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| Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Fenrir(op): 11:56am On Jun 20, 2025 |
There is nothing respectful, nothing humble, nothing good, and nothing religious about the majority of Nigerian men And i have never said you are stupid people, Nigerians are one of the most intelligent nationalities on the planet when you get a true education But look what you use that intelligence for? Its nothing good and nothing contributes good to the world You should be using your intelligence to set an example to the rest of Africa of what Africans can be when you live up to your full potential You should be better than us in that way not through dishonesty and abuse of human rights |
| Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Fenrir(op): 12:03pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
Our countries and our governments have always admitted that Nigeria has the potential to be a world super power and world leader that rivals any of our countries but that will only happen when you start using your intelligence to protect human rights and start enforcement of your laws While people can just buy the title of president you will never live up to your true potential at all |
| Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Tello619: 12:15pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
Fenrir:This is clearly a misconception you've made up for yourself to believe... To assume ALL the males in Nigeria does this😆 even after I made it clear that this isn't an Arab country that discrimination against women is normal and accepted! You want to assume you're the only one here who's interested in protecting women! You want to assume there aren't Nigerian fathers out there who look after their wives, daughters, sisters etc. You even used Islam in the North because the world knows how Islam holds women in society as seen in some Arab countries today. So you assume Nigeria is like that too You don't even want to understand my explanation😆 you desperately want to villainize "Nigerian men" as a whole. You're making enemies of unsuspecting Nigerians online so that you can trash-talk on the basis of discrimination against women and think you're doing it right... even if it involves men who share in your sentiment😆 and I made an example of myself! But you don't care because you desperately want to villainize me too!.just so you can steady trash-talk me instead of going out there to face the men who perpetuates this crime against women You're doing a good thing fighting for women but you stupidly pick random people to be your enemy instead of actually going after the real offenders And I recommended you to partner with organizations that protects women, a lot of government and non-government organizations do it, partner with them and others who wants to serve that purpose but no you want to keep trash-talking me about it like I'm part of it😆 You think you're the one only one who has this in mind and that every Nigerian man you see is an enemy, which is why you don't even care when I said I support your protection expect you're doing it wrong You don't go after every one and make them enemies, innocent ones included because you want to fight the offenders |
| Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Fenrir(op): 12:22pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
Tello619:Under what definition do you take care of your wives when there is a law that a Nigerian husband can legally rape his wife and not be punished for it and it can only be used as reason for divorce? If a wife can go to any police officer in Nigeria and say "my husband violated me" and any of those police officers will just say "so what? Hes your husband so go back to him" Where in the villages of this country the entire village can know a husband is beating and raping his wife and all her father and village elders will do is tell him publicly not to do it again or he will get nothing but another stern telling off and but no actual punishment? Your logic and mental kung fu is flawed young one |
| Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Fenrir(op): 12:25pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
Tello619:And the laws of Nigeria do clearly say marital rape does not exist |
| Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Nobody: 1:02pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
Fenrir:Oh it does? I got banned and couldn't reply. I honestly can't believe I went off topic with you🤦🏾♂️ my business here was because of your original topic about "...being blamed for what British did to you" and not about discrimation against women but look how you successfully fragged me into this discussion making me look like an enemy even when I personally share in your sentiment about the welfare of women here and all over the world irrespective of country You see how pathetic you are? See how you made an enemy of me about a topic that's totally unrelated to your original.topic?
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| Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Fenrir(op): 1:09pm On Jun 20, 2025*. Modified: 1:29pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
Tello916:Mate, we can both play the Google game But actually get off your backside and actually read your laws There is no specific law criminalising marital rape 100% and any time a woman tries to get justice for it a million and one technicalities are used to side with the husband How many men are actually punished for it in Nigeria? Almost none and how many actually do it and how many are reported? And guess what, igbo women actually suffer it the most here You can manipulate Google AI to spit out any answer you want by the specific wording you use in the question Like by saying human rights in the question you ask it, its worthless in a conversation Its not true AI all it does is scrub the Internet and re word other things Until you make the effort to research your actual laws in person yourself its meaningless in whatever you say and same goes for your traditions and culture All you actually do as men is listen to AI or other older Nigerian men And the hilarious thing is that it was a British law And you want British control gone in Nigeria but you do everything you as men to keep a British law that they abolished in the 1970s active here on technicalities and loopholes and by not actually making a specific criminal offence
