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Re: I Spent 30m To Send Her To The UK Now She Wants Divorce: Nigerian Man Seeks Help by Keenysbojan(m): 10:08pm On Jun 22, 2025
You don't need a lawyer, you only need a certified babalawo to do the work for you, believe me you won't regret it and it won't cost you much
Re: I Spent 30m To Send Her To The UK Now She Wants Divorce: Nigerian Man Seeks Help by AllBlack: 10:08pm On Jun 22, 2025
Chilipepper:
After spending ₦30m to sponsor her to the UK, she’s now filing for divorce after 6 months” — Nigerian man seeks legal help to protect his interest.
All these unverified FAKE STORIES just keep finding their way to the front page so that people can start commenting.
SEUN is this the new frontier for nairaland?
Re: I Spent 30m To Send Her To The UK Now She Wants Divorce: Nigerian Man Seeks Help by VaginaAcademic: 10:09pm On Jun 22, 2025
If you like spend billions but you treat her less of a human being or you constantly remind her of the billions you spent your billions won't matter to her you go still collect.
Re: I Spent 30m To Send Her To The UK Now She Wants Divorce: Nigerian Man Seeks Help by tunjijones(m): 10:09pm On Jun 22, 2025
Una no dey gree hear word.

Even with all the examples that abounds some men will never learn.

Don't ever send a woman abroad, wife or girlfriend cos most times you go regret am.

Another man dey, whey dey read this my post, whey dey plan to send woman abroad, or you dey abroad you wan bring your wife over, bros, let me tell you the truth, there is a very high chance that it will end regrets and tears.
Re: I Spent 30m To Send Her To The UK Now She Wants Divorce: Nigerian Man Seeks Help by id4sho(m): 10:09pm On Jun 22, 2025
You gonna luurnnn, you gonna luurnnn the hard way. Don't play 🤷
Re: I Spent 30m To Send Her To The UK Now She Wants Divorce: Nigerian Man Seeks Help by MufasaLion: 10:09pm On Jun 22, 2025
quickly:
Na men with no game dey buy woman love. You can only buy a woman heart temporarily if she’s greedy or come from poverty.

No loyalty she will do her heart desire eg Eve
When dealing with women, don't put them on a high pedestal irrespective of their status. The woman you're worshipping is a slave to other men. Men should wise up.
Re: I Spent 30m To Send Her To The UK Now She Wants Divorce: Nigerian Man Seeks Help by specialmati(m): 10:09pm On Jun 22, 2025
embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed grab her snatch her and run away with her chai not again.
Re: I Spent 30m To Send Her To The UK Now She Wants Divorce: Nigerian Man Seeks Help by Hueyreckless0007: 10:09pm On Jun 22, 2025
Apparently, Nigerian men never learn. Fear women
Re: I Spent 30m To Send Her To The UK Now She Wants Divorce: Nigerian Man Seeks Help by folake4u: 10:10pm On Jun 22, 2025
GloriousGbola:
A person who has 30m disposable income to sponsor babe to UK will not be looking for a lawyer on Twitter

That is all
Gbammmmmmmmmmmm.

Some of these stories are just too dûmb and regurgitated BS.
Re: I Spent 30m To Send Her To The UK Now She Wants Divorce: Nigerian Man Seeks Help by VaginaAcademic:
tunjijones:
Una no dey green hear word.

Even with all the examples that abounds some men will never learn.

Don't ever send a woman abroad, wife or girlfriend cos most times you go regret am.
until dem experience am personally before dem go yellow word
Re: I Spent 30m To Send Her To The UK Now She Wants Divorce: Nigerian Man Seeks Help by correctguy101(m): 10:10pm On Jun 22, 2025
Chilipepper:
After spending ₦30m to sponsor her to the UK, she’s now filing for divorce after 6 months” — Nigerian man seeks legal help to protect his interest.
Protect which interest again?

Na refund you want?



God abeg o 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Re: I Spent 30m To Send Her To The UK Now She Wants Divorce: Nigerian Man Seeks Help by EmmyMaestro(m): 10:10pm On Jun 22, 2025
This is one of those moments where you will hear that guy that will say

" Oga, if you no meet your wife as virgin, bla bla bla . . . ". You can complete the rest if you know it
Re: I Spent 30m To Send Her To The UK Now She Wants Divorce: Nigerian Man Seeks Help by Chickensoup: 10:11pm On Jun 22, 2025
Well if you report it, I believe they will deport her and revoke her papers. As for getting your money back, don't know if that's possible.

