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My friend discussed this with me concerning his wife:

His wife has a male friend and they talk often on phone. Usually, it's his wife who calls this male friend and she calls him by various pet names.

My friends wife has disclosed to her male friend that she has done a CS section before and that my friend is currently unemployed. Though no romantic trace yet, could my friends wife be harbouring feelings for her male friend?

She was asking her male friend if he could get a job for her husband

She might...in fact she might be nursing the intention. Buy let your friend know so he can make his investigations ; there maybe more

It’s natural for a husband to feel uneasy when his wife is emotionally close to another man, especially with frequent calls, pet names, and personal conversations. While it may start innocently, women’s hearts can be emotionally sensitive and easily influenced by attention or kind words. That’s why married couples should set clear boundaries, communicate openly, and protect their relationship from anything that could weaken trust.

No matter the condition and situation,a goat and a lion can never and can not be friends . Cuz if they venture do,lion must use goat shine las las

Op,that your friend's wife, it's just a matter of time before feelings would crawl in...And trust me,it wouldn't be a funny scenario cuz your friend couldn't stop it from the onset when it all started....

Your friend o, abi na you o
Both of you are WO-MEN

So keep it up star simps

All this nonsense can only happen if we are still dating. Your friends will be my friends.. Once I marry you keep for my house anything concerning male friends and bestie will expire.

NEWBIN:
My friend discussed this with me concerning his wife:

His wife has a male friend and they talk often on phone. Usually, it's his wife who calls this male friend and she calls him by various pet names.

My friends wife has disclosed to her male friend that she has done a CS section before and that my friend is currently unemployed. Though no romantic trace yet, could my friends wife be harbouring feelings for her male friend?

She was asking her male friend if he could get a job for her husband

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If a situation warrants that the wife and the male friend are found in an enclosed space, they will definitely nack each other.
We are humans and not machine.

9japride:
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If a situation warrants that the wife and the male friend are found in an enclosed space, they will definitely nack each other.
We are humans and not machine.

Based on what are you saying this?
Based on what do you think they will be knocking each other

You cannot judge some people or situation if you have not been into it.
I have married female friends that I talk to often and I have helped with money and favours in the past. Some discuss their innermost feelings with me. Some of them, I don't even know their husbands.
All platonic relationships. It has always been platonic and it would always be platonic

NEWBIN:
My friend discussed this with me concerning his wife:

His wife has a male friend and they talk often on phone. Usually, it's his wife who calls this male friend and she calls him by various pet names.

My friends wife has disclosed to her male friend that she has done a CS section before and that my friend is currently unemployed. Though no romantic trace yet, could my friends wife be harbouring feelings for her male friend?

She was asking her male friend if he could get a job for her husband

oga talk true na ur wife dey do you dis thing

You or your friend can't do anything because you don't even have a job currently. It's easier to set boundaries when you have money.

NEWBIN:
Based on what are you saying this?
Based on what do you think they will be knocking each other

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Any which way, they will nack each other.

The said husband might not be paying attention to important things

Ladies mostly talk about their personal affairs to those who they trust

Rugged... Man and woman relationship never ends well... I have a lot experience when it comes to that...they may denied with what ever it will take but deep down there are a lot things going on.. sex is 1 minute and it's very hard to caught any red handed, you only have to go by the behavior s and movement...
It is very sad but what that your friend s wife is doing is more than friendship...

Rapwiz:
All this nonsense can only happen if we are still dating. Your friends will be my friends.. Once I marry you keep for my house anything concerning male friends and bestie will expire.

Hmmmm... Bro, don't ignore the signs, it's not ok. Anything can happen, feelings can grow and it will get worse.

NEWBIN:
His wife has a male friend and they talk often on phone. Usually, it's his wife who calls this male friend and she calls him by various pet names.

This is where I stopped reading.
Nothing anybody wan tell me again.

koladata:
You or your friend can't do anything because you don't even have a job currently. It's easier to set boundaries when you have money.

Big lie.
If you can't set boundaries when you are broke then just have it in mind that money is just an excuse to feel masculine.

Marc3500:
oga talk true na ur wife dey do you dis thing

No, it is never me. I would have opened up here

Make everybody dey collect

Who lose-guard go collect

who no wise must surely collect.

Who dey collect go dey collect

Its not easy to set boundaries when you are broke, Okay if she says she's trying to get you a job by talking to her ex , what would you do, my ex who is married once called me to help her access loan from my bank. The husband knows about it but there was little he could do because he was stack broke and needed help at that time.

There are alot of shit you won't have choice than to swallow your pride and take , when you don't have money believe me. Pride and being broke doesn't go together it will just make you stagnant for a long time.

AllBlack:
Big lie.
If you can't set boundaries when you are broke then just have it in mind that money is just an excuse to feel masculine.

koladata:
Its not easy to set boundaries when you are broke

I have been here before. Being broke can do something mean & evil to a man's spirit and this I have seen first hand. However, in this case where the man is seeing that there is a possibility that his wife, not girlfriend is being sleek, someone of my nature can turn down the offer and even bounce that woman even if that's the last offer on earth.
Yes, it is a very tough call but I better not suspect anything.

Above all, I pray never to find myself in such an entanglement. God abeg.