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PantShifter:
What is good for the goose is also good for the gander.

He cheated on his wife so she also has a right to cheat

What is good for Greece is also good for Uganda.

Okeytech:
I've caught my wife cheating more than 3 times but I forgave her. There was a time I caught her sending nude to someone and I still forgave her. After that I still caught her cheating again but right now I'm finding it to forgive but she's still in my house, it keep ringing in my head everyday.

At this point I honestly wanna send her packing. What do you think guys? I wouldnt say I'm a saint. I've cheated before and she has caught me severally in the past too but that was in the past which i've stopped like 4 years ago.

to be frank with you, your marriage is gone. Let me tell you, you can never ever forget cheating, it would always be ringing in your mind forever. For your wife to be sending nude that means for the right price she would sleep with anything.

jiggyman:
Don't mind the clown

u can’t be going to church and be expecting juju to save u na.why is this generation too confused.married women fork pass single girls now.how many men don die.

NJV:
Same way you stopped, she'll also stop. You gave yourself time when you were at it, give her time also. You two suit each other though.

Shengbo Weyrey ?

Okeytech:
I've caught my wife cheating more than 3 times but I forgave her. There was a time I caught her sending nude to someone and I still forgave her. After that I still caught her cheating again but right now I'm finding it to forgive but she's still in my house, it keep ringing in my head everyday.

At this point I honestly wanna send her packing. What do you think guys? I wouldnt say I'm a saint. I've cheated before and she has caught me severally in the past too but that was in the past which i've stopped like 4 years ago.

I feel like .......

Mariangeles:
A marriage wherein both partners agree to see other people. Including sex.



I'm a marriage counselor. 😌

No, u b marriage president

Eve the Bible said the only reason to divorce is infidelity. Truth being told , if you catch your wife sleeping with another man, do not waste time in sending he packing because that woman cannot stop cheating and if she does, the everlasting dent is always there whixh you’ll live with for the rest of your life . Please let her go for your mental health .

since you started it and have being caught in several occasions, it could be said you led her into this act, man up call her and let you guys discuss the future of the marriage. whatever decision that is reached you both should do your best ensure it stands.

You are both girl friend and boy friend, not married.

Daily fiction story for our entertainment.

immortalcrown:
What is open marriage?

Will and Jada Smith type!

Bro .... fair or unfair ...right or so wrong ..the reality is this is a man's world. Men are not held to the same standards as women ... we are not equals. From creation ...the male is the head ..humans or animals ... different roles ..different standards. Any society ... anywhere in the world ... almost all men cheat ... married or unmarried ... it is normal ... some get around quite a lot ... are they ever condemned by society? A woman cheating brings a different reaction ... she is condemned. You happen to find your wife cheating three times .... others you don't know about. As far as society is concerned ... your wife is a prostitute...if she's sleeping around for money ... if not ... she's a LovePeddler. Do you have kids? If yes .... do we have to say what you should be doing? You should have long send her packing. Still in the same house ... consider your life in danger.

Okeytech:
I've caught my wife cheating more than 3 times but I forgave her. There was a time I caught her sending nude to someone and I still forgave her. After that I still caught her cheating again but right now I'm finding it to forgive but she's still in my house, it keep ringing in my head everyday.

At this point I honestly wanna send her packing. What do you think guys? I wouldnt say I'm a saint. I've cheated before and she has caught me severally in the past too but that was in the past which i've stopped like 4 years ago.

What I think is that you have no rights whatsoever to send her packing because you cheated in the past.

That's why men are seriously advised against cheating because nobody ever forgets their partners cheating on them. When you cheat, you shatter their soul and trust! It's even worse among husbands when their wives cheat on them.

If you wanted to marry a second wife, you should've told your wife about it, instead of cheating on her. You two are even now; live with the mess you created and do well to advise your boys not to be like you.

immortalcrown:
The best comment of the day.

Best comment bawo? Let's stop all these balderdash. In as much I am not in support of cheating by both parties, but having a woman doing it often is not supposed to be. There's one thing you people are forgetting. Can a woman come out with her full chest and say I have two husbands? But a man can even have more than two. So cheating by men isn't always loud like that of the women.
But get me very well, I am not in support of cheating

Mariangeles:
A marriage wherein both partners agree to see other people. Including sex.



