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Imindmybusiness:
She is now making the plans with someone else. Don't just sleep on the matter, be alert and prepare yourself and your mind to lose her.

Metcheew..
I bet you are not even married.

SINisSIN:
No, she is not. She can't even try it because na she go carry the consequences if she misbehave. If she wants to leave the marriage, there are some things we need to do in her village before she can sleep with another man.

You seriously believe that in this day and age?

AGROnProperties:
But why never?

Not all are the same... Some are still considerate.

Let her upgrade herself is she is considerate.

pquaver:
✓ U r the one WHO already did that? And i posed the reply to u...the way women are going , the Future men won't get married neither wil the render Help..soceity IS evolving..make Una continue

Are you OK in the head at all? A man insinuates that because he invested 30 million in Japa plan, the woman is not supposed to be able to divorce him after that. What has that to do with women but with the man?

Ruke1990:
Maybe before spending heavily to upgrade a woman (girlfriend or wife), we may need to serve them agreement papers to ensure the marriage or relationship lasts atleast 5 to 10 years after sponsorship, otherwise they refund in full the entire cash spent plus 9$ per year interest before breakup/divorce can be served. Every woman must be made to sign such documents before they get a dime from their boyfriend/husband for their upgrade. Universities like ABUAD serve such paper before agreeing to sponsor their staff abroad for further studies. Companies abroad serve same paper before sponsoring a candidate to work abroad (especially those Nclex sponsoring agencies for nurses). Thesame idea must be brought home and applied to marriages. You mustn't confer blind trust on a woman. There is a difference between blind trust and earned trust

This is one area that underscore the lack of creativity amongst black race. The whites invented pre-nuptial to solve their own problems of being taken advantage of. Blacks sit idle, lament and are unable to do something creative to solve this sponsorship scam problem that pervades the nigerian society

How do you enforce such an agreement? You think it is that easy and people won't be doing it. You think you can just sign anything.
And agreement signed in another country too and under duress!

Relax, UK is already an extension of Lagos, she will come back begging.
LONDON has finally fallen.
Nothing special again.

fredoooooo:
Na una sabi ... abeg say something else na everyday una dey hear say no send woman g9 abroad but no you wan satisfy the world and break yaself ... if she want divorce guve her , yiu wan force her stay by force .. you don do ya own for Gid ...move on
Abeg make who get good business idea wey person fit invest good money jare...

ok buy new keke give me on higher purchase I will deliver in record time.Keke is a thriving hussle where I am resident

Addme:
Good for you.
How much have you spent in helping your siblings?

E be like say your married brothers and sister in-law don you shege. You don’t even want hear that people are spending money on their wives.

Let her return your money back before the divorce.

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franchasng:
There are tell signs that most men ignore.


Women don't just change overnight, there must be obvious signs you are married to an unreliable woman or you have been maltreating her and she has been praying for an escape route via migration abroad.


No sensible woman wakes up one day and initiate divorce with her husband just because they migrated abroad; it doesn't work that way.

The truth is, most Nigerian men oppress and maltreat their wives in Nigeria just because they are the breadwinner.

Your wife and children are always in fear the moment you step into the house; that's a sign that you are a failed husband and father, and if by mistake you relocate abroad with that woman, she will so deal with you eh lol



And to the men that enjoy extramarital games, continue playing it openly without remorse, continue splashing it to her face thinking she doesn't care, she cares oh, she is burning inside oh, she is only keeping quiet and pretending that all is well simply because Nigeria have no laws that protect married women and because she is not yet financially buoyant to live her dream life without your money, once she gets financially liberated through migration abroad, just count yourself a single man, it doesn't matter how many millions you spent sponsoring her abroad.



What do I even know? Let me go back to Tel Aviv from there will make a stop at Tehran to see if Ali Khamenei was smuggled out of Iran some days ago or not, see you guys tomorrow

You talk am finish....

Thank u jare oooo..
The truth is, most Nigerian men oppress and maltreat their wives in Nigeria just because they are the breadwinner.

Ruke1990:
This is one area that underscore the lack of creativity amongst black race. The whites invented pre-nuptial to solve their own problems of being taken advantage of. Blacks sit idle, lament and are unable to do something creative to solve this sponsorship scam problem that pervades the nigerian society

Some Blacks are a disgrace to Blacks. They seek every opportunity to put down their own. Do Whites do the same? Do the Chinese do the same? Do Latinos do same? If yes ... why is it we lack creativity but they don't? Do you expect him to sign a prenuptial when he is already married? ... or an agreement after he's married? I guess you don't know what it means to be married.

@ topic .... I'm almost sure all the signs were there showing the wife was looking for a sponsor ... but he never paid attention. He should learn from his mistake and move on. ... he can kiss the money goodbye

You have said it all,alot of Nigerian men don't know how to treat their wives well

franchasng:
There are tell signs that most men ignore.


Women don't just change overnight, there must be obvious signs you are married to an unreliable woman or you have been maltreating her and she has been praying for an escape route via migration abroad.


No sensible woman wakes up one day and initiate divorce with her husband just because they migrated abroad; it doesn't work that way.

The truth is, most Nigerian men oppress and maltreat their wives in Nigeria just because they are the breadwinner.

Your wife and children are always in fear the moment you step into the house; that's a sign that you are a failed husband and father, and if by mistake you relocate abroad with that woman, she will so deal with you eh lol



And to the men that enjoy extramarital games, continue playing it openly without remorse, continue splashing it to her face thinking she doesn't care, she cares oh, she is burning inside oh, she is only keeping quiet and pretending that all is well simply because Nigeria have no laws that protect married women and because she is not yet financially buoyant to live her dream life without your money, once she gets financially liberated through migration abroad, just count yourself a single man, it doesn't matter how many millions you spent sponsoring her abroad.



