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only deleting them will end this mess

Lawyer ko, magistrate ni

After all the constant warnings on social media? OYO

A lot of disturbing comments here

SINisSIN:
2023, my wife kept disturbing that we should relocate, the disturbance was so much that I had to tell her that if we are moving at all, then we will share the relocation fee 50 50. Bring 20m, I drop 20m then let's start the planning.

I no hear pim again. I told her if you want to relocate, in all honesty and fairness, if you have the money to take care of your journey, you are good to go and I will be coming over to see you. Since then till now, I no hear any relocation wahala again...

Thank you my brother...
A lady told me that women don't stay in a marriage or relationship they never invested in.

You don't need lawyer or to start spending money again, just buy 3 layer colanut and curse her.

Ruke1990:
Maybe before spending heavily to upgrade a woman (girlfriend or wife), we may need to serve them agreement papers to ensure the marriage or relationship lasts atleast 5 to 10 years after sponsorship, otherwise they refund in full the entire cash spent plus 9$ per year interest before breakup/divorce can be served. Every woman must be made to sign such documents before they get a dime from their boyfriend/husband for their upgrade. Universities like ABUAD serve such paper before agreeing to sponsor their staff abroad for further studies. Companies abroad serve same paper before sponsoring a candidate to work abroad (especially those Nclex sponsoring agencies for nurses). Thesame idea must be brought home and applied to marriages. You mustn't confer blind trust on a woman. There is a difference between blind trust and earned trust

This is one area that underscore the lack of creativity amongst black race. The whites invented pre-nuptial to solve their own problems of being taken advantage of. Blacks sit idle, lament and are unable to do something creative to solve this sponsorship scam problem that pervades the nigerian society

I think I will buy the idea of the Pre-Nup walahi

SINisSIN:
No, she is not. She can't even try it because na she go carry the consequences if she misbehave. If she wants to leave the marriage, there are some things we need to do in her village before she can sleep with another man.

Sorry sir for me asking, or you can quote me in another thread with the answer

Pls what tribe are you from
Am asking cos I love these your answer, and many many had paid the Price due to their wife sleeping with another man, and Tradition had not been kind to the man

SINisSIN:
No, she is not. She can't even try it because na she go carry the consequences if she misbehave. If she wants to leave the marriage, there are some things we need to do in her village before she can sleep with another man.

That is what we call 'native insurance'. I love that.

franchasng:
Before a Nigerian woman born and raised in Nigeria initiates a divorce with her husband, check very well, the man have a hand in it. Let's not be bias on this. I say things as it is without bias. When I am wrong I admit, no caps

Does a Man that doesn’t care or Love his wife spend 30M on her and relocate her abroad ?

The best way to secure your investment is to ensure you only sponsor the mother of your children. Atleast if she leave she can’t leave her children and will spend on them.

Ruke1990:
Maybe before spending heavily to upgrade a woman (girlfriend or wife), we may need to serve them agreement papers to ensure the marriage or relationship lasts atleast 5 to 10 years after sponsorship, otherwise they refund in full the entire cash spent plus 9$ per year interest before breakup/divorce can be served. Every woman must be made to sign such documents before they get a dime from their boyfriend/husband for their upgrade. Universities like ABUAD serve such paper before agreeing to sponsor their staff abroad for further studies. Companies abroad serve same paper before sponsoring a candidate to work abroad (especially those Nclex sponsoring agencies for nurses). Thesame idea must be brought home and applied to marriages. You mustn't confer blind trust on a woman. There is a difference between blind trust and earned trust

This is one area that underscore the lack of creativity amongst black race. The whites invented pre-nuptial to solve their own problems of being taken advantage of. Blacks sit idle, lament and are unable to do something creative to solve this sponsorship scam problem that pervades the nigerian society

Why are men still thy stupid....they use you to climb social ladder

franchasng:
There are tell signs that most men ignore.


Women don't just change overnight, there must be obvious signs you are married to an unreliable woman or you have been maltreating her and she has been praying for an escape route via migration abroad.


No sensible woman wakes up one day and initiate divorce with her husband just because they migrated abroad; it doesn't work that way.

The truth is, most Nigerian men oppress and maltreat their wives in Nigeria just because they are the breadwinner.

Your wife and children are always in fear the moment you step into the house; that's a sign that you are a failed husband and father, and if by mistake you relocate abroad with that woman, she will so deal with you eh lol



And to the men that enjoy extramarital games, continue playing it openly without remorse, continue splashing it to her face thinking she doesn't care, she cares oh, she is burning inside oh, she is only keeping quiet and pretending that all is well simply because Nigeria have no laws that protect married women and because she is not yet financially buoyant to live her dream life without your money, once she gets financially liberated through migration abroad, just count yourself a single man, it doesn't matter how many millions you spent sponsoring her abroad.



What do I even know? Let me go back to Tel Aviv from there will make a stop at Tehran to see if Ali Khamenei was smuggled out of Iran some days ago or not, see you guys tomorrow

With all this Epistle you wrote, dont pray to be a victim so ur eyes go clear.. If u married a reasonable woman just thank God and leave the rest as women have done worse than what you think they wouldn't do on this subject matter..

SINisSIN:
No, she is not. She can't even try it because na she go carry the consequences if she misbehave. If she wants to leave the marriage, there are some things we need to do in her village before she can sleep with another man.

Wisdom no go kill you.