I can't blame you since you did the right thing bringing your wife with you. Unfortunately, you met a lady that never really loved you. Don't know her side of the story so that's all I can say.
Re: I Spent 30m To Send Her To The UK Now She Wants Divorce: Nigerian Man Seeks Help by olamoses75(m): 10:12pm On Jun 22, 2025
I am very happy to hear about your predicament. Simps will learn the hard way.
Re: I Spent 30m To Send Her To The UK Now She Wants Divorce: Nigerian Man Seeks Help by TempleHouse: 10:13pm On Jun 22, 2025
Go to Okija Shrine or Ayilala in Ondo with only N70 NAIRA and a bottle of Palm oil 🪔.

She will return home before the end of next month.
Re: I Spent 30m To Send Her To The UK Now She Wants Divorce: Nigerian Man Seeks Help by Firstcitizen: 10:14pm On Jun 22, 2025
SINisSIN:
No, she is not. She can't even try it because na she go carry the consequences if she misbehave. If she wants to leave the marriage, there are some things we need to do in her village before she can sleep with another man.
grin This one dey lie to himself. Women dey do am under husband nose na when husband presence no dey dem go fear?
All those trado bs no dey work nada.
Re: I Spent 30m To Send Her To The UK Now She Wants Divorce: Nigerian Man Seeks Help by Berankis: 10:15pm On Jun 22, 2025
Imindmybusiness:
She is now making the plans with someone else. Don't just sleep on the matter, be alert and prepare yourself and your mind to lose her.
Not necessarily sha. A lot of times, women always feel insecure about everything. And also they want to do what others are doing. Most husbands have been forced into migration or debts as a result of their wives insistence on migrating.
Re: I Spent 30m To Send Her To The UK Now She Wants Divorce: Nigerian Man Seeks Help by MufasaLion: 10:15pm On Jun 22, 2025
Chickensoup:
Well if you report it, I believe they will deport her and revoke her papers. As for getting your money back, don't know if that's possible.

I can't blame you since you did the right thing bringing your wife with you. Unfortunately, you met a lady that never really loved you. Don't know her side of the story so that's all I can say.
Marriage itself is a gamble. Exporting a woman abroad is most times a bad business.
Re: I Spent 30m To Send Her To The UK Now She Wants Divorce: Nigerian Man Seeks Help by TempleHouse: 10:17pm On Jun 22, 2025
olamoses75:
I am very happy to hear about your predicament. Simps will learn the hard way.
Ask why Mumu no send himself abroad first ⁉️

Abi she forced you ❓
Re: I Spent 30m To Send Her To The UK Now She Wants Divorce: Nigerian Man Seeks Help by HEAVEN4444: 10:17pm On Jun 22, 2025
SINisSIN:
2023, my wife kept disturbing that we should relocate, the disturbance was so much that I had to tell her that if we are moving at all, then we will share the relocation fee 50 50. Bring 20m, I drop 20m then let's start the planning.

I no hear pim again. I told her if you want to relocate, in all honesty and fairness, if you have the money to take care of your journey, you are good to go and I will be coming over to see you. Since then till now, I no hear any relocation wahala again...
does she have 20 million ? Please answer my question so we can look at this interesting matter
Re: I Spent 30m To Send Her To The UK Now She Wants Divorce: Nigerian Man Seeks Help by Dancebreaker: 10:19pm On Jun 22, 2025
Lanretoye:
Spend 30m to send someone to UK,if you want to send the person to heaven how much will you spend ?,maybe 10b
It's possible. Many Master courses cost £15k.
He might have paid half the fees, accommodation, pocket money, etc.

My question is, why could he not sponsor himself with that money?

Why men decide to trust women that much, I don't know.

You brought a total stranger home to wife, and you believe you actually know her? grin grin cheesy cheesy shocked
Re: I Spent 30m To Send Her To The UK Now She Wants Divorce: Nigerian Man Seeks Help by GoodSpirit: 10:20pm On Jun 22, 2025
Kobojunkie:
He spent the money on her to make her his property. undecided
Use ur head sometimes, not every time you say nonsense, someone you are married to or dating one shouldn't spend on her ? Make una get sense. This is why men who go the extra miles for women are turning to victims of Romance scam. What she can't give to herself don't give her, marital gifting should ne based on the efforts the woman has put. Men should know women are hypergamous, once they feel you have raised their financial status they will hop to the next man.