I'm a marriage counselor. 😌

Abeg call am "open relationship"

Which one be open marriage! woman was made for man, not man for woman. There is a curse in genesis 3 that eliminate any right a woman has over a man. Even if the man dey play away match, no give the woman the same legality to do the same. Two wrongs never make a right.

SmartPolician:
What I think is that you have no rights whatsoever to send her packing because you cheated in the past.

That's why men are seriously advised against cheating because nobody even forgets their partners cheating on them. When you chest, you shatter their soul and trust! It's even worse among men.

If you wanted to marry a second wife, you should've told your wife know about it, instead of cheating on her. You two are even now; live with the mess you created and do well to advise your boys not to be like you.

Story story, as in she's the one that marries the man right and also providing for the family right? Make una dey reason una comments before una post am nah

Okeytech:
I've caught my wife cheating more than 3 times but I forgave her. There was a time I caught her sending nude to someone and I still forgave her. After that I still caught her cheating again but right now I'm finding it to forgive but she's still in my house, it keep ringing in my head everyday.

At this point I honestly wanna send her packing. What do you think guys? I wouldnt say I'm a saint. I've cheated before and she has caught me severally in the past too but that was in the past which i've stopped like 4 years ago.

never forgive a cheating woman, you will pay for it everyday you stay with her and eventually pay with your life

almarthins:
Abeg call am "open relationship"

Which one be open marriage! woman was made for man, not man for woman. There is curse in genesis 3 that eliminate any right a woman has over a man. Even if the man dey play away match, no give the woman the same legality to do the same. Two wrongs never make a right.

Padi mi chop knuckle!

Okeytech:
I've caught my wife cheating more than 3 times but I forgave her. There was a time I caught her sending nude to someone and I still forgave her. After that I still caught her cheating again but right now I'm finding it to forgive but she's still in my house, it keep ringing in my head everyday.

At this point I honestly wanna send her packing. What do you think guys? I wouldnt say I'm a saint. I've cheated before and she has caught me severally in the past too but that was in the past which i've stopped like 4 years ago.

FICTION!

omolasho:
FICTION!

na everything be fiction for your face 👀

Okeytech:
I've caught my wife cheating more than 3 times but I forgave her. There was a time I caught her sending nude to someone and I still forgave her. After that I still caught her cheating again but right now I'm finding it to forgive but she's still in my house, it keep ringing in my head everyday.

At this point I honestly wanna send her packing. What do you think guys? I wouldnt say I'm a saint. I've cheated before and she has caught me severally in the past too but that was in the past which i've stopped like 4 years ago.

Most men cheat for fun of having sex and that's all no affection or love attach to it. But when a woman cheat on her man, it will go beyond having sex for fun, the life of the husband would be at risk, because she will see her husband as a standing block between her and her cheating partner. Remember women don't cheat for fun, and when they are in love they can do anything. Think twice about Forgiving her, now that you have the chance because tomorrow maybe too late. I recommend you run DNA on your kids if you have any to check for ( OMO ALE).

OP. You are a SIMPle man.

Kalulu44:
Story story, as in she's the one that marries the man right and also providing for the family right? Make una dey reason una comments before una post am nah

You are funny! So because you are the one who paid her bride price that gave you the right to cheat on her, right? Don't ever take this mentality abroad because your Nigerian wife will kick you out of the house within one week and you will come on social media and start wailing.

Here's the thing: if you know the meaning of love, you know that you married your wife because you love her. If you love her, you must respect and care for her, discipline yourself to desire only her and demand the same from her. You don't demand what you don't give.

Do me, I do u, god no vex marriage.

xareal:
If you be urhobo man you for don kpai since

Oniovo!!!

That's why we respect our men with fidelity.

As a woman, you can do as you like before someone marries you. After which, all GAMES ceases to play ▶️

Okeytech:
I've caught my wife cheating more than 3 times but I forgave her. There was a time I caught her sending nude to someone and I still forgave her. After that I still caught her cheating again but right now I'm finding it to forgive but she's still in my house, it keep ringing in my head everyday.