AgainstIslam:
I think I need to block you right away! I don't ever want to see your posts again.

I'm not the only one who gets irritated by her comments. That lady is so antagonist, I doubt she has friends in the real world.

IJEYdiamond:
You talk am finish....

Thank u jare oooo..
The truth is, most Nigerian men oppress and maltreat their wives in Nigeria just because they are the breadwinner.

And most women conceal their true characters in naija to always bring it out once they found themselves in overseas?

Kobojunkie:
He spent the money on his own wife to make her his property? There is so much missing that I only wish the man does not actually think we are to draw a conclusion from just this.

Kobojunkie, I understand that you're trying to be logical but your desperation to show it just makes you look unintelligent and antagonistic.

You keep depending on Internet research to get information, and as soon as you find as resource that supports your opinion, you hold on to it and make an absolute conclusion on the subject matter with that research. It's as if you don't have a mind of your own to really think on a matter.

You're deceiving yourself, big time!

Ur ability to taint your judgement lens by being partial always showsyour inability to be a jury in heart matters. 6 months means there was a planning to snitch prior to arrival, that's betrayal.

Kobojunkie:
He spent the money on his own wife to make her his property? There is so much missing that I only wish the man does not actually think we are to draw a conclusion from just this.

SINisSIN:
2023, my wife kept disturbing that we should relocate, the disturbance was so much that I had to tell her that if we are moving at all, then we will share the relocation fee 50 50. Bring 20m, I drop 20m then let's start the planning.

I no hear pim again. I told her if you want to relocate, in all honesty and fairness, if you have the money to take care of your journey, you are good to go and I will be coming over to see you. Since then till now, I no hear any relocation wahala again...

YOU HAVE SOLD THIS IDEA WITHOUT GETTING A DIME FROM US. THANKS SO MUCH.
YOU'VE JUST DONE NOBLE.

2special:
Never you upgrade or sponsor any girl/ wife at all

Never and never, that will be the biggest mistake of any man.

Lovestrong:
lol! Dem don dey run free DNA test for every child born in UK....

I come remember u, lol!

Remember me for where

Ruke1990:
Maybe before spending heavily to upgrade a woman (girlfriend or wife), we may need to serve them agreement papers to ensure the marriage or relationship lasts atleast 5 to 10 years after sponsorship, otherwise they refund in full the entire cash spent plus 9$ per year interest before breakup/divorce can be served. Every woman must be made to sign such documents before they get a dime from their boyfriend/husband for their upgrade. Universities like ABUAD serve such paper before agreeing to sponsor their staff abroad for further studies. Companies abroad serve same paper before sponsoring a candidate to work abroad (especially those Nclex sponsoring agencies for nurses). Thesame idea must be brought home and applied to marriages. You mustn't confer blind trust on a woman. There is a difference between blind trust and earned trust

This is one area that underscore the lack of creativity amongst black race. The whites invented pre-nuptial to solve their own problems of being taken advantage of. Blacks sit idle, lament and are unable to do something creative to solve this sponsorship scam problem that pervades the nigerian society

As for me. I know dey sponsor anyone and am not ready for signing any document.
Everything am buying for you am buying with my money and under my name. Cars e.t.c you name it.
Whatever luxury you enjoy as my wife, May be taken away from you, the moment you decide to give me serious headache or divorce. Unless I decide to let you have it.

Addme:
Good for you.
How much have you spent in helping your siblings?

yes na the question be this

franchasng:
There are tell signs that most men ignore.


Women don't just change overnight, there must be obvious signs you are married to an unreliable woman or you have been maltreating her and she has been praying for an escape route via migration abroad.


No sensible woman wakes up one day and initiate divorce with her husband just because they migrated abroad; it doesn't work that way.

The truth is, most Nigerian men oppress and maltreat their wives in Nigeria just because they are the breadwinner.

Your wife and children are always in fear the moment you step into the house; that's a sign that you are a failed husband and father, and if by mistake you relocate abroad with that woman, she will so deal with you eh lol



And to the men that enjoy extramarital games, continue playing it openly without remorse, continue splashing it to her face thinking she doesn't care, she cares oh, she is burning inside oh, she is only keeping quiet and pretending that all is well simply because Nigeria have no laws that protect married women and because she is not yet financially buoyant to live her dream life without your money, once she gets financially liberated through migration abroad, just count yourself a single man, it doesn't matter how many millions you spent sponsoring her abroad.



What do I even know? Let me go back to Tel Aviv from there will make a stop at Tehran to see if Ali Khamenei was smuggled out of Iran some days ago or not, see you guys tomorrow

Hahaha. There are still bad women out there. You don't put your wife ahead of you

Only a foolish man will trust a woman

Dancebreaker:
It's possible. Many Master courses cost £15k.
He might have paid half the fees, accommodation, pocket money, etc.

My question is, why could he not sponsor himself with that money?

Why men decide to trust women that much, I don't know.

You brought a total stranger home to wife, and you believe you actually know her?

Na malu dey train woman for this era...
If you like take am or leave am😊🥱🥱

Imindmybusiness:
She is now making the plans with someone else. Don't just sleep on the matter, be alert and prepare yourself and your mind to lose her.

Story and when she reaches, she leaves that person, whats the point?

123papas:
The best way to secure your investment is to ensure you only sponsor the mother of your children. Atleast if she leave she can’t leave her children and will spend on them.

Let me screenshot this.