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Na mostly bad news dey make breaking news.

A very large percentage of women have good post cs experience but na only bad ones go enter news

Person when nor wan marry, abeg nor marry , don't use these few bad examples to reaffirm your negative bias towards marriage

Some ladies misbehaves, disrespects and are so rude to their parents that lay curses on when they'll get married. Some mothers will tell their daughters that that the sorrow you caused me today, you will witness it 10 times over when you marry.
Karma is Bae. Some horrible experiences by this gender is an inherited curse. Men are not this demonic.
I'm just saying.

Fearurcreeator:
A man you build with wont treat you this way. I say it to you . When be say na ready made una want so he will treat you like trash , and again to those crying mother inlaws , when their own to marry them.dey worse pass mother laws... People wey naturally wicked. You don't know them until the position for power you go fear.

@bold:

That is a lie of the devil!

A mam will treat a woman depending on how he values her. If he loves her, he will treat her like diamond whether she was Barbara the builder or not. If he doesn't, even if she built with her blood, he will justify getting a replacement.

Besides, most men do not like Barbara the builders after the building phase. That's why they get sweet sixteens they can bugga for. If the man really loves the Barbara, he turns her to his sweet sixteen.

Pharaoh4rin:
Some ladies misbehaves, disrespects and are so rude to their parents that lay curses on when they'll get married. Some mothers will tell their daughters that that the sorrow you caused me today, you will witness it 10 times over when you marry.
Karma is Bae. Some horrible experiences by this gender is an inherited curse. Men are not this demonic.
I'm just saying.

@bold:

They are just demonic agents to mete punishments

ChengHun:
As a woman if you behave well and relate well with your husband and your in-laws, you wouldn't have any problem. You will start having problem the moment you start disrespecting and competing with your in-laws.
Make your in-laws your friends, love your mother inlaw the way you love your mother.
Remember, your mother in-law used her entire productive years to raise your husband.

And disrespect of in-laws (if true) justifies this demonic behaviour?

And someone was defending you guys a few posts later that men are not that demonic

My next door neighbour beat up his wife 7 days after delivery. My mother in-law was bathing their baby and mine, had to stop her after beating up his wife. The girl has no one. He wanted to hit the wife, the wife doge and hit the son the new born. The guy was dating a mother of 3. Today the marriage has crashed because he doesn't take care of the wife and son, I don't see him anymore. He was rich but later became poor. Things do happen. I would have revealed more about the guy don't want my neighbours reading and knowing am the one typing.

folake4u:
More reason I will be very selective with the omelette chef I give my eggs to. Masha Allah.

NL doesn't allow only emojis anymore.

So my era of one emoji post is over

bukatyne:


NL doesn't allow only emojis anymore.

So my era of one emoji post is over

Yeah I saw that. One has to write a minimum of 40 posts now. Wahala ear and dear.

Me wey wan spoil my wife silly when next she delivers. Our first two kids came when we were at about average level. As God helps me, the kind pamper wey I go give am, she go dey beg me to birth every 9 months!

Believe it or not, the truth in these tales is not up to 0.01%. The other gender and lies are 5&6

Esthered:
Most complaints were of MILs who have hubby's support as they have the power to control the situation but would rather do nothing.

At the end of the day women are their own worst enemy. Most of the complaints here shows that the Mother in law(a fellow woman) are the chief architect of such maltreatment while I won't exonerate the men.
A lot would have been been different if MIL protected their fellow gender

Hmm.
I know some of these happen.
Some MIL na devil.

When they lacked love, care, affection and compassion from their husband, they channel everything to their sons. And sons will be gaslighted that nothing like mum.

If your mum is in good par with your dad, she has no time for you. To even visit you na wahala.

So they will always see the wives as their competitors. Pity those boys who don't know how to call their mum to order.

You can as well sleep with her since you are inseparable. Always check the level of closeness with the mum before you put head.

bukatyne:
And disrespect of in-laws (if true) justifies this demonic behaviour?

And someone was defending you guys a few posts later that men are not that demonic

When you act like a demon as a woman, your husband will deal with you like a demon.
After frustrating your husbands you will come to social media to come and write exaggerated stories.
Someone raised a son for about 30 years.You marry the son and you want to be competing with her.Who does that

frazee:
Why do some of these stories sound exaggerated?

ActressAbimbola:
Believe my gender at your own peril.

I do believe them. They're still alive to tell their own stories themselves, that's why you find it difficult to believe. I know you do believe the stories of the ones who lost their lives to their abusive and violent husbands when it finally made it to the media through the third party.

ActressAbimbola:
Believe my gender at your own peril.

You shouldn't say this if you are truly a female, it's wrong. Do you know what some women are going through? Speak for yourself if God has blessed you with a good man. But sis, things are happening. And I pray you get a good man if you are not married.

dominique:
I'm finding it hard to believe all of these accounts not that it excuses the barbarity of Nigerian men and their greatest enablers (their mothers). I've heard of a case of a mother who shouted her daughter in-law who fainted not to stress her husband, after all she's not the first to give birth. This is someone who lost a lot of blood after putting to bed yet was expected to be cooking and doing all the chores for mama who came to "help" her with childcare. This is why women need to be selfish when it comes to their general well-being. Nobody can take care of you better than you

Which one aunty? Do you believe or you don't.

I do not find these tales very hard to believe because i have seen humans in their most cruel form ..the heart of man is desperately wicked ..🤔

DoctorShomo:
I don't believe all these comments I'm reading

You do know that these are women (wives) reporting their fellow women (MIL), right?

See all of them sounding innocent like them no dey do worst pas their mother in-laws.
And those who use pregnancy hormones, pregnancy cravings and pregnancy witchcraft to torment the ment before resetting their brains won't say it

While I am not trying to justify any of these dehumanizing behavior on a MIL, yet, I wish to emphasize that a lady/woman who genuinely fall in love not only with a man but with his family members and in which her love is equally genuinely reciprocated by the man and his family members will NEVER experience any of these such thing.

Many lady that experience any of these Mil harsh treatments are probably reaping the reward of their desperation, and the signals of their MIL hostility may have even been there before their desperately went ahead to have baby for their man.

Too sad!

Fearurcreeator:
A man you build with wont treat you this way. I say it to you . When be say na ready made una want so he will treat you like trash , and again to those crying mother inlaws , when their own to marry them.dey worse pass mother laws... People wey naturally wicked. You don't know them until the position for power you go fear.

Like men who their wives feed don't abuse the wives. Where is Osinachi today and the he goat she was building with.
People are terrible and kindness is not defined by wealth or being wretched

Why is it that we never hear stories of father-in-law and son-in-law or father-in-law and daughter-in-law....

We all know what the problem is...even in the Garden of Eden, na so them take start problem...

Men just do what is right always and don't let anybody manipulate you, because that is how mens problems usually start....

Jeez






Some women dhey marry sha o

Folake4u I sight you

Looking at the exaggerated stories intently,one will notice it's still thesame female gender against its kind.
The females (both wives and MILs) always create problems for the males to come and settle. And at the end of the day, it's the male genders that will carry all the blame.
God save the men folks

Mostly made up. I just can't believe this stories.

Inhumane.

ahnie:
Jeez






Some women dhey marry sha o

Folake4u I sight you

Lol 😂😂 nor be small thing.

I greet you Mama.

Chilipepper:
Nigerian women share experience after giving birth.

most of these stories are obviously made up imho

way too outrageous and moving into soap opera villain territory