Imagine this one mocking a man who used his resources to elevate his spouse
Re: I Spent 30m To Send Her To The UK Now She Wants Divorce: Nigerian Man Seeks Help by pquaver(m):
Kobojunkie:
He spent the money on her to make her his property. undecided
Why doesn't she spend it on her self and make herself her property? The way human reason nowadays, in the next 20 years nothing like help will exist.. If u die in ur problem nobody will care because humanity has shown, they have no regards for sacrifices..
Re: I Spent 30m To Send Her To The UK Now She Wants Divorce: Nigerian Man Seeks Help by SINisSIN(m): 10:21pm On Jun 22, 2025
Na you no where you go carry your own woman my bro. In my wife's village, the consequence is untimely death for such woman and her children. It's their family taboon, before you can sleep with another man, you have to do cleansing and in the case the husband died, they will do separation so the wife can move on with her life.



Firstcitizen:
grin This one dey lie to himself. Women dey do am under husband nose na when husband presence no dey dem go fear?
All those trado bs no dey work nada.
Re: I Spent 30m To Send Her To The UK Now She Wants Divorce: Nigerian Man Seeks Help by GoodSpirit: 10:22pm On Jun 22, 2025
SINisSIN:
2023, my wife kept disturbing that we should relocate, the disturbance was so much that I had to tell her that if we are moving at all, then we will share the relocation fee 50 50. Bring 20m, I drop 20m then let's start the planning.

I no hear pim again. I told her if you want to relocate, in all honesty and fairness, if you have the money to take care of your journey, you are good to go and I will be coming over to see you. Since then till now, I no hear any relocation wahala again...
Women wey dey fear financial responsibility, you hold am for where pain her bad guy grin grin grin grin grin, secure your family.
Re: I Spent 30m To Send Her To The UK Now She Wants Divorce: Nigerian Man Seeks Help by SINisSIN(m): 10:23pm On Jun 22, 2025
If she sells her lands and car, she should be able to gather 20m but no, she wants me to chest everything.

HEAVEN4444:
does she have 20 million ? Please answer my question so we can look at this interesting matter
Re: I Spent 30m To Send Her To The UK Now She Wants Divorce: Nigerian Man Seeks Help by fitinwell: 10:24pm On Jun 22, 2025
Chilipepper:
After spending ₦30m to sponsor her to the UK, she’s now filing for divorce after 6 months” — Nigerian man seeks legal help to protect his interest.
What lead to divorcing her.... You trusted her..was why you invested so much
Re: I Spent 30m To Send Her To The UK Now She Wants Divorce: Nigerian Man Seeks Help by BigDawsNet: 10:24pm On Jun 22, 2025
SINisSIN:
2023, my wife kept disturbing that we should relocate, the disturbance was so much that I had to tell her that if we are moving at all, then we will share the relocation fee 50 50. Bring 20m, I drop 20m then let's start the planning.

I no hear pim again. I told her if you want to relocate, in all honesty and fairness, if you have the money to take care of your journey, you are good to go and I will be coming over to see you. Since then till now, I no hear any relocation wahala again...
Sense won wound you sir🤭🤭🤭…

You have learnt from the masters

Welldone
Re: I Spent 30m To Send Her To The UK Now She Wants Divorce: Nigerian Man Seeks Help by Chickensoup: 10:26pm On Jun 22, 2025
MufasaLion:
Marriage itself is a gamble. Exporting a woman abroad is most times a bad business.
True. I have heard many stories of that happening. Marriage becomes a gamble mainly because we ignore some red flags in the name of trust and love.
Re: I Spent 30m To Send Her To The UK Now She Wants Divorce: Nigerian Man Seeks Help by benalvino3: 10:26pm On Jun 22, 2025
Chilipepper:
After spending ₦30m to sponsor her to the UK, she’s now filing for divorce after 6 months” — Nigerian man seeks legal help to protect his interest.
Learn to lie at least.
The lady that is not your wife is filing for divorce.

Nothing someone no go see for social media
Re: I Spent 30m To Send Her To The UK Now She Wants Divorce: Nigerian Man Seeks Help by Solofresh2: 10:26pm On Jun 22, 2025
SINisSIN:
No, she is not. She can't even try it because na she go carry the consequences if she misbehave. If she wants to leave the marriage, there are some things we need to do in her village before she can sleep with another man.
Oga this one no be talk.....................
Fourty Characters suppose done finish abeg
Re: I Spent 30m To Send Her To The UK Now She Wants Divorce: Nigerian Man Seeks Help by Bestwt001(f): 10:27pm On Jun 22, 2025
I love what she did, you couldn't realise that she was already high tested person, then you sent her uk, how much have you sent your family
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