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Solofresh2:
Most men don't understand the feminine nature
These women are brutally manipulative

hehe no start that redpill stuff for frontpage oooo my guy you go soon collect wotowoto 😆😆😆😆😆😏

2special:
Never you upgrade or sponsor any girl/ wife at all

You don't tell people what to do. Nothing is cast in stone on this planet. There is no one advise fits all, you can just advise them to be cautious when venturing in such risky venture of sponsoring their gf. It's a risk, have your expectations clear before u start and both of u should be on the same page. If it works fine, if not just count your losses

grandstar:
You were doing okay until your last paragraph. The color of your skin determines nothing.

If you look down on your race, that is wrong. If you feel your race is superior, that is also wrong.

I can tell by your statement that you've never travelled overseas. I am certain 99.99%. If you have actually travelled or lived there, I have a family friend who before leaving Nigeria thought white people were angels. After leaving in the UK, he detests British girls. He'd rather date a cat. He would serioysly discourage me.

Next time, it's better to say the average African. You can even niche it further by saying the average Nigerian. Your background and the culture you grew up in has a greater influence on your character.

The prime reason why there are fee pre-nups in Nigeria is because there really is little need for it.

The society is misogynistic. Men can treat their wives how they like with little retribution. Even if she files for divorce, she might gain very little financially. What hurts them the most is that their husbands cheat to their faces, and they have to put up with it. If they complain, society can even turn against them.

When these same women get overseas and the same husband tries the same nonsense, what do you expect? She might want to teach you a lesson for her past abuse.

It is not as simple as just blaming the woman. Married men need to remove the rocks blinding them to see the small stone in their wives eyes.

There are several successful Nigerian marriages overseas, and most often, the man is faithful to the wife, The man too helps around the house. In Europe, most women contribute to family expenses. It's not like here where the man is expected to shoulder most of the financial burden. The man therefore handles a lot at home.

I patiently read to understand your perspective but after reading I realised you didn't understand my writeup. To make it easier for you to understand my writeup, I was saying different societies have different peculiarities and challenges. For the western society where women have upper hand in the legal system and the women abuse it by divorcing men at will to share their properties, the westerners created the concept of prenup to deal with that.
In African society, were men tend to want to do everything for their women like support them with all they have worked for, women still abuse it. You can train your wife or girlfriend in a local university here to study medicine in Nigeria and when she graduates she will break up with you because she feels you are now financially below her so you are no more needed. My post rather decries the inability of Nigerians to find local solutions to local problems. I fast and pray for God to give you understanding of this explanation

Kobojunkie:
He spent the money on her to make her his property? There is so much missing that I only wish the man does not actually think we are to draw a conclusion from just this.

Always reasoning absurdly. If you were the one, you won't find a way to recoup your losses. entitled entities.

meobizy:
All these plenty lies which populate the internet. I will soon take a hiatus to protect my mental health.

Recently i had a friend that went to UK through student route, baba was very eager to come back to Nigeria. So baba had to give me the full gist of the situation because he knew i would try to dissuade him.

I believe this story because UK is currently the proverbial between a rock and a hard place. It will test the love of a new couples, cause finance in UK especially if you don’t have a high paying blue collar job is very difficult.

Most of the these Nigerian women leaving their husbands is majorly cause of finance, either they are earning more and don’t want to keep carrying the financial burden or the divorce provides more financial incentive- ie richer new partner/income from divorce minus some other financial burden.

If she never loved you lol. Carry your wife go UK, when una start madt budgeting, na there you go know

You go learn the hard way....

SINisSIN:
No, she is not. She can't even try it because na she go carry the consequences if she misbehave. If she wants to leave the marriage, there are some things we need to do in her village before she can sleep with another man.

. Don't be deceived those things don't work, her and her family only say that to make you feel good

She will sleep with another man right in your nose and nothing will happen..

That shit is not a yardstick

fxexperts:
Always reasoning absurdly. If you were the one, you won't find a way to recoup your losses. entitled entities.

Loses? We are talking of someone who he was married to. And 30 million to Japa? How many kids did she travel with? 7? How long were they married? We don't know anything except that the man's comment reads like she is supposed the be some property because he paid for the Japa trip.

Harddiskng:
Recently i had a friend that went to UK through student route, baba was very eager to come back to Nigeria. So baba had to give me the full gist of the situation because he knew i would try to dissuade him.

I believe this story because UK is currently the proverbial between a rock and a hard place. It will test the love of a new couple, cause finance in UK especially if you don’t have a high paying blue collar job is very difficult.

Most of the these Nigerian women leaving their husbands is majorly cause of finance, either they are earning more and don’t want to keep carrying the financial burden or the divorce provides more financial incentive- ie richer partner/income from divorce minus some other financial burden.

If she never loved you lol. Carry your wife go UK, when una start madt budgeting, na there you go

Divorce provides more financial benefits: money from govt and that from the man's property. Then freedom to be knacking non-stop

SINisSIN:
No, she is not. She can't even try it because na she go carry the consequences if she misbehave. If she wants to leave the marriage, there are some things we need to do in her village before she can sleep with another man.

This is hilarious, at this 22nd century, you dey relay in your village juju, kontinu, your eyes go clear

What a business! A business that returns zero profit

HEAVEN4444:
hehe no start that redpill stuff for frontpage oooo my guy you go soon collect wotowoto 😆😆😆😆😆😏

A man being firm regardless of the amount of kpekus or affection he’s getting is a sign of strength. Loose ground or guard and die before your time. The worst a man can do to himself is cuddle a rattle snake.

