yours hard to believe. If your friend is as disciplined as you portray, then there's no way he would stay in a relationship with a lady with such dubious character. He would have seen through her and done the needful.

Even his circle of friends tells a lot about him. Show me your friends they say, and I will show you who you are. Birds of a feather, they say flock together and the scripture finished it by asking "Can two walk together except they agree?"

muyico:
Convert that 5m to dollars? Poor niga
Double Ur hustle
Some men give women 50/100m for shopping 🛍️🛒

If only stupidity was a gift

muyico:
Convert that 5m to dollars? Poor niga
Double Ur hustle
Some men give women 50/100m for shopping 🛍️🛒

I like your advice my man: he should wait till he becomes a Dangote, Otedola,.... to get a right babe to marry.

Carazon:
I wanted to say something before I remembered that everyone na billionaire online. Dollar man, I greet you oo

Gods, I follow?

Why I no remember?

Lwkmd 🤣🤣

muyico:
I only give her money to buy foodstuffs put for house, 80/90k monthly

Na 150k minimum per month my babe dey get

Tho,sometimes less and sometimes high

Nifemy4:
I have known peter now for over a decade. The rest of us amongst his pool of friends womanize a lot , but Peter. He is a straightforward, loyal and steadfast handsome guy to the core. His discipline when it comes to women is second to none. i secretly admire his his resolve and firmness when it come come to chasing big bum like the rest of us, especially Seyi, Emmanuel and me----the group leader when it comes to big bum affairs.


Two years ago , during a cool evening hangout with the boys,i had just finished my own bottle of small stout, when Peter hit us all like a Russian missile, the news of his intention to get married to girlfriend Amara.

boom.. the silence that befell the meeting was deafening. i looked at seyi, seyi looked at emma with our eyes widely opened envicing shock and surprises at the same time. well, honestly , i am not supposed to gawk in shock , i always knew peter to be a one way serious fellow . he loved the girl and he never cheated, nor ever flirted with any other. at least we all know all our secrets.

"i intend to set up a business for her, and i budget about 10m for it "these were his words. he opted for a hair(wig)niche for her somewhere around unilag Akoka.

i was miffed and skeptical at the same time. To my mind ,i felt peter never know all this naija lagos babes, they go show you colour wey no dey for crayon soon. but again, he's about to get married to her in months to come aso, it's no effort in futility i persuaded myself to take a chill pill.

He handed over 5m to her at first to scout for the shop and initiate the importation of a few hairs from Vietnam as she claimed.

2 months later, peter who traveled down to the south East in preparation for the traditional marriages that was to come up in august 2024 .arrived lagos..

"Amara, how far with the 5m , how far have you gone with the search" behold. her response was heart stopping and could break sweat from the skin a person living in iceland.

our dear future sister in law allegedly bought an iphone 15 pro max from the money and could barely account for the rest.


I convinced peter to let go off her. she will end up being a liability , which was his greatest fear .

cool story bro

muyico:
Convert that 5m to dollars? Poor niga
Double Ur hustle
Some men give women 50/100m for shopping 🛍️🛒

BASTARD...How much your papa dey give your mama...how much you seff dey give your woman/wife...
sometimes una go open mouth like soak away pit dey spill rubbish comot mouth...
BASTARD na Nigeria we dey.. everybody dey cut him cloth according to him size.

Kobojunkie:
I am afraid you gave your friend very terrible advice there. Your friend was very much aware that the woman he had dated and planned to marry would turn out to be one he would have needed to bankroll for pretty much all of the marriage financially. He wanted a woman of that kind—one who would like as his dependant, aka liability— and that is what you now robbed him of.

Technically, all you did was just ruin his relationship with Amara, who may have actually loved him. His next woman is likely to be another liability though. So, I don't see why you are out her patting yourself on the back, though.

another mugu

BabaHenry:
✓ I want to believe this is just sarcasm because if it's not, Ah! Omo 💔
Your life don spoil

No sarcasm meant at all.

Most of you wey dey here, your mama no better pass Amara when your papa first marry am. She probably did worse.

TonyBankz:
another mugu

Look who's talking!

Kobojunkie:
Yes, I did. Having bad money skills does not negate the presence of love.

Love is removed from money handling. That is a fact that I am surprised you are unaware of.

Off course having bad money skill doesn't negate the presence of love. Love would have explained what happened to the money even before he asked.

If I gave you money for a business and you are buying an iPhone from it, courtesy demand you mention, love takes it a step further (You discuss).

What played out in that young lady's head is that mentality of I have used the money and nothing dey happen.

Love is a sum of the small things we do, not just the big word we throw around.

muyico:
Convert that 5m to dollars? Poor niga
Double Ur hustle
Some men give women 50/100m for shopping 🛍️🛒

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So the essence of hustling is to give it to women for shopping? Where is your father?

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tete7000:
Even his circle of friends tells a lot about him. Show me your friends they say, and I will show you who you are. Birds of a feather, they say flock together and the scripture finished it by asking "Can two walk together except they agree?"

Thank you, wise man.

sanesta:
Love is blind

That is a lie of convenience, lol.

Arostar2023:
What is dubious about the lady's character as portrayed in the story? Not everyone can manage money, that's a fact. Your friend should have studied his would-be wife before giving her a huge sum of money to invest. Infact, not everyone can run a business. Some will be more successful working as a secretary or a salesman than a trader.

My grouse is not with his initial deposit to the lady. How such a disciplined and upright man couldn't figure out his would-be- wife is dubious is a red flag that such an upright and emotionally intelligent man could not decipher. One thing I know for sure is that the kind of men op described his friend to be in this cock and bull story do not settle for mediocre and common women. They date women who share in the same or similar value system that they belong to.

franchasng:
Na reserved good guys de end up with worst girls most times and mostly because of some reasons:


1.) Good attract bad, law of nature

2.) Reserved good guys like going for the hottest chick in town so they won't cheat so they believe and the hottest chicks in town are usually money spenders and wasters lolz


3.) Reserved guys are not usually attracted to reserved girls, they envy vibrant cute girls who are usually liabilities lolz


4.) Lastly, reserved guys who don't womanize can't uncover or decode the coded life of bad girls hence they end up with pretty bad girls that packaged themselves as good girls

Your school of thought is valid, judging by my experience, but people in this case always know when their partners lack financial discipline and/or literacy.

InvertedHammer:
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So the essence of hustling is to give it to women for shopping? Where is your father?

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late

Kobojunkie:
Nonsense!🙄

Like you have never been tempted to spend money meant for one thing on other things particular when your head is still in enjoyment mode. 😩😩😩

It is indiscipline, not temptation.
I’ve been following your comments and I want to believe that you’re a lady.
Try to be subtle, if possible, pretend. Overtime, you will get use to it and trust me, you need it.

oponu

muyico:
Convert that 5m to dollars? Poor niga
Double Ur hustle
Some men give women 50/100m for shopping 🛍️🛒