At this point I honestly wanna send her packing. What do you think guys? I wouldnt say I'm a saint. I've cheated before and she has caught me severally in the past too but that was in the past which i've stopped like 4 years ago.

You were unfaithful in the past, she is unfaithful in the present, the two of you have explored outside marriage. Call a meeting and decide what you want: stop cheating or continue differently. You may not know which of your 'children' are truly yours; she does not know how many children you keep outside.

Your actions may have prompted her into stupid adultery.
Sincerity is needed here Sir.

kevotek1000:
Most men cheat for fun of having sex and that's all no affection or love attach to it. But when a woman cheat on her man, it will go beyond having sex for fun, the life of the husband would be at risk, because she will see her husband as a standing block between her and her cheating partner. Remember women don't cheat for fun, and when they are in love they can do anything. Think twice about Forgiving her, now that you have the chance because tomorrow maybe too late. I recommend you run DNA on your kids if you have any to check for ( OMO ALE).

Let me tell you how I found out about the last cheating 4days ago. I noticed she changed the password of her phone and then I was suspecting her, then i confronted her and lied that i found a way of unlocking her phone and I saw everything she's doing with men. Then boom she exploded and said yes she's doing her own for money, that I made her the monster she has become, that she doesn't even know how she ended up with me...... She said alot of things bro. But at last she apologized by herself yesterday but mehn, at this point I wanna send her out of my life for good bro. The only thing hindering me is the children's school and it's third term.

bluebay:
Eve the Bible said the only reason to divorce is infidelity. Truth being told , if you catch your wife sleeping with another man, do not waste time in sending he packing because that woman cannot stop cheating and if she does, the everlasting dent is always there whixh you’ll live with for the rest of your life . Please let her go for your mental health .

Let me tell you how I found out about the last cheating 4days ago. I noticed she changed the password of her phone and then I was suspecting her, then i confronted her and lied that i found a way of unlocking her phone and I saw everything she's doing with men. Then boom she exploded and said yes she's doing her own for money, that I made her the monster she has become, that she doesn't even know how she ended up with me...... She said alot of things bro. But at last she apologized by herself yesterday but mehn, at this point I wanna send her out of my life for good bro. The only thing hindering me is the children's school and it's third term

Okeytech:
I've caught my wife cheating more than 3 times but I forgave her. There was a time I caught her sending nude to someone and I still forgave her. After that I still caught her cheating again but right now I'm finding it to forgive but she's still in my house, it keep ringing in my head everyday.

At this point I honestly wanna send her packing. What do you think guys? I wouldnt say I'm a saint. I've cheated before and she has caught me severally in the past too but that was in the past which i've stopped like 4 years ago.

both of you should go for deliverance in the bible based church.

Okeytech:
Let me tell you how I found out about the last cheating 4days ago. I noticed she changed the password of her phone and then I was suspecting her, then i confronted her and lied that i found a way of unlocking her phone and I saw everything she's doing with men. Then boom she exploded and said yes she's doing her own for money, that I made her the monster she has become, that she doesn't even know how she ended up with me...... She said alot of things bro. But at last she apologized by herself yesterday but mehn, at this point I wanna send her out of my life for good bro. The only thing hindering me is the children's school and it's third term

Let me help you make things fast. Tell your people what’s been happening . I believe they will help you fast track her leaving the house

Okeytech:
I've caught my wife cheating more than 3 times but I forgave her. There was a time I caught her sending nude to someone and I still forgave her. After that I still caught her cheating again but right now I'm finding it to forgive but she's still in my house, it keep ringing in my head everyday.

At this point I honestly wanna send her packing. What do you think guys? I wouldnt say I'm a saint. I've cheated before and she has caught me severally in the past too but that was in the past which i've stopped like 4 years ago.

Probably fiction....but several couples are passing through what you narrated here.

How to handle a cheating spouse that refuses to stop?

Divorce o.

Adultery is forgivable, but not negotiable.