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FitCorper:
My brother go get a life, you spend and waste too much time crying about the female folks, if that’s you on ur profile¿ why don’t you transfer that same discipline into making money. All this male feminist wey u de form online doesn’t make you better than the man who would chose to marry a single mom. At the end of the day, we all go spend forever for grave. Live and let live.

Dpsychologist:
So I came across this post online. A 22-year-old woman, pregnant and about to become a single mom, publicly asks for a “truthful, kind and funny male friend (boyfriend)” to help her overcome her depression, trauma, and “give her hope” to finish school. She even dropped her number.

Now here’s the thing: I’m not shaming single moms. Life happens, and everyone deserves love. But let’s call this what it really is — emotional outsourcing.

You made a choice, had a partner, got pregnant, and now the man is gone. That’s tough. But expecting a complete stranger (who had no hand in the situation) to step in as a therapist, motivator, and emotional punching bag? That’s not fair. That’s witch-hunting disguised as vulnerability.

A lot of innocent men are tired. Tired of:

Being emotionally ambushed with trauma they didn’t cause.

Being guilt-tripped into relationships to “save” someone.

Being labeled selfish for choosing peace over unnecessary stress.

Love is not a rescue mission. A relationship shouldn’t start with, “fix me.” It should start with, “let’s build together.”

Truth is, we all have scars — but it’s not your new partner’s job to heal the wounds left by the last one. That’s your responsibility.

If you're dealing with depression, abandonment, or trauma — heal first. Don’t bait someone into a relationship they’ll regret just because they were kind enough to reply.

Protect your peace. And if you’re a man reading this — you’re not evil for walking away. You’re wise.


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Thoughts? Have you ever been in a situation where someone expected you to fix their past? Let’s talk.

Ojumakaka:
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Dpsychologist:
Mr ChatGPT i greet you. Do you go about calling it on everyone's thread.

Ojumakaka:
You can edit your post well to match human written next time not copying and pasting what chatgpt wrote for you here disguising as intelligent writer

Wenonawde:
Bro you no get work at all ? Are you that jobless ? What is your business with her ? Do you know how her relationship ended? If she is looking for male friend to make her happy again I believe that should be none of business.

But as you are jobless you can take that as work too to continue criticizing her.

FitCorper:
My brother go get a life, you spend and waste too much time crying about the female folks, if that’s you on ur profile¿ why don’t you transfer that same discipline into making money. All this male feminist wey u de form online doesn’t make you better than the man who would chose to marry a single mom. At the end of the day, we all go spend forever for grave. Live and let live. You like someone, get to know them and see hw far it goes, stop putting too much pressure on ur g.f, that’s not even a wife yet.

FitCorper:
My brother go get a life, you spend and waste too much time crying about the female folks, if that’s you on ur profile¿ why don’t you transfer that same discipline into making money. All this male feminist wey u de form online doesn’t make you better than the man who would chose to marry a single mom. At the end of the day, we all go spend forever for grave. Live and let live. You like someone, get to know them and see hw far it goes, stop putting too much pressure on ur g.f, that’s not even a wife yet.

Ojumakaka:
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TOPCRUISE:
Single mums will not chase single Dads and other rival bad boys of the bad boys they dated for healing and emotional therapy. It is the innocent single man, the youth pastor, the brilliant chap which they previously refer to as nerdie, the soft spoken brother and the young bachelor they previously turned down his proposal that they will be chasing for solace, attention and acceptance.

TOPCRUISE:
Single mums will not chase single Dads and other rival bad boys of the bad boys they dated for healing and emotional therapy. It is the innocent single man, the youth pastor, the brilliant chap which they previously refer to as nerdie, the soft spoken brother and the young bachelor they previously turned down his proposal that they will be chasing for solace, attention and acceptance.