My friend, JusticeLeague1 has promised to love you and even go to the UK with you, ma-am.


He is a great admirer, just too shy to do speak up

PRINCESSFCFANSs:
OK


some people are born EV!l

we hope the story is true

but whether true or not

it is not good
we are sure that she will be pretending all this while to love the man ,



EV!l Lady.


Princess Faith Chukwuamaka

Chilipepper:
After spending ₦30m to sponsor her to the UK, she’s now filing for divorce after 6 months” — Nigerian man seeks legal help to protect his interest.

What is the reason she wants to divorce you

Lies used to drive traffic

GloriousGbola:
A person who has 30m disposable income to sponsor babe to UK will not be looking for a lawyer on Twitter

That is all

She is not babe but wife... Remember, he said she filed for divorce.... Babes dnt HV the right to that, only wives

Dis wan don write exam finish, na after exam im wan attend lectures.
Hope the 30 million no be bank loan?

Ruke1990:
I patiently read to understand your perspective but after reading I realised you didn't understand my writeup. To make it easier for you to understand my writeup, I was saying different societies have different peculiarities and challenges. For the western society where women have upper hand in the legal system and the women abuse it by divorcing men at will to share their properties, the westerners created the concept of prenup to deal with that.
In African society, were men tend to want to do everything for their women like support them with all they have worked for, women still abuse it. You can train your wife or girlfriend in a local university here to study medicine in Nigeria and when she graduates she will break up with you because she feels you are now financially below her so you are no more needed. My post rather decries the inability of Nigerians to find local solutions to local problems. I fast and pray for God to give you understanding of this explanation

You sha!

Wetin Mustafa no go see for Nairaland

Na mumu dey take woman go abroad, don't do it. Sounds like an innocent idea but Nigerian women don't respect gratitude, my dad helped a guy who was newly married to get his first good paying job back in the early 2000s, he later travelled abroad and was hustling hard before he could find his footing, years after he send my dad a year 2000 tundra which we use till today. Men know how to show gratitude to an extent than even woman go dey cap say is it not too much?



Help a man today, you never can tell!

Get this straight into your skull and stop bn childish. That you spend money on any lady doesn't mean she can't leave you or divorce you. Stop monetizing your love. Your money can't buy loyalty

Whatever as a man, you do for them. Just know u do it as a husband. But trust me. Dont think that will buy loyalty. Know this and have peace of mind

MufasaLion:
We all get the love we deserve. This man is a weak man.

Bros he isn't necessarily a weak man, make God just dey save man. You do good people pay it with evil, same relocation wey some pple do dem still dey enjoy am with their husband.


This sacrifices are best done for a wife and not even a gf but if you run am for a supposed wife and you no do bad to am but she chooses to run you street begs to ask what then do you do

franchasng:
There are tell signs that most men ignore.


Women don't just change overnight, there must be obvious signs you are married to an unreliable woman or you have been maltreating her and she has been praying for an escape route via migration abroad.


No sensible woman wakes up one day and initiate divorce with her husband just because they migrated abroad; it doesn't work that way.

The truth is, most Nigerian men oppress and maltreat their wives in Nigeria just because they are the breadwinner.

Your wife and children are always in fear the moment you step into the house; that's a sign that you are a failed husband and father, and if by mistake you relocate abroad with that woman, she will so deal with you eh lol



And to the men that enjoy extramarital games, continue playing it openly without remorse, continue splashing it to her face thinking she doesn't care, she cares oh, she is burning inside oh, she is only keeping quiet and pretending that all is well simply because Nigeria have no laws that protect married women and because she is not yet financially buoyant to live her dream life without your money, once she gets financially liberated through migration abroad, just count yourself a single man, it doesn't matter how many millions you spent sponsoring her abroad.



What do I even know? Let me go back to Tel Aviv from there will make a stop at Tehran to see if Ali Khamenei was smuggled out of Iran some days ago or not, see you guys tomorrow

Oppress how??

The one's who decided to treat their wifes right and collect red nko, are you going to hold brief for them too?




Are you aware that there are men who take up a benovelent act by paying school fees for their significant other their babe oo who they intend to marry ooo, yet they still go about cheating or after she graduates, she would say she no do again, you think it is easy to pay school fees?


Prayer be say make man meet good and greatful wife!

Give her the divorce. Another money go come. Shey na that seun cousin sister

Kobojunkie:
We don't even have background information on the man and his marriage but you already have an idea of what took place? :

U r the one WHO already did that? And i posed the reply to u...the way women are going , the Future men won't get married neither wil the render Help..soceity IS evolving..make Una continue

Fake stories

TheGift:
And that is how your life and that of your children will remain downgraded, because you dont want to upgrade your Wife.

Stop with the backward thinking. What you should be planning and praying for is to be with a Woman worth upgrading.

Stop with the poverty or mentality.

you will be desolate and amount to anything in Jesus name amen

Nice. Fools stop all these nonsense

SINisSIN:
2023, my wife kept disturbing that we should relocate, the disturbance was so much that I had to tell her that if we are moving at all, then we will share the relocation fee 50 50. Bring 20m, I drop 20m then let's start the planning.

I no hear pim again. I told her if you want to relocate, in all honesty and fairness, if you have the money to take care of your journey, you are good to go and I will be coming over to see you. Since then till now, I no hear any relocation wahala again...

Oga you too wise.