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So you believe her past is passed and the important aspect of her life is her present and future?

You believe she is now born-again and her past doesn't matter ? You're heading to a pit of burning fire.

A lot of men with this mentality have learned or are currently learning the hard way. The past of a woman is what she operates on and in most cases is her operating system.

The reality is that you can't domesticate what belong to the street and it's very dangerous to domesticate a wild animal.

You think a lady who have spent her past 5, 10, 15 or even 20 years on the streets will suddenly become a good domestic lady?

A lady who's used to 5, 10, 15 - 20 different cassavas on a monthly basis will suddenly get used to your cassava because you're taking good care of her financially?

A lady who have different kind of men expert in different kind of sexual act ranging from different styles of penetration (the man that will satisfy her with dog - gy, wheelbarrow, cow-girl etc), the men that are very good in oral and use of fingers etc will suddenly be used to you ? My brother and oga please think again.

I've personally seen women married to well-to-do men who take good care of their financial needs sleeping around with random men just to satisfy their lifestyle accumulated from their past.

Avoid converting community property to your personal property because your house will attract many strangers coming to whisper to the community property to come outside for playtime.

Please judge a lady's past mercilessly because if you marry a lady with a dirty past you will live with the consequences of her dirty past.

This is a prophetic message and warning to the men

Reckless past can't be overlooked except if you are a learner

A lady whose are former boyfriends used to beat is a very weak lady which you shouldn't have anything to do with as she would reverse the abuse on you

10thTenthMan:
Lol.

It is funny when Women mention not using their past.
Like using past data is how we have progressed as humans. It is critical in our decision making.
Even weather forecasts and their high level of accuracy is BECAUSE OF PAST DATA!

In fact the more I know about your past the high level of certainty I can predict your manners, ways, values and actions in future.

Brilliant analysis man.
Most ladies think and believe men don't have choice and are not intelligent because of the kind of loose men they followed around in their prime age.

helinues:
Reckless past can't be overlooked except if you are a learner

A lady whose are former boyfriends used to beat is a very weak lady which you shouldn't have anything to do with as she would reverse the abuse on you

The past of a lady really determine how she operate her life today and tomorrow

I just saw this post on Facebook this evening and I'm sharing it here because it perfectly supports my topic.

This lady's comment was probably in a women's group. From the comment, she was a street girl who usually travel alot for social activities and she even confirmed that marriage is not for someone like her but she's there because she doesn't want to have children for different men and also for societal validation.

I searched for her profile and OMG, no one will believe this lady is a street property from her profile posts. She's a religious person and one of her title of Facebook is ' I'm a seer'

She has loved up pictures with her young, handsome husband and children and from the pictures she looks older than the husband.

I believe the innocent young man married her due to her religious activities when he met her without taking a look at her past. She used the scope of 'my past is my past' and used religion activities to cover the innocent man's eyes.

There's no way one will tell me that she's not running the streets even in her marriage.

dkidd:
So in essence the past of an OS is her OS

Affirmative
The past of an OSkro is her OS

Nlfpmod I don't usually don't request for this but push this advice to FP to help our innocent sons

Women judge men by their future
Men judge women by their past

Ok,I actually don’t have 40 words at this moment,will probably modify this later

They say forgive and forget and accept me as I am. How do you expect a person to forget a series of past that is full of doing quickie almost every week. Yet annoying thing is that they accuse you of not being matured if you refuse to forget their past.

If you see a lady doing selfies or shaking bum in different kinds of bedroom with white bedsheet in all her social media stories, she is presenting to you her past.
If you go ahead and marry her, don’t question her of any locations of the bedrooms she will be taking selfies

It is better to marry a lady that a guy nack 45 times than to marry a lady that got dickmatized by 45 different guys.

helinues:
Reckless past can't be overlooked except if you are a learner

A lady whose are former boyfriends used to beat is a very weak lady which you shouldn't have anything to do with as she would reverse the abuse on you

Tell them my brother. SAME WAY THEY IGNORE TINUBU'S PAST OF FRUAD AND DRUG now na them dey suffer am

Who contributed to her past, is it not men? There are more stupid men than women. A woman will love and trust a man and that same man will break her heart.