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| Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Fenrir(op): 1:36pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
Tello916:No, you are not mate, do you have a sister or female cousin? If you do what happened when she got married? Did you stand up for her to your family and say she doesn't have to honour and stroke the ego of your older male relatives to get married for those men doing nothing they are supposed to do for it? Or did you support the fraudulent claims that her parents and extended family have control of her life? And how she starts her marriage? What you do is support anything benefits you and turn a blind eye to anything that doesn't |
| Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Fenrir(op): 1:40pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
Now if you dont mind, my little asked me to bake her a cake And yes, I cook for my child myself because there is a huge difference between a father and a dad And what you dont understand, hired help is just that, its help hired to make situations a bit easier Im still her dad so if she asks me to do something for her, you better understand im doing myself You dont know the difference between a father and a dad |
| Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Tello619: 1:55pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
Fenrir:Do you know how you look like with all this? You look like someone who witnessed a robbery and instead of going after the thief, you walk to a road side and start attacking a random person because you hate thieves😆 you don't care if the person also hates thieves you still attack him. |
| Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Tello619: 2:05pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
Fenrir:And you think I also didn't have a wonderful dad? Mr Jacob Owoicho he might be late today but he left a good legacy for his kids and wife we are 4 kids and we all enjoyed the dad we had, he trained his sons right and was strict with living a good life void of immorality. And I'm not married yet I'm 21 and still trying to fully stable my finances before venturing into marriage. I grew up in an environment where women aren't discriminated and men who violate women are mocked and shamed. It's not a norm here because of just a few bad narcissist individuals. I also want to be a good father to my kids because I grew up knowing it's the right thing! I don't see why i should be the one for you to say all of this to... I'm not there because of this topic! I'm here because of the whole topic about being blamed for what the British did to Nigeria and all the claims you made under the topic earlier |
| Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Tello619: 2:19pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
Fenrir:My extended family are too busy to want to do that to my sister. She is married and living a happy life with her Nigerian spouse🤷🏾♂️ she doesn't feel uncomfortable for in her marriage and is being treated right! She's currently in Seychelles with her husband but will be back to Nigeria soon. Her husband (an Urhobo man) has been good to her and there's no cause for alarm🤷🏾♂️ You think I wouldn't want to be a good father and husband? Being an horrible husband and father is an individual choice and narcistic people like that are shamed where I come from. So why am I the one to try to taunt all this I'm here because of your original topic not this and you're still so desperate to criticize me about it like what the hell ? I'm.the wrong person for all this bashing😆😆😆 |
| Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Tello619: 3:38pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
Fenrir:Look how desperate you are to just villainize😆 I'm actually tired of repeating it but if that's what it takes you to set your head right I will I AM NOT THE ONE TO FIGHT ABOUT ALL THIS Partner with organizations that kicks against "discrimation against women". Take up cases and deal with it legally so that offenders are punished! That's how you fight the good fight💯 Not come online to pick on random unsuspecting Nigerian and start attacking them for something they are not, people who also don't approve of such actions! It gives off "too scared to go head on with offenders and wants to only face random personalities online free instead🤷🏾♂️ I keep repeating this again and again but you're so hell bent on fighting me about it like😆😆😆 BRUH! IM NOT YOUR ENEMY!!! I can't afford to take the punch for the offence of narcistic men out there when that's not who I am! I'm here to address your original topic and not this so can we go back to talking on what you said concerning being blamed for what the British did in Nigeria? Because that's why I'm here!😆🤷🏾♂️ You didn't like how it was going and barely replied enough so you quickly diverted the topic to something else so that you'll be able to reply with lengthy paragraphs🤦🏾♂️😆😆 And I warned against going off-topic and involving totally unrelated points but no! You had to change topic to cover up the original one |
| Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Tello619: 3:50pm On Jun 20, 2025*. Modified: 4:14pm On Jun 20, 2025 |
Fenrir:❌I didn't reply under your topic because of this! ❌Don't attack me about this like I oppose your sentiment, I don't! It's a validated cause. It's a commendable cause! I'm not opposing you about it. Just don't make it about all Nigerian men in general because you're not the only one out here who cares for women and would go lengths to protect womanhood. ❌Stop forcing me to look like an opposition on this topic just so you can keep talking, talking, talking! I refuse to be! I'm not! ❌Stick to the original topic! I warned about going off topic and including totally unrelated subject to the original ❌Quit antagonizing people like me who share in your sentiment about the welfare of women worldwide! ❌I repeat, let's stick to the original topic! Are you so scared of it that you're forcing me to look like the ENEMY that I'm not so.you can stay on this particular topic? You felt like you were losing ground in the initial one, so you went off topic and projected your nonsense on me so you can gain more ground and start sending lengthy speeches (except it's in a very different topic that I'm not opposing) ❌STOP STOP STOP❌ IM THE WRONG PERSON TO BE FIGHTING ABOUT THIS! you can be of great help if you go out there and partner with organizations that protects women and actually be useful! Not VILLAINIZING just about any Nigerian man you come across online. It's unnecessary and to the think that a man of your age can be so stubborn and not listen to what I'm saying now is wild and sickening!😆 You're old enough to avoid all these childish antics of yours. STOP PROJECTING |
| Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Fenrir(op): 11:16am On Jun 21, 2025*. Modified: 12:04pm On Jun 21, 2025 |
Tello619:It is all Nigerian men though little boy If you as fathers and uncle judge the character of men on the basis of that man will willingly suffer humiliation and stroking your ego in fake traditions you have done nothing your ancestors said you had to do to get them Over If that man would take a bullet for your daughters and nieces Provide for one Make her happy Do right by her and actually treat her like a human That speaks volumes more about the characters of you as men than anything else |
| Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Fenrir(op): 1:52pm On Jun 21, 2025 |
Tello619:What do ALL Nigerian men call themselves? Humble Respectful Tolerant Godly Good How is the definition of those words being dishonest and disrespectful demanding everyone in the world adhere to your traditions against their will and through manipulation and falsely claiming they are mandatory and not a choice And worst of all is that when you come to our countries and even other African countries and any country to marry those women You refuse to do the tradition of those people You are hypocrites and with nothing but double standards and false projections of what you are |
| Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Tello619: 5:05pm On Jun 21, 2025 |
Fenrir:THIS IS NOT THE TOPIC I CAME HERE FOR STOP FORCING ME TO BE AN OPPOSITION SO YOU CAN RUN AWAY FROM THE INITIAL TOPIC 😆😆😆😆 |
| Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Nobody: 5:22pm On Jun 21, 2025*. Modified: 6:01pm On Jun 21, 2025 |
Fenrir:Are you a bot? |
| Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Tello619: 5:59pm On Jun 21, 2025 |
Fenrir:Why are you so scared of going back to the topic you were countered for? You're like a child scared of the dark and wants to stay in the brightly lit sitting room instead🫵🏾😆 You brought up a topic You were countered You argued and lost grounds You felt stupid and quickly changed the topic 😆😆😆 It would've been a different case if this was the original topic but it's not! You're so scared of going back to a discussion you failed so you don't appear too defeated🫵🏾😆 Desperately initiating and clinging to a totally unrelated topic after being warned not to Accept defeat and run away with your tail between your legs!🫵🏾😆 If you want to fight a good fight! Go out there and partner with organizations that are dedicated to fighting for women💯 There are women out there with abusive narcissistic husbands, take up their case and give them justice! Not ragebaiting online to get a random reaction and start trash-talking just about anybody like some naive teenager who choose to be an online keyboard warrior that yields 0 fruits And use media platforms that influences a larger range of audience like X, Facebook, TikTok etc. not a little corner like this😆 |
| Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Fenrir(op): 7:19pm On Jun 21, 2025 |
Tello619:I have no Facebook I have no Instagram I have no tiktok I have no social media, mate im older than Google why would I need attention from the world when that stuff never existed in my childhood? And as you can tell ive been desperately trying to get some of you to say all this to my face so I can teach what real men do They just knock your ass out, then wait for you to wake up, shake your hand and tell you to behave next time Im specifically on a platform in a country I live for a reason |
| Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Fenrir(op): 7:25pm On Jun 21, 2025 |
Tello619:As for scared Thats hilarious, from 21-33 I was in every major war on the planet Ive been shot Stabbed Almost gutted Survived explosions Survived helicopter crashes What Nigerian men run from, I run towards Name 1 thing you have actually physically fought for? You dont fight for your country You dont fight for your women You dont fight for yourself You dont fight to improve your life You dont fight for your kids For 400 hundred some of my race were taking you as slaves and you still complain about it You were taking us for longer Muslims were taking you for 1300 years at numbers of 12,000 a year And they are still doing it today but you wont fight to stop and only point fingers at us When in both case it was your own people selling you Ive rescued women in this country who's fathers have literally sold them into trafficking Yet we are the evil ones when you are still selling your own flesh and blood to Arabs |
| Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Fenrir(op): 7:34pm On Jun 21, 2025 |
Tello619:What exactly have you countered? Mate i know im right for 1 reason, no woman on here defends you against what I say, not 1 Nigerian woman has defended you at all Its all Nigerian men saying you are not this and not that Its Nigerian men saying you respect women, its Nigerian men saying everything about themselves Not 1 woman on here or in real life stands up for you, doesn't that tell you something? Your own sisters Your own daughters Your own cousins Your own aunts Your own mothers Your own girlfriends Your own wives Your own women are not standing up for you and telling me im wrong And the seriously messed thing is when a woman from any race dates outside her own they always say they feel safer with white men dating them and marrying them |
| Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Fenrir(op): 7:39pm On Jun 21, 2025 |
There are Nigerian woman reading everything i type about you and not 1 of them has told me that im wrong about you as men Its only Nigerian men saying you respect the women but if your own women in your own country will not say you respect them and they will not say you are good men then clearly you dont respect them and clearly you do abuse them |
| Re: I'm Sick Of Nigerian Men Blaming My Race For What The British Did To You by Fenrir(op): 8:04pm On Jun 21, 2025 |
A south African woman has even made a topic mocking you over what I say about you, and still absolutely no Nigerian women are defending you? And I know south African women will defend south African men if I was saying all of this there |
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? I'm.the wrong person for all this bashing😆😆😆