What do I even know? Let me go back to Tel Aviv from there will make a stop at Tehran to see if Ali Khamenei was smuggled out of Iran some days ago or not, see you guys tomorrow

SINisSIN:
No, she is not. She can't even try it because na she go carry the consequences if she misbehave. If she wants to leave the marriage, there are some things we need to do in her village before she can sleep with another man.

You guys are so funny with this village things,dey play.

Chilipepper:
After spending ₦30m to sponsor her to the UK, she’s now filing for divorce after 6 months” — Nigerian man seeks legal help to protect his interest.

Geh Geh has warned you but you pour spit for his face now you dey regret your life.... had i known, the last comment of a fool

Ruke1990:
Maybe before spending heavily to upgrade a woman (girlfriend or wife), we may need to serve them agreement papers to ensure the marriage or relationship lasts atleast 5 to 10 years after sponsorship, otherwise they refund in full the entire cash spent plus 9$ per year interest before breakup/divorce can be served. Every woman must be made to sign such documents before they get a dime from their boyfriend/husband for their upgrade. Universities like ABUAD serve such paper before agreeing to sponsor their staff abroad for further studies. Companies abroad serve same paper before sponsoring a candidate to work abroad (especially those Nclex sponsoring agencies for nurses). Thesame idea must be brought home and applied to marriages. You mustn't confer blind trust on a woman. There is a difference between blind trust and earned trust

This is one area that underscore the lack of creativity amongst black race. The whites invented pre-nuptial to solve their own problems of being taken advantage of. Blacks sit idle, lament and are unable to do something creative to solve this sponsorship scam problem that pervades the nigerian society

I cant fault the logic in your position but this relationship you refer to with such stoicism is an emotional union essentially.

Why would I need to be married to someone who needs a financial reason to stay married to me?

Love cannot be contrived or contracted. It should be free of commercial or transactional considerations. I'd rather spend 30Million naira to find out if I am married to the wrong person than stay married for a day to someone who only pretends to tolerate or God forbid love me.

The man should cut his losses. Release the money to the woman as a sacrificial seed he gave voluntarily and with love.It would surely return to him with interest.

If he should continue to vibrate on the same wavelength that produced the 30M, he would find a woman who loves him for him.
My two cents

Lol. Some woe-to-men (womén) wicked sha. Money you should have invested in yourself.

Rule number 1: Never upgrade or invest in a womán, when you haven't upgraded or invested in yourself, cuz she will leave you after upgrading her status with the excuse of "you are no longer my class".

Wíckedñess of some woe-mén is incomparable, unmatched and second to non.

SINisSIN:
In cash, no. Properties, yes but I can't sell house, lands, cars because I'm moving to another country I don't understand. So she wants me to start rehusling for things I sold off in Nigeria?

Our children can go when it is time but me, I'm not selling properties to relocate. Btw, we just sent my brother and her own brother to Portugal last year for MSC and I paid almost all the fees at least 85% from me. She only drop 1.5m

Please how much did the Portugal cost you

Chilipepper:
After spending ₦30m to sponsor her to the UK, she’s now filing for divorce after 6 months” — Nigerian man seeks legal help to protect his interest.

Good for you

Kobojunkie:
He spent the money on his own wife to make her his property? There is so much missing that I only wish the man does not actually think we are to draw a conclusion from just this.

How some of you interprets and process issues is horrible.

Primordial gender mindset shouldn't be taken serious on serious issues

Imindmybusiness:
She is now making the plans with someone else. Don't just sleep on the matter, be alert and prepare yourself and your mind to lose her.

That’s what you think, and just because you think that way doesn't mean it's true.

@SINisSIN

2special:
Never you upgrade or sponsor any girl/ wife at all

Girlfriends I agreed but never fail to sponsor or establish your loyal wife, its benefits outweighs the disadvantage.

It's not surprising that Nigerians are still falling for ponzi scams in this 21st century. If they're still believing all these fake anonymous stories, what is Ponzi scheme that they cannot fall for?

Imindmybusiness:
She is now making the plans with someone else. Don't just sleep on the matter, be alert and prepare yourself and your mind to lose her.

I was about to say the same thing.

You have been scammed aka CBEXed.

Please take your loss in good faith.

Next......

If you don't mind my suggestion... If not how our judiciary system in Nigeria now has failed us, it could have been better..... Please why can't you try (VEM) VERYDARKMAN to call her out. I'm sure the guy would try his best......

Chilipepper:
After spending ₦30m to sponsor her to the UK, she’s now filing for divorce after 6 months” — Nigerian man seeks legal help to protect his interest.

😂😂"to protect his interest"! Baba just let her go abeg. No just give urself more wahala try forget her and move on.

Kobojunkie:
Prove them right in what way? I really don't know what you mean.

U always find a way to blame the man thats the victim....after the sacrifice.... Will u say same if a woman spent 30m to bring her man to UK and they man then dumps her for another woman?? The difference between men and women is that men will attack their fellow men when they do that...but women will hardly do same to their fellow women that do wrong.... if women are not the problem in domestic issues, why is it that its always mother in law and sister in law vs wife.... why is it that women always fight each other when they live together...why is it that 80 % of lesbian marriages end in divorce and violence, while on the other hand 20% of gay male marriages end in divorce ... while 50% of heterosexual marriages end in divorce.... why is it that women are very violent towards those weaker than them, like children ,their workers and sick people....

Imindmybusiness:
She is now making the plans with someone else. Don't just sleep on the matter, be alert and prepare yourself and your mind to lose her.

Naso e easy to japa? She's not planning any damm thing. She no just get money so she gats chill for corner.