It's like going to the forest and picking a lion
Take the lion home and try to make it a pet

If you like feed the lion
If you like dress the lion in clothes😂😂
You can never change the past of a lion

Telling yourself that the Lion has changed
That his past as a carnivorous animal doesn't matter is stupidity at the highest level😂😂😂

The lion will wake up one day
And teach you a lesson you will never forget

Reason why i love it, when women deal with men and teach them lesson the hard way.
That's the only way Simps will learn.

Those who choose self-deception may continue to live in denial, but as for me and my household, we will always consider a woman’s past before paying her bride price.

A woman’s purity is her pride and should be a cherished gift to her husband. You cannot live recklessly and expect no consequences.

Men should no longer bear the burden of repairing what they did not break.

Na de past of woman na en mata and na man future mata. If you know you know.

Forgive her past if you truly love her and believe God is leading you to marry her.

cutecommend:
Forgive her past if you truly love her and believe God is leading you to marry her.

And be sure that the devil is not the one leading you. Many people married the wrong partner because the devil talked to them and led them thinking it was God all the while

RollinTNDA:
It's like going to the forest and picking a lion
Take the lion home and try to make it a pet

If you like feed the lion
If you like dress the lion in clothes😂😂
You can never change the past of a lion

Telling yourself that the Lion has changed
That his past as a carnivorous animal doesn't matter is stupidity at the highest level😂😂😂

The lion will wake up one day
And teach you a lesson you will never forget

Reason why i love it, when women deal with men and teach them lesson the hard way.
That's the only way Simps will learn.

Tell them my brother,
I keep on preaching don't domesticate a wild animal. Don't convert a public property to your personal property

helinues:
Reckless past can't be overlooked except if you are a learner

A lady whose are former boyfriends used to beat is a very weak lady which you shouldn't have anything to do with as she would reverse the abuse on you

So Also the Past of Baba Bubu is his Operating System and should never be overlooked, right ...

Realize that people grow and are capable of change. Dig deeper to find out if she truly grew before marrying her. But most guys are thirsty so whatever works for y”all

Lol I tell ladies, be careful who you marry, some men are walking dead, they are infertile, they have slept with witches and destiny killers that will disrupt marital lives and progress, so be careful with men that have slept with most especially prostitutes, ask them of their body count to protect your life and destiny, avoid failures at all cost.

bobonla:
Tell them my brother. SAME WAY THEY IGNORE TINUBU'S PAST OF FRUAD AND DRUG now na them dey suffer am

I concur. I absolutely concur. The past is the present and future too. Once a love drug peddler always a love drug peddler

Men don't have dirty past ba...? Make una allow our ladies/women breadth bikonu...

Everybody is an expert even where they have no expertise.

Social media, well done ooo

The later a woman marries,
the harder she is to build with.

Because while the world praises “maturity” and “independence,”
real men know:

You don’t marry potential at its expiration date.

Let’s break it down:

—

1. Youth Means Flexibility—Age Means Resistance

A young woman comes into marriage fluid.
She’s teachable. She’s open. She adapts.

Not because she’s weak—
But because she hasn’t been hardened by life yet.

At 19, she learns through love.
At 29, she only learns through trauma.

By 30?

She’s no longer learning.
She’s negotiating.

And now every instruction feels like control.
Every correction sounds like oppression.
Every standard gets labeled as “toxic.”

You can’t lead someone who thinks they’ve already arrived.

JovialJune:
Lol I tell ladies, be careful who you marry, some men are walking dead, they are infertile, they have slept with witches and destiny killers that will disrupt marital lives and progress, so be careful with men that have slept with most especially prostitutes, ask them of their body count to protect your life and destiny, avoid failures at all cost.

Kini wi?💁‍♂️ What are you saying? You've gone out of topic

irumanle:
Kini wi?💁‍♂️ What are you saying? You've gone out of topic

I'm on topic

What's good for the goose is good for the gander

No be so

A woman's value is determined by her past,
A man's value is determined by his future.

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